HomeMy WebLinkAboutThe Seaforth News, 1954-05-06, Page 6"Dear- Anne Hirst: I am out•
raged by my husband's treatment
of our daughter. She is 19, and
cares for a young man whose
eltaraeter anti habits are above
reproach ---
"But her father will not 'let
him in the house! . .. Our daugh-
ter is pretty, quiet, and has al-
ways been responsible. She has
a good position, and is socially
popular. But she never cared
for any boy but this one.
"My husband gives no reason
for his behavior, but he is in-
- ereasingiy eoncerned about her.
Whenever she is out of the house
he seems uneasy, asking where
she is and when she's coming
home, • She is, I fear, more pa-
tient than I am; she never talks
back.
WILL OF HER OWN
"She has told me definitely,
though, that she will not give up
this boy, and if she can't enter-
tain him at home she will meet
him elsewhere. I cannot blame
her.
"Her father and 1 were mar-
ried young (I am only 39) and
we have always been close to
each other. I know he thinks
the world of our daughter, but
he is surely driving her away
front him . , Can you help me?
Lute, Wk
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" So many tatters are really
devoted to their daughters,
" -but they are se jealous that
* they cannot bear . the thought
" of her taking any mart serious-
o ly, They want all her affect-
" tion, and often go to stupid
" extremes to hold It. The girl
" loves this lad, se he comes
* under the ban. Perhaps this
* feeling is responsible for her
* father's decision,
He must expect, though, that
'' some day she will marry; thea
he can be consoled by the
knowledge that he has been a
"' good father to her. But what
*. will she think of him as a par-
• enl if he denies her now? If
she is forced to meet the bay
* outside, or if the two should
" elope, how shocked her father
" will be! Yet it is be who will
„ be to blame. Parents should
* expect, and encourage, love
"' and marriage. Your husband
r married the girl he loved; how
" can he justify snatching the
* same right from his daughter?
" I£ your husband is close to
" his minister, or trusts the opin-
* ion of ane of his married
° friends, perhaps their opinion
* would open -his eyes to his in-
* justice. If the young man is
" all you think, her father should
" be eternally grateful that the
* two are in love and planning
the future together.
Your girl is young enough
• to wait a while. Cheer her on
" with hope. Ask her to be pa-
" tient until this father of hers,
now so distraught by the idea
* of her belonging to anyone
* else, comes to his senses. If he
" doesn't (and soon) he is only
" destroying himself. He will
* lose his daughter's love and re-
spect, if he hasn't already, and
" the rift between them could
°' last for years—
"' While he is rational now, she
o will feel a gratitude that will
* repay him a hundredfold,
"' (Perhaps you can leave this
" page where he can find it to-
• day).
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children will live their own
lives soon, and provides against
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to each other. Write her at Box
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Don't Fool Around
With Angry Bees
Bees aren't only a source '03
honey. They're the source of a
good deal of wasted tine injury,
and even loss of life.
Last year at a farm on the
Kent -Sussex border they stop. -
ped the use of a tractor for two
days, A swarm had settled be.
tween the starting -handle and
the engine, and the driver was
afraid to disturb them.
Even one bee can cause a lot
of damage. One flew into the
driver's cabin of a trolley -bus
bound for Hammersmith, Lon-
don, and the bus crashed into
the parapet of the railway
bridge. Another of these insects
flew into the open mouth of an
Italian picnicker, stung his
throat, and killed him.
But a swarm that fifes amock
can he really terrifying. Once
when Queen Victoria was tra- I
veiling by sail to Balmoral the t
Get Me Out Of lIore -- Ot'e, eloin to see that this young lady is
unimpressed with the ride her grandfather, John W. Hedberg,
Is giving her. Years ago he told his daughters he would give
their children a ride in the antique carriage, and he's keeping
his pronri:,z. He won't say how old the buggy is. Seems his wife
rode in it as a baby.
"He reviling" Tale -- While news of the recent H-bomb tests
is sweeping the world, women students of Plymouth Teachers
College are letting the results go to their heads, In photo above,
Barbara Primer, standing, adds the finishing touches to the
• mushroom effect sported by Patsy Heath, •
driver saw that the signal ahead
was completely obscured. He
Stopped the train and found that
the light was covered by bees.
Another swarm wrecked a
train and caused the bee -keeper
to be taken to a lunatic assyiuun,
A Hungarian was taking some
bees by rail to Budapest. They
escaped from the milk bottles in
which he was carrying them
and crawled up his trousers. He
shOok these out of the window,
and they swathed themselves
round the neck of the ticket -
collector on a passing train,
So badly stung was the bee-
keeper that someone pulled the
communication -cord, the train's
brakes burned out, and a three-
hour stop for repairs was neces-
sary. Finally, so weird were the
man's antics that two attend-
ants forced hirer into a strait-
jacket and took him to the local
asylum.
Once a swarm of bees mass -
attacked the liner Kenya. Most
of the passengers were in the
swimming -pool and were con-
sequently very vulnerable. The
crew fought hack the attack
with fire hoses.
And in 1914 several swarms
held up the British advance in
Tanganyika. Horses and mules
stampeded ,and the troops lay
down for protection,
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ISSUE 19 — 195e
11QPIICLES
It is Easter Sunday. All day
long there has been a strange
haziness in the air and we have
yet to hear the reason for it. It
cannot be fog for there is a
stiff breeze blowing. It can-
not be dust—not after all the
rain we had on Good Friday! It
could be smoke—but why, and
where does it come from? But
still, haze, smoke, or what have
we , it makes no difference—we
can still "Sing the joy of Easter
Day, the Easter triumph tell,"
.Easter is such a wonderful
season. Personally, I like it
better than Christmas. For one
thing it s not so blatantly com-
mercialized. And I always feel
that in spite of the calendar, the
year begins with Easter. No
matter on what date it falls we
always think of events as being
before Easter or after Easter.
First thing this morning I step-
ped outside and to greet the day
I heard an oriole, a robin and a
bobolink, There were also two
double daffodils, near enough to
blooming for me to pick them
for the house. In a sunny win-
dow and with their stems in
warm water they soon began to
open up. Always at Easter we
seem to have the first spring
flowers, the song birds and the
reawakening of dormant grow-
th, and the beautiful Easter
music, The underlying Easter
message is full of promise and
hope --- so different from the
everyday news items in this
fast-moving atomic age. And
yet I don't think the Easter
weekend is observed as much
in Canada as it is in England
where there are many customs
quite airiu•1 from (lie religious
observance.
In the Old eounlr,v Cloud Fri-
day starts with Hot Cross buns
for brcakfnst-.."one It penny, two
a penny, hot cross buns," It is
also the traditional time .for
planting potatoes. In small gar-
dens in every district, providing
the weather is fine, the home
gardener will be hard at it with
his spuds and spade. On Baster
Sunday there would be morning
and evening attendance at church
and in the afternoon a tramp
through the woods in search of
primroses and sweet -scented vio-
lets. The womenfolk liked a new
hat €incl suit for Easter but I
don't remember any actual dress
parade. Easter Monday was (and
I suppose still is) a bank and
business holiday and was given
aver almost entirely to pleasure.
Following hard on the heels of
Lent and the solemnity of Good
Friday, Easier Monday had a
carefree atmosphere all its own,
different from any other holiday
during the year. And 0f course
there were plenty of family
gatherings.
But back to Ginger Farm, We
didn't have any visitors or call-
ers at all on Easter Sunday, Not
even our grandson, For a little
while it will be impossible for
Dee and Arthur to come out as
they have entirely new roomers
right through tate house—which
means Daughter has been very
busy. But her main worry yester-
day when she phoned was that
one of the kittens had been maul-
ed by a big police dog. We did
have one nice wee fellow visit-
ing here on Good Friday, just
old enough for us to realize what
our David will be like a year
from now. Bob and Joy were
here also—and what a day it
was! However, after dinner noth-
ing would do but we must all
pay a visit to a big stone quarry
that has recently been opened
up a fete miles from here. It is
the most up-to-date quarry in
all Ontario. Bob, of course, was
showing us around. Ot least he
was showing his Dad around —
it was pouring with rain so Joy
and I sat in the car most of the
time but even from there we
managed to see plenty of activity,
Bob drove us down to the pit
where a big power -shovel was
loading one truck after another
by dropping great loads of rock
from its maw. Filled to capacity,
the truck would drive off to
dump its load into a huge crush-
er set in a hole 45 feet deep
and 50 feet wide. The amazing
thing about the work at this
quarry is the fact that it is never
touched by human hands. The
rock is drilled by machine, blast-
ed by dynamite, loaded by sho•
vols ori"• to trucks, carried by
conveyor belts to the various
screens' end from there by more
conveyer belts to the stockpiles.
From there, by push-button con-
trol, it reaches the loading plat-
form en route to the purchaser.
Web, it is Easter Monday now.
The sun is still obscured by a
queer haze—but the mystery has
been explained. It is dust, driven
by high winds from north Da-
kota. Now how did it get by the
Customs? Maybe someone will
think up the bright idea that
the dust may be radio -active"
What a world this is , . , for
about two years everyone was
worrying about Flying Saucers,
now the Saucer scare is practi-
cally forgotten and radio-activity-
has
adio-activityhas taken its place. In the mean-
time the grim Reaper takes its
toll on the highways and, unless
we are personally concerned, we
accept it all as a matter of course.
Sleek Greek --This shapely Athe-
nian model proves the Greeks
go in for designing bathing suits
heavily. The boldly printed cot.
ton suit is trimmed with white
and has a matching beach coat.
and 13utier Pinwheel Loa
Mix and sift into a bowl, 3 c. once -sifted pastry flour
(or Zia c. once -sifted all-purpose flour), 5) 3 tsps. Magic
Baking Powder, % tsp. salt. Cut in finely 7 tbs. chilled
shortening. Combine % c. milk and r2 tsp. vanilla.
Make a well in dry ingredients and add liquids; mix
lightly with a fork. Knead for 10 seconds on lightly -
floured board and roll out to ;2' thick rectangle,
3,z" along one side. Cream together 1 tbs. butter or
margarine, 34 c. peanut butter and
c. lightly -packed brown sugar; sprinlde
on rolled -out dough. Beginning at an 8,i/e"
edge, roll dough up like a jelly roll and place
in a greased loaf pan (4A" x 8;2"). Bake
in a hot ovon, 400°, about 45 minutes. Serve
hot, cut in thick slices, or cold, cut in thin
slices, lightly spread with butter or mar-
garine.
Always Dependable
Booms . , . A dynamite charge breaks the log jam and the floating pulpwood crop mc, no 115
journey to the waiting pulp and paper mills. Harvested according to sustained yield manage•
ment plans, some len million cords of pulpwood flow 6ut the woodlands annually io supply
Canada's 150 year old pulp and paper industry.
(Photo by M, t.',IC, Ottawa)
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