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The Seaforth News, 1957-11-28, Page 14)NNI4IPST] Zfw�Ic raita1 +�ouasv,�O3, `Dear Anne Hirst: I am writ- Mg to ask you to tell . nee how to get rid of an ardent, persis- tent suitor whom I do not love and never will "During our three-year friend- ship we have had frequent din- ner, dancingand theater dates. I knew we had little else in common, and I grew bored. Finally I told him flatly there was no use in seeing me again and he was badly hurt. Notes, flowers and gifts flowed in, ask- ing for another chance. . "Then he moved to another city, and that relieved me—but soon letters came almost' every day. He has made quite a bit of money, and reminded me that he could give me every- thing I wanted. His letters touched me, but they made me feel guilty because he was so miserable. "Ile still would not retire from my life and let me alone. He told a friend of mine that he was sure I would love him some day, and he was content to wait. This is still his attitude. WORRIED GIRL" ` When this young man re- " fused to believe his cause was * lost, you might have ended it * by saying you would not see * him anywhere, at any time, * and wouldappreciate his for- * getting he ever knew you. * You probably felt too sorry Jiffy Knit fatete.W HOW proud this set will make any little girl! Knitted in white and a color, the tree, snowballs, glitter with sequins to the child's delight. Pattern 527: chart, knitting di- rections, sizes 4-14 included. Only 4 oz. of worsted make set. Send THIRTY-FIVE CENTS (stamps cannot be accepted, use postal note for safety) for this pattern to LAURA WHEELER, Sox 1, 123 Eighteenth St., New Toronto, Ont. Print plainly PAT- TERN NUMBER, your NAME end ADDRESS. Two FREE Patterns as a gift to our readers — printed right in our 1957 Laura Wheeler Needle- craft Book. Dozens of other de- signs you'll want to order — easy fascinating handwork for your- self, your home, gifts, bazaar items. Send 25 cents for your copy of this book today! * for him to do that, but ac- tually ; you were too weak to * turn him down. * Now be firm, but final. A short note saying you will re- * fuse to accept any further let- * ters should be sufficient. If he * telephones you long-distance, * refuse, to tak e the call. Should * he still persist, have a male * relative write him demand- * ing that he cease • annoying * you. '' Many a girl would be flat- * tered• by such devotion, but all this has become really * obnoxious, besides which you * feel responsible for his con- * tinued. passion. If he had been more sensitive he would have * realized his pursuit was un- * welcome, and retired from * the scene. * Such a determined court- " ship is not unheard of, but it * must be ended if only because * your privacy is being invaded, * and the sense of guilt is being * imposed on the wrong person. * * * UNDEPENDABLE BEAU "Dear Anne Hirst: For the past nine months I've been go- ing with a boy who breaks about one date in three. I like him too much to risk offending him, but T am getting fed up with these goings on. My family do not like him at all, and even my friends have asked me why I put up with him. "Is' there any tactful way to show him how annoyed I am? MARIE" * Any young man who breaks * a date without notice or rea- * son lacks a sense of social * responsibility, and shows little * respect for the girl who per- * mits such neglect. * This beau of yours has hgd * more chances than he de- * serves, and he will continue * to take them so long as you * allow him to. You had better • tell hint frankly that a date * means a promise to you, and * if he breaks one more, you * will not be seeing him again. * Most boys learn the social * rules at home, or from the * first girls they date. This one * must be told what is due you, * and be convinced that you * will accept nothing less. You * may lose him, but you will * get over it. You are already * losing the respect of your * friends. ' Is anybody worth * that? * e Anne Hirst's column pre- sents surprising and unusual problems, as well as heart- rending situations. If unhappy situations arise in your Life, ask her how to handle them. Address Anne Ilirst at Box 1, 123 Eighteenth St., New Tor- onto, Ont. Modern Etiquette by Roberta Lee Q. Is it all right to eat crisp breakfast bacon with the fingers? A. No; with the fork, Q. Is it all right for a woman to introduce her husband's moth- er to her good friends as, "This is my mother-in-law"? A. It would be better to say, "This is Bob's mother." Q. Is it considered proper at a christening to clothe the baby 3n soft pink or blue? A. Everything the baby wears at a christening should be white. Q. How and when should a bridegroom offer his fee to the clergyman who performs the ceremony? A. He entrusts an envelope containing the fee to his best man, who tenders it to the clergy- man after the ceremony. FIRST MEETING—Two of the nation's most distinguished citizens, Frank Lloyd Wright, left, and Carl Sandburg, stop for a chat after appearing tx.gether on a television program, It was the first time that world-famous 'architect Wright, and 'equally famed poet Sn !burg had ever met, They discussed, ap- propriately enough, Chicago ,architecture. POSTER FAMILY—All polio victims, Mrs. Helen Solomon and her children, from left, twins Lindy and Sandy, 6, and Joe, 9, have been named the U.S. March of Dimes Poster Family for 1958. Mrs. Solomon and the three children all contracted the dread disease during a single week in July, 1953, and have been fighting the effects ever since. r= a `- '%!:G c^'H.„,g4 41 /4v' HR NICi, INGE It's a sad, sad story. One day the flower beds were full of colour and bloom. The next , , . leaves and flowers alike wilted by a killing frost, except for the hardy varieties. So much loveli- ness entirely obliterated by the sudden chill breath of winter. The same applies to the trees. Already most of the trees around here are naked — shivering as if the months ahead appalled them, It was certainly a very sudden change in the weather, and one which we didn't exactly appre- ciate. Also, almost coincident, with winter weather came the switch back to standard time. Did you get an extra hour's sleep? We didn't. Force of habit was too strong. We turned the clocks back all right but got up as usual by daylight saving time. However, we go to bed on good old standard time so I imagine in a few days we shall be pretty well adjusted. Anyway, I hadn't better get started on that topic again, I said my two ce'.cs' worth last week. Since then I notice the Federation cf Agri- culture has started vol Ing a pro= test. More power try them. . Well, this is a 'very quiet house we are living in right now. Last Friday nig/et our wee Eddie went back to his own home. We had had him for exactly a month. When his father came for him ire didn't know him and for a good half-hour wouldn't go to him at all. Eventually he cane to the conclusion that he was all right and in the end went off with him quite happily al- though with a backward glance all the way to the car, not quite able to figure out why grandma wasn't coming too. Today we all went into see the new baby. His mother's description was very accurate — he DOES look like a little Indian . black hair, fat red cheeks and a broad nose, Cute though, and a very good baby. Eddie was quite ready to come away with us when eve left but Dave wouldn't hear of it. He wanted both his brothers left at home. And so another family milestone has passed. Now maybe things wilt run along quietly for a bit . until the next upheaval, before which I hope we get time to catch our breath. Personally 1 like Iny excitement in small' doses, especially with Christmas only a matte; of weeks away. In the meantime Partner is literally keeping the home fires burning with odds and ends that accumulate in every house, One of our neighbours had a small tree that came crashing down on his garden. He does not have a fireplace so Partner was given the wood ;for taking it away. Of course, he still has his web - saw and a one-man crosscut — relics of the farm — so he le well equipped to deal with just such an. emergency. He also has large clippers and pruning shears with which he has been busy all fall— thinning and clearing out brush along the line fence, tying the bigger twigs into small bundles. I laughed a few nights ago as he came into the living room with one of these small bundles to light the fire. Memory took me back more years than I care to tell. Back to England. n:e P. Ci.a t,ls,e where a man used to trundle his push -barrow along the streets selling "faggots" at a penny a bundle. You won't even find the word in modern dictionaries but Old Country people will know what I mean. To the 'initiated I should explain that "faggots" are bundles of wood suitable for kindling. Some pictures of Joan of Arc show the foot of the stake surrounded by faggots. Some- times it is rough, split wood; sometimes twigs and small branches tied into bundles. Qn country estates whenever trees are felled for fuel or /umber, the cottagers were allowed the "privilege" of taking the tops and small branches. If there was more thar, they needed for their own requirements the wood used to be done up in faggots and sola. I wonder if that custom still holds good. Probably not as farm labourers now get a lving-wage and are possibly not as anxious to salvage waste prod- ucts for a mere pittance. Frugality on the whole is dying a slow death. We often think that on Tuesdays. That is gar- bage day and at every 'driveway , there are cans, cartons and bundles of papers. A tot of it burnable — in summer by means of an incinerator; in winter in an open fireplace, thus cutting down the fuel bill. It really does. We have to turn down the ther- mostat when we have a fire go- ing — or be roasted out. After all why throw away what can be used for our pleasure and comfort with a minimum of effort? On a cold, raw night is anything more cheerful than a blazing fire on an open hearth — on a farm or in an urban home? On the farm a fire en the hearth in the evening saved us the necessity of starting the furnace. Keeping a small fire in a coal furnace is quite a chore. An oil furnace is easier to oper- ate but it has one definite dis- advantage. If anything goes wrong it takes a repair man to fix it. Partner says if the old Twin Doubled For Bride With Jitters Everybody in the packed vil- lage church thought how lovely the slender, fair-hairedbride looked in her expensive "wed- ding dress of white satin and gold thread as she stood with her 'dignified bridegroom before the priest who was to marry them. With the bridegroom was his somewhat nervous- looking best man. All went well until the moment came when he had to pass the $300 wedding, ring to the bridegroom. Then there was a. gasp of dis- may as those nearest saw him drop' it bn to the stone floor and watched it roll out of sight. The embarrassed best man made a dive to get it and failed. The bride's father went down on his knees to join in the hunt. Even the priest felt obliged to assist, for the ring had van- ished into a dark recess at the back of the organ. With the flustered bridegroom directing operations, the men shifted the organ and began rummaging amid. the dust and cobwebs at the back of it. People sitting in church tried hard to suppress their laughter when they saw the hurriedly summoned sexton turn up, arm- ed with a long pole to `reinforce the ring -hunters. Nearly twenty minutes elapsed before it came to light. The sex - .ton held it up triumphantly. It was dirty and cobwebby and had to be carefully wiped hefore the perspiring groom finally put it on his bride's slim finer. That happened in Bavaria but wedding day nerves have fre- quently been the cause of awk- ward moments at marriage cer- emonies all over the world. In France they tell the extra- ordinary story of a pretty young girl who fell in love with 'a de- bonair army officer. As her wed- ding day approached, the girl, Germaine, became more and more excited and nervous, de- claring that she was beginning to feel that the ceremony would be too much for her and she could never eo through with it. On the wedding morning she was more nervous than ever. `3fhat was to be done? At this critical stage Germaine's equal- ly pretty twin sister had a brainwave. Why should she not act as her sister's deputy? They were so much alike that the possibility of the deception be- ing detected was remote. And so it happened. Wearing Germaine's lovely wedding gown and veil, the sister came trium- phantly through the ceremony. Neither the bridegroom nor anybody else except the girls and their parents knew what had happened. On her sister's return from the church, Ger- maine took her place,, A year or two later a calmer and happier Germaine went through another wedding cere- mony with her adoring husband at her request. And he so far has never learned the truth. During a wedding at Istachat- ta, in the United States, the min- ister was astonished to see a snake wriggling down the aisle. He threw a hymn book at it and then the verger came along to remove the intruder. which was later returned to a pet shop from which it had escaped. Every ' bride hopes that no serious hitch will occur on her wedding day, but many bride- grooms have experienced the agony of discovering too late that they, or the best man, have forgotten or lost the ring with - coal furnace went out he knew how to light it. If the oil furnace goes out it takes a mechanic to get it going again. That has hap- pened here only once, a few weeks after we came.' out which the ceremony 'could not take place At an August wedding before the war the London bridegroom forgot the ring because he had been celebrating with pals until 2 amt., had got up late and had to dash , off to the church in a hurry. Luckily his . best man was equal to the occasion and stepped forward and handed the clergyman a door key with the handle of which the bridal cou- ple were then formally "joined together." Sometimes it's the bride who causes . a hitch tin the wedding ceremony. In Australia, a • tem- peramental brunette waited un- til her g'room was actuallyslip- ping the ring on her finger be- fore she decided that it„was all. a mistake and she did not want to marry him, She had left it too late, how- ever. It was decided by the Su- preme Court in Melbourne that she had willingly taken pant in the major part of the ceremony and was therefore legally mar- ried. The wedding presents were on view. Displayed in a prominent position was a cheque for $5,000, the gift of the bride's father. "I say, who is that chap laugh- ing at your father's cheque?" exclaimed the bridegroom, feel- ing annoyed. "Oh, that's his bank manager!" said the bride. , Casually Yours! 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Some 130 hotels are under construction and the resort' will boast such capitalistic pleasures as gambling casino* and night clubs with Western entertainers.