The Seaforth News, 1961-07-06, Page 2Daddy Very t enerous
With Diano's Dough
In praise of Old Nassau, my boys,
Ilurrahl Hurrah! Hurrah!
Her sons will give, while they
Ishell live,
illtiree cheers for Old Nassau!
see ;,`11,, The only trouble with Prince -
^ton University's venerable "Old
Nassau" is that it doesn't com-
mit the daughters of the sons to
give even three cheers and a
tiger, And the only trouble with
Shelby Cullom Davis (class of
'30) was that he wanted his
daughter to give his alma meter
not a cheer --but $3.8 million,
Until she was summoned to the
scheduled giveaway meeting at a
Manhattan bank recently, shy
and blond Diana Davis was hard-
ly aware of the fact that she was
wealthy, She had heard talk of
a trust in her name, established
by her father with $4,000 when
she was born 22 years ago, But
she had no idea that it amounted
now to nearly $4 million, or
that, under its terms, she could
have demanded it from the trus.
tees at any time since she reach-
ed the age o1 20. The trustees
are her parents, and they didn't
tell her until Daddy decided to
give It all Instead to Princeton
—in his name.
Rash Promise: Ostensibly, it
never occurred to Shelby Cul-
lom Davis, a New York invest-
ment banker, who traces his an-
cestry to John Alden, and is a
power in the Society of May-
flower Descendants and the
Sons of the American Revolu-
tion, that his daughter would
prove recalcitrant. As a matter
of fact, he alreadi• had promised
the money to Princeton, and had
a press release on his philan-
thropy ready ter the Sunday
papers.
When the facts finally became
clear to Diana, she saw not
Princeton's orange and black at
all. What she saw was red.
Instead of answering her fa-
ther's summons to the bank to
sign away the fortune she never
knew she had, she hired herself
a lawyer, Julian S. Bush, a for-
mer instructor at Columbia, and
for 25 years a specialist in tax
law. Bush promptly filed for-
mal demand that the fund be
turned over to Diana, and said
noncompliance would mean suit
in New York's Supreme Court,
Stuck with one press release,
avis quickly issued another be -
re taking off on a business trip
to Europe. Through a public-
lrelations firm, he said of his
daughter that he "could only at-
tribute her unreasonable self
Ishness to the unrealistic materi-
(Oism prevalent among Ameri-
aan youth today."
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HIONICLES
�N6E FAK1
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You know how people always
say "the nicest part of going
away is the coming home", In
just that same way the nicest
part of leaving a district where
you have once lived is going
back for a brief visit. I had proof
of that last week.
About three weeks ago I re-
ceived an invitation to the Fif-
tieth Anniversary Tea of the
John Milton Chapter, I.O,D.E. —
to which I used to belong many
years ago. I thought it was so
nice of the members to send me
an invitation. But I was a little
dubious about .accepting as it
carne in the middle of a very
busy week for us. However, I
thought the only way to show
niy appreciation — and my con-
tinued interest in the work of
the Chapter — was to appear in
person. And was I glad I went!
Really I couldn't get over it —
everyone was so nice and so
pleased to see me. The only way
I can explain it is they knew I
had been quite ill during last
winter and probably thought I
had made a special effort to at-
tend this tea. It almost made me
feel as if I had risen from the
diild! Naturally the pleasure
was not in the least one-sided.
There were many "old-timers"
there whom I had not seen for
years — and we all remembered
each other so well. Quite a num-
ber of them, like myself, are
now living elsewhere. I hope
they got as much pleasure from
this visit to their old Chapter as
I did. There were others who
had experienced . many changes
in their lives during the inter-
vening years — some good, some
not so good, some even tragic.
A few were courageously fight-
ing their way back to health and
strength. Others who bad led a
particularly active life — at
home and in the organization —
were now more or less retired.
There was even one member whn
had a copy of this column in her
purse, ready to pass on to an-
other member.
And so the Chapter carries an
— with the help and addition of
many younger members. It has
a fine fifty-year record, having
survived the incidental work of
two wars and assisted with the
aftermath of countless rehabili-
tation problems. One of its char-
ter members was there — able
and almost as active as ever A
lady who during the last ten
years has become an accomplish-
ed local artist, There you have
the secret of how to enjoy the
leisure of one's later years. That
is, the development of a latent
talent to maintain one's interest
in life. It is the panacea . for
many ills of the flesh and the
boredom which sometimes ac-
companies advancing years.
The tea was held at the home
of one of the members — a past
Regent. A lovely old home with
attractive lawns and shrubberies.
There was quite a line-up of
shining cars parked on three ad-
joining streets on the older out-
skirts of the town, I looked
around and couldn't help com-
paring present conditions with •
the time when I was first a
member of the LO.D,E. In those
daysit wasn't always easy to
get away from Ginger Farm to
attend the meetings. And there
was always the problem of tran-
sportation, Cars were few and
far between and we didn't have
one ourselves, So, on many on-
casions I walked two miles to go
to a meeting, Sometimes I drove
our horse and buggy if Prince
WAN not required in the field,
Later, it was our first car — si
'Model T. . That really put us in.
the Iuxury chase! But at this an -
GUESS WHO? — Actress Eliza-
beth Taylor, disguised as a
waitress, created havoc at the
closing show of her husband,
Eddie Fisher, in Las Vegas.
Stumbling around the dining
room, dropping crockery and
abusing Fisher in a highly
pitched Cockney voice, she com-
pletely fooled him. It was only
when she removed her wig that
Fisher recognized her.
niversary, tea 1 think our '53
Plymouth was the oldest car
there. That didn't worry me in
the least. It got me there and it
brought me back. What more
could I ask?
Not only that it took me over
to Bob and Joy's to supper and
from there to the local hospital
to visit an old friend in her
eighty-sixth year, and then
home just before the lights carne
on.
Next day Partner went to
Dee's for a two-day visit. His
primary objective was to help
straighten up the front lawn aft -
err the city Streets Commission
had tt.ken down a huge tree in
front of the house and of course,
left the spreading roots in the
ground. He tool: all his heavy
tools with him, several of them
relics of our farming days, for
which he still finds • many uses.
As do our neighbours! The tools
are often on loan, for the average
home -owner would never, or at
least seldom, think it necessary
to buy a post -hole digger, an
iron spoon or a pickaxe. Gener-
ally it ends up with Partner ac-
companying whatever tool is re-
quired and putting it into action.
himself, And that he is quite
happy to do. Like the LO,D.E
artist his many interests and ac-
tivities keep him from becoming
prematurely old, None of us can
help growing old in years but
we ran remain young in spirit.
That is, if we so desire. Apropos
of family problems — of married
children and aging parents, I
wonder how many saw "G,M.
Presents" — "Something Old,
Something New". It must surely
have given young and old alike
plenty of food for thought.
SALLY'S SALLIES
SURF 1.10 MISSING PERSONS
"rt T ever turn up Missing, can
X depend upon you to
find me?"
ISSUE 26 — 1961
How Some Wedding
Customs Started
Many of the oustoms, associ-
ated with weddings today, pre-
date the Christian era. Some are
survivals of pagan rites which
were blended through the cen-
turies with Jewish and Chris-
tian rituals.
The Wedding Ring originated
in the days of the caveman -
in a cord of .reeds with which
the man bound himself to his
wife's waist in order to make
their spirits one.
The Bridal Party stems h•um
the marriage - by - capture era
when loyal tribesmen and close
friends of the ,groom within the
tribe added' him to capture nis
bride. While he dashed off with
her, his friends stayed behind
to fend off or fight the bride's •
outraged relatives. Such v. ere
the first ushers and best man.
The Bridal Veil evolved nut
of an Oriental custom from cast
ages. It was believed that e 'il
spirits were especially edit/teed'
to women so, as a protec'lon
from the "Evil Eye" women a1 -
ways wore veils. The cust ,m
continued although the feeling
behind it changed into a rale of
modesty and obedience.
The Trousseau can be directly.
traced back, to the barter -price,
purchase -price, and dowry sys-
tems.
Throwing Old Shoes after the
bridal party stems from a cus-
tom among the 'ancient Assyri-
ans and Jews. When a bargain
was made, a man gave his sandal
as an indication of good faith.
A shoe was the symbol of
authority. When the Anglo-Sax-
ons hurled a shoe, it indicated
that authority had been trans
(erred. Some authorities believe
that the throwing of a shoe can
be traced to the missiles which
the bride's father hurled at the
robber caveman.
Happy Surprise For
Ocean Voyager
Mrs. Elsie D. Cox of Mahatta,
Vancouver Island, has never for-
gotten the day in 1929 when she
sailed from Southampton, Eng-
land, to live in British Columbia.
Nor is Mrs. Cox likely to for-
get the recent day when .she
arrived in Southampton on her
first visit to,England since leav-
ing there 32 years ago.
When Mrs. Cox sailed from
Southampton in 192,9 she clasped
a bouquet of red roses that her
family had given her as the last
goodbyes were said.
Then early this year, Mrs. Cox,
whose husband died in 1959, de-
cided it was time to visit Eng-
land.
Before she left Mahatta for
Montreal and hte ocean crossing
in the liner Saxonia, Mrs. Cox
bought a bouquet of red plastic
roses.
"For sentimental reasons!" she
confided to her long-time friend,
Mrs, Louise Haugland of Mahat-
ta River.
Then, unknown to Mrs, Cox,
Mrs. Haugland arranged with
the Cunard Line to have a bou-
quet of fresh, red roses presented
to her friend aboard the Saxonia.
as the liner berthed in South-
ampton on June 9.
Cunard carried out Mrs, Haug -
land's instructions and • as Mrs
Cox prepared to go ashore, a
ship's official presented the sur-
prised and delighted Mrs. Coat
with a dozen red roses, Attached
was a card bearing good wishes
from Mrs. Coat's friends in
Mahatta,
As a finishing touch to the
happy occasion, press photogra-
phers, a television remera craw
and a reporter from one of Bri-
tain's national w^"ten's maga.
tines intervice ed livid a. COX.
A Grand Occasion
For The Ke11ys
The mists, foamed around
Croagh Pabrick — the holy
mountain Where Saint Patrick
himself liad prayed and fasted
for 40 days and nights — on
the day that young John Kelly
left the sold sod. He was 20 then,
a ruddy -faced lad with a cloth
cap and a battered- Brunk. Vier
the last time, he looked at the
stone -floored cottage where he
had been reared, Then he trudg-
ed an to the village alt West --
p
est -p o r t,- scarcely hearing the
scream of, gulls as they swept in
off Clew Bay. Lilce many an-
other lad, John Kelly was leav-
. ing for America, and there
were dreams in his eyes.
In the course of tyro genera-
tions, John Kelly's ten children
and their children made those
Irish dreams come true, This
month Ireland got its first took
at the most famous of all John
Kelly's descendants — a grand-
daughter, Her Serene Highness
Princess Grace of Monaco, re-
turning to Ireland with her
Prince and throwing the 50,000
Kellys into an uproar.
Outnumbered only by the
Murphys, but now twice as
noisy, the Kellys fumed over
a strike by theater employees,
whi.cth would prevent ex -actress
Grace from seeing Dublin's plush
Theater Royal, There was con-
cern too over how President
Eamon De Valera and other dig-
nitaries might comport them-
selves in welcoming a royal
chief of state for the first time
since the Irish republic was esta-
blished.
Down in the late Jahn Kelly's
native County Mayo, in prepar-
ation for an informal visit by
Princess Grace, her husband
Prince Rainier, and their two
children, Albert and Caroline,
the cottages were getting' fresh
coats of whitewash, The Kelly
clan prepared a welcome in the
presbytery of the Westport Ca-
tholic Church, but this brought
up the problem of who would
shake the royal hand and mono-
polize the royal ear. "If she
shakes hands with every Kelly
around here," one villager ob-
served, "she won't get away for
two years."
The key to these problems was
held by one of the Princess' se-
cond cousins, who possesses the
only extant record of the Kelly
family tree. According to her,
there are only ten bona fide
second cousins of Grace's in all
the county, and they would get
special treatment, "no matter if
there are people who think they
can't be left out of things."
At the thatch -roof cottage
where John Kelly once lived,
there waited a new owner, an
apple-cheeked widow who wears
gingham gowns and hobnailed
boots. "I'll have a plain tea a -n
my own soda bread and ealces
before the hearth," size said. She
also had prepared a welcoming
verse:
She comes to Ireland for her
grandfather's sake.
And to visit lois gottage down
by the lake,
The widow was sure that the
Princess would call 00 her be-
cause a gypsy told her years
ago: "A beautiful woman will
visit you from Europe, and her
all dripping with diamonds," -
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