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Home My WebLink AboutZurich Citizens News, 1965-04-15, Page 6rAGE SIA 41./RICH CITIZENS NEWS THURSDAY, APRIL 15, 190'.5. Canadian social worker Doris Clark invites you to writ* her about your problem. She answers letters of general interest in this column but can't undertake persona; replies. DEAR. DORIS—I am a moth- to a wonderful man who is er of four small children. Am .25 years of age and I'm married E sten Week -end OPENING SPECIAL ENTERTAINMENT Friday Night Tom. Dick, Harry and Sherilynn Direct from the Elmwood Casino, Windsor Dining Room OPEN EASTER SUNDAY From 4 p.m. VILLAGE INN GRAND BEND starting to become lax in his beliefs and ways because of me. I'm in a real rut. I weigh 169 pounds, am five foot four and have no ambition. When I was first married I worked in an office all day and still kept a spotless house. Now I am home all day and just waste my time. I do nothing but take care of my children for two weeks, then rush like mad the third to get caught up, I eat when I am not even hungry, and get into moods where I just give up on niy house. I make out perfect schedules and then never stick to them more than a day. Somehow I have to change or my husband will only come home to sleep. He has already started drinking with the boys. NEED SMARTENING UP DEAR NEED—You've gone stale on things. That schedule of yours probably failed to in- clude any time out for mothers. So mind and body just plain lie down on the job and you eat and HE Count on Us to TING Do Things Right Our skilled, experienced men take pride in their expert work- manship. When they do a job, you KNOW it's right! PLUMBING • HEATING m 41 ELECTRICAL WORK • FOR EXPERT REPAIRS OR NEW INSTALLATIONS Call TIEMAN'S HAARE FURNITURE — COAL — CEMENT PHONE 8 — DASHWOOD Puts the things you want vvithii'1 your reach BANK. OE MONTREAL ilq Finance 8H; lan v1Y AN ' JD J Ml[! ON CANADIANS Bring all your personal credit needs under one roof LOW-COST LiFE-INSURED LOANS Ilenwall Branch: VICTOR I'YETTEi, Mgr, Zurich Branch: RAYMOND McKINNON, Manager EXPERTS AT FINISHING — An impor- tant part in the production line of skate- boards at Fox Milling and lumber in Zurich is the finishing of the boards, prior to ship- ping. Shown here in the finishing depart- ment of the new industry are, left to right, Albena Bedard, Helen Smith and Christine Krainik. The name and stripes are put on the boards with a screen process, and then the boards are given a coat of lacquer. for compensation. We all need change and variety. Tackle the weight first. An international organization called TOPS (Take Off Pounds Sensi- bly) can rescue you in a socia- ble, sensible way. Branch names like "Hips Away", "Shrinking Stouts", "F u t u r e Slim 'Chicks", give you some idea of their objectives. I'm sending you the address for your area. This one morale booster will give a lift to your whole sched- ule. Then — how about new slims and a summer holiday with hubby only? DEAR DORIS-Do you real- ly think dreams have anything to do with our conscious or un- conscious life? DUBIOUS DEAR DUBIOUS — Indeed I do. Psychologists have plenty of evidence that dreams seek to convey suppressed thoughts and feelings. The language is symbolic, but can often be in - 1 E BRO Theatre — Clinton 1 Open Nightly Box Office Open at 7.30 First Show at 8:00 o'clock 4VMfN,IW10J• THURSDAY and FRIDAY April 15 and 16 — DOUBLE FEATURE — The Thrill of It All Doris Day, James Garner, Arlene Francis In Color WOMAN OF STRAW Gina Lollobrigida, Sean Connery Color Cartoon SATURDAY and MONDAY April 17 and 19 — DOUBLE FEATURE — The Seventh Dawn William Holden, Susannah York Color Adult Entertainment INVITATION TO A GUNFIGHTER YuI Brynner, Janice Rule Adult Entertainment Cartoon SUNDAY MIDNIGHT ONLY April 18 —A Thrilling Double Feature— Shock Treatment Adult Entertainment Stuart Whitman, Lauren Baca!! and Carol Lynley HOUSE OF THE DAMNED Richard Crain, Merry Andrews • Cartoon TUESDAY and WEDNESDAY April 20 and 21 Who's Been Sleep- ing in My Bed DEAN MARTIN Elizabeth Montgomery and Carol Burnett Color Cartoon COMING NEXT: The NEW Interns and "ROBINSON CRUSOE ON MARS" terpreted and related to a past experience which carries the same emotion as the dream. In a. way, dreams serve as safety valves in releasing pent- up feelings. Some dreams give us insight into ourselves we don't have when we are awake. A fine book has been written about this for students by an expert psychologist. Write in for the name of it, enclosing a stamped, self-addressed envel• ope. DEAR DORIS—When I ask Torn to do anything around the house he starts yelling and arguing. We have five children and I work from nine to four, before coming hone to start in on things here. He won't even cut the grass. He won't do anything for his mother who is a widow of 75. He won't -look at the children's school work. He is too busy watching TV. I often thought of taking the children and living with my mother, as I can't go on this way. WORKING MOTHER DEAR WORKING—A look at Tom's background would prob- ably reveal a child with no chores to do; a teen-ager al- lowed to run wild and with no sense of responsibility for home; obviously with a mother who demanded nothing (and still does). So it doesn't even occur to him that marriage is a sharing —of everything; and that you win your children's love and friendship through companion- able interest in what they do. Are you equal to raising this extra large little boy? A trained counsellor at this point might just give you the insight and moral support which could save your marriage. To Manners on Leaving — As a lady guest leaves, and she bids gentlemen good -by, they rise. If a man leaves, and conies around to shake hands, the men rise to do so. If he just waves a good-bye from the door to the room as a whole, people merely wave back and speak. Unless it's the boss or .a dignitary. Or somebody else important, like the guest of honor. V pt Garbage Service Stephen Township council has approved an application from the police village of Dashwood to set up a village garbage col- lection system. Township council agreed to a levy on Dashwood tax payers of three mills to cover this service. 0 Wins Scholarship David Noakes, 22, of Hensalt, in his fourth year Honors Zool• ogy at Western University, won a National Research Council Scholarship and an Ontario Graduate Fellowship, He has accepted a National Research Council Scholarship to do post- graduate study for M.Sc. degree at University of Western On- tario next year. David is the son of Mr. and Mrs, Leonard Noakes. clwcys ENE mops SERVED IN OUR MODERN DINING ROOM ENJOY THE FINE ATMOSPHERE OF OUR ATTRACTIVE ALPINE ROOM Our Entire Hotel is Equipped with "Hi-Fi" System for your Listening Pleasure WE SPECIALIZE Itr STEAKS - CHICKEN - FISH *r Inion Hotel DIAL 236 4371 — ZURICH 7 • 55 4.4 5 5 2vF�• �i. _k 5x ; ':i H... •Pr. ,F.,4iQnge•;;v,::v >,:':iv}�i•::j: v� �'•r"�Jlm?±`:go:::» }:iii......A. • N: IMF ,`r.,Y:., •``.^:::'c'v �iu.`+'.•�,y3>:.3,iFrini�w�k::. i••;••.y'•;.s A GENERAL MOTORS VALUE Now at your Pontiac-BuickBeaumont-Acadian-Vauxhall dealer's Success Car Sales Celebration This is the chance you've been waiting for! There's never been a better time to buy! Here's your dealer's way of saying, "Thank you." You'll be enthusiastic about the deals at your Pontiac - Buick dealer's. It's his way of showing appreciation for the sales popularity of all his 1965models.The terrific deals he's giving will have you cele- brating along with him. Exciting selection of makes and models! Among your Pontiac -Buick dealer's great line-up for 1965 there's a model for every taste . from the economical Vauxhall Viva to the classical- ly beautiful Buick Riviera. Nearly 100 different cars from which to choose. Extra generous trade -inn allowances! Because your Pontiac -Buick dealer is anxious to keep up his stocks of good, clean, late model used cars, he will offer you agenerous trade-in allow- ance on your present car. So, for a really outstanding trade, visit his showroom rightaway! Savingest used car buys in town! With new car sales reaching record levels, sales of used cars have followed right along.Because of this, your Pontiac -Buick dealer can offer you the kind of used car values you'll find very, very hard to turn down! Ifit's value you're alter, don't miss this great sales event at your Pontiac-Buick-]3eaillnont-Acadian ''Vuxhall dealer's! Authorized Pontiac - Buick - Beaumont - Acadian - Vauxhall Dealer in Zurich TAYLOR S LI MAIN STREET -- ZURICH up sure to watch "Telescope "and "The Rogues" now showing on television. Check tocol listings for time and channel. r.aaac