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HomeMy WebLinkAboutThe Clinton News Record, 1934-07-12, Page 7THURS., JULY 12, 1934 Health THE CLINTON NEWS -RECORD PAGE 7 Cooking ORAN Ervs e tv � u� �i% 7� el 0 L SEA "Fresh from the Gardens" Ruminaious g Reheiali • rrA Column Prepared Especially for Women— But Not Forbidden to Men THE BABY ' "She is a little hindering thing," The mother said, • "1 do not have an hour of peace Till she's in bed. "She clings unto my hand and gown And follows me About the house from room to room, Talks constantly. "She is a bundle full of nerves, And wilful ways , ' She does not sleep full sound at night 'Scarce any days. "She doesn't like to hear the wind, The dark she fears, -And piteously she calls to me To wipe her tears. ' "She is a little hindering thing," The mother said, "But still she is my 'wine of life, My daily bread." ' The children what a load of care Their coming brings: ':But, oh, the grief when God .doth stoop To give thein wings! —From English Lavender. MOTHER 0' MINE (Continued from last week) "When my little child eame, my heart seemed to bo set at 'liberty. It ov- erflowed all 'its accustomed banks. '.The current was se strong I fancied "that love would tide me through any number of small waywardnesses. I • did not think I should ever. need "grace" to bring up my darling. But a day arrived when my streams ran dry, and it was then that I re- membered you, and, following in your footsteps, found the continual Supply But Babyhood and 'Childhood do• not nearly make up the bounds of your dominion. I fancy that the really critical time is "when the brook and river meet." What heavenly tact and wisdom mothers need in dealing with this. period of growing pains! "Mother, you don't understand!" I remember saying that! The thoughts of youth are long, long thoughts, and they make this mistake: they fancy that no one else has ever thought so far before, "How can this quiet little Mother of mine" --this is how youth rea- sons—"know anything about the vast speculations which stir my being? How can she—absorbed as she is in the calm, prosaic, business side of life—elitnb up to my high and holy hill? Her way of looking at things is hopelessly old-fashioned, I cannot even discuss nay most wistful thoughts with her." And then—then — the inevitable Happens! The magic casement op- ens . . , and First Love steps in. You and I remember it, Mother, do we not? T know now—+what I did not guess then --that it must have hurt you, to know that a comparative stranger was invited to sit in the Confidential Chair. That place, which your gen, tle, faithful spirit had occupied so long, was yours no longer. You, who bad never failed, had to make way for one, who—lalasl—could not be expected to possess the stability which experience alone can confer. Mother, how gracefully you ab- dicated! I submit that it is to the glory and honour of all good mothers when OF TIIE' ttnabjztn eirat AoaarUttiott and Life Insurance Companies in Canada. Edited by GRANT FLEMING, M.D., Associate Secretary NERVOUSNESS We are born with certain instincts -which, if they were allowed to gov- ern our conduct, would soon bring us into conflict with the established standards of social behaviour, most of which we, individually, will have accepted. Unconsciously, there- is going on within us a constant con- flict as between our instincts and these standards. The. individual who snakes a satisfactory "adjustment be- tween' the two and finds:a'personally satisfying and socially acceptable outlet of expression for his instinc- tive drives, has mental' health. Fail - tire to resolve the Conflict in a sat- isfactory manner leads' to mental eon-- ? flicts which express themselves in • actions and behaviour of a kind that is commonly known as nervous bel. ' haviour, or -nervousness. Nervousness ' takes . many forms, • one of which' is neurasthenia. • Fat- ' ague is a prominent symptom. The slightest' exertion causes fatigue the morning'flndsthe 'sufferer more tired .-than when' he went to bed. There is •,difficiilty in concentrating attention, which: means that it is hard to 'get work: finished. This, in turn, leads to Worry and to irritability, expressed in outbursts of anger or tears. Worries and fear's can be run a- • way from, or suppressed for the time t being if the individual becomes ill, for noone, and certainly not the • sick man himself, expects • that a sick man will do his work or deal with problems. Illness is an escape, aiid the . neuraesthenic unconsciously ' begins'•to 'develop: pains, aches and other 'symptoms associated with phy- ,,sical 'disease. The symptoms are not imaginary; they are very real, but their cause lies in the mental, not the physical life of the individual. Mental health and physical health are closely reldted, and any disturbance of the mental or emotional side of the body may express itself in physi- cal changes. Neurasthenia varies is . severity from mere fatigue and inability to sleep, to a condition of well-develop- ed fears and severe physical prostra- tion, what is called a nervous' break down, or nervous exhaustion. Nei- ther our nerves nor our brains be- come exhausted from work. An ex- hausting physical illness, or a sudden and severe mental shock may be im- portant factors in, the development of neurasthenia, but in the vast ma- jority of cases, the condition grows out of mental conflicts. . There is no such thing as "shell -shock:" in the. ordinary sense of the words; the symptoms of shell-ehoek express an involuntary mental conflict' between the instinct of self-preservation and the accepted standard o{ duty. Neurasthenia does not develop in the individual 'in whom good mental habits are established in childhood. Treatment consists in the sufferer's' gaining an understanding of himself' and es to why he reacts in the way he does to certain situations, With that knowledge and under' proper guidance, he can work out a satis- factory adjustment to the world in which he finds himself. Questions .concerning Health, ad- dressed to the Canadian Medical As- sociation, ;184 College Street, Toron- to, will be answered personally by letter. they quietly abdicate infavour of First Love, If only all Mothers could he as wise as you werewe should not read such'. sad, and often shocking, cones in the newspapers. There would be fewer rebellious daughters, and less heart- breaking evidence in the law courts. I put it on record that you always left your heart's door ajar. But, oh, you were wise, dear +11/other! You did not stand there, with tearful eyes „sorrowful smile, beckoning the back to the old haven. No. You waited, patiently, sensibly. If I approached the threshold, you let me come, just as far as I wished,. but no farther. How I love you for that! And you had your reward; for there carie a day when I •opened my door widely, and I asked you to come ink I ]aid bare all my treasure. My hopes, my fears, my misgivings, a nd the wild, almost unbearable longings which come, following in the train of First Love. I told you everything. And I can,, this very day, feel again the sense of peace and healing which came to me from the fact that you knew; and that you were not ashamed, nor an- gry. I had the earthly love, and the Di- vine, packed up into separate little air -tight compartments. One was secular, the other sacred so I thought; and I even fancied that this great thing which had come to me was somewhat of an outrage in the' sight of the Heavenly Lover. But, you said, it was God's gift to me. You said that the "feeling," a-. bout which I was so sensitive and half ashamed, was God's way of mak- ing aking me understand His own love for this world. Once more, it was the. learning how to love that mattered, not simply the gratifying of that wonderful desire. You said that the longing was go- ing to develop things which would make a woman of me; and that my part was merely to sit still and see how the matter would fall. The text you gave the was this: "No good thing will He withhold Care of Children Household Economics from them that walk uprightly." I wish that every mother might, take a leaf out of your book. I trem- ble to think what might have happen- ed to me if you had laughed at me, or had been angry with me. But not You bound me to you with a three- fold cord. Quietly and serenely happy in my married life, I look back at that inv. pulsive and emotional girl, : and I thank God for the Gospel according to Mother. • And what more shall I say? Life is composed of ups and downs, shadow and shine, sun and rain. The thought of you has helped me through many a long day. The desire to please you has spurred nie to many an effort. Often, when I have been trying to tell some perplexed and troubled soul about the love ofJesus, esus I have recal- led some little homely tale about you =•some loving ministry of yours, which has helped me inmy childhood, youth,' or middle -age --band I have been able, so confidently, to press home the application: "As one whom his mother comfort- eth, so will I comfort you." I have considered - thoughtfully those two mothers—Mother Eve and Mother Mary. And I worship the Almighty and compassionate Lord Who allowed the first woman to become a •mother, so that, outlawed from Eden, she might find comfort in dimpled arms and dancing feet. And.I love the Princely Giver, Who gave His Only Begotten into the arms of a human mother. Wliat a glory, then, God has put upon .Motherhood! What tremendous value He sets upon all that a mother can be, and can dol, She has an ev- er -widening circle of influence, which may reach to the very ends of the earth -and farther. I see it so clearly now. But I think I never should have done so, Mother, but for your simple upas, suiting faith, which not only soared to the heavens upon occasion, but al- so reached down to the level of "ev- ery ec.ery day's most quiet need." "THE LIFE OF ; SUR LORD" by • Charles Dickens CHAPTER THE ELEVENTH — Part Three After that time, Jesus Christ was seen by five hundredof his followers at once, and He remained with others of them forty days, teaching them, and instructing them to go forth into the world, and preach His gospel and religion; not minding what wicked then might do to them. And conducting his disciples at last out of Jerusalem as far as Bethany, he blessed thein, and ascended in a cloud to Heaven, and took His place at the right hand of God. And while they gazed into the bright blue sky where 13.lie had vanished, two white - robed angels appeared among them, and told them that as they had seen Christ ascend to Heaven, 1 -le would one day come descending from it, to judge the World. When Christ was seen no more, the Apostles began to teach the Peo, ple as HIe had commanded them. And having chosen a new apostle, named Matthias, to replace the wicked Judas, they wandered into all coun- tries, telling the People of Christ's Life and Death -and of His Cruci- fixion and Resurrection -and of the Lessons He had taught—and baptiz- ing them in Christ's name, And through the power He had given them they healed the sick, and gave sight to the Blind, and speech to the Dumb, and Hearing to -the Deaf, as he had done. And Peter being thrown into Prison, was delivered from it, in the dead of; night by an angel; and once, his words before Gocl caused a man named Ananias, and his wife Sapp- hire, who had told a lie, to be struck down dead, upon the Earth. Wherever they went, they were Persecuted and cruelly treated; and one man named Saul. who had held the clothes of some barbarous' per- sons who pelted one of the Christians named Stephen, to death with stones, was• always " active in doing . the harm. Bat God turned Saul's heart afterwards; for as he was travelling to Damascus to, find out some Christ- ians who were there, and drag them to prison, there shone 'about him • a great light from Heaven; a voice cried, "Saul, Saul, whypersecutest thou me!" and he was struck down from his horse, by an invisible hand, in sight of all the guards and soldiers who were riding with him. When they raised him, they found that he was blind; and so he remained, for Mother o' Mine, I thank God upon I pray,that thus my child shall think every remembrance of you! And, of me." . • "On my knee—REBEKAH. THIS MODEST CORNER IS DEDICATED TO THE POETS Here They Will Sing You Their Songs -Sometimes Gay, Sometimes Sad— But Always Helpful and Ins pining• THE SONG IN THE RAIN I heard a blackbird in the rain Singing his song of love, And the sound of that mad and glad refrain Brought back my Faith that above, There is God. Witty else would a blackbird sing? I saw a flower in the rain Lift up its head anew, And the scent it spread as it breath- ed again Ref±eshed my 'heart -and I knew There is God. How else could a flower live? Ruth S. Hardie, in The Scotsman, SILENT PLACES The heart has need of quiet times, some place Where • it may rest beyond the throbbing race Of mart and town,— Green pastures, where the soul sees visions new, The rhythm of needs, the coolness of the clew As dark slips down; A mountain' rising purple night, A. blissful brook that sings clear delight • June's interlude; three days, neither eating nor drink- ing, until one of the Christians (sent to him by an angel for that purpose) restored his sight in the name of. Jesus Christ. After which, he be-, carate a Christian, and preached, and taught, and believed, with the Apos- tles, and did great service. They took the name of Christians from Our Saviour Christ, and car- ried Crosses as their sign , because upon a Cross Ho had suffered Death. The Religions that were then in the world were false and brutal, and encouraged men to violence. Beasts, and even men, were killed in the Churches, in the belief that the smell of their blood was pleasant to the Gods—there were supopsed to be -a great many Gods --and many most cruel and disgusting ceremonies pre - trailed. Yet, for all this, and though the Christian Religion was such a true, and kind, and good one, the priests of the old Religions long per., suaded the people to do all possible' hurt to the Christians; . and Christ- ians were hanged, beheaded, burnt, buried alive, and devoured in Theat- res by Wild Beasts for the public a- musement, during many years. Noth, ing would silence them, or terrify them though; for they knew that if they did their duty, they would go to Heaven. So thousands upon thousands of Christians sprung up and taught the people and were cruelly killed, and were succeeded by ,other Christians, until the. Religion gradually became the great religion of .the World.. 'Remember(—It is C'hrisianity to do Goodalways--even to, those who' do evil to us,' It is Christianity to. love our neighbour as ourself, and to do to all men as we would have them. Do to us. • It is Christianity to be gentle, rcer'ciful, and forgiving, and to keep those qualities quiet in our own hearts,' and never )rake a boast. of them, or of our prayers, or of our love of, God, but always to shew that we love IIim by humbly.trying to do right in everything. If we do this, and remember the fife and lessons of Our Lord Jesus Christ, and try to act up to them we may confidently hope that God will forgive as our sins and mistakes, and enable 115 to live and die in Peace. ,THE END, (Copyright for North and South America, 1984,, by United Feature Syndicate, Inc.; all rights, reserved.) in the with Shell moves to rose of deepest hue Under the sun's vast golden light. Each flower has had her morning look, As Mother's fingers reached to touch Their loveliness in leafy nook— Her prayer—"Oh, thank you, Lord, so much." A road with drowsy bees and lupines lace, A cloister lake, where ",Luna sees her face, Sweet solitude! —Herren Slack Wickenden, in The Montreal Star. * MORNING With soft mists clinging to her hair, And eyes all dewy bright, Sweet morning, from the hill top fair, Dispels tho gloom of night. She pauses there, a vision bright, Then hurries down the hill, And leaves the glory of her light A -shining in the rill. Slie treads the earth with rosy feet And wakes each sleeping flower And whispers to the song -birds sweet "It is the: morning hour." She gently wakes the little breeze. To scatter warmth around, And smiles her way among the trees, Till all with gold are crowned. The mists slip gently from her hair, And softly fade away; And scattering sunshine everywhere She drives the clouds away. She smiles through hours that swift- ly fly, And when her smile grows cold She hides herself within the sky, %r'apped round with veils of gold, —Arnie Blundell Sims. 'AFTER RAIN The rain has ceased; the air is very still And fragrant with the breath of vir- gin leaves And opening buds. The trees are stamped in ,black On the, cool sapphire of the clearing slcy, The vivid emerald of the new -washed grass Is flecked with bluettes and wild' vio- lets; Great crystal raindrops gleam like diamonds From spider webs of silver filigree, The air is vibrant with' the whir of wings--, - A' pair of cardinals, twin streaks of Flash in and out among the topmost boughs'. Of an cottonwood above the lake; And from a grove. of locusts on the hill A mocking bird pours out his heart in song! • —Lena Whittaker Blakeney. *Xe * * Frail climbing trumpets fluting o'er The dim, pool place where Mother sings, In' listening marvel, by her door, Each lovely morning-glory swings. Deep purple tones to subtle blue, And faintest pink drifts into white;' • MOTHER'S MORNING GLORY I pause to keep this tenderness— 1 did not witness—yet know well— This bond of golden slenderness That flowers, 'sky and sun could tell. Then she, whose morning face I love, Conies swift and eager at my, call, And smiles, with swaying vines a- bove, The sweetest flower of them all. —Amy Campbell, in the New Out- look. fi TREES In the Garden of Eden, planted by God, There were • goodly trees in the springing sod—• Trees of beauty and height and grace To stand in splendor before his face. Apple and hickory, ash and pear, Oak and beeth and the tulip rare, Tho trembling aspen, the noble pine, The sweeping elm by the river line; Trees for the birds to build and sing, And the lilac tree for a joy in the spring; Treesto turn at the frosty call And carpet the ground for their Lord's footfall; Trees for fruitage and fire and shade Trees for the cunning builder's trade; Wood for the bow, the spear and the flail, . The keel and the mast of the daring sail. IIs, made 'them of every grain and girth For the use of man in the Garden of Earth. Then lest the soul should not lift her eyes From the gifts to the Giver of Para- dise, On the crown of a hill for all to see, Gocl, pIanted a scarlet maple tree. —Bliss Carman. SMALL TOWN WISDOM You roamers of the world, from home bonds free, Who scour ;the earth for cities of renown, How cramped 'your viewl—for you have yet to see The Maytime glory of our•little • . town, You speak of ancient peoples, courts and kings; You tell of storied•; castles you have seen; But you have yet to learn how glad, mess sings In our small :streets, as . Winter yields to green. The snowdrifts gone, what golden gossip then Of gardens --crocus, tulip, iris, phlox; The rose and larkspur soon will wake •again, And ,June will bring the stately hollyhocks. The lore of heaven(—yet you roam' afar In search of wisdom! You shall late return From wandering beneath an • alien star To findthe altar fires that bright burn In every little town where • meek hearts dwell, Whore friendliness is still a thing to prize. 0 that we had the magic tongue to tell The glory of the world before our eyes! —Thomas Curtis CIack,l" in Chicago .Tribune. SWEARING OFF Magistrate (to dishcarged' prison-, er) : Now, then, I would advise you , m ARE YOU A CHFIRRFUL SICK VISITOR? Did you ever stop to ask yourself what kind of a visitor you are when you call on sick friends? The fol•, lowing appeared not long ago in an exchange and seemed very apt: "A sick person does not enjoy the neighbor who drops in'and says: "Oh, yes, I had a sister, just like_ you. She had just those symptoms all summer and in the fall she had a shock and has never got over it. Yes, maybe the doctor can help you, but, believe Me, he can't mire that' disease." Nor does she enjoy the minister who comes to cheer her up and before he leaves describes in detail his moth-, er's death. Nor the garrulous neigh- bor who enjoys visiting the sick and attending: funerals, and tells in de, theOther sickpeople in tail of a o �P P the neighborhood, their ailments, the doctor's opinion and how they suffer, Also the neighbors and relations who cannot come, but who write advice on changing doctors and having an operation until you dread to open a letter. But how she does enjoy the neigh- bor who, drops in for just a few min- utes and stays that long, and tells interesting little pieces of neighbor- hood news. And the other neighbor. who brings in -a dish of something she has prepared for her own fam- ily' and knows you like. You enjoy it but don't feel that she has been put to a lot of trouble to prepare it. Also the thoughtful neighbors who send old magazines and books to read during the tiresome days of convalescence, and the other friend who knows of similar cases where the patients have got well and strong again and tells about them until you feel there is some hope for you. She also can tell you many little ways to make yourself more comfortable than the doctor would ever think to mention. When next you call on the sick, think which of these classes you be- long to." to keepaway from bad company. •Prisoner (feelingly)_ hanks( You won't see' nine back stere again. HOW TO FOOL MOSQUITOES ' If you would be free from misqui- toes wear yellow. They simply hate it. If, however, you would like to receive the attentions of the little blighters just wear navy blue which they dote on. They are keen on dark red but adore navy blue. Ochre, white and orange are passe and yellow makes them bilious. These findings, states ,the Canadian National Steam- ships, have developed from recent studies and the company recommends yellow suits and yellow tepees for tropical travel whore mosquitoes are liable to abound. • * * * * * u * M+ * * * " OUR RECIPE- FOR TODAY * BROILED CHICKEN * * Broilers will soon be on the * market. here is a good recipe * for broiling. Order chicken split for broil- 'K ing,. Singe, wipe, sprinkle with * salt, and place en a web- * greased 'broiler. Broil twenty * minutes over a clear fire, * watching carefully and turn- • ing broilers so that all parts * may be browned. The flesh * side needs the longer expos- * are to the fire, The skin side * cooks quickly and then is liable * to burn. Remove to a hot * platter, spread with soft butter * and sprinkle with salt. Garnish * with strips of crisp bacon and parsley. * So much attention is requir, • ed for broiling a chicken that * the work is often simplified by * placing the chicken in a drip- ping pan, skin side down, * sprinkling with salt, dotting * over with butter and cooking * fifteen minutes in a hot oven * (480 degrees, Fahrenheit), * • then removing to a broiler to * finish'the cooking, , * * * 4. * * * * * * * * s, * 0 it seems' a slain at the bride, op- ines the Shelburne Free Press, to tie a bunch of tin ears to the car that carries a pair of newlyweds, BABys Veli In hot weather, stomach. disorders and indigestion occur more fre- quently. Also children may play too hard. Mrs. Mary Mason,. 53. Atlantic St., Halifax, N.8.,, says, "When the children are overtired ,�.. and restless in warm weather I give them Baby's Own Tablets be- fore retiring and in the morning. they are hapPY, contented chit- dren". Safe even for the tiniest i baby, thesesweetlittletabletsslfec- tively relieve colic, summer cpm- plaint, om disorders. Prisimple ori fever5e packagtamer a Dr. Williams' ' ''TABLETS BbBY,S�:OWN