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HomeMy WebLinkAboutThe Seaforth News, 1952-11-27, Page 6HIRST How much does a daughter owe her mother? eMy life, grad all my earnings?" Her parent dominates the girl so completely that her longing for privacy has become an obsession. "Ever since college, Anne First," she writes, "I have worked ver y hard and prac- tically all I've earred has been given at home for household ex- penses and new furniture. Today I have no money and nothing to call my own—and this actu- ally includes such personal things as wearing apparel, luggage, even toilet articles. My mother Transfer Designs In Three Colors tn./ reavtIR 't' Y 'ez gt, Irnagine the beau t; of these sunny yellow and sparkling red tulips set off with deep green leaves! Think ut the exciting, new color scheme you can en- joy at the stroke of an iron' No embroidery: Washable! Iron on linens, aprons, cur- tains: Pattern 857 has 18 motifs from 2 x 3 inches to 41/2 x 51y inches. Send TWENTY - F5VI CENTS in coins {stamps cannot be ac- cepted) for this pattern to Box 1, 733 Eighteenth St., New Toronto, Ont. Print plainly PATTERN NUMBER. ',-put NAME and AD- DRESS. Such a co101*lul roundup of. handiwork idea.' Send twenty- five cents now for Our Laura Wheeler Needlecraft C a t a 1 o i:. Choose your patterns from one a 1 1 y illustrated toy., ...lulls. household and personal acres- orics. A- pattern for a handl-mg is printed rittht in the bock. has even taker a position with the company I work fere "Every time I have planned to start out on my own, she 'pre- pares to conte along. Recently I was offered work in another pro- vince; as usual. Mother has plans to follow. me there, she expect pre to ship her furniture, and start the same heckling life anew. "I Am An Adult." • iMy mother is a young, attrac- tive widow in good health, with possibilities of marrying again, I know that as soon as she proves where I'll go, she will aim!): em- ployment with me, and my headaches will be as hard as they've been for the past 1P. months. .'Must 1 forever be tied to her apron -strings?- How can I make her see that I am an adult, and long for privacy and the chance to be on my own? .Must I dedi- cate the remaining years of my life to her :;reedy and selfish ways?" - Thie girl's resentment against her mother has grown so over- whelming that she cannot view her domination for what it is —the habit of years. Born of love for her only child, the mother has allowed ✓ it to absorb her every thought y and plan. .bereft of her hus- band, she has become so de- pendent that, frankly, site has no life, apart from her daugh- ter's,. Instead of keeping up with her contemporaries and creating an existence of her own, she is living her daugh- ters life for her, and !o;•ing .every minute of it. IIow the girl can escape ton: it without hurting her parent cruelly is the problem. I ander- stand how she yearns to eteike out on her own. to be herself as she cannot be now, make her own friends and her own decisions, and enjoy the spin:- o tual independence she has • wanted since the's been grown. It she does not make the • break soon. her courage will ' tail her and She will be sem- nutted for the rest of her life. I doubt that even if her mother • rentarries would she willingly * consent to the girl's tearing • her the mbar a v:ui•k in another province presents an unaxye•:t- " ed opportunity. If she is t2- termined to take it, she will ' announce the decision as ;ent- "' ly as she can, and stick s;. it • against all tearful plea.;. TO "DISGUSTED": It is re- grettable that your mother has intruded on your personal life and stripped you o'. that pride we all seek in our belongings, our inclinations and our habits, Her insistence in working with . you trust have been the last straw. {Was it neceswary that she. Lind a position?, It you decide to leane v m1 aloof:, why not say it is f:>r 9 yeah's trial? That will sollt:en the shock. and give her eomethiog to loek forward to. i)romise ;t'lil wriI" 011111, SEW k'?') geese fiRONICCES %NERFARM SY Ci'entedoltrae D Clarke Two: weeks ago, because of the cows, there was iso time for any- thing but work. Last week;in- sofar as I was concerned, there woke so many places to go and so many things to do that hard- ly any time at all was left for ordinary, everyday work. One of these jobs was a business trip to the eity—and I'll bet one lit tie clog is glad that I went. It was this way. 1 was waiting to cross the road at Albert and Yongo and to my dismay I no, bred a little dog weaving its way in and out among the ears, sometimes right under them, sometimes running in front, first this way and then that. Quite obviously it was Lost and bewil- dered. 1 crossed over but still kept an eye on the dog,expect- ing every minute would be its last. There was a lull in the traffic; the little pooch ran ac- ross to the sidewalk and into Eaton's following someone through the door There it stay- ed watching mournfully from be- hind the glass doors. No one even looked at it. For the life of ole i couldn't go on my way not knowing what would happen to the dog, So I crossed the road again, went into Eaton's and stooped down to comfort the poor little frightened creature. It appeared to be about four months old and of the police dog variety — without a collar. It was trembling with fear. I pick- ed it up in my arms; crossed the road again and into the city Hall, hoping they would take it in. The man et the information desk was most sympathetic and eo-operative. He took the wee pup and put it behind the desk enclosure, "Guess it must have followed someone down town," he said, "It will be all right there—more than likely some- one will phone up about a lost dog," So that was that, There was no more 1 could do. I came away from the City Hall and again thoughtfully watched the traffic SALLY'S SALLIES "This is getting monotonous Let's go in end have some fun!" touch. Explain that for your own sake you must make the break, and that you depend on her to understand your need. She may surprise you, at that. Personally I think a year spent apart will be the best thing that can happen to you both. What- ever you decide, there must be some regrets so stiffen yourself to expect them. ' To strike out on one's own is a need that most young people feel. Its influence on others' lives must be weighed thoughtfully - Anne Hirst's understanding of the difficulties involved can aid you in your decision. Write her at Pox 1, 123 Eighteenth St., New Toronto, Ont. S ngin' In The Roin—Luckiest man in the Army, in the opinion of h's fellow soldiers, is Pvt. John Colbert, Pvt, Colbert was chosen during a drizzling rain to hold the umbrella over pretty USA accordionist Terry Rilio while she played and sang for the pleas- ure of members of the 51st Sig- nal Battalion in Korea. Not only did he get to sit next to the lovely entertainer but he kept dry too. for a few minutes. Everybody hurrying --:n cars or on foot. Did people have to be so rushed —and had city folk no heart at all? Among the crowd that I had seen was it possible that no one could spare a minute for a little pup; no one made any ef- fort to ensure that it was at least in a safe place? After all the little dog was not only in danger itself but was also a menace to the travelling public. The rest of my day in the city was busy but uneventful—and I came home without doing any shopping at all—except for some Christmas cards. Can you be- lieve it? But I spent sixty cents on telephone calls—the increased toll makes a difference if one has quite a bit of phoning to do. - Thui'sday I was t•isiting an out-of-town branch of the W.I. And there was no dearth of kindness there. Only a small membership but what those women do for their community! One finds the sante thing in so many districts—where "the faith- ful few" must surely be work- ing overtime. • I am afraid our branch will think I don't belong in that category any more. We were having an auction and euchre one night last week. I sent stuff down for the sale but did not show up myself, Late nights and I don't agree any more -especially since the nights get later and later al! the time. Time was when a program would start at eight and one could be home at midnight. But not any more. Ten --or ten-thirty—and folks are just beginning to ar- rive, many of them quite con- tent to stay until three o'clock in the morning. How they keep awake is a marvel to nie. Seems to mc one did, and still could, have just as good a titne from eight until twelve — and with less strain on • the nervous sys- tem, Some people grumble about the late hours but does anyone do anything about it? How can parents complain about the hours young folk keep if Mum and Dad do the same things? Actually, 1 believe country font are worse than their city cousins in the hours they keep Maybe, some- day, the pendulum will swing back. Here's hoping. Pastel Sheets and Biankete Add Color Gave New Look to Bedrooms BY EDNA MILES D11ESSINt up your bedroom these days 11:1:1111'1 nl •811 a A-, tremendous outlay of money. You Cali R Liat)1 your old pieces al furniture and refinish theta il' you Tike. 'Then, 'complete the ,lob with new sheets in pastel colors, new blankets in gay carousel. ;tripes, new drapes 11sed perhaps sonic gay throw pillows. Not only can you 110.0 your sheets and pilloweases in pastels suited to your particular color scheme, you eau also have the handy' fitted sheets that prevent uulucking at the toot. '!'here is one Heat's designed either for top) or 1/011001 use. it hangs on the siclesantl is straight at the top. This 18 available in pastel slrndes of pink, blue, yellow or .grecn n5 "cIl as while, BLANKETS CONE IN STRIPES As for blankets, they're no longer just a ...mild color. They're vivid with stripes now. in sofl shades of blue, green, pink or spice with white, hound on all four sideIl in snatch- ing satin ribbon. these blallkcls 1117 pretty curt,, b to use in platy of. a spread. if you like. Shbuld you gabs Ittalchitlp; amines, al tiny eXpense, past buy regulation doubie sheets 1,1 matching p)aslel,c. Lise let¢• wide lieto as the bottom drupe hem and stitch a top Imo, yourself. Al !Mese prices, you can afford a triple width This new fitted Lop sheet in pastel siladee of pick, blue, eellow or green prevents antucktng at the foot, Bottom ooahrers are mitered If/ give a snug fit while allowing Iota of foot room through extra length. et can be used for top or bottom. And splitting of hope _ W' are still hoping, but without much sign of those hopes being fulfill- ed—of a real good soaking rain. We have hada few showers but not enough to do any good to speak cf. We are terribly afraid freeze-up may come without rain and then we shall be shorn of water all whiter. We.,,lecole l'isi- tors here. from Ottawaieelsts let e ; Thcy'said if only theycould have brought the Rideau Canal along with them! V'ell, who kt1owe? A pipeline carries oil for hundreds of miles, why not water? Parte. nee has said for years that in- land places that are shy of water should have a pipeline system coming in from Lake Ontario. Like the St. Lawrence seaway, it would cost millions of dollars but in the end it might save more than it would cost An adequate water supply is necessary to both farming and Industry. How Can 1? By Roberta Lee • Q. How can 1 reprove dents that have been accidentally put into wood with which ane Is working? A. Place a dampened cloth or blotter over the dent and steam with a clot iron. The steam has the effect of releasing the pressure on the bent wood fibers, and they come back into place. The work is then finished by sanding lightly over the spot with a fine grade of sandpaper. Q. How can I make cold cream? A. By mixing 2 tablespoons of oatmeal, ?e -tablespoon paw- dered borax, 1e -pint rosewater. Allow this to stand for two or three days, then strain, and add 1 -ounce of alcohol. Q. How can I make it easy to find the electric light switch at night? A. Touch the electric light buttons with a luminous paint, and they will easily be seen in the darkness. Q. How can I make a good steel and nickel polish? A. By mixing one tablespoon of turpentine, 1 tablespoonful sweet oil, and enough emery powder to give the constituency of cream. Apply with a soft rag, then wipe off, and polish with a dry flannel cloth. Q. How can 1 keep the earth around house plants sweet? A. The plants cannot thrive if the earth isn't kept sweet; this can be done by working some coffee frounds into the earth frequently Q. flow can 1 remove the odor of fresh paint? A. Put a few slices of onion in a pail or basin of cold water and leave it in the newly painted room for a few hours, closing the room tightly. Q. How can 1 remove a tight glass stopper from a bottle? A. To remove a tight glass stopper, wrap around the neck of the bottle a cloth which has been wrung out of hot water. Or, soak the neck of the bottle in vinegar for a while; work it gently and it will soon loosen. Q. What is the best method of mending a glove? A. It is a good' idea to slip a thimble over the finger and pull the glove over the hand when mending it. The thimble acts as a darning ball and prevents sticking the finger and also get- ting the glove out of shape. Q. How eau I clean leather goods? A. By using a strong ammon- ia water. Rub the leather until it is clean, and then dry with a soft cloth. Q. Flow can I remd've creases In curtains that have been fold- ed and stored away? A. When putting laundered curtains away in a drawer, fold them so that the top and bottom are together. If folded this way, the creases will work out when hung, but if folded lengthwise, there will be no weight to bring out the ereascs. 'foo PROMP'i, A farmer was making one of his infrequent visits to a mov- ing -picture show. The slapstick comedy showed a group of shapely maidens coyly undress- ing beside a pond. Just as things reached, an interesting point, a railroad train obscurred the view. When it had passed, the girls were already splashing about in the lake. The farmer remained rooted in his seat for four continuous showings. Finally an usher in- quired, "Are you here for the winter, Pop?" The farmer ans- wered, "I'm going to stay here till that train is n couple min- utes late!" OBEYED ORDERS The blacksmith placed •r horseshoe on the anvil and said to his assistant, "When I rind my head, you hit it" The funeral will be this afternoon et 3 o'clock. EASY? 1.2-3, and yot have her new school wardrobe alt finished and ready to put one Jacket, blou.e, jumper — 1-2-:3 parts to mix and match a dozen different ways for Monday to Friday. Make all three in cot, duray or cotton! Pattern R4621; Child's Sizes 2, 4, 6, 11, 10. Size 6 jacket, 11/2 yards 35 -inch nap; jumper Sys yards; blouse. 1 yard 35 -inch. This pattern easy to use, sim- ple to sew, is tested for fit. This complete illustrated instructions. Send THIRTY-FIVE CENTS (35e) in coins (stamps cannot be accepted) for this pattern. Print plainly SIZE, NAME, AD- DRESS, STYLE NUMBER. Send order to Box I, 123 Eighteenth St., N e w Toronto, Ont. Now! A Pleasant Tasting Cough Syrup For Children PINJIX—a familiar remedy for generations of Canadians—goes to work fast to relieve that distretat- ing cough. So pleasant tasting that children like it. Pinex gives nuick, effective relief, Now you can choose either the new ready -to -take PREPARED- PINEX or the money -saving easily mixed PINEX CONCENTRATE, In both forms, PINEX' special blend of proven medicinal ingre- dients must help yon, or youe money back. Why let your children suti'et• with a distressing cough?—get rs bottle of fast acting, pleasant taste ing, PINEY, today! PINEX FOR CHILDREN'S COUGHS And fete RELIEF IS LASTING For fast relief from headache get INSTANTINE, For real relief get INsTANrINE. 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