The Seaforth News, 1955-06-09, Page 6i . f. Jell S
"Dear Annie eliist: Niv t+•lie
and I have been married esiuly
five years and have a three-
year-old daughter. I thought we
were perfectly happy; we spent
all our spare' moments together.
Suddenly last February she left
me and went to her father and
mother. All the explanation she
gave is that she doesn't love Ire
any more.
"I went to a western town,
and she came and spent 10 clays
with me. She told me that she
has fallen in love with an 13 -
year -old boy and wants pie to
divorce her Now she doesn't
answer my letters.
"Should I grant her wish, or
try to win her back so our
daughter can be with us both'
Do you think I have a chance?
JOHN"
* For the sake of her little
• girl, I hope your wife will he
* persuaded to come back to
* you at least for a year. Though
* she believes she is in love
* with sornone else, only time
* can prove how real is the
* emotion, and she owes the test
* to everyone concerned. Assure
* her that no reproaches will
* await her. nor will yon impose
* any affection she does not
* welcome Promise her that 1.1
* in another year she still wants
* to separate. yon will discuse
* it then: durin,t that period she
* will not see this lad, but de -
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" Inc the child.
• Whco two people marry,
* they find their happiness in
• living for the other. When a
* child conies, however, they
* unite in providing the •love
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" ed for her normal develop-
" mgnt. In accepting that re-.
* sponsibility, personal heppi-
* nese is sacrificed if need be;
* it is a shallow mother who
* would deprive a child of her
father's. companionship and
* guidance. And how could a
* bay of 18 be mature enough
* to have n father's love or his
• wisdom?
* If you have been friendly
* with your wife's parents,
* wouldn't it be well to write
* them; too, acid be sure they
* are 00 your side?
• You have had a bitter blow,
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SPOILED HUSBAND
"Dear Anne Hirst: •My bus-
band is a grand person in many
wove. But he was an only child
and Bever had any family re-
sponsihilitics.. . Now my aged.
aunt in another town (who
brought "me ftp) is in her last
illness, and a note from her
physician says she cannot live
much longer. She needs me. My
husband objects to my going.
"1 hare my own income and
we have no children, so I am
free to go. He thinks she is
a sentimental hypoeondriac -
which she is not. If I let her
down, I would never forgive
meself. What shall I do?
UNDECIDED"
" I thiuh you should go to
'• your aunt. She gave • you a
* hone when you needed one,
* you are her only close rela-
* tier, and she is missing you
* now. •
, Your husband may still ob-
* jest. but later on I expect he
" cell! undenztand. If it were his
* mother that was ill, he would.
* want to be With her: Remind
' hint that you feel obligated to
comfort your aunt by your
' presence in her last days.
* In a ratter of this kind. one
- 0111:t do what she thinks is
• sight.
When a child i, born, its pa, -
• can no longer consider
their personal contentment first;
their resnnnsibility must be
centered in giving the child a
harmonious family background.
If this problem confronts you,
1,11 Anne Hirst about it. Write
her at Box 1, 123 Eighteenth St.
New Toronto, Ont.
An Object Lesson
American Protestants some-
timee are critirized as being stub-
born, selfish, heartless, and
bigoted because they resist ap-
peals of Roman Catholics for bus
transportation, textbooks, lunch-
es, nurse service, or other and
more direct subsidies to their
parochial schools at public -that
is, taxpayers' expense.
In many European countries
government subsidies to "confes-
sional" schools of several faiths
go much further than this, in-
cluding building costs and teach-
ers' salaries. Ir. France, Germany
and to some extent Britain and
the Netherlands, it has taken real
effort to preserve adequate sup-
port for state schools,
ht Belgium it has long been
OR:AT-GRANDCHILDRN BY THE DOZENS - If Mrs. Anton Strack,
left, has a proud smile on her face, it's ltecause she's standing
beside her 100th great-grandchild, a nine -pound four -ounce
boy born recently to Mrs. Raymond 'Messing, right. Great-
grandmother Strack also has 13 living children and 67 grand-
children, for a grand total of '180 descendants
FOUR CRYING OUT LOUD - This quartet of hungry little robins
lives in a nest that mother built over Sam Goodman's garden
hose. Although quite perturbed over Mom's absence with the
groceries, they don't seem to mind her unorthodox choice of
a building site.
customary for the state to pro-
vide a large part of the budget
for Roman Catholic Church -
operated schools, even extending
this to a near -monopoly of edu-
cation in the African Congo. Last
December the Belgian Parlia-
ment voted by a substantial mar-
gin to reduce the subsidies for
these schools by about 5 per cent.
The vote was recently repeated.
On Sunday, March 27, several
thousand mounted police and riot
troopers with sabers, batons and
fire hoses were needed in Brus-
sels to disperse columns of mar-
chers which converged on the
capital city in defiance of an offi-
cial ban on such demonstrations,
Several hundred arrests were
made. A Catholic newspaper de-
scribed the disturbance es a
"memorable protest".
1f this is the kind of pressure
encountered when a people's
elected representatives conclude
subsidies have gone too far, can
it be wondered at that American
non-Catholics balk at opening
the door at all to a breakdown
of the eonstitntionnl separation
of church and state. --From the
Christian Science Monitor.
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Each week the country seems
more lovely than the preceding
week. Now it is lilac time .
and such a profusion of blossom
- to say nothing of the per-
fume. But I still miss the la-
burnum. In England purple lilac
and yellow laburnum come into
bloom at the same :time - and
the colouring is just perfect. "I
remember , . . my brother set
the laburnum on his birthday -
the tree is living yet.”
My brother didn't set it but
there was a laburnum in our
garden, and great clusters of
delicate yellow flowers hung
suspended from its boughs. Will
laburnum grow in Canada I
wonder? Seems to me I have
seen it a time or two - and
I can't see why it shouldn't. But
you never can tell. Plant life is
very temperamental. Take wall-
flowers for instance . . those
lovely brown, gold and bronze
wallflowers that grow so easily
in England. But where in Can-
ada can you find them? Ap-
parently the climate is too hot
for them. And primrose, cow-
slips and bluebells - none of
them likes our Canadian wint-
ers. However, we have plenty of
flowers in Canada that won't
grow in England - our lovely
trilium, for instance.
And the birds ... Old Country
folic miss the skylark, nightin-
gale, cuckoo and the little red
robin.• Remember walking
through the woods in spring and
how thrilled we'd he the first
time we heard the cuckoo? We
knew it was a lazy, good-for-
nothing bird, laying its eggs in
another bird's nest; enjoying the
pleasures of parenthood without
taking over its responsibilities,
but yet we couldn's help loving
the cuckoo's song - "Cuck-oo .
cuckoo!" And somewhere in the
distance would come an echo -
"Cuck-oo . , . cuckoo."
As for the nightingale - there
isn't any other bird -song that
can possibly compare with the
nightingale for sweetness. It be-
longs to moonlight nights, a
park beside a lillypond; two in
a canoe idling down -stream .
and love's young dream. By
contrast. during World War I I
heard Zeps zooming and a
nightingale singing all at ane
and the same time.
The skylark ... who can for-
get the skylark as he soars aloft
in a burst of song? I wonder how
many people read that lovely
little piece in the Globe and
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Mall a week ago about the sky-
lark sent to Canada with an im-
migrant boy to cheer his lone-
liness. The sprightly song of the
Little bird proved to be the
greatest ambassador of goodwill
that could possibly be imagined.
The story reminded me very
much of Wordsworth's poem
about a thrush that 116ved so
much in my youth - still do for
that natter, "At the corner of
Wood Street ... hangs a thrush
that sings lotid ... poor Susan
has passed by the spot and has
heard in the silence of morning
the song of the bird." And in
the song of the bird Susan re-
members so much of the home
she had loved.
Well, it hasn't been all birds
singing and flowers blooming
around here. There has been
some work done ton, John and
his hired man were over to put
in a field of oats and there were
two tractors going most of the
time. The men were here for
dinner and went home for chores
and supper. Friday night Johnny
came back aeain and worked in
the field until after twelve that
night - for himself, not for us!
Saturday morning he came along
with a team for the drill and a
girl to drive the tractor. Maybe
so much ambition should be
commended . . but 1 don' t
know. Rushing a job like that
must be very exhausting. Any-
way, it makes Partner and '
feel tired just to see them at it.
We can still put in a fair day's
Work ourselves - but not at
that pace.
We sent some rattle out
earlier in the week - a cow
and two veal calves. Poor old
Jane - she finally went to the
stockyards, after Partner
threatening td send her out for
several years. But there was al-
ways some hold-i,p .. "Might
as well wait until after the calf
is born or "I'd li'ce to get a little
more meat on her first." Now
lane has gone, and she tipped
the scales at 1190 lbs, so, for an
old cow, she wasn't exnrtly .skin
and bone.
Our few remaining hens are
doing fine. Partner said the
other day they were laying 98%.
"Why 98?" I asked. Partner was
not sure whether it was always
98 but it wouldn't sound right to
say you got 16 eggs from 18
hens. Everything has to be
worked out in percentages these
days! Maybe Parner listens to
too many farm broadcasts at
the barn -- or gets more in-
formation than he can make
use of. This struck us as funny.
Partner had been very interest-
ed in Mr. Leatherbarrow's idea
of "Gold in the Grass". Wheet
he knew the author was to ad --
dress the local Seed Fair last
spring he wanted to hear him.
But he had a friend staying here
at the time. Partner tried to get
our friend interested enough to
go to the meeting with him, But
it was useless. A few weelcti
later this same man was bade
aagin, and, quite by accident,
had came across "Gold in the
Grass" and had read it, He was
terribly enthused - "best book
I ever read". Apparently he did
not connect the author with the
speaker Partner had wanted to
hear but told him all about the
book, assuming, no doubt that
it was all news to Partner. And
that's the way it was left. Part-
ner can act awfully dumb wheoe
he feels like it.
Class Submarine
A strange sight among the
multi -coloured exotic fish that
swarm in the clear blue water8
of the Caribbean, nosing over
the coral and through the beau-
tiful garden of tropical seta
plants, is a tiny "glass" subma-
rine,
Cramped within the special
shell, adventurer Edward J. Le,
Compte and two of his friends
peer out the wonderland of
colour and shadow searching foe
sunken treasure.
The foaming white surf thund-
ers against the golden beachee
of the islands - islands whose
rocky approaches are strewn
with the wreck! of storm -ra-
vaged ships that foundered
through the centuries.
LeCompte got his romantic
treasure -hunting ideas back its
Oklahoma City when, two yeara
ago, $1,800,000 worth of gold was
recovered off Nassau, in the Ba-
hamas. 5 -le had always been fas-
cinated by old yarns of deep-sea
treasure and this made him de-
cide to find out for himself.
His fourteen -foot submarines
can withstand water pressure at
2,700 feet, can carry a load of
3,000 pounds and cost some $15.-
000 to complete. Ile says he
built it of fibreglass because the
material is three times stronger
than steel for its weight.
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