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HomeMy WebLinkAboutThe Wingham Advance Times, 1928-10-25, Page 2W 1NO HAM .ADVANCE..'IMES _. ' °* ' ( pendulum as far in the .opposite dir- ' ection towards boldness as it lagged behind: in childhood to shyness, Such a possible development must also be watched and guarded. against. ' Mai For Women'. (By Dorothy Dix) . _ p.a„ a Exaggeration of any character trait, TRAIN YOUR BOY TO RE A good orbad, is detrimental no matter who may possess it. Make a little man of the boy as early as possible. service Teach' him the joy of,to LITTLE MAN (By Dr. Louis E. Misch) (Eminent Phychologist) others. Make him feel that catering Boys are. divided into two general to one's own interests is not a desir- stype6. able aim in life. There • is the timid, shy, retiring Make him want to do better than 'kind of boy and there, is the robust, the other children of his age, Set :adventurous, daring sort. his standards high, but not so high Since a man's success in life depends that they are manifestly unattainable. :largely upon his self-assurance and Study your boy like a book and let obstacles s fearlessness in overcoming o b t him know that you are studying hint. and in struggling ahead, the aggress- ive ggress- This will not make him conceited. y does not find it so difficult to It will make.him feel that what he adjust hstate, if when he grows to does really counts, and he will res- pond all the -better to your tsars;n8 Hess of the mental fibre is as bad as and teaching. too much tenderness. An over -confident and fearless boy may very easily become uncouth and overbearing to a degree that makes him an objectionable human being. Sucha boy, therefore, must be ton - .ed down a bit. He must be made to learn the advantages to himself as well as to others, of kindness, respect, 'love and sentiment. The bold boy is, egoistic and often conceited. His pride therefore is the weakness of his armor. Touch his pride and you can do a lot with him. Make it a point of pride that, because -of his strength and masculinity, much more is expected of him in the way of. chivalry. On the other hand, the boy who likes best to stay by himself, shrinks from entering into the rough play of children of his own, age and, in gen- eral is not a goodmixer, should be encouraged to be more rugged and less sensitive. He should not be forced, but the advantages of growing into manhood that is unafraid should be stressed at .every possible opportunity. Athletics and all forms of competi- tive sports, especially in the open, are excellent for all boys. For the seclusive boy, nothing is better. But games ought not to be too difficult at first, else• they discourage and de- press still further, a spirit that is fearful of expressing itself. When once the cautious boy finds aliz s that and ze c_ he can do certain things and win the same as the others, it does not take long be- 'fore the natural edge of the human 'being will essay with its strength and -with repeated trials and successes the :boy will blossom forth equally as cer- tain of himself as the rest. Often, indeed, a timid boy event- ually becomes an overbold man. The HALLOWE'EN PARTY Perhaps the most looked for day (to the youngsters at least), of the whole year falls on this month -Hal- lowe'en, Indeed it is such an oc- casion that has such a wealth of .pos- sibilities that it can be enjoyed by old as well as young. The grotesque pumpkins and the eerie witches which seem to symbolize this night, offer many ideas for the entertainment with which we are wont to celebrate it. A clever party, using these themes can be made of an old fashioned hard times party. Write the invitations on torn pieces of wrapping paPer, with pencil of course. Then do not mail them unless it is impossible to find a small boy in the neighborhood who will deliver them from door to door. The house should be stripped of as many things as possible, including the nicer furniture and ancient straight chairs and old tables substituted.The floors should be left uncovered and the curtains removed from the win- dows. Zig-zag strips of paper pasted across the mirrors give a most effec- tive hard-timey appearance. If the guests have been asked to wear the most disreputable and Out- landish outfits procurable, the whole effect will be funny. The table on which the refresh- ments are served can be uncovered or laid with a paper cloth. A huge pot of beans in the centre with a motley array of dishes containing po- tato salad, sandwiches, doughnuts and I cider to be eaten with an odd assort - ;merit of silver trill pre/vide much mer- riment. If the house is lighted with pump- kins end decorated with cornstalks and witch scarecrows it will be un- usually effective. JI 1%1 10.901"•131MI\•A0.°/1M>`•JMIKIlS. PAPIl,R•`` •• THE HYDRO SHOP Guaranteed Electric Irons Only $1.98 Guaranteed Lams 5 for $1.00 Wingham Utilities Commission Crawford Block. Phone 156. ■0rtultsM■InimainsimeswsssssOSSISI USINIS WANTED! • • ii• •:111 is I� THE Maitland Creamery Poultry - Eggs Cream CALL US FOR PRICES WOMANHOOD OF SPAIN GIVES RESTRIME» LIVE OF THE EAST. Young Girl May Not Leave House Unaccompanied by a Duenna- Married Woman Must Ile Accoin- lamed by Husband or Friend. To -day, over 400 years after the expulsion of the Moors, Spain is still an Oriental country. The East lives in the blood and traditions of tht people, writes Hamilton Herr in the London Daily Mail. Whoever hears Mass chanted in the Cathedral of To- ledo readily fancies himself in the mosques of Cairo; for the chorister.: sing with the high-pitched nasal tones of the Arabs. The gypsy dancers wh dance in the caves et the Albatcin the ancient Moorish quarter of Gm nada, illoev . itlx• the ramie since . flip movements as the dancers tf c: Ouled Nall upon the outskirts of Sahara. Music, architecture, place-names teli the ansa ,:t,;:y. But in . no phis' o'` life dcn Oriental persist more Strongly than in the treatment of women. T Spanish woman isnot, as popular imagined a beautiful Carmen, sere naded continually by the most (1a^l• ing "toreros" of Andalusia. She liv r the restricted life of the w cman tile East. Of course, this statemcr is not so widely true of the c-sm' politan woman of Madri 1, The life c the great European capitals is cv s�• where much the same. But of ie. rest of Spain, and especially ' cf ti south, it is essentially true, A young girl may not leave fl' house. ,.unaccompanied by a do-nnr She must not speak to. or look at man, When her family sees a y^u*• man whom they consider suitable h is allowed to go and call on the g1 "• Her parents or the duenna always s• in the same room as the couple. 1t^e when the girl is engaged sheds nova allowed to be one moment along will her fiance unless carefully guarded If 'you walk at night through tb• streets of a city of Southern Spa',, such as. Granada, Cordorva or c- villa, you will see, young men. 1v 1 ::t poring through the heavy irnn g••r r� of darkened windows to girls cn tb farther side. Even then, a due"na i probably watching and listennin ;. Once a girl is married she m1.y g nowhere without her husband or un- accompanied by a woman friend. Ar Englishwoman was driving the othe' day with a Spaniel) married womar. in the "Retiro," the Hyde Park r1 Madrid. A Spaniard whom sh.- heel met some days before passed in `an- other carriage. Look, there is Senor X . Don't you think he is good- looking?" the Englishwoman said. "I must not look," the other replied; "it is against etiquette." H o tv does' the Spanish woman of good. family spend her day? She rises befdre eight o'clock every morning andi attends Mass. After that she re- turns to breakfast and spends the rest of her day doing embroidery or receiving her women friends. Often a friend will read some book, while several women work upon a piece of needlework. In Seville the chief recreation of the day for women and other fami- lies is to drive in the Paseo de las Delicias in the cool of the evening. It is then that the gorgeous liveries of the Duke of Alba, the Duke of Medinaceli, and other of the Spanish nobility may be seen, as their car- riages pass down the avenue of palm trees festooned in roses, for the gar- dens of Maria Luisa are among the. most exotic and beautiful in the world. eeeeeotehnzaVnageesaaareaeve The rules applyin,,g to ti SPanisti uomag become even stricter when her husband dies. She must not leave the house for three months, and she must remain in mourning for three years. An Englishwoman mar- ried to a Spaniard scandalized her servants recently by walking in her garden the day 'after her husband's death. "She is a heartless wretch," they said. Often the front door of the house is draped with black cloth for a year or more. In Spain the family Is a great link A Spanish girl recently left for Amer- ica, and her family, some twenty peo- ple in all, journeyed from Burgos, in Northern Spain, to Seville to bid her good-bye, although they had last seen her a fortnight before. And this incident is not an exception. This family spirit, however, has its disadvantages. Some year.; ago there was a well-known dancer, called Dora la Cordobesita, who delighted all Southern Spain by her dancing, She was the idol of Seville. Had she liv- ed in any other country she woule now have been a rich woman, but elle was compelled by Spanish custom 'to share out all her earnings among her relatives. Every night, when the performance was finijhed at the the- atre, some ten or twelve of her rela, tions escorted her home. Of course, she was never allowed to speak to any man. The Spanish women of strict fain• fly are thus allowed few recreation's oesides embroidery and a little die ,•.rat reading. Perhaps s that is why • . p they give so much time and careful thought to their dress. The, upper, class women of Madrid are perhap• the best -dressed women in the world u l•.st these be the women of Buenas Ayres. es. Their taste is infallible as. always restrained. • • ,w Bali aellill 1111110111111111011110111111 w. UNITED "ARI ERs CO.OPT ATIVE �! . 'itED. t~an�PAr��, IJ IC N1 Wlnl 1ilailikll a Ontario. Phone 271 a a smainamiamaal '(au` MATRIMONIAL PUZZLES Queer Marriage Mysteries. Corrie 'Un- der the Notice of Registrars € ud Justices of the Peace. A. registrar of marriages in Eng- land, ngland, in an article in Tit -Bits states that twenty: -six marriage Puzzles have come beneath his observation during his seventeen years of experience. "We are a little early," one bride- groom remarked. "Our witnesses will be here directly." He removed his new and somewhat tight silk hat and there came away with it a wig or toupee the kind that dovetails into what is left of the real hair. Startled, his bride gazed at the expanse of baldness, gave a startled cry, picked up her handbag, and went, The man made no attempt to follo "Great Scott! I:forgot all about it!" exclaimed a bridegroom when X put my usual question about the ring, I told him he eouidget one at a jeweller's at few yards away. Off he and his bride went, but they never Came back! • "The man wanted a fifteen -shilling Dine,," the jeweller col me. "The girlffantec `one 'at three pounds. Prom arguing, they progressed to. quarrelling, Suddenly she smacked his face hard, and left him!" "Oh, no," I told, another bride- groom, "it's not my job to provide witnesses, You had better go out- side and ask two people if they will oblige you." He and his bride went out to get witnesses, but failed to return, Meet- ing him later, I asked the reason. "Luck was out," he replied, gloom- ily. "I went up to 'a chap, and when he turned round he and my girl re- cognised each other. It seems they had been engaged, quarrelled, and parted. And--and-well, they made it up then and there, and she said she was finished with me." The next was rather a pathetic case. ' When. I came to that part of the ceremony where the bridegroom has to 'pledge himself, ho stuttered and stammered. He tried desperate- ly, but could not get the words out. I was going to suggest a rest for a minute or so when his bride snap- ped, "J'm not going to marrying a stuttering idiot Good-bye." And off she went. The man told me he had stuttered years before, but had been cured. The excitement of the wedding had brought the afflic- tion back again. I was very sorry for him, Taking advantage of the bride- groom's removal of his overcoat, a bride, much perturbed, whispered to me: "Please -I'm so sorry for the mistake -put me down as a widow in the certificate." Sharp ears, helped by a sudden lull in the traffic outside, made the bride- groom catch the word "widow," and he insisted on explanations. The re - suit was that two minutes later, after he had snapped, "No bloomin' widow for me!" he flounced out of the o ce. What mystery lay behind the fol- lowing I do not know: "Going to agree?" demanded a bridegroom. "Last chance." "Never," snapped the bride, And at that the man, putting aten-shill- ing note on my desk, bowed to the woman, and went. DISCOVERY OF ICELAND. $2,21 9,700,00 In One Year. . ' ,tii'icnal, philanthropic, relig- eae ..r,ri" charitable rlrganizatlens in t,Tn 3r d States received contribu- us of $2,219,100,000 in 1927, ae- r'l.'ng to a survey'made by the Sohn '0.11 ;Tones Corporation, which coni ;u,;ts fund-raising campaigns. In a rtan.raent summarizing its survey, r t e ,rperatioh pointed out that the °'' al w,ie more than the year's in - tem.; et either Franca or Gerniany• 1'11 • •survey says that in the last 'we d""aidea philanthropy in America eta- baan orgiteized along big bug- lee: ust-s,,,, lines and on a big business ;,1•m; and that 'contributions have ;In cased annually in large amountts Q e The MacDougalls First to Land on Northern Isle. Though, Iceland now belongs to Denmark, it, was discovered by the Ma.cDougails of Argyllshire, ancestors 'of the family which, now resides at Dulloliie Castle, and whose eldest daughter • is known by the pictur- esque name"of the "Maid of Lorn:" In early days the MacDougalls were sea rovers, and when on their adventurous voyages they always had with them several ravens -their mas- cot bird. Sailing along on the e sea north - ward on a voyage of discovery, a Mac- Dougall chief let loose a raven, hop- ing it would show where land lay, but the bird returned in the direction when they had come. Continuing their voyage, another raven was released, and 'after circl- ing around overhead, it came back to the ship. Knowing the raven's unerring instinct for making for land, they knew there was none near. On they sailed, and then let loose another bird which set off in the di- rection they were sailing. Following it, these intrepid voyagers of the Western Isles reached the unknown land of Iceland. A Bank -Note Ruse. Do you know why the numbers on bank notes appear twice? In the eighteenth century, when Bank of England notes had to be sent by mail, they were cut into halves and the separate halves sent by different mails. This was to present the en- tire note falling into wrong hands, for when the mails Were carried by road they were frequently . robbed by highwaymen. But cutting the notes, the sender could await the acknowl- edgment of one half before dispatch- ing the other. Naturally the matching of these half -notes gave the bank some trou- ' bre, and for this rlsaeon an arrange- ment was made in 1791 for num- bers to appear on both halves of bank -notes. • ®i• T. Thm lay, Oeteber 25th, 1938. Feature Lines agimismisem INCLUDE WOODS 'Lavender der L1n e �1 "Quality" Y "THE BEST" UNDERWEAR FOR LADIES AND CHILDREN Betwallan Volcanoes. A new road in the Hawaii National I1ark has just been completed at 'an expense of $150,000, making aedess- ible A chain of eight exthect voicariic craters. Though these are smaller than the huge fire -mountains which give Hawaii its chief fame, they are of great interest both as 'natural spectacles and 'as scientific "speci- mens" demonstrating certain phases in volcanology. The craters all lie along a great fissure in the earth, which was formerly 'a source of great lava flows, and from which a small flow issued es recently as 1923. The Sdiialleet Bird. The fairy hullIroli g blade of Cubit. . two and one-fourth triches Iong„ la the a mallear bitd in the rifafl& WOODS' "LAVENDER LINE" FALL &.WINTER LINES No Sleeve Vests 85c to $2.40 Short Sleeve Vests .... $1.00 to $3.00 Opera Top Vests $1.10 to $1.75 Full Sized Bloomers , . $1.00 to 2.00 Combinations $1.35 to $3.25 GORDON "QUALITY" FALL & WINTER LINES No Sleeve Vests 75c to $1.75 Short Sleeve Vests . 75c to $1.90 Opera Top Vests .... , . $1.25 to $1.50 Full Sized Bloomers 75c to $1.75 Every Garment Properly Finished. Woods Silk Vests $1.75, Bloomers 2.50 to 2.75, Slips 3.00 to 4.25, Gowns 4.00 Gordon Silk Vests 98c to 1.25, Bloomers 1.19 to 1.50, Pleasing Colors in each. Woods "CHILDREN'S" Gordon FALL & WINTER LINES Infant's Vests & Bands . Children's Vests Children's Drawers Children's Bloomers ... Child's Combinations .. Children's Waists, each . 50c to 1.25 35c to 1.00 35c to 1.00 40c to 85c . 1.25 to 1.50 50c "FLANNELETTE WEAR" FOR LADIES AND 'CHILDREN Infants' Flett. Gowns , • . , 59c to 69c Infant's Sleeping Suits ... 75c to 1.25 Infant's Dressing Gowns, each , . 85c Children's Flett. Gowns .. ,69c to 95c Ladies' Flett. Gowns .... 89c to 2.00; The Largest New Assortment Ever. alker Stors Ltd. Wingham �?YojThtLYMN5 D HEIR WRITE %$ When He cometh, when He cometh To make up His jewels, All His jewels, precious jewels, His loved and His own, Refrain: Like the stars of the morning, His bright crown adorning, They shall shine.in their beauty, Bright gems for His crown. He will gather, He will gather The gems for His kingdom, All the pure ones, all the bright ones, His loved and His own. Little children, little children Who love their Redeemer, Are the jewels, precious jewels, His loved and His own. Amen. The Reverend William Orcuth, Cus- hing, the author of the words of this pretty children's hymn was born at Hingman, Mass., in 1823. Mr. Cush- ing has written his spiritual history into his numerous hymns in much the same manner as did Charles Wesley. For instance, of his affecting lines be- ginning, "Down in the valley with my Saviour I would go Where the flowers are blooming and the sweet waters flow." he wrote: "Longing to give up all for Christ, who had given His life for me, I wanted to be willing to lay every- thing at His feet, with no wish but to, do His will, to live henceforth only for His glory. Out of this feeling came the hymn "Follow On." • Of Ira Sankey's favorite for which he wrote the words "0 Safe to. the Rock that is higher than I." Mr. Cissh- lug wrote "The history ,of many bat - les is behind it. But the occasion which gave it being was the call of Mr. Sankey, He Said 'Send me, some- thing new to help me in my Gospel work.' A call from such a source and for such a purpose seemed a (tail from God. Z so regarded it, and pray- ed: 'Lord give me something that may glorify :Ghee.' It was while thus waiting, that 'Hiding in Thee' pressed to make itself known' 'Ring the ,.tells of Heaven,' y' he says, "was Written to fit a beautiful tune written by George r, Root en- titled "The Little Octoroon.' • , When I heard the bells ringing over some sinner that had returned it seemed a glad day in heaven. Then the 'words 'Ring the bells .of heaven' waiting once flowed in to the wa ng m e cl- ody. It was a beautiful anblessed experience, and the bells seem ring- ing yet." "Under His Wings I am Safely abiding," and "There is joy in Heaven," have histories equally touch- ing, and have with other hymns of Mr. Cushing's been used with grand effect at evangelistic services. But public opinion appears to be determined to pin Mr. Cushing's claim to immortality to his children's hymn in which Dr. Root collaborated so. successfully: "When He cometh, when He cometh!" This was the outcome of a touching sermon preached upon the subject of the' Last Judgment to an assembly of little childrenr which had an effect upon some present that will last into eternity. Dr. George Frederick Root, the writer of the tune "Precious Jewels," to, which this hymn is always sung, was in his day and country, quite a famous musician, although born a poor boy on a small farm in Sheffield, Mass, He was naturally musical and by the time he was eighteen had taught 'himself to play all the instru- ments within ithin his reach. At that age he left farm work for city life, and after some months of struggle as aprivate teacher of music c was made instructor ofm sic in the, public schools. In 1839, a year later, he was also director of music in two' churches. Five years later ambition took him to New York, where for the next six years he was weal knoww as a suc- cessful teacher o fnntsic and singing. In l8so he left'for Europe and studied for a year in Paris and elsewhere. On his return to the United Statet. he set to popular music Fanny Cros- by's songs, "The Hazel Dell," "Ros- elle the Prairie Flower," "There's Music in the Air," etc, Theca carried his name around the English speaking would, The Civil War inspired hint to write his well known r"Just Before the Battle, Mliother," "Tramp, tramp, tramp, the Boys are Marching," . "The Battle Cry of Freedom," and other once very well known songs, , He also wrote more ambitious music such as the cantatas . "Haymakers," and "'The Flower Queen," several instruc- tion books and "Methods." He removed to Chicago in r86o where the local University honored him with its degree ,of Doctor` of Music. It was there that he met Ira D. Sankey, the singing evangelist, for whom he wrote some hymn tunes. He had written many hymn tunes previously including that to the words "My Days Are Gliding' Swiftly By," which came to him ashe first read. the words and was written down ex- temporaneously: "It seemed so very simple and commonplace that I hesi- tated about setting the other parts to it." he said of its melody, "I fin- ally decided that it might be useful to somebody, and I completed it, though it was not printed until some months afterwards. In after years I examined it in an endeavor to account for its great popularity -but in vain. To the musician there is not one rea- son in melody or harmony, scientifi- cally regarded, for such a fact." 'Dr. Root wrote words and music too for some hymns of which the best known is probably "Come to; the Sa- viour, Make No Delay." The, music of his "Jewel" tune came to him nat- urally, lilted "themselves to the words" as he conned them over though we are told the chorus caused him rather nigra trouble. • rbs • gib. l��He Hers aX++ i P e �:heir s � eS �11� o• ,� onderf ull• Well• ?alga it. • Eat, better, Sheep; work, ph*y Better. Mother Natwe's own good herbs, rich in health -giving power, • these are what make , Gallagher's 'Tonics and System Builder so good. It really works wonders. for. people Who are constipated, rundown. nervous folk who have dears diseased.leen dreaded i esema yields to it. Try a bottle. It will keep you clear of cold weather ills, Sold as other Gal.' lagher. Herbal Household Reoaedies autoby 52 1V.lcibbon's Drug Stores Rarrlston artEA Wingham