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The Seaforth News, 1955-03-10, Page 6LANE 4rUST j 1Jour: FawrriEy Cow+�ic&rt, "Dear Anne Hirst: 1 ala 42, and until three years ago I was a widow. ' Then I married a younger man; I thought I loved him, or perhaps I was just .lone- ly, My friends were all aston- ished. , . Now I. know it was a mistake; he promised to love me always, but he agrees we were hasty and he is in favor of a divorce. "Before I niet him I knew a fine man my own age; he fell in love with me, and when I married the first time he said he was heartbroken. Since my present husband feels as he does, shall I give him his free- dom? (I am lonelier now than when we married). And shall I look up the other man? 1 am really — ALL MIXED UP," GO SLOW * It takes real courage to ad- Half- izeJPIrnper Leo: smart in this c:!:ill-rhas- ing jumper! Wear it with or without a bk.uae. Use wool or heavy vteleht cotton remnants! Proportioned for shorier, fuller figure ! Pattern 519: Sizes lira, Hite, 18?,;, 201 '21e 41e. Tissue pat- tern; tram fors. State size, Send TWENTY-FIVE CENTS In coins (stamps cannot be as eepted) for this pattern to 128 Eighteenth St., New Toronto, Ont. Print plainly PATTERN NUMBER and S I Z E; your NAME and ADDRESS. INSPIRED IDEAS—pages and pages of novel designs in our NEW Laura Wheeler Needle- craft Catalogue for 19551 Com- pletely different and so thrilling, 'ou'11 want to order your fa- vpurite patterns. Send 25 cents fox your copy of this new, new atatalogue NOW! FEATHERS, FRUIT 'N' FOOLERY -The hats pictured above are among the thousands Fashion has been trying on for springtime. Bird -of -Paradise plumes,. at left, adorn this London, England, creation. They top a small chiffon -and -satin beret, cascade almost to the shoulder line. Black - and -white straw, center, resembles an overturned fruit basket with red, berry -like adornment. Modeled in Rome, Italy, sunglasses are berry -trimmed to match. In a lighter mood, Italy's mill - biers have turned out the beach hat at right. Of rough straw, it has an artificial peach to set off the topknot; * mit that a three -months -old * marriage was a mistake. If * your husband is being honest • in agreeing, that should con- * firm it, Your friends will as- * surae the "I told -you -so" atti- * tude, but facing that is Pre- * ferable to living with a man * who does not want to stay * married, • Perhaps, however, your hus- * band's dissatisfaction is only * temporary, er a gesture of * hurt vanity. Why don't you * two decide to separate for a * few months? Go out of town, * perhaps travel. Later, you * will both know your true feel- * ing for -each other, and may * even want to try again. * Should your husband cling to " his present opinion, that will * be time enough to set him * free, • Should this happen, and if * the other man was as sincere • ns he seemed, he will learn of * your being divorced and seek • you out. If he does, go slow; * this time you really must be • certain. Insisting upon a long * period to consider a third * marriage will convince hire * Haat you intend to know your * own heart, and it will also * diminish any disparaging gos- * sip that might arise, * Time is your best ally now * and later, You are young * enough to take all you need, * and I trust that you will. "SMALL 1 TELL?" "Dear Anne Hirst: I have been engaged to a man I dearly love for three months now, and we get along wonderfully. He has told me about other girls he dated, and why he didn't want to marry any one of them. I've had a lot of dates, of course, and I'm wondering whether I should confide fn him, too, "Nothing very important ever happened to me, but I don't Tlxvc,tuBREAD Yours, with wonderful fast -rising DAY Yeast( Toren sere of tempting, de- licious bread when you bake with Itleischmann's Active Dry Yeast! This wonderful new yeast keeps its full-strength and fast -acting qualities with- ont refrigeration! Buy a month's supply! WHALE WHEAT BREAD a combine 3 c, boiling water, ye c. :un - s lated sugar, 4 tsps..alt and 1 tbs. shortening; stir -until sugar and salt arc dissolved and shorten- mg melted; cool to lukewarm.: Meanwhile, measure into a large !,owl 1 c. lukewarm water, 1 tbs. granulated sugar; stir until sugar is dissolved. Sprinkle with 3 en- velopes Flcischmann's Active Dry "Yew. tin stand 10 minutes,'1'13J124 stir well. Srir in -cooled sugar.shortening ,ni:rtnre. Combine 5 e, once -sifted" bread flour and -5 c. whole wheat or graham (lour. Stir about half of theflours into yeast mixture; beat untilsmeoth. Work in re - mining Jlours sad add addition. a1 bread flour, if necessary, to make a soft dough. Knead on lightly -floured board until smooth and clastic. Place in greased bowl and grease top of dough. Cover and set.. ina warm plate, free from draught. Let rise until doubled in bulk. Punch ' down dough, grease top and again let rise until doubled in. bulk. Punch down dough; turn out on lightly. floured board and divide into 4 equal •portions; form into,smooth balls. Cover lightly with cloth and let rest' for 15 mins. Shape Into loaves; place in greased loaf pans (41� at Wee. Grease topg cover an •let rise until doubled in bulk. Bake in hot oven, 400°, for 20 mins., then reduce oven heat to moderate, 850°, and bake aboltt 20 minutes longer. want him to think I am conceal- ing anything. "Just how much of a girl's lice is her fiance supposed to know? - EUGENIE," * It is wise for engaged pec- * plc to confide any inhibitions * that disturb them, for their * love for each other often re- * moves the cause. 1 have never, * however, believed it necessary * to reveal unpleasant expert. * ences uules they affect one's * marriage. * Exchanging ideas on behav- * for and marriage in general, * on religion, budgets, enter- * taming, etc, is customary and * draws the two closer. Any- * thing that will make for a bet- * ter understanding between * diem is salutary, Let these * topics come up naturally. * Don't try to pry into your * dance's past life, as you will * not expect hint to be curious * about your own, You love * each other as you are today. * Leave it that way. * * * Loneliness is not . reason enough to hasten into a second marriage. Readjustment is dlf- ficult, at best, and giving your- self ample time to be sure is tate best insurance. When in doubt, ask Anne Hirst's opinion, adressing her at Box 1, 123 Eighteenth St., New Toronto. - 1:43,, i "c eee- t - yt�q,}kgenee t.+Q:�os�,(k',g1gseseeg¢+ ppb{• c...'� Ii9�M11' `^ A ti "A •`17�dS 8r e ,:,...„.0.014-.1) Clarke Thank you, Mrs. F.. . ., for your nice letter, After reading of your experience with 60 cy- cle conversion I feel that our little set-to was as nothing in comparison. Imagine your being left out altogether. That is real- ly one for the book! However, I suppose with such a tremen- dous undertaking we must ex- pect mistakes and faulty work- manship occasionally. That, l presume, we must overlook. What I do object to is the prac- tise of the Hydro Commission of sending these men out on a conversion late at night. A wo- man alone in an out-of-the-way farm house might be frightened to death to have sorpeone come rapping at the door. How is she to know it is only one of the Hydro men? She cannot know who it is unless she opens the door — and that she may be afraid to do, If the superinten- dent in charge of the job in- tends sending men late at night -then the occupants of the house should be notified in advance. This same correspondent de- plores the fact that so many peo- ple think dropping a dog or cat off on the highway is a good way of getting rid of it. She has reason to object as one of each has come to her home this win- ter. She wishes I would say something about it. Believe me, Mrs. F...., I could say plenty. To me that is a callous and des- picable trick, And yet, strange- ly enough, I don't heleive these pet -droppers have any intention of being unkind, or would abuse an animal in their own home. They just think by this method the little creature will find e new home, knowing full well that few country people can -re- stet giving shelter to the lost and friendless. Some of these abandoned pets are the result of -parents having given in when children have begged for a cat or a ding of their own, Afterward mother finds it isn't such a good idea after all. She may not know enough about cats to ,ouse- train a kitten properly:; to the Oft "1!!11 WSW! 10---1956 event of a puppy she finds neighbours object to having their flower beds ruined by a frisky little dog. So she appeals to father, unbeknown to the children -- to destroy the poor little creature: But father is too chicken-hearted to give it, a merciful death, and he hasn't the sense to take it to the Hu- mane Society. Instead, some Sunday while the children are at Sunday School, he goes for a drive in the country; stops the ear near a farmhouse or a- coun- try home, drops the unwanted cat or puppy on the side of the road and drives off with never a backward glance. Quite a manly fellow, isn't he? The poor deserted little crea- ture crouches for awhile in the ditch, but eventually moves away, wandering from house to house, or hiding in farm build- ings, hungry, lonely and fright- ened, an easy prey to unfriend- ly dogs. When found nobody really wants it -- most people in the country have a cat or dog of their own. If a child finds it, the little animal is lucky. Then someone out of pity feeds the "stray" raid then it ie theirs to keep. We have one such cat at the barn right now. We think there is something ab- normal about it, as all it does is drink milli and sleep. Partner never sees it watching for mice as the other cats do, And I never saw anything as hungry as that cat when it first came in off the road. Dogs or puppies, we and not bothered with at all, Ire, cruse Honey has such a jeal- ous disposition, she chases every dog away that comes any- where near the place, Of course we have visiting cats — cats that come and go --- but visiting cats are different from strays, They know where they belong, they don't expect to be fed or 'netted, and eventually they go eaek home. Mothers, will you please think twice before you consent to let John or Mary have a cute little puppy or kitten oP their own? Nothing could be more desirable for your. wee son or daughter — children should have pets — but a pet needs food, training and kindness. It will look to you for protection. ft you are not prepared to give it the care it requires, then don't adopt a pet in the first place. If, in ail good faith, you do allow Johnny or Mary to have a kitten or a pup, and then unforseen eircusnstances arise which makes it impossible for you to keep it, do remember the Humane Society or your local 'vet' is ready to help you in just such an emergency. We, as hu- mans, were created higher than the animals, Don't let us betray that trust by dropping helpless Tittle creatures off on the road, leaving them to an uncertain fate, And now ... oh, for goodness' salte While I have been hold- ing forth on kindness to ani- mals, here's our cat—our Mit. chie-White—has got himself all tangled up with my knitting wool. "IVIitchie---drop it—if you don't leave that wool I'll . so help me, 1'11 drop you off on the side of the road!" What a threat , . I could no more do it than take my own life, Quaker Humor Even Quakers can be crochety, and Uncle William, during a long and cantankerous lifetime, had abused the privilege, Now he was being laid to rest, and an atmos- phare of strain pervaded the gathering. At last an elderly mourner spoke up; "Well, there's one good thing thee can say about William. He wasn't always as mean as he was sometimes," * * * Asked why she had never mar- ried, a Quaker spinster explain- ed; "It takes a mighty good hus- band to be better than none." * * * A wealthy landowner, passing by a fine-looking farm, was startled to see a sign on it "I will give this land to anyone who is truly content." Recov- ering from his surprise, he thought, "Well, I have every- thing I need, so 1 ought to be well qualified. I think I'll apply." Accordingly, he knocked on the door of the owner of the tract, an elderly Quaker, and explained his presence. "And thee is truly content?" queried the Quaker. "Indeed I am, There is nothing more that I desire," "In that rase, Friend," count- ered the Quaker, "what does thee want with my land?" 1GIS14 CAUGHT, SWAM 5,000 MILES, CAUGHT AGAIN Just a year ago an official of the California Fish and Game Commission placed an identify- ing tag on a fish, an albacore, which he had caught. Then he released it, Now the fish has been caught again, During the year it had grown from a length of 30.4in. to 33.2in. and had travelled 5,000 miles, it is calculated. ka IN E Mix and sift into bowl, 134 e. once -sifted pastry flour (or 131 c., once -sifted all-purpose flour), 3 tops. Magic Balking Powder, ee tsp. salt. Cut in finely 4 tbs. chilled shortening and mix in 3- c. washed and dried raisins and jr c. lightly -packed brown sugar. Combine 1 slightly -beaten egg, 2 tbs. milk and a few drops almond flavoring. Make a well in dry ingredients and add liquids; mix lightly with fork, adding milk 3f necessary, to make a soft dough. Knead for 10 seconds on a lightly -floured board and pat out into greased pie plate ('l3 "top inside measure) and mark into 6 pie -shaped wedges. Bake in hot oven, 425°, about 18 minutes. Serve hot with butter or margar- ine. Yield -6 scones. Always Dependable• A CANADIAN CITY HA During tko past 20 years, automobile accidents have taken fhe lives of 37,000 Canadians—the entire population of a fair-sized city. A half -million more_ have been injured. To meet the staggering cost of traffic accidents, the automobile insurance business this year will pay out more than $80,000,000. Beyond this, insurance companies will do everything possible to stem the rising toll of automobile accidents — by offering the safe driving incentive of lower insurance premiums for accident -free car owners and through safety work and public education aimed ,at making drivers more aware of the perils of modern-day motoring. ALL CANADA. iii SURANC$ IFLDIRAYI . M ALL CANADA INSURANCE FEDERATION on behalf of mom U.*., 400 compoilmi companion wriNnd Fin, Automobile and Canuatey Insurance,