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Zurich Citizens News, 1965-06-24, Page 6PAGE Sit ZURICH CITIZENS NEWS THURSDAY, JUNE 24, 1965 Canadian social worker Doris Clark invites you to write her about your problem. She answers letters of general Interest in this column but can't undertake persona! replies. DEAR DORIS - My husband and I are its our late 40s. bast year we adopted a two yeal'•old girl because I insisted. Nov I fend I do not want to be tied down with a child. There are two more months before the adoption is made final. 1ty husband has become very attached to her and refuses to efiseuss ley not keeping her. Doris, she has screaming tan- trums. I knew this when I took her, but didn't tell him, The worker thought that with loving care she'd get over then). I've cleared up her eczema and bronchitis and she is in good physical health. I really feel I have net the patience at Illy age to stand the tantrums, I thought she would be cam. pang. Nerves DEAR NERVES --Thr sooner you and your husband begin acting like a unit, the better. Deceptions, failure to explain a point of view, refusal to discuss things --- all these characterize the house divided, And your little girl cannot feel the secur- ity she needs in such an atmos- phere. When a woman takes on a child to he "company", without thought of what she must give to her. in patient care and all that involves, she is doing it for the wrong motive. A 0 1' 1) U 5 discussion with your husband and with your child-care worker could redi- rect your thinking, ri11is Suml�mer This make it a GREA.T ONTARIO ADVENTURE VACATION Relive history amid nal urn! splendour in Central Ontario! a._.._.,__..._.._,._._ ......_ _....__ ___._. Vocation in Central Ontario and enjoy the rewarding experience of o family adventure rich in historical in- terest, natural beauty and pure holi- day pleasure. Return to the early days of French Canada at The Martyrs' Shrine and Ste. 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Send this coupon and we'll mail you our Great Central Ontario Ad- -v venture Vacation booklet (24 pages in full colour). r- Province of Ontoria, 1 Dept, of Tourism & Information, Parliament Buildings, Ra,)m i8 9 Toronto 2, Onh:Iria. Please send ere complete information on Gress ':entrai Ontario Adventure Vacations. Name _ ... ,.. ..-.., . . Address.. DEAR DORIS I found so much peeve of mind and satis- faction in your letter that I'm asking for your advice again. Aly daughter came back home. 1'ou will never know how pie asecl we were. But since being home she told us that she carne hontt' as a board- er, not as a daughter. She has never carried on a conversa- tion with us. Shall 1 ask her what is wrong? This silent treatment does not bother my husband, but it is eating lily heart out. Worried Mom DEAR MOM—I'm glad she's back ---but it seems she's only there in the flesh. I'd guess that your earlier attempts to have all the say about her do- ings have really made her clam up. Take a new tack. Ask her help about some family matter. I,et her see you'd value her ideas. A person needs to be needed, and with your over- protective attitude in the past, I'm quite sure it hasn't occur- red to her that you need her. Obviously she needs to know she is a part of this family—in more ways than one. Lean on. her. 7' 7� DEAR DORIS -- My boy friends and 1 went steady for seven months and planned on getting harried. Nov he has left me, saying he has looked at engagement rings, cold he thinks the world of inc. but he isn't sure if he is in love. My friends say it is my fault, as I am much Inc good to him and always available no platter when he calls. Maybe this is true. as I have often ,heard the saying, "Easy come, easy go". About People You Know .. . i-lENSALl-, ONTARIO St. Paul's WA A meeting of St. Paul's WA was held un Wednesday at the Notary in Exeter. The rector, Rev. J. P. Landon, bed a dis- cussion on the laymen's part in the church and a further discussion was held on the lay- woman's part in worship and administration of the ehureh, \,u invitation was accepted from the Arnold Circle of Car. ntel Church to attend their 35th anniversary. rIrs. C,•andon re- ported on the Huron .Diocesan Workshop for Women which she attended. The next meet- ing will be held in September at the house of Mrs. Barrie Jackson. Trip West Mr. and Mrs, John Soldan, Patrick and Miehael, 1\liss Shar- on Lightfoot,.of Centralia, and Bill Hoffman, of Dashwood, left Do you think I should still go out with him when he asks me, and keep trying to win? How do you keep a boy guessing? I am 22 and he is 23. Broken Up DEAR BROKEN UP — Far better to take your time about this vital decision. Sounds as if the man in the case is still a boy. 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Mrs. Rochus Faber was host- ess at her hone , Kipped, Fri- day evening, f o r Mrs. Faber when relatives gathered to pre- sent her with a miscelleanous shower. rr weawto BAYVIEW Golf Course (!is Mile South of St. Joseph) Green Fees Opening to May 31 -- Sept, 15 to. Closing and Weekdays, June 1 to Sept, 14 $1.25 WEEK -ENDS and HOLIDAYS from June 1 to September 14 $2.00 Membership Fees Men, Full Season ...._ _._. _..._ _ .___....._____. _ $25.00 Ladies, Full Season ..__.. ___._ ___.._.____ $20.00 Students, Full Season __..__ ..._._............ .. $12,00 Half Season, To and After August 1 ... _... - Less 4001 r Im;. I ortant Notice about Old ge Security The Parliament of Canada has amended the Old Age Security Act. Over the next five years the age at which the Old Age Security pension becomes payable is to be gradually reduced to 65. Eligibil- ity for pension is subject to certain residence requirements. In January, 1966 the Old Age Security Pension of $75 a month will be payable to those aged 69; in 1967 to those aged 68; in 1968 to those aged 67; in 1969 to those aged 66; in 1970 and thereafter to those aged 65. If you were born You should apply Your pension should begirt in Dec. 1895 to August 1896 Sept. 1896 to Dec. 1896 January 1897 February 1897 March 1897 April 1897 May 1897 June 1897 July 1897 August 1897 September 1897 October 1897 November 1897 December 1897 January 1898 February 1898 March 1898 April 1898 May 1898 June 1898 July 1898 August 1898 September 1898 October 1898 November 1898 December 1898 SIMILAR June 1965 July 1965 August 1965 September 1965 October 1965 November 1965 December 1965 January 1966 February 1966 March 1966 April 1966 May 1966 June 1966 July 1966 January 1966 January 1966 February 1966 March 1966 April 1966 May 1966 June 1966 July 1966 July 1966 July 1966 July 1966 July 1966 January 1966 January 1966 February 1966 March 1966 April 1966 May 1966 June 1966 July 1966 August 1966 September 1966 October 1966 November 1966 December 1966 January 1967 January 1967 January 1967 January 1967 January 1967 January 1967 January 1967 January 1967 January 1967 January 1967 January 1967 January 1967 January 1967 CHARTS COVERING FOLLOWING YEARS WILL BE PUBLISHED LATER. How to apply You may obtain an Old Age Security application form at your local Post Office. Persons who are not in Canada may obtain an appli- cation form by writinto the Regional Director of Old Age Security in the capital city of the province in which they formerly lived. Published by the Department of National health and Welfare by authority of the Minister, The Honourable Judy T.,nMarsh