The Seaforth News, 1956-11-01, Page 6"Dear Anne Hirst: al., rt't'-
1
fen concerns nn mother, and it
s
the biggest one I'tm. -ey f tcelt
am 23, married sev an years
.and have tato chiltlrrn, t'ty 1
marker was d[vort•ed when 1 yy ai
yeUtlg; she n13rri,-,1
divorced again.
- ` tT'etil -we moved book to my
?:longe town, 1 didn't knot'; site
had taken a house and was .sent.
Ing rooms. tmd that ono tenant •!
and she were living, togethc r. I
'was ashamed of her. but couldn't
Idring myself 1f to talk al out it -
-ashe was abaiays dominatirig, and
n'e hint got -lot.; :100
well
The two visited us weak endit,
sI -.I I final -y sty -t:.t•desi 'she keep
lin'f away. He dram; and yea,
Ott'., and . ay .,.ilr b, . ostiod
ones', ions.
Year ratood.
i;llt)
'mhs - lay'. 1 wren. her1. was
lad we did, and told h z t ih-t
et marry lir.l or got rid or toe
d'it.o. conned she didn't l it n what
at
r` do he wig" t t 't ;,tar I said
. make p I 1 roiinti tand 1 1
;-: t
"'y1\. 1 intomi ., t !my
asst ,.g. insettid done any I
'try meat mem, y,l wilt I c .
with he:.
"What dei o01r fia'ri,:' -Lou
1n151 all reminds 1!'e thot masa
titumii. :lo ar, denim_: -tYrolie.:l•'
f� •..t.'thrl.
NANCY"
'sou HARSH?
ll':
i' your Io -i; „tel friend
'-or: so involved, would to re-
' ri ,! e her family" Or 1ealiLe
was her pyre affair and she
'Vannst have her reasons? -
°
'What e. right have you to sit in
'._;ind nlcitt or. your- .mother?
Bow can you know what agoa-
1 s she suffered m Lute;'such
e decision? What of these
ye ars since her last divorce,
• e5hort she has neededcornpan-
Soindiin- and- atfertio r1n pc
;ai rc"
shaken I.i two unhappy
marriages. she snatched at the
11 'unfit nr being X anted and
• :needed. she long: tho wrorm
111n. vest het 1; that rea>e",
It to forsake nt" Yon
+.,nod 111 sitl, nn., yy11>
focal t rt iris Ilse mon.
Mips he holt111 1 r trr'yit
11 nal and:ilia Mors t., put him
• i rile test. Whatever h:1 1 1)
,,for.-, l:m1v, that 1,, her 111,)'
•secti;Rdfi1 r u'.
.dot 111 1,rtit°1 'Irut n:.. i
--....-„inipalteiae with von in this
.a1111111 itu tern. Did haw' ear
cast your mothiii o11 as ym;
lr ct si.•nd t:1ta• 11ring i•`•r -
" tens that nil 1:11- !r gond the
taak.i.'t,',-f t :itnnl 'ay that
ilpr le.. hilt the
' f het.,. 1 'pert you
• bell, i,re .e Christian; ne-
men-Wm 1!;,.1 enmity' is tin'
• ,r shift. of :!'tut -, and if
t•1 1, r t: nd t)1 . 1011'1 1++
,ar; dc. r, to be kind.
" I may bei entire!, tcrone,,
13 1 :nil St t 1 ;t n to bri-
g 131 that :11 orb Inn ,ele,d
ihnt t1g> - ndal '(Hest:• esti
• sod your children. Iiow•
• 0 touch 0011 livin+. 100
o mims momsaway? -Distance also
▪ 11 l ':0eni. her seeing you cif..
ter•.. dt1l we. peed not. aIleect.
:acus, You ti11 con maintain
Vag semblance :,i" total feelinit,
• and not ainop to hurt the
" v:o0110 who gavv you lite.
o `iOrfO readers will a'rs'e
with con and reprove me RA'
too liberal, But nothing
• tan change. the troth that, 013
' cont laisband reminds you,
she is your mother. She wi11
not always be here. Miring the
yra1:, lett to her, perhaps the
" only consolation she will have
is that her daughter has not.
abandoned her. If you cannot
▪ honor your mother as we are
* taught to do, can't you at.
feast Leave her the comfort of
" yogic aticction"
HE'S A BULLY.
"Dear Ann- Hu;i: 11 ' been
married -four years to a man a
stns , n y 1. rigs older, and I and Mts.
erahlo. My. husband 0 a bully.
til,tm'1 really likes hint, 'vett
gals nw .l ltitl lj.
"What he does with his
rummy, 1'11 never know; he
time n 1 give the any of it. He
does pay the household bills. but
1 v- ork and buy 'ny own clothes,
and he -'ven milks 1 should pay
or ,h1s1 tie is very untidy
;round tide house. and doesn't
even roe how rte looks at busi-
ness. Ile l:11nt raja .i ne nut
far -nt n11,s..
•1 ar pr tt al_y friendless.
tie is so and inhospitable
Into the frnvnds 1 had frankly
inlet In.. -1111'y couldn't stand hint.
.. Shttitt 1 try 10 find r 00 friends,
or ion, 'a chub, ;or do something
Iv t not r'ut of the home a few
liven Or slicadd I pack my
things 'anti leave for good?
When I-,reiyt• 3 letter like
"oar', my first thought is
• "lion' long did she know the
' man befo they married,.'
Had you met his family, learn-
their.
:arn-
their opinion of hint Or
• 'fid you marry hastily and -in
" I i orshc Ot hi; real is harm'-.
fat'
It i; your frame that con-
-t.ctns you, however. First, re-
fuse to give your husband any
money you earn: if he isn't
• really supporting you. you need
every dollar you makc.•
lour 'n club or engage in
:.rate oth"r community aetivi-
tv 1I'tt will require vuur reetr--
- Ian attcndancc; that will give.
you .11000 relaxation and to-
-Wrest.
ot-
t rst. It seems futile to snake
• now per on it friend; at the -
- moment I}u yiould he as
disgu,ted y 1111 'roar husband
as ether, wore..
Try this Mt 1 time. f? 11
• dor; riot satisfy you, sou cm,
land what grounds ' ou have to
• face :outsell from 0 hirtbinnd
• whom, apparently, you should
n vet Iraq, matr'i:.d at all.
Bl1MBER-SHOOTING STARS—Clouds may hide the skies, but
stars will still twinkle for the user of this umbrelio. A roi ny
day brightener from West Berlin, Germany, the umbrella ha+
tiny bulbs that light under each star when the user press'): y1
switch. Power is supplied by n battery in the ha'ndie.
1417:1,
�"kti
6\v2 iottr.e P. Ct&,rIIe
$act., to tandarJ 111 '
for some 1.111k02021:11 rt 11110 'Pr
found it veru lord to adjust our •
-
Felves -to tot - t'hanget much hat-- ;
der than last spring when 1..1
changed ray's, to fast time, A -h -
ally wo w,.re not 011. all anxious
1 to take advontape of that extra
hour's steep Sunda' mornna::.
1011100 t'. %%rep, op an
earlior _ dud is, tireordine to
the ock. rut. I supe 1 n a do,
-
or t 1w 1 wo won't know tno •+it-
reie-n •:_. Perhaps it was the ro.
turn of fine n.rnr 1 :weather
that mad 11. feel energetic. %ti.•
11 911 :11 to Iry ILP and doing. A?
that, do. you (• • : ,1 ' .e1
'Oh the 11 n ,1.1 •
"flare both ln,•en Das
f hinit - ', itt bion 1.0 --lip
If you cannot agree with Anne
Hirst's opinion on a problem,
don't hesitate to say so. She
ap-
preciates.. intelligent criticism,
and will print it as she can..ld-
dtcs, her at Box 1, 123 Eight-
eenth Sl„ New 't'oronin, Ont.
(i.ETTINt THE 1'Il'
W ide .seet.i teen. Wet playing
in the bock garden when he suri-
dfmy smacked tate face of one
of to, little ,irl friend-, She rare
glome crying.. •
Out clashed Willie • mother and
s..id. Will e, y'ou had no right to
hit Joan. What made you do it,
anyway?" •
"We were playing, Adam and
Eve," ea:piaincel Whllie, "and she
-cent and ate the apple instead
of tempting me."
The mosquito wr; diocover0+d
by the mon who wits discovered
by the mosquito.
TESTING FOR THE "SILENT KILLER" Carbon monoxide - the
'silent killer' is the real cause of many traffic accidents.
That's the theory the Washington State Patrol is trying to prove.
Acting Patrol Chief Roy F. Carlson says, "It is a known fact
that a small percentage of CO present in -a vehicle for 35
gninutes to one hour can slow a driver's reaction lime, affect
his vision, and give him a general feeling of drowsiness." The
Stare Patrol, therefore, has inaugurated a voluntary tasting
campaign. A motorist merely stopsal one of the patrol's test-
ing posts. A patrolman holds a CO tester inside the car to take
on an. sample and then withdraws it to make the reading.
Time la stall o 1e ,'1(11:1' tilm0
and yet. hit In e there :seems _n _ out of the tr rtsl because he is
much of it -: p„ciatly when NNe ton hiss and boisterous and up -
e yours^ „o often fail to tip -
sett,. the smaller dogs. Dave,
1 11 it to t Ir rr rattle. Thus we however. 111',^ Rusty so he mil-
let t slip a Ie -s away, We fail I agars to let him into the house
i n temcn'0that w'ithont time every thence he gets. That is
noting eon be, accomplished; when bedlam begins. With Carol.
within
time all things. are possible and Nancy here I could foresee
phis a t<•.5' items like energy, more problems ahead. 1t so hap -
perseverance and patience. 1 was pened I knew a fondly where
going to add "good health" but there are schoolage children who
that isn't always. necessary. cessary. in ; were most an:doua to adopt Rob -
many instances unit h has been
:. ,, 1, .,- ln,c-
,ibl,., 1s .,lw,ll.. 1110 ra;c 00
mit peoplo at. the 1111 01 Incl l+'t.
_..'er in yoars,0611 of whorl". 11011
me quilt 0 flirt:mem I inn tin..
It was 111, people. more than the'
♦hlblt1, drat tilt ,id -diner`'•
r sits to sini 1t is m a 1 ,a Int
IV Ile,' + Itlli, wle„t,, Wt h)ui
ethil.tit-, th'it tnt1Ill he era 1111;
Wit 1 p o171e• t t 00{110 be,
;.hlhtt
Putthe to+'-, to-
gether 1her Itnf lh('y 2011 act. n1' (111-
1, 0111` 1Y.r1':,• 'I int ung^to see
t -111.
Vl-1lum; a Modsunt
1 1 01111m oi,er me
week
-end
y It i t
het (1 11:71 Y u rill
out. little W11:1 t n .1, 10 ,a new
Mann,Ty,i1 tl e1' a r l two ptopie
t alone doe. litil whin y, n add
ib a til' 1' , 11 111= I0
p.11n0011,. and nr ere1:.,-r patl-
trl, titin... 't a 111111: oomph -
1 -aloft. 1111
mpi.-
1atect..1111 0 1, simpf,sefl to stiv
•
t0 see what hitt reaction would
bet to new surroundings. 1 need-
n"t have worried.- Ill. arid- the
children took to each other as it
they - had been brought up to-
gether. So I left hint .. on pro •
-
bation. I thought if we iale'1 (100
to part with hint now was the
tithe - before Carol and Nancy
arrive. This morning I phoned
to inquire if Robbie had really
settled down happily after I had
„'one. Ile is still perfectly con-
tented, Actually, it is a shame
for Robbie not to have a per-
manent home with children •
he is so fond of them. But if
other dogs are around there is
trouble, as he i, ver Jealous.
To part with him wasn't easy --
he is such a lovable lilt(' dog :—
but I think 010 time goes 00 we
shall eventually feel it was the
best thing to do. Especially- as
Robbie is defin1tely not a "one
man's dot;" but of the 11'pc to
b' happy with anyone who - is
kind and makes a fuss of hint:
Rusty is quite different. We
would hate to send Rusty to a
new home - I think it would
break his heart, unless he was
with someone already known io
him and whom he 1111111:1
1- a friend of the family'.
White Was Mark
Of Social Prestige
Yes ay I took him over
accomplished from an invalid's bre' Y
bed. But health is eeitainly the
koverninn factor in the type of
activity in which we. engage. 11
help= u? 10 1'ealize our lituita-
tions - to know that while nue
type of work it beyond our
trengtii another type can quite
easily he un0ertaken. That is the
way with partner and 1 any-
way, as with 000011ea:s other
toll,. Much of the work we used
0 du is now beyond our strength
1 but that, doesn't mean we must
he content to sit down and twid-
dle our thumbs. No indeed
for Mat way madness lies,
Come to 'think of it, for Hie
wast two months we are not
iI likely to coo untch thumb -twid-
dling anyway. At the present
moment V.1' are making last
.1. minute preparations for niece
Bobs and her two little girls ---'
carol and Nancy, four years and
twenty mouths old respectively.
1;infier Fat'n1 will be their tem-
• poraoy hc:ulquartets until hens-
im1 arrangements have been
'otrrpleted for Diem itt Blind
Inver. The trio, with Daddy in
char;;1 • ar„ supposed to arrive
about eight n'clock tonight. What
mfr .'rstwhilt' quiet home will
bo like after that is anyone's
j ;t^rr. I'll tell Non nest. week!
I Last v,;t''::, Partner and I took
tins opportunity of "the hill be-
fore the : tornl to do a little
gadding. On two occasions we
visited friends on 'farms in Wel-
lington arid Dufferin county. And
on Wednesday and 'Thursday I
was in Guelph, partly to look in
on the W.I. Convention Satur-
day was the day of Our local fair.
And the weather was perfect.
' The fair must have beaten all
records both in attendance and
the number of exhibits. :Cine
midway too appeared to be big-
ger than ever. Whether It - was
"better" we have no meads of
knowing, 11 being our aolic1 to
e('Onpnty Nf.Ilm.'.lclud for man.'
yeat'tt.
The dev t inn' it of these elli-
elent blearlun ; agents such 0I
sodium per l o'at's chlorine and
hydrogen peroxide opened the
way for the -truly white fah•
ries of lsilay-. No longer toe
white goods a novelty -- rifts
of white •gi rinent:: Hillis` from
tlotlreslinti even' Mill day
morning. And 111,' rding to the
soap makers, it has now become
a matter of prestige to display
1.11(1 whitest wash in the neigh-
borhnod!
AGI NO HANDICAP
The judge studlerl Iltc' twenty •
four pairs of trim ankles dis•
played beneath a curtain at a,
angle Judging eontr'st at Her k'
fordd, then gave his decisinu.
Up went the curtain it raven
the smiling winner -a lady of 111
years of at,?.
-\11.1i `Alm giurnble at lath;
[11,
n-
10 111 demands lot Ike -imposs-
ible"
'i lh oi..ibleearl 10:1114 the ladle:: Inc
the white .,fart; they're wear -
inti. Without won -nutty persist-
ence 0 hundrod Years also, white
labrit't might be as rare as
white think.
It a Iatly of - 21111 'af'e ago
e00111
peels
drawers full f'ullto modern
ofgicamint;
whiter hankies, whip. lingerie
and white hluus.1, she would
be spellbound with e11v0. To
her. the onsseigUon of even ONE
shut` _i'tanr_nt 001(11 a mark of
social peeMind.
1n those 11.'1':s the ',loco:0 of
hl,•aehin:, fabrics a'l'as so long
•tn,i tedious that only a privi-
1e^,e`d lana could afford ill' tin --
;shed prodnr't•
Forinstance, i11 .Irrde'r to leave
white sheet to sleep on, the
neiterlal ter:) had tc. he ,Ilecped
111 .,ltcalrne lyra. thou washed
and il,regit rut h ,ries' fol•.
weeks. Atter 1'1'11 .dirk this pro'
r
live Or ill112, MO stone
oast.•1 it.. y .i-. :311iaiec1,d1 to a
'nail. of .oat mill, or buttermilk
fel a few days. cashed and
r •:p1'.,d in he Fun. TlriF
. ptocedo1 tYn'tli It"•It
until the
171:0•33a1 31 ,ilnh' a< ,, ou!d
'labor }t elabor.im meth -
ret of 11e os l iiia w.., quite the
tI-ntt1 one ha 0100,• years, - it
was b02101' practical Der a lune••
:oohs bads n=.I the result would
nu. britt ,iimitte to the
H arih.a-rl,•u, yyl1„e' falu m: of
ltxl:aN'
11,wv lt pmts( lr;u of uol.
ecolo,-1, Ih-I-1.9:i 4,11 store. ;end
rata' w-l'otr tirrncnt:: And
liar?jot- tun in the chemical in-
drl, 11 y 11.0-” e'r'go in tine pet -
si,tent 11110* lady, fur fee.- in-
ens,a1,1 demand.- fortalc
white in 11cr life brought about
the birth of rind=:;•rt bleaching
techniques,
Early in the last century, the
.search for mere efficient bleach-
ing methods brought to light
many new chemicals. There
turned out to be endlessly use-
ful to industry and formed the
nucleus of the heavy -chemical
ISSUE 13 — 19531
Jumper Dress
74.1
,fltt11uc • v.111 ,irrnr. uiun l l nt J
or 11011111• -- ill t erisie d11,,,I
You'll love the : •,tiltty nt thin
Lew' :,tyle! Nate it,.. rnrtr1 double.
breasted bodico etrat : -n
.fi-
r
1.
titsIi ale lar t &' it now in
eorduldy, y1lvet rag woo!!
Pattern 4114,1: tyle,, r'' SSV.':, I1),
I 12. 1`I 11 lis, 1211 51,.,,• 16 known
1 Mimi 4 yards 1 tut li nap: 01017,:;
l'. -, and o 39nee h fahrio.
This pattern easy to a silo'
pre to sew, is tested Inc lit, Ilan
complete illustrated itiatltictirns.
Send 'THIRTY FIVE t1EN'rR
(stamps cannot bg accepted; use
postal Mote for Incsafety) for thh
patient. Print plainly SIZle,
4AME, ADDRESS, 8 '1' Y I, A
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MBER.
Send order to Anne Adalnta
123 Eighteenth at, New Toronte
I Ont.
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