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Home My WebLink AboutThe Seaforth News, 1953-11-26, Page 6"SALADA TA BAGS ANN -E HR T "Dear Anne Hirst: I know I am doing wrong, but I can't help myself. I hope you can. I am 20, married five years, and have three children. When I married I thought I was in love with my husband, but that Only lasted a year. He is al- ways telling me how much he loves me, and that he :ouldn't live without me, and he is a de- voted father, "Six months ago I fell le love with my husband's best friend, and he with me.(His wife is a friend of mine, too, and they have a child). , .. I've tried so many times to stop seeing him - once I did, for two weeks, and I was miserable! "I realize that snne day we will be found out, and so many will be hurt. I couldn't bear to hurt my husband! Shall I stay with him for the children, sake? CONFUSED" * Suppose your husbann had * fallen in love with this man's iron -on Designs in Vibrant Colors eminoiess -just trim oft! 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Then * pray now - for courage to * do what you know is right. * The fate of seven people * lies in your hands. * Will you go off the deep * end? Break your husband's * heart? Conspire with this new * lover to betray his wile, per- * haps forsake his •child - be- * cause you are too weak a be- * ing to refuse your physical * desires? Will you bring shame * to your children and scan- -* dal to yourself? * Or will you stay with this • husband who loves you so, * raise you children to be * stranger than you have been, * and find reward in the know- * ledge that you turned to the * right? * I expect you hold precious * the regard of this other man * that loves you. Will you tell * him you can no longer be his * partner in guilt, but must re- * main true to your marriage '" vows? Then indeed will he " see you not as a temptress * who -would disrupt his home, * but as a woman who •ran re- * sist an illicit love and restore * his integrity. "Dear Anne Hirst: My last boy friend is terribly jealous. His best friend does flirt with me, but it's only in fun. (I've decided I like him better, any- how.) But the other night my friend and I quarreled, and I told him we'd better stop dat- ing, He threw an awful scene, and I was so upset. I didn't realize that he cared so much. "What shall I do? Make up with him? ANXIOUS" * Why take this boy back, * when you admit you Hite his " friend better? That indicates * you are not seriously inter- * ested in him, you know * This is your chance to drop * him, and I expect it is really * what you have been waiting * for. Now that you two aren't * seeing each other, perhaps * his friend will ask for a date with you. It is worth hoping " for, anyhow. When you are tempted, re- member that just being good pays best in the end. Anne Hirst's wise counsel has given many a troubled soul strength to go on to peace. Write her at Box 1, 123 Eighteenth St., New Toronto Ont, CATCHES WHOPPER It took fisherman Reg Harrison six hours to land a 1,660 lb. blue pointer shark -the biggest ever hooked from land - along the Natal coast a few weeks ago. The shark fought tenaciously all that time. Mr. Harrison, who weighs only 148 lbs., said he lost count of the number of times the shark went out and was played back. It took two hours to "man- handle" the monster fish on the landing pier. And it needed all the efforts of thirty natives to load the shark on to a lorry. This isn't Tho Place - At a glance, this eight -point deer appears to be just another hunting trophy being carted home by a happy hunter'. But this Is just how Prentice Brown, Jr., found him, The animal, trying to cross the highway in the black of the night, crashed Into, and ruined, the grille of Brown's automobile. Little Shaver - Three-year-old Michael Collingridge still has a long time before the first peachfuzz of manhood makes its ap- pearance, but he figures it's never too early to brush up on his technique. i WNICLES IMAM/VAR?! Geatztecioli.n.e. D Cleeeke WINTER - with all the let- ters in capitals, really caught us napping. Arriving overnight it delivered the goods around here on the morning of Novem- ber the 4th - that's just for the record. Some of our doors and windows were still screen- ed to keep out the flies that had been buzzing around until that day. The cows were in the barnyard at night but the young stock was still out in the fields. It being Saturday there was al- so week -end shopping to do. As we sat at breakfast I decided to go down town before the weath- er got any worse and before too many other shoppers got around. But alas, too many other folk had the same idea. There were plenty of early shoppers. I forgot, when I started, that roads could get slippery but I was soon put wise on that score. The wig -wag was going as I approached the tracks and although I applied the brakes very cautiously I still was unable to keep from skidding. Had I been going fast I hate to think what might have happened, Down town I was actually able to find a convenient park- ing space, where I was very particular - as always - to park at the proper angle When I left my car there was a car on my left but not on the right. After coming out of the first store I visited I found a big car on my right, parked at such an angle that it was impossible for hie to get out. Under nor- mal conditions I might perhaps have made it but in wet snow, with little or no traction, it was impossible. Why drivers are so careless in regard to parking T'll never know - especially when parking space is so limit- ed. That morning there was noth- ing I could do except continue my shopping on foot, carrying parcels against t h e driving snow, and hoping the other car would be gone by the time I was through. It wasn't. I had to get two men to push, shove or lift the rear end of my car as 1 backed gently out. A lot of unnecessary work and worry because one motorist was incon- siderate. While I was in town having my troubles Partner was at home having his own sweet time. There were yearlings in one pasture, heifers in another, all had to be brought into the steel - These days most peep e work under pressure, worry more, s eep less. Thio strain on body and brain makes physical fitness easier to lose -harder to regain, Today's tense living, lowered resistance, overwork, worry -any el these may affect normal kidney action. When kidneys got out of order, **Coes acids and waste* remain in the system Then backache, disturbed root, that `tired -out" koa. !headed 6461 WOO follow, That's ( e lints to take Dodd's Kidney Pi la, Doti a ptlmulnte the kidneys is normal astir.% 'Viten you kill hotter -.relent bather tros stetter. Ask for Dodd'* Etdney Biba any drug counter, p smargaprzarx.nnumnagravarrawareagpliaa*MIP*MI 28211014 48 - 11008 ter of the barn. Screens in the hen -house had to be replaced by windows, also in the bath- room. Water had to be drained from the tractor and, during the evening chores, heifers had to be tied up that had never been stabled before. Any farmer will know what that means to a man working alone but unfortunate- ly it means nothing at all to those unfamiliar with fare. con- ditions. Even those who have once lived on a farm forget very easily once they are away from such problems. That we real- ized when, by pre -arrangement Bob and Jay came up to take us down to Toronto to see our grandson. Bob was quite sur- prised that the weather had given us so much extra work that to go away for three or four hours was impossible!! So, Partner still hasn't seen his grandson. Naturally in a day or two the worst will he over - cows quieten down and heifers no longer balk at being tied up. It is sudden changes that create the extra work and worry. "Well," you might say. "why not sell out and more to town?" Yes, why don't we? To us that would be like jumping out of the frying pan into the fire. Farm problems are more or less familiar, ones that we some- how manage to meet and over- come. Away from the farm there might be situations that we would find ourselves unable to cope with. But, with industry creeping up on us on the one side and a new highway prob- ably closing in on us from the other, anything can happen. However, which survey the De- partment of Highways will take has not yet been decided But, until the Department makes up its mind many farmers are kept on tenter -hooks. In one case the surveyors drove iron stakes right through the centre of one man's barn. The owner has a lovely home, in beautiful sur- roundings, far enough away from cities and highways to make it a wonderful place on which to retire - a day prob- ably not too far distant. Now he doesn't know what the fu- ture holds in store for him and his family. The same uncertain- ty applies here. If the survey that goes through our farm is accepted most of the land would he needed for a clover -leaf. Whether the house would be Modern Etiquette Q, is it proper, when bowling with friends, to deliver your ball at the same time a person on an adjoining lane is delivering his WAR.? A, There are rules of etiquette on the bowling lanes, too, and one of the most strict is that one should never do anything to dis- tract the attention of a bowler on an adjoining lane, If he is preparing to deliver his ball, then you should wait until he has bowled before you start down the runway. Q. When a girt is with her escort at the table in a nightclub, and she wishes to leave the table to go 10 the restroom, what should slie say? A, "Will you excuse me" is sufficient. • Q. Who is supposed to stand the expense of wecldint photo- graphs? A. The bride's fatnily, Q. When a young man takes a girl out to dinner, and she hap- pens to know he doesn't earn much money, should she be very modest in what she orders? A. Yes, but she must be tact- ful enough not to overdo it. She must realize that the young man would not have invited her if he didn't have enough money, and he might resent it if he knew she was "holding back." Q. May one ever use the fork for eating a double-decker sand- wich? A. Not if it is of the "closed sandwich" variety. It should be eaten with the fingers, If it is an "open" sandwich, then the fork is used. Q. With whom should the bride drive to the church for the wedding ceremony? A. With her father, Q. Is it proper to mail birth announcements to all one's friends, even to those whom one has telephoned the good news? A. It would seem rather fool - left standing we don"t know - and if it were whether we would like living so close to a busy highway is another prob- lem that would have to be faced. In the meantime we are not worrying - at least not much. The powers that be at Queen's Park are unpredictable. As long as they are sitting on the fence it is anybody's guess on which side they will eventually land. But believe me, we understand and sympathize, with the people of the Scarborough district, near Toronto, ish to mail announcements 14 those persons who have already been told the news over the telephone. But to .all others -- whether in town or far away --- mailed announcements are in or- der. • Q. Is it proper for a salesman to say "good -by" to the recep- tion girl when leaving the office of a business exeoutive? A. Yes. This is not only cour- teous, but also tactful. A small courtesy such as this is often re- membered the next time the salesman calls. Q, if a man is walking along the street with a woman and she is carrying a coat on her arm, should he ask to carry the coat for her? A. That is not expected, And the RELIEF IS LASTING Here's headache relief such as you never thought possible . .. In- stantine! Instantme is a prescrip- tion -type formula, that acts so fast, so thoroughly that your pain is relieved almost instantly. And this relief is prolonged , .. it lasts! 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