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"Dear Anne Hirst: My neither
says I'm going to pieces Uviol;
like this. My husband end I are
in our teens. We have a young
baby and, since we married two
years ago, we've lived with his
parents. I didn't mind at first,
X thought we'd get out on our
own; but though lie and his fanc-
ily don't get along too well, he
doesn't want responsibility. •
"He is an only child, and has
a high temper; he thinks he
should have everything tie wants,
any way he can get it. We fight
ail the time — about his fam-
ily (they all drink constantly)
and about money. He spends
crazily! He gives me just enough
for bills and food; when I need
clothes he says go out and buy
them, but he doesn't say with
what.
"He goes where he pleases
with men friends (single ones, at
that) and leaves me at home.
He made me give tip all my
friends, and won't have Anything
to do with my family. I have to
visit my mother when he isn't
home; he thinks she should take
care of our little girl — end most
ly she does, •
"I think if we moved out. he
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would ehurrge. My another
doesn't agree; she says he will -
keep on hurting me because he
thinks lie can get away with it.
She says I should leave him. But
we do love each other, Anne
Hirst, and we love our. child,
What shall I dc? I am —
VERY MUCH CONFUSED"
" 1 suggest you and the baby
* go to your mother for a while.
* I fear that nothing but your
" absence can awaken -your hue-
" band to the truth -- that he
" has a fancily now, and if he
* wants to keep with them he
" will have to be a man and not
• a playboy.
" Marriage does not mean
* merely the possession of a
" wife and a ehild. 11 means
* taking on responsibilities that
" change a young man's purpose
* in life. He is no longer a free
• agent; he is the head of a fam-
ily who depend upon him not
* only for security, but lot love
* and kindness and undiluted
* loyalty, The freedom and ad-
* venture of his bachelor days
* are past; for them ne must
* substitute a husband's protec-
* tive concern for his wife's wel-
" fare and contentment, and a
* parent's guidance and con-
" structive planning. for his
" child's future.
All this will be: news to this
" husband of yours. He has some
* hard and painful thinking to
* do, which is net gain(( to be
,, easy for one of his nature,
" Whether he can do it et all
" depends - upon his , admission
"` that his marriage is at stake.
* Perhaps beneath his light-
' hearted approach to life there
* lies the moral strength that
" he needs,
* The time for argument has
• passed. Action is the only
" course that will impress him
* I think you should take it,
" temporarily, 'and let him find
* out. what his marriage really
* means to him. After all, he
* does love you. How much, he
* will have his -chanes to prove,
"Dear Anne Hirst: May t warn
women who have their own in-
comes against forttme-hunters?
Last year I married a man I
thought was wonderful — and in
a few months' time I learned he
- (vas only after my money,
"I have at last got rid of him
— and saved part of my inherit-
ance. . It is better to stay
lonely than be betrayed as f was!
LEARNED LATE"
Newspapers brim with tales of
impecunious rascals who defraud
trusting women. - They, tind out
what a • woman is worth, and
persuade her to let them invest
her money. If she refusAs, they
will even marry her.
It is not easy for a lonely wo-
man to doubt an attentive and
charming man: they are so grate-
ful to have someone locking
after them. Too late they learn
they have been robbed. How
lucky you are to have -aved
part of your income, at blast..•, ,
Thank -you icy your tvarriut.
* * *
Bachelor -into -husband is an
abrupt and frightening change.
But when a young man becomes
a husband and a father, he must
nature deliberately to deserve
both titles, . . For years, Anne
Hirst has succeeded in helping
young couples toward harmoni-
ous living. Write her at Box 1.
123 Eigtheenth St. New Toronto,
Ont.
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Sweets under a toy tree in a departn,eni store exhibit.
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Now, at lo;tg List, it can be
told! As of October 2u, 1953, Part-
ner and I became grandparents,
Daughter being the mother of •a
baby boy. His name is David John
and we are all very happy and
proud. The long time of waiting
is over; anxiety almost dispelled;
mother and son were discharged
from the hospital yesterday — so
now a new era in family life be-
gins for us all,
Previous to his birth there was
the usual speculation as to the
baby's sex—Dee and Arthur both
wanted a son so much that every,
one was certain it would be a
daughter. But Partner, if you
please, was hoping it would be
a little girl!
However, you know how it is,
boy or girl, it doesn't really mat-
ter just so long as the mother
and baby are all right. David
weighed 7 pounds at birth and
is long in the body and not over-
ly fat but that I imagine will
son be remedied if he gets along
as well as most other babies do
these days.
Of course, I had to pay a visit
to the hospital as soon as it was
permitted and I was allowed to
see our grandson through the
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window 0f the nursery, There
were plenty of other babies there
too, and as i watched them snug-
ly sleeping in their little cots 1
thought how ridiculous it is for
anyone to say that all babies look
alike at birth, Having once seen
him I would be able to recognize
David again from among 50 bab-
ies, There was one little Chinese
baby there as cute as a button;
and another was a little darkie,
Among them all there was only
one that T would call pretty --and
that wasn't our grandson!
The hospital was terribly busy
and short of help, which meant
that I had to wait 45 minutes past
the regular visiting hours before
I was allowed on the floor — no
one being permitted to visit even
a private patient until all the bab-
ies were back in the nursery. As I
was leaving, four nurses came
down the corridor, obviously
coming off duty and they looked
absolutely dead -beat. Every time
I am in hospital—big or small—
I wonder how nurses keep going
day in and day out, always an
their feet, always at the beck
and call of their patients. It is
certainly a very exacting service.
Nurses, of course, must show
consideration for their patients,
but I often think that patients,
once past the critical stage, could
often show a little more consid=
eration towards their nurses. How
much a little thoughtfulness is
appreciated only a nurse can tell
you.
Well, to get in my two-hour
visit at the hospital I had to cateh
an 8 o'clock train in the morn-
ing, returning 6.40 at night, so
I put in the rest of the day shop-
ping, telephoning, riding on
streetcars and roaming around
in the Reference Library, which
I had never visited before. I came
away green with envy for the op-
portunities my city friends have
that are not available to ane. Not
but what we have an excellent
library in our nearby town but
naturally it can't compare with a
big library. -So often I am badly
in need of information for a free-
lance article but how t0 get it is
my problem. even though I am
,fully rware that all the informa-
tion 1 want is in Toronto, free of
charge. if I just had more oppor-
tunity
pportunity to take advantage of it.
What irks me is the number of
people who could visit such places
as the Library, the Museum and
the Archives, just don't bother
to go all.
However, not all the interest-
ing places are in the city, Friday
Partner and I were near Hespel-
er, visiting at a farm. While the
men were discussing cattle, crops
and building improvements the
farmer's wife and I went to Hes-
peter and Preston to have a look-
see at the woollen mills and blan-
ket factory. I took five pounds
of old woollens along with me,
paid $4.40 in cash end received in
exc.tange a" full-size wool blan-
ket. Maybe not in the same class
as one particular snake of satin -
bound blanket, very popular as
a wedding gift, but a very nice
blanket just the same. I also had
the satisfaction of knowing mate-
rial was being utilized that would
otherwise have gone into the rag
bag. Last spring I had the mis-
fortune to get a lot of moths in
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ISSUE 47 1053
the house and they played havoc
with things I had put cm one side
to make over. However, even
Moth-eaten goods are acceptable
to the factory, just so long as
they are clean and all -wool.
Coming hone Partner and I
cut across country instead of
sticking to the highway. What a
road! Hills and hollows and hair-
pin turns all the way -15 miles
of it. Was T glad when we struck
the highway again. On that one
point Partner and I never agree.
He likes the country roads; I pre-
fer the highways. On a main road
you at least know what is ahead
of you. On a cross -(road, there is
so little traffic you are apt to
get careless—turn your head to
look at something and that is
the very minute a car comes out
of a laneway or zootns over one
of those treacherous little hills,
Some Beard
For sixteen years Amos Broad-
hurst, a Yorkshireman, did not
shave. His beard grew and grew
until, when he was forty-six, it
measured 6 feet 6 inches long
and was ten inches wide.
When he was out walking,
Broadhurst would put away his
beard in folds carefully cover-
ed with tissue paper. It was
placed in a bag so arranged that
he could pack the lot away in-
side his vest and so appear like
an ordinary person!
"It's terribly hot carrying it
like this, especially in summer,"
he used to confess, "but if I
didn't carry the beard in a bag
its weight would break m, jaw."
Why did he keep his beard?
Because his doctor told him, af-
ter he had had it for five years,
that if he parted with it his
health would suffer.
His claim to possess the
world's longest beard was nev-
er seriously challenged. He died
about fifty years ago and went
to his grave still wearing it.
Salad Oil Saved
Plane Frern Crash
When the lights of Sootti air-
port appeared through the cloud -
bank, Captain A. J. Ring, of Cali-
fornia, pulled back the stick and
sideslipped his heavy transport
Into .the landing circuit.
A .few miles farther on he at-
tempted to lower the undercar-
riage—but it was stuelc( Some-
thing had gone wrong with the
hydraulic system.
Inc.the next ninety minutes
King wrestled with the narrow
shoulder of the wing, trying to
free the wheels by hand, while
his co-pilot kept the big 'plane
ciroling, using the fuel that might
burst into flames if they crashed.
The wheels wouldn't budge, so
the sweating Captain King went
aft to tell the passengers to get
ready to bail out. Then, In the
cargo hold he noticed for the
first time several cases of salad
oil. Grabbing bottles, he raced
back to the wing and poured their
consents into the oil -starved hy-
draulic system. The wheels
spread out below, and the 'plane
made a perfect landing.
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