HomeMy WebLinkAboutThe Seaforth News, 1960-03-03, Page 2Husband Trouble
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„You've got to stop at home
sometimes, Harry," sobbed the
lovely young wife. "It's unfair
--- your going out every night,
dancing, You know I can't have
Any fun as I ans."
But Harry, although twenty-
three -year-old Margaret, was ex-
pecting her first baby, refused to
stay at home, "I can't tn000h
about here, doing nothing the
whole evening, or just sit staring
at you," he exclaimed, irritably.'
Margaret rushed out of the
room, One row followed an-
other, Because of her husband's
neglect and selfishness, she
feared she 'would soon become a
nervous wreck unless she took
some action. At last, after much
eogitation, she decided what she
must do, ,.
One autumn evening Harry
Went to his. wardrobe to put on
his dinner jacket. It hung on the
peg alone, all his other clothes
having been r e me v e d. He
grasped it, and then drew back
in dismay, for his hands clutched
a sticky, black, glutinous mess,
Margaret had smeared the whole
jacket with TAR.
Rushing downstairs, he de-
manded to know what she meant•
by such a horrible trick,
"I'll clean it for you," she said,
calmly, "after the baby arrives
and we can go dancing together."
Harry's fists clenched. For a mo_
ment it looked as if he was going
to hit her, but he controlled him-
self.
"Oh well," he said, "I suppose
girls do strange things when
they're in your condition." And,
remarkable to record, after that
act of self-control, Harry put
aside his passion for dancing.
By the time the baby arrived,
he was a reformed character. To-
day, his wife is firmly convinced
that her tarring act not only
saved her marriage, but turned
he dance -crazy husband into a
model father.
Not all varieties of husband -
trouble end so happily. In fact
the pendulum, as many couples
realize to their dismay, tends
more often to swing sharply the
other way, to widen the breach.
Some husbands -really do ask
for trouble. A Scot from Oban,
Who migrated to a small market
town in south Essex, built up a
thriving drapery business. A
stickler for accounts, he made his
wife keep a strict tally of her
housekeeping money.
In fact, she had to present him
with her books weekly showing
exactly how every penny went.
At first, sharing his ideas of
economy, she conformed without
protest to this practice. But soon
she realized it was a kind of ob-
session with him.
One week -end, when he called
for her housekeeping book, she
brought him instead a grey fu-
neral urn. "What's that for?" he
demanded, much puzzled. "I
want to check your expense book,
dear."
"You've got it, right in front
of you," she retorted. "Just look
inside, and you'll discover its
ashes."
IIe removed the lid and
launched into a stream of abuse,
but she interrupted him. Grasp-
ing the urn, she emptied it over
his head so that the ashes trickl-
ed all over his face.
"How funny you look, decor-
ated like that!" she burst out,
hysterically. "P e r h a p s that'll
help you to forget that stupid
idea of yours of aceounting for
every little farthing!"
.A Texas husband, Jakub Fried-
mann, had to seek police protec-
tion recently from his wife,
"She's determined to' roast me
alive by setting tire to my bed,"
he reported, Three times she had
shoved a fire basket under his
bed, so that he had woken up
wreathed in flames, his bed-
clothes blazing.
The police found that the fire -
raising was prompted by jeala
ouay, and based on quite ill-
founded suspicions. Friedmann
had engaged anew secretary,•a
pretty and efficient blonde of
twenty-four, His wife, however,
seemed to think that her hus-
band was in love `with- the girl.
In this ease, desperate meas-
ures paid off, for the couple were
reconciled.
A German wife, Hildegarde K.
married to an Essen book-
keeper, used her skill as a pho-
tographer to punish him for his
infidelities. She managed to snap
secretly the girl in whom he was
interested, then she paired this
photograph with that of an el-
derly millionaire and posted the
combined picture to her husband.
"When you've as much money
as he has, you may take her,"
said the anonymous message.
Her husband, however, forced
her to confess. Then, as each ac-
cused the other of deception,
their house became a battlefield,
the husband tearing down and
smashing the pictures, the wife
picking up porcelain and china
and hurling them at her disloyal
partner. Such was the fracas
that neighbours had to intervene
and keep the two home -wreckers
apart.
An accountant living in Sussex
had a greenhouse, in which he
specialized in growing figs, But
his wife, he discovered within the
first few weeks of their mar-
riage, detested figs and frowned
on his greenhouse hobby.
"I'm not going to give it up,"
he told her, but he has since
done so. She did not wreck the
greenhouse; her method was far
more subtle. She poisoned the
soil and as fast as he introduced
fresh soil and plants, so she ap-
plied her secret killing does.
Finally, he had to give it up as
obviously nothing would grow
inside, Now, however, the green-
house has been converted into a
sun parlour, and everyone is
happy. • .
Some husbands run into
trouble when least expecting it.
A man who married a divorcee
took his bride to a seaside villa,
But as he unlocked the front.
door, a figure lurched out of the
shadows, the wife's ex-husband.
"You've stolen my wife," he
raved, roaring drunk, "You're
not going to get away with this!"
Caught completely off guard,
the bridegroom went down un-
der a terrific uppercut.
Shacked and frightened, the
wife ran screaming down the
path, with her ex-husband in hot
pursuit.
"I always knew you were a
brute, Charlie, and now this.
proves it," she shrilled, as he
caught up with her. Seizing her,
he tried to kiss her but luckily a
passer-by intervened.
As it happened, the newlyweds
spent their honeymoon first night
under the same roof. But the
battered bridegroom, his head
swathed in bandages, was so ner-
vous that he"1Beked himself in a
separate room and refused to
come out until satisfied that his
rival had left. town,
SWEET BIRD — Jody Youngblood loves Adam Ulysses 111 dearly.
Shecarries the 9 -month -cid falcon on her shoulder ail day long
Tn her Fort Worth, Tex., restaurant. Once Jody loaned lovable
Adam to the city zoo where he promptly tore into aviary cell-
males, Ncw he's back with Jody and all is sweetness.
REAL ARTSY TABLE — ,Guests who drop in unexpectedly may find this table doing likewise.
This dining room table is designed to fit against the wall when not in use — w'here it looks like
a framed painting of grasses and butterflies, Tiltedforward, it can squeeze in five.
TABLE TAJ.IKS
dam Aru�!c� yews.
Here, for a change from the
usual batch of recipes, is the
tale of a woman who decided to
try home-made bread, It was
written by Mrs. Gail Edith John-'
son in the Christian Science
Monitor and I hope you enjoy it
as -much as I did. '
* • *'
I looked suspiciaasly at the
recipe. "Why, oh, why," I moan-
ed, "did I have to marry a man
who loved homemade bread !"
But I had, and he did. He was
"sick and tired," he had said,
"of mouthing bought bread that
tasted like glue and sawdust !"
Resignedly I started in. "Dis-
solve two packages of yeast in
one-half cup of warm water,"
the recipe read. I filled a mea-
suring cup half full of hot tap
water and added the yeast. Then
I stirred in exaot amounts of
everything else and kneaded the
sticky mess as ordered for 10
minutes, eyes riveted on the
clock.
Finally, I "rounded" it up in
a greased bowl, covering it with
a damp dish towel. The recipe
called for a warm place for the
dough to raise, so I set it 'on top
of my oil stove.
When I peeked under the cloth
• later the dough looked like -the
same white blob I had started
with. I checked it two, two and
a half, three hours later. It still
hadn't risen. I decided I'd better
punch it down anyway.
An hour later that punched-
down look was still there. I
didn't• have the faintest nation
what was wrong, but I decided
to bake it and see what hap-
pened.
r
Somewhat Sticky
I dumped the gooey mass onto
my floured board to shape
loaves. It came out of the bowl
with difficulty, as heat from the
ail stove had baked an inch -
thick crust on the bottom.
Daunted, but still game, 1 fin-
gered the crust into the dough
and shaped "loaves." These I
baked at 425 degrees F. for 25
minutes. Baking couldn't do
them any harm, I thought inno-
cently. Being unfamiliar with
my oven, 1 neglected to move
the dial from preheat to bake
Removing t h e "loaves" from
the oven was like taking bricks
. from a kiln, They reaenibled
bricks in size and colour and
weighed as much. I turned them
out of the pans and decided to
try a slice. Laboriously I cut
through the leathery cruet and
into the musty smelling bread.
Xt was mushy gray and tasted
that way.
The first thing my husband
noticed when he arrived home
was my pathetic attempt at pre-
paring the teff of life.
He pecked -me on the nose,
sniffed, a n d asked, puzzled,
"What's that funny smell ?"
'Nothing To Hide'
"Oh, nothing, clear nothing," I
said, hastily backing in front of
the loaves. I grabbed a towel and
covered the evidence,
"What are you hiding?" he
asked coyly, reaching 'for the
towel, "Ah, my little wifey has
baking bread 1" hefted a
,loaf and it accidentally fell to
the. floor, making a very ttn-
breadlike thud, He picked' it up,
leaned against a chair,' and just
'laughed and laughed) '
"This — this —" he choked,
weakly, "ie the craziest bread
I've ever seen. Just like honest -
to -goodness brick!"
ISSUE a — 1960
He stopped suddenly when he
saw the tears rolling down my
'cheeks. "Oh, honey," he said,
"I'm sorry. I didn't mean to
hurt your feelings.. Don't get dis-
c;curaged. I'll bet, if y o u try
again your bread'll come out
right !" * - *
I tried, and — oh, well, prac-
tice does make perfect. Little
things done just right ran make
a difference, 'For instance: HOT
water killed my yeast and caused
the musty bricklike bread. The
water must be lukewarm.
Another thing: Direct heat
will 'form a crust on dough; a
high shelf or chair near a'warm
air register is muoh better. And
still another: Punching down
then shaping loaves properly
gives a fine texture, preventing
a Swiss cheese effect from air
bubbles. Many sessions later I
had concocted a whole new re-
cipe,
Here it is: Fine -every -time
bread—For two loaves: Dissolve
1 package of dry yeast and 1
'teaspoon sugar in 1/s cup luke-
warm water. Let stand •10 min-
utes.
To 1 cup milk add: I cup hot
water, 3 tablespoons sugar, 1
tablespoon s a 1 t, and 2 table-
spoons shortening.
When mixture is cool to luke-
warm, add yeast mixture and Ya
teaspoon cardamon. Then add
sifted . flour gradually, until
dough can be handled. (No nead
to measure.)
* * *
Knead about 10 minutes or un-
til dough is smooth and. elastic,
but only slightly sticky. Round
up in greased bowl; bring greas-
ed side up. Cover and let rise
until double in bulk. Punch
down and let rise again. Shape
-into two loaves, put in greased
pans, and let rise until double.,
Bake at 425 degrees F. for 25
minutes. Turn out on wire racks,
Cool, then freeze or store in
plastic hags.
5 a
One last warning: Put the
bread to rise in plain • view.
Once 2 nestled my bowl high
on a closet she1L •and went gaily
about my housework, pleased
with myself far having found
suoh a nice warm 'spot. Hours
later I flew to the shelf with
palpitating heart. It was a mess!
The blown -up dough had escap-
ed the bowl and was 'stretching
sticky tentacles 'into my best
blankets and sheets 1
THE PROBLEM
Most of Its have a pretty clear
idea of the world we want.
What we lack is an understand-
ing of l.ow to go about getting
it.—Hugh Gib'nn,
FLORAL — Straw-and.shantunp
beach hat is One of the Italian
imports you may be seeing next
summer.
Does Money
Bring Happiness?
The question is hardly original
but the row it has provoked in
the obscure Italian village of San
Marco .d'Urri was surely unpre-
cedented.
The money arrived last No-
vember when every man, wo-
man, and child in San Marco was
presented with 25 shares of Bank
of America stock worth $1,200
and paying $47 a year in divi-
dends, "Maraviglioso!" the vil-
lagers cried when bankers, TV
cameramen, and news photogra-
phers arrived from Genoa and
slogged the last half mile into
town on a, muddy mule path. The
church bell tolfed and there was
lofty praise for the two' brothers,
Victor and Joseph Saturno, who
had sent the money from Ame-
rica.' Rich and childless real-
estate operators in Reno, Nev.,
they had wanted to create a me-
morial to their father, Leopold,
who had spent his youth in San
Marco. "Che generosita" the vil-
lagers agreed.
Everyone, that is, except the
terrible -tempered widow Vir-
ginia Cassinelli, 62„ who, in an
age of payola, refused to sign `ttlp
for her share, Claiming it wa
the work of the devil and hurling
lurid curses, the widow t'0rce4
her son, Mario 66, and her daugh
ter, Gentile, 03, to'g,vc up thein
shares, too. The village, she ar-
gued, was going to the dogs, pre-
cipitevolissimovoimente.
When the villagers starte4
squabbling over their neVtr
wealth,. it seemed the widow
might be right. Youths swagger*
ed around in fancy new trench
coats and the silence of the' once -
peaceful countryside was ruined
by the roar of scooter , bikes.
worse still, a feud developed ovek
what sort of "thank you" gesture
San Marco should make.
On proposal was to change the
name of the village to Saturn*
(that wouldn't cost anything, bun
Was finally discarded as too nig-
gardly). Then a• statue was pro-
posed but rejected on the grounel
that San Marco has no piazza 64
put it in. Finally, the 220 inhabit-
ants of the upper part of- the vil-
lage decided to build a church in
honor of the Saturnos, This
would save them walking half a
mile to the church in the lower
part of the town, But the 64 resi-
dents of lower San Marco object-
ed. They preferred a bust of
Papa Leopoldo in front of the
present church,
"You want'the church and. the
statue, too," complained upper
San Marco,
"Well, .you've got the wine -
shop and the television .— you
can't have everything," shouted
back lower San Marco.
Then a small boy got a bright
idea. Why not a statue of Leopol-
do, halfway between the upper
and lower levels of the village?
"Magnifico," the villagers
agreed, and for a while it seemed
that even the widow Cassinelli
would approve. 'First she sent
son Mario out to claim his share.
Next. she. sent 'daughter Gentile.
But Gentile was trapped in a
sudden 6 -foot fall of snow and
barely made it back te'.the wid-
ow's 'one -room shack. it .was a
warning sign to the widow. "The
devil's behind this," she wailed
last month. "We'll pay for all thin•
gold in some terrible way. Just
you wait and see."
-From NEWSWEEK
"I am afraid, doctor," said Mrs,
Wimpole, "that my husband has
some terrible mental affliction.
Sometimes I talk to, him for
hours and then discover that h.
hasn't heard a word."
"That's not an affliction,.
madam," was the weary reply.
"That's a gift."
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