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HomeMy WebLinkAboutThe Seaforth News, 1957-02-07, Page 6r r • ANNE FFIRST "DEAR ANNE HIRST: "How can I find ' outif ny husband is unfaithful?" cries a distressed. wife. "In all our :nine years together, I never before have doubted him. But now un- certainty is tearing me apart! "There isa woman in this town who is notorious; she has broken up two homes, and I am afraid for mine. A friend told me she has seen my husband with her downtown, but how can I prove it? He denies he. even knows her, "I admit that when I am up- set, I accuse himof having an affair, but it is his own fault - 'where there's smoke there's fire,' etc. He has not changed toward me, he is as loving and attentive as ever, and our mar- riage has been beautiful. But I cannot forget what I heard. We have a young son whom we dearly love, but even with him I am not myself, and he senses it. • "My husband has a fine repu- tation, and is very popular with everybody. His family have lived here for generations, and I can't believe he would be guil- ty of sin - and with such a public character! If it were a friend of mine he were interest- ed in, I would be hurt but not so ashamed. Don't you think I should do something about it?" WHY DOUBT HIM? * I suppose it is of little use * to remind you that few men * stray from home if they find * love there, and the compan * ionship they need. In nine years your husband has never * sought anyone else, nor ne- * glected you in any way. Your * only basis for these doubts is * hearsay; don't you know that * jealous "friends" sometimes * cannot resist sowing seeds of * suspicion in the mind of a * wife who is happier than * they? * Sit down quietly and coin- * pose yourself. Look et your * marriage as it has existed for * nine years. Can you find any * fault in it? Your husband is * a man of integrity; he is de- * voted, attentive, proud of you * and his son. 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You say * that if he were interested in * a friend of your, you could * understand;. if that were true, * you might well worry, for * she could be ' a formidable * rival. But what : joy could he, * a man of refinement, find with * a disreputable woman? You * have been, you are his be- * loved wife, you are closer * than any couple you know. * What : must your husband * be thinking of your accuse- * tion? He undoubtedly is re- * volted and can: find no words * 10 reply to you. * ' Cast fears from you. Be- * lieve your husband still is the * fine person he has always * been, and resolve that " from * this day on you will trust him * with all your heart. Cease * your nagging, and you be * very sure that the- hours he * spends at home are relaxed, * made content by your love * and, more important, by your * complete faith. * Whether or not you -can do * this, I do not know. But I * urge you not to pursue the * matter further. * b. 0 WANTS A WIFE "Dear Anne Hirst: I am a man in my early 40's, with two unhappy memories behind me: I loved two girls (successively) and both turned me down the first because I owned n0 property and was making only a small salary. The other, who pretended to care, left me fiat. and married somebody else. "I always have attended church regularly and usually took up some activities there. I'm not hard to get along with, my family are O,K., and now I have an excellent position with every hope of security. I am ready to get married, build a home, and appreciate a good wife. "Won't you give me the name and address of that young wo- man of 25 who is lonesome in this town that is strange to me, too? I haven't met a single girl that attracts me here. JIM„ * You probably are a new * reader of this column, or you * would know that I never can * introduce readers to each * other. * My customary suggestion to * men in your situation is to * cultivate the men you know * and like, and tell them your * problem. Happily married * ones will see that their wives * introduce you to eligible * young women. Let your new * minister and other leaders in * the community know your * hopes, too, and soon you * should find yourself pleasant- * ly occupied. * If you can take an early * vacation this spring, visit a * resort, make yourself known * to the social director, and go • on from there. Or take a * cruise - on it, you are apt * to meet unattached women in ° the mood for romance, which *develops rapidly aboard ships. * New places and faces will • give you a lift and new hope * for the future. Good hunting! * * * Anne Hirst stands by to guide you through any kind of trouble.. Write her frankly, and receive her understanding and her sympathy. Address her at Box 1, 123 Eighteenth St. New Toronto, Ont. . BLEAK HOUSE - Shown .despoil- ing the handiwork of Jack Frost is this disgruntled little girl in Frankfurt, Germany. After clew- ing lear•- ing.a space on the icy pane and flattening her nose for a better look, she has apparently deckl- ed that little girls stay indoors on clays like this. ".. . NOR GLOOM OF NIGHT ..:'-Plgyi;ng postman polio - crippled children do their bit for the;, 1957. March of Dimes. The youngsters mailed the first of two -million contribution envelopes being sent out by the National Foundation for Infantile Paraly- sis. Left to right, children are: Gail Lobito, 6; Gerard Boyle, 41 and Jill Searing, 3. HRONICLL 1NGERFAIrn eve .d.ol%r.e P. Cta vike Somewhere in my column last week I voiced the hope of a re- turn to normal living. So what happened? Canada started the New Year with a railway strike. As you know it actually started as scheduled. My sister and nephew were here at the time and they had to return to Osh- awa a day earlier than planned. In a way we were glad because the Weather was desperately cold and we were so afraid they might not be warm enough. Stoke as you like, these big country houses amid the wide open spaces are exposed to every wind that blows which makes it hard to keep an even tempera- ture. Next day, that is the second day of the strike, the mailman came along as usual -minus the morning paper. Now we are get- ting it again but always a day late. That doesn't suit Partner too well because no matter what we hear by radio or television he still wants his paper. More so than I do, I like to listen to the news of the day, condensed and delivered in tabloid form. That way I can keep on with my work and still keep up with the times. But that doesn't apply to local weekly papers. They must be read, marked and inwardly digest, d without benefit of radio and TV. They are the papers we read from end to end and back. again. We read the advertising, the council reports, social affairs, coming events, personal items. and the highlights of the week's news. This applies -only more so -to readers who are quite a distance from home. We got a bundle of English local papers last week and to us they con- tained a goldmine of informa- tion. We are glad the strike doesn't hold up the mail completely be- cause the new year mail is al- ways interesting to us especially 'as we received a number of very welcome letters from read- ers of this column which have been much appreciated - even • though some of the letter -writers preferred to remain anonymous. ' Then there are the short, ,very short intimate letters . "just a not to let you knowwe are still alive but very busy—so much illness in the family and so many changes -but we are going to write you a really long letter very soon" Didn't you get a few letters like that? Well, another upset that pre- vented "a return to normal liv- ing" was the sudden illness of'a friend in town -an old lady of eighty-three, living alone. For- tunately she has many good friends so between us all she had someone ' with her all the time, night and day. My stint was to go down after dinner and stay until about seven o'clock. The lady is now recovering very nicely and no doubt will soon be up and around again, The;'come- back' of some of our aged citi- zens is truly amazing. " r Partner, of course, has been doing a bit of batching !but as long as there, is food in the re- frigerator he dosn't mind as he doesn't have too many ;chores outside these clays. Our one cow is going dry so we shall soon be buying milk' until .such time as Bossie comes in again: Partner' is also getting the barnyard cleaned out the easy way -by selling the fertilizer. This prac- tice is against • all good, farming principles, but not in .our case. As all thefarm is 'down in grass and will . eventually be taken over by tlae Department of Highways, it is naturally more profitable for us to sell whatever fertilizer has accumulated dur- ing the last year or so. The buyer and trucker also do things the easy way. No picks and forks these days, They come along with a mechanical loader which fills the truck in about a quarter of the time. What an age we live in! The automobile has eliminated a good deal of our walking and now automation is considerably sub- stituting the use of our hands. But not entirely, we can be quite sure of that. It will be a long time before we stop using a knife and fork! The average person is too fond of eating for that to happen. And most of us eat too much anyway. In some cases the more leisure a person has the more he eats -for the - simple .reason he has more time to enjoy his meals.,But alas, that way danger lies and the trouble creeps on in such- an insidious way. Soon after Partner disposed of his milking cows he began to put on weight -and that he can- not afford to do. So we reviewed •his food intake for an average day ,discovered he was too gen- erous with starches and liquids and acted accordingly. Now, al- though :he isn'ton a diet he has cut down on bulk foods and in- creased those which supply vita- mins and proteins. When we buy milk we shall_ get: skim milkfor drinking and a bottle of cream for our coffee. That creaw will be our one concessionbecause we do enjoy our breakfast cofe ee! We hope by exercising - a: little-conunon sense to avoid trouble. Sometime the Great ' Reaper will catch up with us but we don't intend to go' half -way to meet him! Perhaps some other folk may stop, think and eat - according to their needs rather than their fancy. Going' to School In Shakespeare's Day Now for the school in Shake- speare's day. Shakespeare was allowed to join the school when he had reached the age of seven years ... Shakespeare's class- room was long and: narrow and timbered. There would be a desk for the schoolmaster and smaller desks, benches and forms for the scholars. Per les- sons, Shakespeare would learn Latin, some arithmetic and - a Tittle Greek. English was not a l school subject, but it is interest- ing to record that it was a Schoolmaster who was alive when Shakespeare lived who first, pleaded that the English language should be taught in school. We get a description of school life written in 1612 by John Brinsley. Brinsley was Head- master of 'Ashby-de-la-Zouch Grammar School from .1601- 1617._He wrote: Of school times, intermissionsand recreations, the school time should begin at six; all who write Latin to make their exercises which were given overnight, in that hour be- fore seven. Thus they are to continue until nine .:. Then at 0100, to let them have a quarter of an hour at least, or more, for intermission, either for breakfast . for honestrecrea- tion, or to prepare `their exer- cises against the master's coin- ing in. After, each of them to be in his place in an instance, upon the knocking of the door, or some other sign;.. •. and so continue until eleven of the clock, or somewhat after, to countervail the time of the in- termission at nine. In the after- noon: To being again all ready and in their places et one, in an instance; to continue until three, or half an hour after; then to have another quarter of an hour or more, as at nine, so to continue till half an hour after five; thereby in that half hour to countervail the time at three; then to end with reading a piece of a chapter, and with singing two staves of a Psalm: lastly with prayer to be used by the master , . 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According to his birth certificate'(inset), he was born in hte`Mosiem calendar year 1240, which would make him 136 years old. Mohammed, who still ' has .remarkable .strength, works in his garden and walks to the local'. mosque for his daily prayers. He would probably say "just', a kid" if he could meet Mrs. Mary Arnold, right; who lives in the Methodist Sunset Home in Quincy, ill. She has just celebrated her 104th birthday.; -Although ,confined to a wheel chair by a; hip broken a few years ago, her healthisgood: and she keeps busy crocheting.