HomeMy WebLinkAboutThe Seaforth News, 1956-10-04, Page 6-Ura: Anne ]first: 1 are 20,
and deeply in love with a mai
10 years old. II,. says .he lovas
n', and he has proven it in many
day:<. He 'bee all the qualities
>f being patient, generous and
.mde r standing I've beeii seeing
;tint for two years, and during
this time I've never taken any
real interest in anyone else.
"We get along perfectly toge-
ther as far as feelings and ideas
are concerned; I am always so
:entented in his company,
"I knew that such a thing
would not be socially accepted,
but I've been so much 'happier
111 every way since I met him.
Do you think -I am right in seeing
tint, and perhaps thinking of
marriage?
SLIGHTLY CONFUSED"
What Of The Future?
" If you have dated this man
since you were 18 and are so
contented with him, it is likely
' you and he would have an ad-
' mirabte marriage at least for
a while. He seems to be genu-
'
in and devoted. to you. and
the fact you are so at hoine
with him is a valuable asset
in any porn -ane -at •relationship.
The. question is, would you
be: satisfied with hint as a hus-
band as the years accumulate?
When your letter came I re-
- called one from a girl, 27, who
had married a ratan years older.
1 looked it up, and quote her
'rii. atisfaetion: "f do love' my
• husband," she claim:. "but he
," is too settled to like the things
1 de. We neve•,• go anywh„re
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-,+?F+•I!�. - a"rlci .::1 c411113 for
1111 boots- ;*IO.V —
pattr't13 pa'intr„rl in it!
except to visit my mother, to
a movie every 'few mouth:. <.rd
* to church a few time.; a year.
* I used to lova dancing, and 1
' haven't boon on adance floor
since I married... I am Ione-
* soiree for the good times I've
4, given up and would be glad
* to have with him, but he isn't
interested.. , We have a nice
* home, a car, and money in the
* bank, but what good are ma-
* terial things when you are un-
happy?"
* A man of 40 is not an old
* man by any means and your
* friend's temperament may
• postpone the desire for a se-
e dentary life for years. When
* you become 40 and are still
* full of life, would you have to
* give up the good times this
* older girl already misses so
* much? Can you look down
" the stretch of years that lie
* ahead and believe you will be
°* entirely satisfied with him to
* the end? Can you take the
" chance?
" Has the man proposed to
• you, or are you taking it for
* granted that he will? I do not
* wish to arouse doubt in your
i* mind, but it seems rash to be
' considering marriage unless
you are sure he is, too. Two
* years is a long time to date
just one pian and then discal*-
^' or you have wasted your time
'' because he "isn't the marrying
* kind." It he has not spoken
of the future, why not praetice
• the usual methods of bringing
' that aboul: '
And whet docs your fancily
think?
It is not for mo to say Yes
or No to your question, Con-
sider the situation as coldly
as you can. You are in love,
• but you are too intellient to
• follow your heart alone.
A Lad Worries
"Dear Anne Hirst: For a long
while I've liked a girl 14, three
;ears younger than myself. Hee
friends tease us about each other
' which embarrasses her, but I no-
ti.fi she doesn't deny what they
say; they say she likes hie, too,
but she's never said so. 1 date
other girls, too, so people won't
know how Windt 1 think of her
but I don't go with any one of
loom ton often.
The girl Etoc..n't it -1 1115 know
he .1u fools about tee; how call
1 find nut: (You've helped me
taEfore this, bra I'rn more wor-
ried tha:1 was? I c9;,periii
J I;tl"
pet_, ihe elite( s'11 tag. end
* et.e eye theist tt1 lu:dil1111ly-;
eaell orae .an help you better
* enclrrstar,tl the feminine
which is important. A,, the
:1,40 1i1 r s von with th0
other, she any •.r+,V: more ii :-
t 1 est ed.
I r ee rr pili h 1 siesteiss,
itt+, when you rani bot
1 latah her. As for rumor
es:ends' tr, in . :shot' h*'- yen
• u 1auch it inf. then she
vee -et be cmharrassed.
If her mother ail:,ws, bows to
311, da that. I1 would be
:.tart, though, to stay with the
gristle for a white until the ;girl
• tnatii2':•y a bit etel 11014 tr1t,:'e
confider:e linnet Yti.-1,'
Wise is the girl who hesitates
before she accepts a man twice
her age. A safe guide is a letter
to Anne Hirst, whose long ex-
perience is at your service,. Write
het at Box 1, 113 Eighteenth St..
New Toronto. Ont.
1114,0.e:11 e 111C' 110.4 ion, .1:1 11ft•
her health of nniet
Orth Anlr 1141111 has „a improv-
e?) during tit,- pct. f0t re+ntury
ti It a baba may b~ sxpaled to
over 1t. rlty year, 31:• Iu15c1
roan COO 110111 in 1900„
ISSUE 39 --
,DON'T ROLL OUT OF BED—Suspended by piano wire, "floating"
bed, above, was shown at the National Home Furnishings Show.
ModelRyna Kitman'poses- aboard the. unusual slumber acces-
sary.
THEY MAJOR IN PULCHRITUDE—National College Queen Mari-
lyn K. Meyer, 18, center, poses with her ladies-in-waiting after
her r.. :'.urian. The ladies-in-waiting (they'll have to wait
for 01' e r chance to be queen) are Carol Jean Lewis, 18,
right, cod Joan Schoenfield, 19.
es.
''sir se/e`let ,'s-,"
ewer .dot%t e P. Cta,D13,,e
We have ,'onxe to the cud of
a perf\•ct week •-- weatherwi•_tt
--. 011 a ye1y busy one. I have
bran trc•in 10 keep aborad 01
the ardent, ;rod partner Ints
L+vert Lu.'. tooting hay; all
atnonthe .*t;:h, ' .set nut be the
Department of 11) -lune , 4') i
shout that 1atet.
Beans We .,!tail h ariti1
dare to letok at a bean 1eiarc
awhile', We hsaee eaten than,
given them away awl c'nolied
thnlu :&1• the dogs. And stili
they 14eep growing - and the
gond sowing, oldie=t !rear
Beets Ind t 11'oti Art. :swim'
„a too but the: pea, are not
quite Y[1 tewardin . Th' apples
also keep ine busy although it
i .'ort of taele between the
hcifsIs and mv,nli to see
0;1ou ;arts they apple. 1ir:tt. Early
tri 1)1' Iitotltltlf.'• 111.' heifers 010
mound the harvest apple 11
•ool,hlint; up the winch1111 . Wive,
they retie to ;1 shad: sem to
chew their mitt 1 dural (let and
4,-t in u1v innings. s hakitl: the
trite54 the branches until t
have eloontilt apples to fill a
p tl, ehic h ,,;lyes me about live
goat: of c1p!,1=:w when their'
kr,.? canned. k •00k the !apples -
;•:11)1 the p+rl, en 11(4(1 thou put
no, pulp tlnpu;lt a rotary col-
ander. Thor way t r have ap-
p1e::arlc•c 11) winter. whether We
have ;IP pl :' ur 11'11 Some• people
v: ander why 1 bother with e•ln-
1114€ at all when there Ire 4)11)5
111. twat of 1.1 1101 f woutrhl'.t
u we. hart f de I, 0 , but we
havor't't and 1 0111 not so ;1410
that it is r, :a!1y nu : _ r now.
If -i con till is t.,tv do ,ren se;tleft,
we are: r;tue nt 1:44,1; enough
stuff tm • on, uwn a :nod :4011147-
41O1114 nn h,'.mi err air^!c-•ori
11,111'1.' '' 111,',::. - -
Eto:11 clay,
with Tannin; and odea' ivnrk 1
like n: ;;ot 1lpn:ii1 1n my r0tnn.
And how i tint c'0)01 ilte it. 1 .ma
away from rt'crything and cot
lint away l or ihrre t111yc IAS -t.
wp,'L 1 was mutons, down on
the lient where Partner w'a*
cutting Itny—which was quite an
advantage o -cause,. 1 was afraid
Tali the time he tnir,ht run ulin -
a stake enol reel thrown oil the
mower Il he had—well, with a
power mower anything could
happen
The field where h.• was cut-
ting Is one whine the highway
leas eepropriatecl land for High-
way 401, It has iron stake f:
wonder, stakes and steel fence
posts here and there acres:: the
field. Partner didn't want the
hay bet the field was weedy so
he felt it had ler be cut. He
- knew he would have quite a ,job
although he thought he knew
where every stake had been -put.
- He was wrong.:there 51015 a
few, nit properly marked, that
h? di.ln'l know anything about.
Ile l:5 44' where they were when
he ran into thern,even buckling:;
one of ihe( guard=. Steel stakes
were not the only trouble in
that field. Earlier in the season
one of the heifers escaped from
the 1'x,rlurc. Partner couldn't
thunk how she got nut until he
-want along by the fences. At
one spot last winter the survey -
ors had boon cutting brush and
oracle' a hole in the fence. Part-
ner tiscd it up by tising the
brush le Sill the )11p. Some time
loiter, unknown t(i es, the sur-
4ryor,; were back. evidently to
oto some work at the sane spot.
They pulled the brush away and
lett the gap e :pos 'd. No wonder -
the heifer got out! If Partner
bad nut seen her the reit of the
cattle would no drnlhi have fnl-
44,e have a-11*t.iee num the _
Dep':•runent to the effect that
compensation win be paid for
any damage done. -Fine -- but
how ,tan a farmer assess the .
trouble he• go,t* to in getting a
1, ;:el, back to pasture? Or how
rile we put in. dollar's and ciente
the wintry it was 10 me having
Partner . on- power mower
weevine his sway in and out
amonc: the stake:: .and finally
linein:_a to finish the job by cut -
0110011e the stakes with a scythe,
'4'),'' 1"ouble ie the fellows that
NOIR. 31o1311c1 arc• 501 deliber-
ately carrIe..s; obey just don't
undrrotand the little things that
ere important on a farm. When
1111' nen were around driving in
the *Anises Partner said to them:
"What's going 10 happen if 1
want to plow^h this: field?" One
1)1111 .'rrswered: "I guess you
won't want to do touch on this
Lend by the time we get
through!" ilow true—the only
troulde is surveying the land
doesn't keep the weeds from
growing, in spite cif the fact
that there is plenty of agitation
from various (11.131 1111'. to 1:0042
the brad clean,
Well, il's Monday now and
our nice weather seems to have
forsaken us. It is very dull and
very humid. But if the weather
is dull the news isn't. A confer-
ence regarding the crisis in the
Middle East—what will happen
afterwards is anyone's guess.
PoIiticel convention in the Un-
ited States; controversy still
active over Marilyn Bell's swim;
and an International convention
of Entomologists in Montreal --
in Dur language a discussion ab-
out insects, I wonder if It will
be brought to light that the in-
crease in insects is probably due
to the decrease in birds. And
the decrease in birds could
it be they are being destroyed
by chemical weed -killers now
so much in use? And now the
power has gone off—that doesn't
snake typing any easier so I ens
glad I have come to the end of
my copy.
'Bye until next week.
New Date W U
Beat Heart.s,che
What should a teenage girl
do when she falls in love' with
a boy and he turns her down in
favour of another girl? Get
madly jealous?
Not at all, says a leading
psychiatrist who is an expert on
teenage love affairs. The girl
should deliberately set about
blotting the episode front iter
mind.
She should at onece burn the
boy's love letters, alt of them,
however ardent they are. Then
LOST AND FOUND—"When in
trouble—SQUAWK!" Apparent-
ly that was the principle that
saved this rare palomino Shet-
land pony colt from who knows
what fate. It's shown with its
owner, Robert 5. Gault, who
raises tiny Shetlands as a hob-
by. The pony was stolen, but
abandoned next day. Gault
believes the screams of the un-
weaned pony, uttered when it
is hungry, frightened the thieves
so that they were afraid to
keep the animal longer.
she should calmly drsttoy alt
photographs of him and get rid
of other souvenirs.
Having done these things she
should set about getting as
many dates with other boys as
possible She will quickly dis-
cover that a new boy friend by
her side at least partially ban-
ishes ghosts of the past. By re-
peating the process over suc-
cessive days, she is "helping
Father Time to free her from
the fetters of her past romance,"
Frustrated love can be con-
quered like any other had
habit, the expert points out. It
is utter folly for a jilted girl
to plead with her former sweet-
heart or make a scene by burst-
ing into tears when she sees
trim,
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FiRST LESSON'S COMING UP—Determined expresion of teacher
Elizabeth Kohl should be a clue to Paul Hindes that gumchew-
ing in school is frowned upon as the blase, bubble -blowing
youngster registers for the 'fall term.
`GREEN MONSTER' WiTH PLENTY OF DRAG—Arthur Arfons eases his 1,200 -horsepower "G'eero
Monster past a grader at the Timing Associatio'n's drag strip prier to the running of the
sect ,d annuai National Championship Drag Races,