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HomeMy WebLinkAboutThe Herald, 1903-05-08, Page 6kowtptivolowwww LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT. (By Max O'hell.) We, all of us, have heard of peo- ple falling racily in love at first sight, mere especially. No doubt teere are men who are exeedingly sus0eptible, passionate, artiste and ardent natures who may; take a vio- len•tfancy for tL wolnaaai on awing lies' for the first time ; but I ,decline to call suets a fancy love, and woe to the woman who marries such man, for there is no guarantee for her that he will not many times again take such violent fancies for other women; indeed, there 1n ev- ery probability, that he will. I would a,iwaye advise a woman, or at all events always wish her to. marry a lover and admirer of her /sex, but a man who madly Balls in lave with women at ,first sight, never. There is no. stea,dlness in that man, no solidity, no reliability, no possible fidelity in him. Re is er- ratic and unmanly. He may be a good poet, a talented artist, avery good actor, but certainly he will never be a good husband, not even a decent one. There are women who are proud to. ray that they inspired ardent love at first sight. They should not be proud of it, tor it is only the love of e. reflecting, .lofty, man that should . make a woman proud. Men may feel immediate admiration for a woman. In tae presence of certain beau- tiful women t have felt ready to fall into ecstasies of admiration, as I have in tine presence of Niagara )calls, Vesuvius in eruption, the (Venus of Milo, or any other grand masterpiece or nature and art ; but I have never Felt that I could, or must, right away implore them to marry me or let me die at their deet. To rail m love at first sight Is e. great proof of weakness of the mind, of utter absence of self-con- trol, and of wretched unmanliness. I believe I may affirm, without fear of contradiction, that Iove at first eight has never proved to be love of long duration. How can• wo imagine that a solid affection may be the continuation of a caprice felt for a person whom you had never seen before and of whose character you are absolutely ignorant ? In certain cases affec- tion ,may follow a. first impression, but only when she can inspire as much infection' by her merit as she could produce a, good impression by ter therms. Only in this case can love become sincere and profound. To form at once a charming impres- sion of a woman is not to fall madly in, love wall her. How; much preferable is that love gradually increasing through the bet- ter knowledge of the beloved one 1 It Ls no longer an ephemeral fancy, but a solid affection. In order to love well and truly you must know well and thoroughly. There must be In the copules in love that blind confidence, that complete abandon, which can only be born of the sweet habit to constantly see each other •aLnd to understand each other bet- ter and better every day. With swab! love you can brave all obsta- otes, for if a caprice, it vanishes at the mast violent storms. Sincere, serious love is never love at first sight. When one look, and the first one, too, binds a mean and tis woman, you may be sure tidit one single word will soon be sufficient to unbind them. Lasting love comes slowly, progressively 1 Heart alone has never been particularly sueeess•, ffu' unless in partnership with thatt ;sober and wisp counsellor that is called Reason. No love is placed on a solid basis which is not governed by reason as well as by the heart. Men Who Move the World. • The world maY be divided into two classes. The first is composed of the great mass of men without strong ambitions, without strong principles, without either the need or power to think out things for themselves. They are content to live, as 11 were, from hand to mouth -1n so far as they are virtuous, do- ing their duties; in so far as they are vicious, asotding them, with no inquiry into the deeper reueons of things, and the fundamental differ- ence between virtue ani vine. The second class is a tiotepalatively small one, though its limits cannot be defined with any great exact - tees. It consists of men with rn;ntis • ansa wills so active that they +lan- not take tillage thus quietly. There are two questions, one of which they will ask, and very onion both ;of thein. What meaning can be 'wrung out of lire' and chow can we ourselves wring out this meaning fe "These are the men who, in a greater or less degree, approach the ideals of • sanctity, or heroism, or of genius. •These are the salt of the earth, the little leaven, hid in a barrel of meal These - are the Pants of the world, and the Voltaires, also the Loyola's and the B nihaln'r. Tihese are that gifted minority by whom men's Minn inetinets arc, coltverte,l Int» rl'a: go:41.n n p lir ip•s hewn In action 'la,- c•1. rnp:r, by wheat the World le tt:.n„ sat assns '.-hoe the world fellows., -W. 11. M ;.Ilor:a No thinf.;' 4•Lumor»aa Ablaut This "I see that a western humorist has denied the story that he is engaged to a daughter of one of the wealthi- est New York lamiliee." "It's always a painful duty to nave to slealy a story of that kind." "You 'bet it is. The young woman bas a million or so in her own name." . -Cleveland Plain Dealer, Cook's Cotton Root Compound. "t11e only safe, reliabitt 1regulator on which woman can depend. "in the hour, and twee of need." Prepared in two degrees of strength. No. 1 and No. 2. No. 1. --For ordinary eases Is by tar the /best dollar nlediclne known.. We L+---T,'c» special cases -10 degrees igtronger ••three dollars per box. ladies -ask your druggist for Cooke+) !Vetter' Root C'oni'potnuL Take no ether as all pills, mixtures and imitations are elangerous. No. 1 and No, t are sold and jt'eememended by all druggists in the to- e dnion of Cano a. Mailed to any addrese ' as receipt ofp�rlee and four 2 -cent postage ' 0,atkraP.ge 9"4C O°°1& Cotatpaan'y,a ,; "Zrlrfx1d501 !C1'#d �Ar Ladles, Favorite ADAiYI'S WOES. Now We Learn Tbat He Was the ]lt'irst Dyspeptic,. D»spepsia,, that curse Of human- ity, should be abotielled. Too long it has been allowed to work shave° among the people. The tune has comp to calla 1a1t. All good men and true should ooze to tile aid of humanity and stamp out the dreadful disease. Whiskey has slain Its thousands, kerosezie its tens. or thousands, automobiles their inillione, but dyspepsia lists made several uucomfortaable. It is the most persistent, the most ext>„sperating and the most dis- agreeable ailment that the human fleshis air to, and it is 'heir to sev- eral eery painful complaints. It not only makes you feel unhappy, but puts ,,you in a frame ofmind to make every one with whom you Came in contact miserable. I'i le not e. pain. It is not an ache. It is simply the most consummate torture ever invented. The early his- tory of the disease is wrapped in im- penetrable mystery, but it is thought it started in the garden of Edon. Eve, not having a mother to teach her how to cool., fed Adam pies and cakes and things that were not Sit for his digestive apparatus. Very soon he experienced all the tortures of the damned, and from that day toe this, so it is averred by some, there has been dyspepsia in the land. In the east, there is a legend, how. ever, that dyspepsia is a direct 1m- portation from the superheated hereafter. They say that ane time the lid was left off hades and the chief torment, dyspepsia, escaped out into the world. Since that time bell has . not been itself, and the arch fiend has sought in vain for a tor- ture to take its place. There is, then, a compensating thought that those who have dys- pepsia in this 111e will find 'nothing worse on the other side. After one has £tad this disease all other ca- lamities look as rosy as a sun- set in a cheap chrome. A RECOGNIZED FACT, It is universally conceded that to properly appreciate a trip to New York or Boston, one must take the Zest road. That road is the New York Central. In Perfect Accord. Some years ago there came to an Ameriea.n city a. delightful German, Herr eon Blitz, who intended to sup- port 'himself by giving lessons in his native tongue. When he had been there several months, and .had secured a moderate number of pu- pils, +ho went one day to the mother of ono of them, and, to her great surprise, asked for her daughter's hand in marriage. "But, my dear sir," said sh'e, "my daughter lbws no fortune." The euitor smiled upon 'ter In an expansive generosity. "Me, tool" said be reassuringly. "And although we aro not rich, we 'haves thus far been 'able to give her every comfort. She is, indeed, used 'to luxury." "Me too:" lyas the smiling re -- joinder. "But, Herr von Blitz, elle will never be able to manage affairs." "Me, too I" rejoined the lover. "And I feel obliged to tell you that my daughter has a very high temper." "Me, too l Me, too 1" That was enough. The mother re- .tired from. the contest, and the pro- fessor won his suit. Another Tender Heart. fiery York Weekly. Clara -Going in for charity again, are you ? What is it this time? Dora -We are going to distribute cheap copies of Beethoven's sync phonies among the poor. Music is such an aid to digestion, you know 1 Treherne, Jan. 6, 19020 DIa.ssey-Harris Co., Limited, Winnipeg, Man. Gentlemen, -It gives me very much pleasure to inform you that the No. 4 Binder which I purchas- ed from your Agent here last sum- mer has given me the vory best of satisfaction, doing its w.ork to perfection and drawing liglht--very -much lighter than I expected. My crop was very heavy and some of it very badly down, but your binder did its work splendid. I had no trouble whatever..I hope you will sell lots of binders for 19'O and save my brother farmers lots of trouble. I wish you every success. R. M. FERRIS. For Conundrum ,Lovers. Buffalo Commercial, When the M-r's turn came he ask- ed the convivial pundits to answer bin this: What is it that has two eyes aind sees not, four legs and runs not, rand yet can jump as .high as the Waslangion Monument ? Obviously "a dead cat." ']b n the man who wants to know always po;.Iits out the weak link in the chain, and the proponent crashes him with the query, "Weil, how high, cam the monument jump?" Tlii,s je'n d'esprit is likely to have a great run in the Dipioma.ti.e Corps next winter. Perliaps the 11,1-r will start a scrap -book agothet the social exigencies el the coming oampaalgn at the Bei 10Bal Capital. If so bis.army of ftiettle lzed'o will gladly contrib- ute thereto. Isere is a, modest •yet eholce specimen with which we e,heerfully start the subscription : "What Is the llifference beeveen a girl riding up a 11i11 and a young man giving a young lady a dog ? One is taking a gallop up, and one Is giving a gta,1 a pup. You see it-ien't half bad waxen ran ,stop awl think it out. 1"ortunate in one Way. Chicago Post. "Mere was the prettiest girl at the charity bazaar last night who was selling kisses at a dollar each." ' "Weill ?" • "Well, I was broke, and she wouldn't do a credit business. ,What do yore think of than ?" "1 Yank that some men are bean tifanoiaily; lucky" (• ,..1.' . ll ,i..i L.t-.i Scott's Emulsion is the means of life and of the en- joyment of life of thousands of men, women and children. To the men Scott's Emul- sion gives the flesh and strength so necessary for the cure of, consumption and 'the repairing of body losses from any wasting disease. For wornen Scott's Emul- sion does this and more, It is a most sustaining food and tonic for the special trials that women have to bear. To children Scott's Emul- sion gives food and' strength for growth of flesh and bone and blood. For pale girls, for thin and sickly boys. Scott's Emulsion is a great help. Send for free sample. SCOTT & BOWNE, Chemists, Toronto, Ontario. 50c. and 51.00; all druCrgists. John Bull is 0 K. Toronto Globe. During the fiscal year 1902 the United Kingdom• exported manu'fac- tu'red goods to the value of £230,- 000,000, 230;000,000, Germany to the value of £150,000,000, France £85,000,- 000, and the United Sita,tes, £80,- 000,000. Mthard's Liniment Lumberman's Firiend. tier Analogy. Washington Times. "I wish," said the girl thoughtflilly, "that they wouldn't use that ex- pression `Launched upon 'the sea of matrimony: 4' "And why not ?" asked the young man anxiously. "Well, ycru know what kind of a time I always have on a sea voy- age." Oil City, Feb. 5, 1903.. Massey -Harris Co., Limited, Toronto, Ont. Gentlemen, -Please send me one of your 19013 catalogues of farm machinery. I have used no ma- chinery that gives as good satis- faction as Massey -Harris. JOHN .MARRIOTT. Cautious Donald A doctor was attending a danger- ous case where a Scotch huller was e1rainged. On 'calling in the fore- noon, he said to Donald .; "I hope your master's 'temperature is much Lower to -day than it was last night." "I'm nae sae vera sure about that," replied the butler, "for he deed this mornin'." Port Mulgrave, June 5, 189T. C, C. RICHARDS & l0. Dear S.irs,MIN°AR,D'S LINIMENT is my remedy for colds, etc. It is the best liniment I have ever used. . JOSIAH HART. Jim !Knew. Senator Hanna told to a group of &tis fellow senators the other flay this story : "In Lisbon, where I was born, they say a black man and a white man were once riding togeth- er along a lonely road. The road, led past a jail, and in the courtyard of the jail, they saw, rising above the high and dismal stone wall, a gallows. "Jim," said the white man, "where would you be if that gallows had its due ?"' "Guess ah'd be ridin' alone, sah," Jim replied. -Washington Star. It 'Ls in accord with the eternal fitness of things when amillion- aire woz+ke harder than his employ- ees; he gets more pay. CANADIAN ORDER OF CHOSEN FRIENDS STA BL TY The best guarantee of STABILITY furnish- ed by any FRATERNAL SOCIETY Is the ability to how— ((1 a growing RESERVI7 PUNL, (2) a growing MEWIIIILSHIP, i8) up to date leatures in every respect. The followingtable exemplifies briefly and comprehensivey the standing of The Canadian Order of Chosen Friends from the first two points of view— 'Year. Membership Reserve. Reserve. 188 i1889 852 d($ 1.648 89 1800 1806 4,488 65 1891 3145 11,065 58 1802 5082 21488 77 1893 7808 ti` 52,713 40 1894 4)710 1 72,501 08 1595 11364100,784 00' 1896 12003 1 1.08,277 73 1897 1.5027 189,284 27 1808 1.6152 e 164,280 58 1800 17888 208,047 81 1000 19918 214,254 47 1901 22164 284,572 05 1902 28829 813,769 88 Up to Date Features (11 An insurance In case of death of $500, $1000, $1500 or $2000, (2) A disability benefit of one -halt face value of certificate. 4€8 An OLD ACME ptexr'r1'. A'IPI�IJNII,RLL13EN'CI•'IT,this isoptional 5,) a SICK 1,11111.11ZIT, this's also optional For further particular address . W. 1rr MONTAGi710 Grand Itecorder,I• amilton,0st, W, F, CAMPRLLL,Grand Organizor,iiam. tlton, Ont. Organizers wanted. PARIS' NEW FAD, To Eat Cold Stood. Only the Latest Plan. ofIteducing One's Weight. The neer Parisian care for too wudh flesh is to take all food, or nearly all, ()old. ''Mile early break- fast of toilet tend eggs is eaten cold, and the .food is . wasted down with cold coffee or milk. • At luneh'eou there is nothing but cold meats and cold puddings, with bread, dll,eese and salads. At night th'e meal consists 01 only mu,yon- noise of fish, oold entrees and entre mets; no hot vegetables, but per- haps, as a bonne bouelie, a hot cut- let, lean, of Scare°. Many people in Paris who are in- clined to be stout, especially among the 'women, axe assiduously renew- ing the new cure, ancl most of those who ihave tried it assert that: they havo obtained .satisfactory results. Roosevelt Texts.• Some or the humorists are so de= lighted with the notion of Col. Roosee vett as President of Harvard that they are hunting up texts for his eset mons of occasion," 11 we may use the impression. The Washington Post offers this little collection : "Thy servant slew both the lion and the bear.'' -I. Samuel. xvii. 36. "Thy children, like olive plants, round they tabic."-Psalius, cxxviii. 3. "With thee will I break in pieces the horse."-Jererniah, 11. 2L `'Hanna (1), why weepest thou -I. Samuel,. i. 8. "So is my strength now for war." Joshua, xiv. 11. This Woman is Unhappy SHE SNORES her breath is bad, because of Catarrh Itis a mercy to tell her that DR. AGNEW'S CATARRHAL POWDER will surely Cure her. Some remedies are quack—Agnew's cure is quick. Her life is in danger from Pulmonary disease, which so inevitably follows Chronic Catarrh. Thin cure complete only costs 50 cts. a bottle. Relief instantly and the patient stays cured. It not only soothes ; it heals. Colds and Acute Catarrh relieved, and head- ache cured in ten minutes. George Lewis,. of llollenback & Baker, Shamokin, Pa., writes: "I have used a great many Catarrh remedies and have never had any relief until I used one box of Dr. Agsew's Ca- tarrhal Powder, which cured me after I bad been troubled with Catarrhfor fifty years. I am 50 years old. DR. AGNEW'S HEART CURE keeps the heart going, which keeps the nerves toned, which set stomach and liver and the whole system in order; and that's the right way and the only way to do it. 15 1 • A Unique Bridge. One of the most curious bridges, . ever built, perhaps unique in the history of the world, was that made by the British troops In 1860. They were marching on Pekin, but found their progress barred by a flooded river of considerable width and depth: A timber party was formed, but found nothing to put down or borrow suitable for a bridge. At last a huge store of Sof- fins was discovered In the village, and with these the soldiers built their bridge and crossed alive over the receptacles for the dead. Piles To prove to you:,thab Dr. Chase's Ointment ie a pertain and absolute cure for each and every form of itching, bleeding and protruding piles, the manufacturers have guaranteed it. See tes- timonials in the daily press and ask your neigh- bors what they think of it, You can use it and get your money back if not cured. 60c a box, at all dealers or EDasANSON,13ATrss & CO., Toronto, Dr. Chase's lint eat Truthful for Once.' Boston Transcript. , Miss &to y ler-Everybody says I don't look my age. Miss Pertci'eleeOr course, you 'lona. dear. It would be simply inmpossible. A sprained ankle is not an uncommon accident. Painitiller relieves and cures almost as if by magic. The greatest household rem- edy. Avoid substitutes. There is but one “Painkiller"—Perry Davis'. Reason Enough. N.Y. Weekly. Friend -Why did you refuse that handsome youg widower ? Miss Mainchance-He' hadn't any relations that I could send his chil- dren to. Ask for Millard's and take no other. Tho Etiquette of Divorces. Is it not time that a little book on the etiquette to be observed by di- varoed persons was published ? "How to be Easy; though Divorced" might serve as a title indicating the help- ful character of the work. A sew reflections in the Boston Journal will perhaps give the author of such a. manu'a) a few hints. " It seems to us that a divorced husband should treat his divorced •wife when its inee'tln her at a social gathering with tbe distinguished (considera- tion that he should puny any woman. IIS hiltDuld not presume cm any form- er in'timattea 'Tihus lace 'should not wink at her knowingly 'or poke her allay • in the ribs. Nor should he In the course, of a'eneral' conversation say in aggressively eheertul tones: 'You remember, Elizabeth, I never could eat Brussels sprouts, 11 would also be in, bard taste to ask : 'Who keeps yea in. mind a1 your engage - Weide novo 061001.µ(1.11.14.1101414.“1.10,1141.111$4.4 What shrunk your woolens ? Why, did holes wear so soon ? You used common soap. IBX •'ieNSILr Ask for the Ocdagonn lour. seg f•Iis Inclination, A ,genteel carver always site when he carves, says a work on eti- quette. Perhaps Ile does; but it is pretty certain that there etre timns when the yearnfully yearns to pat ono foot on the table end the other 00 tine bird while steuggiing with the fowl. Eeep Mineal's Liniment in tbe House. The Brave Sex. Washington Star. "Do you think that women are as brave as men ?" • , "Braver," e..newel'ed Miss Cayenne. "You will observe that the scientists who keep talking with terror about the 'ba•c1111 in a kiss are all males." Minaxd's Liniment is used by Phy- sicians. Jefferson's Maxims. "The 'sage of Monticello' has been called an infidel, but the charge le a libel. Jefferson was not a devotee of any particular form of ecclesias- ticism, but he sva,s a' believer In God, in the higher life and in purity. He practiced the golden rule far bet- ter than many statesmen of a later date. A fine example o3 the studious, painstaking, methodical, persevering, simple, economical, and withal pow- erful man of affairs, Thomas Jeffer- son will remain for all /time. "The following ten rules of conduct from his pen might well ibe pasted In the hat of every clerk, stenogra- pher, bookkeeper -employer and em- ployed -in Chicago. Cut out, framed and given aplace on every desk in this great heart of American com- mercialism, these maxims, studied as men hustle, would make us all wiser and better : "Never put off till to -morrow wbat you can do to -day. "Never trouble another for what you can do yourself. "Never spend your money; before you have earned lit. "Neves' buy what you dol not want because It is cheap. "Pride costs more than hunger, thirst and cold. "We seldom repent of having eat- en too little. "Nothing. is troublesome that we do willingly. "How much pain evils have east us that have never happened. "Take things always by the smooth handle. "When angry count ten before you speak ; if very, angry count a hundred." --Ex. A Better Way of Putting it. Chicago Post. "Would you call her mercenary?" "Well, perhaps it would be better to say that In matrimonial matters site displays good business judgment." *HOW'S THIS ? We offer One Hundred Dollars' Reward for any case of Catarrh that cannot be cured by Hall's Catarrh Cure. I'..i. HENEY & CO., Toledo, 0. We, the undersigned, have known F. J. Cheney for the last 15 years and believe him perfectly honorable in all business trans- actions and financially able to carry out any obligations made by their firm. `'VEST a TRnIAx, Wholesale Druggists, To- ledo, 0. WALDING, KINNAN & Mucv-IN, Wholesale Druggists, Toledo, 0. Hail's Catarrh Cure is taken internally,act- ing directly upon the blood and mucous sur- faces of tine system. Testimonials sent free. Price -75e per bottle. Sold by all druggists. Hall's Family Pins are the best. Altother Veteran. Chicago News. "Boss," said the wanderer, I "went through three battles." "Shake I" exclaimed the man in the cottage. "I went through three my- self." "You did ?" "Yes, I was married three times." 'When a es idox appears in half - mourning it's the wise bachelor's cue to take to the tall timber. ISSUE N 19, 1903 Mrs. Winsiow's booming 8atape shots always be used for Children Teettang. It soothes the child, sof tons the ms, cures wind. colic and ie the beat remedy fo Diarrhoea. LEARN AP OF[SSION IN FIFTEEN DAYS by mail so you can make from wrvis TO TAN DOLLARS A DAY. For particulars. writs A. HANSEL,'I Ae.ve. North Hamilton, Ont. LADY AGENTS 'WANTED 2 Y,o T11E ALL -WAYS READY, 'SKIRT 5OV1'O15Z'ER f1�. d.�a (i Ie1.T ,10JU& F0Q Best Selling Skirt Supporter and Waist Adjuster ever Introduced. Sells at sight. Good profit. Send 25 cents for sample and terms to agents. BRUSH & CO., DEPT. H., TORONTO. USE ON MILE AXLE CREASE it Has Iso Equal Manufactured only by 11-5E CAMPBELL 1111FC. CO. of HAMILTON, O1 TAialO. For sale by all leading dealers. Oa QyROHfQ YN' r i R• , On; i � e ealth is one of the most important things for every farmer to consider. ides hood PurMer will build up a run down horse. It tones up the system, rids stomach of bots, worms and other parasites which under- mine an animal's health. 5o cts. a package. LEEMING MILES & 00. AGENTS. - - - MONTREAL. --- Continued in Our Next. Harvard Lampoon. Dinwit-Say, our backbones are like serial stories, aren't they ? TTlelnwit-Prove it. Dinwit-Continued in our necks. Lever's Y -Z (Wise Head) Disinfectant Soap Powder dusted in the bath, softens the water and disinfects. 38 10 Distressed Icer. "I let him hold my hand last even- ing," she told her dearest friend. "Well ?" "Well," she said, with a regretful sigh. "lie was satisfied with that," 4 •Sb .,:/1 ii?'n+. FYI i";f91q.,.iF.Aaz �e"v.'-.:,41+•,, .Just the, same as ever m aco +r:r continues to be the• sure cure of it PI/ .uralgia 'i)ii,°fttlFuhfadd%'ti;hSL :5„ , ia'eed iti ten years, Washington, D.C., Nov, so, 2902. tloasb send me your "Treatise on the Horse and his Diseases.' Have used Kendall's spavin Cure for ten years and gladly toiIry to In malts. Yours truly, Justus C, Nelson. Vivo Cases of Spavin Abuolutoly Dinged. Buffalo, N. Dakota, Jan. n6, tgos. Vulva cured five horses absolutely of Spavin in the last four years with your Kendatl's Spavin Cure. Very truly yours, Harry D.ltuattel. ThE "i .t'LI Rla,:c oIA;. And Most Successful Remedy Ever Discovered for Spe.vlrts, Reagborses, Splints tend tail Lameness. This Is the unqualified experience of thousands of horsemen and others in this and other countries and there is no reason why you should not share in these benefits. Just read what the above people say about "Kendall's." ' Write to them for your own satisfaction. i ,,,1 In addition to being the best stable remedy t ))e1 fp_ tktith known, it is unequaled as a liniment for house - 3,1,. hold and family use. Sold generall by all drug- gists, Price iti^ six betties for 515. We send valuable book, 'I4 Treatise qn the llHHHiierste" pro- fusely illustrated, free upon request. DR. B. J. KENDA.LL CO., Ennsburg Falls. 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