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HomeMy WebLinkAboutZurich Herald, 1954-06-10, Page 6TEA BAGS "Dear Anne .Hirst: I've heard that only the perfect man is a woman's first husband, but I never dreamed it would happen to me. Six years ago, at 55, I married a widow 10 years younger. She is forever praising her deceased husband, how won- derful he was and how much more he did for her than I do. It is getting me down. "She has reason to complain. I lost my health, and I cannot pro- vide for her as I hoped to do; I feel I'm a burden, and had bet- ter get out. I am sure she doesn't love me at all, but though she is so unkind I still care a good deal for her. "Do you think we should divorce? Or what advice can you give? • DISTRESSED". * During the years when you * want security and domestic ▪ peace, you are depressed by ill • health and the knowledge that s, you are inadequate as a pro- * vider. The victim of a nagging e, woman who descends to a Mot Tamale — Spicy, • vivacious rito Monter! keeps •the boys e)uth of the border from dwell- Mg too much on the charms of American movie actresses, * cheap trick to keep you under * her thumb, you live in turmoil. • I do not wonder you feel like * walking out * Divorce is naturally your * first thought; but that is not * easy to obtain, and it is costly. * You could probably prove * mental cruelty but that alone * would not be sufficient. * Would your wife rather you * leave her, or stay? She is dis- * appointed in her mariage; she * thought she was to be taken * care of for the rest of her life. * Instead, she finds herself on * the supporting end, more or e' less, and she resents it. She * may be deliberately driving * you to desperation so you will * leave; on the other hand, she * may be one of those creatures * who finds her one satisfaction in berating and belittling you, * and would be even more an- * happy living alone. * When you feel up to it, sug- * gest that she might be more * contented without you, and * tell her that her continual * taunting you with failure is * making you so miserable you * would be glad to go. I think * she will not hesitate to speak the truth. From all you write, it does seem that she has lost * what affection she once had; * yet one would think she could * find some tenderness for a sick * man who has dona the best he * could. * Wouldn't you be happier liv- " ing with a congenial family? * Since you still have a small * income, that might be arrang- * ed. Put her to the test, settle * the future, and end this wear- " ing uncertainty. * One marries for better or for worse. Al you are disappointed in your husband, remember your vows and try to keep them. Then, whatever:., ..happens, you need not reproach yourself... . In time of indecision, write to Aime Hirst, at B o x 1, 123 Eighteenth St., New Toronto, Ont. WHAT A GIFT! "I'm afraid, doctor," said Mrs. Brown, "that my husband has some terrible mental affliction, Sometimes I talk to him for hours and then discover that he hasn't heard a word." "That isn't an affliction madam," was the weary reply. "That's a gift." F COFFEE CAKES *These toothsome Flaky Coffee Cakes are a sample of the superb results you get with new l?lelschmann's Active Dry Yeast! No more anxiety about yeast cakes that stale and weaken! Yileischmann's Active Dry Yeast keeps full-strength, fast -acing without refrigeration -- get a month's supply! FLAKY COFFEE CAKES • Scald %c. cream, 2 tbs. granu- lated sugar, 1 tsp. salt and % c. shortening; cool to lukewarm, Meanwhile, measure into a large bowl V2 c. lukewarm water, 1 tsp. granulated sugar; stir until sugar is dissolved. Sprinkle with 1 en- velope Fleisehrnann's Active Dry Yeast. Let stand 10 minutes, THEN stir well. Add cooled cream mixture and stir in 3 well -beaten eggs. Stir in 2 c. once -sifted bread flour; beat until smooth. 'Work in 21/2 c. (about) once -sifted bread flour. Knead on lightly -floured board until smooth and elastic. Place in greased bowl and grease top of dough, Cover and set in a warm place, free from draught. Let rise until doubled in bulk. Mix 3/k c. granulated sugar and 2 taps. ground cinnamon; sprinkle half of this mixture on baking board. Divide dough into 2 equal poi. tions and turn out one portion onto prepared board. Roll out into a 12" square; fold .from back to front and from one side to the other. Repeat rolling and folding 3 more times, flouring board lightly if it becomes sticky. Seal edges of folded dough and place in a greased 8" square cake pan and pat out to fit the pan; butter top lightly and press walnut halves well into the dough. Sprinkle remaining sugar and cinnamon mixture on board and treat second portion of dough same as first portion. Cover and let rise until doubled in hulk, Bake in' a moderate oven, 850•, 15 mitts., while preparing the fol- lowing syrup; simmer together for 5 mins., 1 c, granulated sugar, 11,7 type. grated orange rind, tet e. butter or margarine and e;. orange juice. Quic.kly ,our hot syrup over the partially -baked cakes and bake cakes about 15 thins, longer, Stand baked cakes on cake coolers for 20 minutes, then loosen edges and gently shake from pans. Surnmer Sweaters with a soft touch that moths won't touch be- cause they are knitted of "Orlon" acrylic fibre. Twin -set at right consists of cardigan with wide ribbed revere effect worn over a short sleeved pullover with a self -braid collar. Ribbed neckline of pullover at left is carried down to forrn decorative .pockets. All sweaters dry to shape without coaxing. ee h . -esee ten' HRONICLES ,ERFARM Last week 1 was telling you about the Officers Conference at Guelph but I forgot to tell you that at these W.I. affairs .I so, often meet readers of this col- umn — different ones from • time to time. One reader I was talk'' ing with last week came from near Ottawa and I was so amused at this little story she told me. One day last fall a neighbour phoned her and said — "Well, it's come!" "What's come?" was the obvious ques- tion, "The baby, of course.'. Haven't you read "Ginger Farm'! yet?" So David's arrival seems to have been quite an event to others besides his immediate; family. And then I always get; this — "Let's hear more about your grandson — you don't say'' half enough." Well . : I neve expected you folks to be so in-'` terested. But you asked for it,'. so here goes — sorry I couldn't work it in last week. It was Mother's Day and Part ner and I were just, going to sit • down alone — Bob and Joy, we knew, had gone to Niagara, and we didn't expect the Toronto folks. Then a car drove in. Out of it came Dee, Arthur, David and two friends, Bill and June — plus part of the baby's buggy,: bottles, baby f o o d, diapers, nightie, shawls and blankets. Cigars for Partner, chocolates for nee and cooked ham for sup- per. After the excitement had died down and David had been fuss:.: ed over and admired then``": Daughter told Grandpa with :: great g 1 e e — "Look, Dad — David's got something y o u haven't got!" "All right," seid Partner, "so what? He may hove a couple of teeth but I've got more hair than he has anyway!" David has also put on a few pounds — twenty pounds at six and a half months . . . and yet he isn't fat. The poor mite was tired and fretful for awhile — much to his mother's . disgust But, rested and fed, he way: soon laughing and cooing again chuckling with delight when- ever one of the dogs came near him. They stayed until about eight o'clock so we saw David in all his moods — good, bad arid indifferent. Daughter also in- formed me that her troop of Brownies is camping out for a week -end in July. They waist her to go with thorn so would T like to have David for the week- end? Would I? 1 shall be able to answer that question better later on! It is a long time since I had sole charge of a baby but other grandmothers c o iia e through it all right se no doubt I shall too. Especially as Arthur will be along as moral support. Well, the weather pattern for last week was as per usual. — cold and wet — except the last two days of glorious sunshine. Now at last we can hear the • hum of tractors, and we know that on high land some fields have already been sown. That is fortunate as we had really been wondering in how marry barns fertilizer had been sitting around, and how many bags of . treated spring grain was wait. ing to be sown. Fertilizer doesn't take kindly to a a long spell of damp weather arid treated grain is nn use as feed for chickens if it should hap- pen' that it can't be used for seeding. And yet ever since • January, by press and radio, farmers have been urged to "or- der fertilizer now ... treat your grain early and be ready for the spring seeding rush." What rush — can you tell me? Now if the Word `rush" were used in connection with sub- division construction work we could understand, even though a rush job seems as inadvisable in building as it does ori the land. Basements are scooped. out. A heavy downpour of rain in- variably follows, and yet next thing we know cement is being pouried in. Didin't there used to be an idea that the earth had to `settle" before cement was used? And isn't the term "solid brick house" a little misleading when the walls are only two bricks thick? We just wonder. how 'solid" a modern .solid brick house can be. Many of the older houses, some of them past the century mark, are from four to six bricks thick. Not that I would , suggest modern houses should be four bricks thick. At the present level of construction. costs that would mean even' a five -room bungalow would run to about $40,000! And after all people seem to 'be quite happy with what they, are getting — convenient, compact dwelling units. Aid I don't think young couples need to worry too much. Times change so rapidly . . people move around, so that a house very rarely becomes a permanent home. Something like the mad -hatter's teaparty -- if and when the diners wanted a clean plate, they moved on. So it is with houses and home- owvers. Speaking of moving around , isn't it wonderful our Queen and h e r family has arrived. home safe and sound? I am sure we are all very much relieved, especially after the threat at Gibraltar. "Hot Dorgs" Now On Sale In Spain American air power continues to grow. At the moment it occu- pies well over a thousand air bases. In Europe alone, G.I. air- men strung out from East Anglia to Greece, muster a force 380,- 000 strong. In Saudi Arabia, bases lie strategically close to Russia's precious oilfields fringing Batutn and Baku. The latest country to admit G.I. bomber crews and mainten- ance staffs in return for valu- able trading concessions, is Spain. Here G.L's are inoving into four major bases and some subsidi- ary airfields. Spaniards view excitedly and with commercial anticipations their new shirt -dangling, crew-, cut guests. Palma'e chief news- paper now runs a daily column in American speech. Shopkeepers are marketing their stocks in dol- lars. And American mineral wa- ter and rye whisky are• already highly p r i c e d. Flashing -eyed senoritas know that the greeting "Hi-ya Bud" may be the pass- words to romance. O n e Palma cafe proprietor, anxious to cash in on this new "invasion," has posted a notice w h i eh say's, "Welkut n to our ,Amerikan Allies. Open till 5 am. 25 beautiful girls to choice. Beer and Stakes. Hot Dorgs; too," U.S. air bases stretch to the farthest north, About the most inhospitable places lie in Alaska and the Aleutian Islands. Maybe U. language will be the global tongue much sooner ' than queen's Bnglish! This Mary Really Started Something There have been thousands of Mary Joneses in the world, but perhaps the most famous was the girl who, many years ago, braved biting winds to tramp from her cottage home at Llan- fibangel, clamber over Ceder Idris's gaunt slopes, and on to Bala. There, with a few pennies in her pocket, saved through months of thrift, she sought out. the Rev. Charles Thomas He, she'd heard, had copies of the Bible for sale, To buy one was her drab life's burning hope. He had none left. Her tears, flowing fast and un- checked, were his spur. As a result, this unknown Welsh pas- tor became instrumental in forming on March 7th, 150 years ago, the British and Foreign Bible Society, Since then, the Society has delivered hope and faith to millions in all Contin- ents. To -day its agents distribute Bibles in 1,130 languages. And the world circulation of Bibles, a few hundreds a year in Mary Jones's day, exceeds an annual figure now of twenty-three mil- lions. Chance Of A Lifetime • A small island off the coast of Mexico, San Benedicto, last year suffered a volcanic eruption that wiped out almost every vestige of life, But it has give botanists the chance of more than a life- time. In 1925 the University of Cali- fornia had made a full study of the vegetation on San Benedicto. Then there were eleven different species of plants covering the whole of the island including five-foot tall grasses, After the volcanic eruption, only two hun- dred plants in all were still Liv- ing on the three -miles long island, and these represented only five of the eleven previous- ly thriving species. Now the natural process, of re - vegetation can be studied. Will the shores be the first part of the island to grow green? If so, it will. mean that seeds washed in by the sea are the main factor in bringing plant life to the island. •.:. But if higher land on hills and above the cliffs become green again first it will mean that wind and birds bring seeds more readily than the waves. DUMBEILL After Billy's first day at sch004 his mother asked him how het got on. "rine," said Billy, "but I don't think very much of out' teacher," "Why?" asked his mother. "Well, she asked me what ono and one made and I had to tell her." 13eginn+ r.E'asy r ir On";ifs 'r %)111� deer • 'ieli / �.e, '49* 660 Pi otect a new chair—refresh as "tired" chair with this fan - shaped set! If you wish, use this pattern for a striking buffet - set. Easy, jiffy • to crochet! Chair -back, 12 x 18 inches; arm rest, 7 x 12 inches. Pattern 660: crochet directions. Send TWENTY-FIVE CENTS in coins (stamps cannot be .ac- cepted) for this pattern to Box 1, 123 Eighteenth St., New Tor- onto, Ont. Print -plainly PAT- TERN NUMBER, your NAME and ADDRESS. Don't miss our Laura Wheeler 1954 Needlecraft Catalog! 79 em- broidery, crochet, color -transfer and embroidery patterns to send for — plus 4 complete patterns printed in book. Send 25 cents for your copy today! Ideas for gifts, bazaar sellers, fashions. STRAWBERRY PIE 1 quart strawberries 34 cup granulated sugar 4 tablespoons BENSON'S or CANADA Corn Starch teaspoon salt Va cup water 1 baked 9 -inch pie shell Whipped Cream WASH, drain and hull strawberries; cut In half. COMBINE sugar, BENSON'S or CANADA Corn Starch end salt in top of doubts boiler. ADD water slowly; mix until smooth. ADD !4 the strawberries, PLACE over boiling water and cook until thick (about S minutes); stir constantly. COVER, cook 10 minutes; stir occasionally, REMOVE from heat; cool, FOLD in remaining strawberries. POUR into pastry shalt CHILLI garnish With sweetened whipped Cretan. a,. For free folder of other delicious recipes, write toe Aline Ashley, Home Service Department, THE CANADA STARCH COMPANY LIMITED, P.0, Box 129, Montreal, P,Q, BENSONS CORN STARCH f yee