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HomeMy WebLinkAboutThe Brussels Post, 1951-10-24, Page 2Perfect tea is so easy to make with A NE ST — 'reek+ ' e it "Dear Anne Hirst: Can you pos- sibly explain why all my life (and I'm not far from 40) I have never been able to hold a man? "i've tried to he all that is ex- pected of wom- anhood — sweet, kind, understand- ing,...cltarming & intelligent. I ant c on s idered at- tractive, and have no trouble in attracting equally nice men. "But— 'After an eligible male pursues me, sparing me no end of •affec- tion and vague promises, the friend- ship gradually goes haywire. I sense that he becomes 'bored. Aware of this, I grow self-con- scious, unhappy, and unable to con- verse on impersonal subjects like !world affairs; politics, sports and other°'siijecte that- interest mien. NO MAN OF HER, OWN "I can only think: of things I will never have which the faVerage womangets-husband, home, chil-. dren. _ .. , ... _... "I am a professional young wa- nton, and certainly should be more interesting than a simple house- wife who only can talk food prices. children, and what new clothes or jewels she can coax out of her bus - ban ck "Here I wait, hopingthe right one; will conte '.along, -before it is too late, "Men only seem to look for what, they eau, get, :,someone to practice lovemaking.upon so,they'll know how to proceed when • their own true love arriyes. "D.p you,think:there; is a destiny that controls Our lives: That no [natter how desperately one tries to change situations, it is to no avail? "That,perhape my particular des- tiyis never to have what all wo- men want and usually get—their man, and a home of their own? • A LONELY GIRL" * Man' a fatalist believes that * what is to be will be, and is con- * vinced that it is futile to struggle * against one's predestination, * I ant not one of these. Crocbeters! This chair -set will be the family favorite! And it's filet -crochet, which really protects, you know. idea! Make three 'chair - backs, use two for scarf -ends. Chain and double crochet—this is simple to dol Chair -set Pattern 839 has charts; directions '.• Send TWENTY-FIVE CENTS its coins (stamps cannot be ac- cepted) for this pattern td' 43ox 1, 123 Eigimteenth St., New Toronto, Ont, Print plainly PATTERN, NUMBER, your NAME and AD- DRESS. Send Twenty-five Cents more (in coins) s for our Laura Wheeler Needlecraft Book, Illustrations of patterns, for crochet, embroidery, knitting, '• household accessorie!,, dolls, tys . _many hobby and gift ideas. A free pattern is prided in the book, * . When a woman knows what * she wants, I think she should lay * her plans to get it. First, deserve * it and prepare for it, then use * her ingenuity and common sense * to pursue the search. One ex- * perience after another shows her * what not to do, and if she is hon- * est enough to admit her mistakes * she will make fewer of them. * Frank analysis of one's self is * a great 'help. * Arany a girl who wants to land a man yields to his lovemaking * early, shows a too -fervent eager- * nese to oblige him. This is not * smart, for the man concludes she * has been as free with her favors with other sten she knew before * him. * Other girls snub a man with ",such hostility that he decides she * is not capable of emotion. A man * don he,repulsed so graciously that * he feels he does not appeal to her, * but that she has too much self- * respect to stoop to,conquer. * Some .professional women as- * surae an arrogance that is ana- * theme to romance. Positive in * personality, they cannot discuss •* any topic without showing how * superior they feel. They forget that 'womanliness, a willingness * to listen, judicious flattery, and a * sense of humor still can bring * a stale to his knees—just as a * cozy dinner site prepares herself * can dissolve a bachelor's will * power. * When a man is low and out of * sorts, he turns to the girl he feels * at home with, one who asks hint * no questions, fits his mood like "` a glove, who is sympathetic and * tender at the right moment. She * is the girl he wants to come home * to—and that is the real test of * his feeling for her. * Examine yourself as though * you were somebody else, Per- o haps that will give you an idea * of what is wrong. * When a girl has had your ex- * perience of failure, and almost * given up hope, and then suddenly * the right .inan appears, we like to * call it destiny.—And how grateful * she is that all the other Wren she * knew passed her by! r Neter, give up hope. The most * comforting thought to hold is that * we never know what tomorrow * w ill bring. Do you feel that love and life are passing you ;by? Cheer up! To- morrow is another day, and per- haps it will bring your dream, Keep yourself in the mood for that. and don't despaiir, It may help to write to Anne Hirst. Address her at Box 1, 123 Eighteenth St., New Toronto, Ont. First Frost First frost conies, and then One fall days: and then conies winter, For generations it has bcen hap- pening this' way, and if the farmer says, "It takes a host to clear the air," he speaks from experience. First frost, and not long after ' conies Indian sunmmer, when time seems to pause a little while, per- haps for the. final' harvest and a breath -catching before frost strikes deep and winter conies. Thus does the year turn, any year, The open days the 'inviting out- side days, are nearing their end. Four walls and a fireside are MI5 portant once more, or we are thrown hack, or soon will be, on our own resources, to work our way through another whiter to an- other spring. Wer must come to know ourselves again. There is the budding, and time leaf -spread, and the falling of the leaves, and the time of root strength, in each year as wet, as in each lifetime. Now conies the time for root strength; for deeper tinderetansling and more firm be- lief. As time leaves fall, the essential shape 'of our world becomes more clear each day, and so does nit - relations to it and to ourselves. It is easy to live with a green and growing world. A gray world, with ice and tootled winds. is quite an- other matter. We have to' learn to' live with it ,all over again ',each tithe11 comes. Ilut We learn, ; That is the heartening thing that we remember after each first frost --that we never' grana forget, that the roots are there and the firm - basis of belief. Indian sumnmer oolnes,b.ufd we rementbe'r, and wet- s (lithe et-.Cotlre,'ti; and, still -rein einben its, we prepare for the coning winter.— I'ronm 'I'ln• Nett York 'Times, Modern Etiquette Q. How docs one select the cos, rect implement to u:e at a formal dinner? , A, Von need merely remember that you are to take the outside— that is, the farthest from the plate --spoon or fottk' first. • If the pieces have not beensaid in this order, the fault is that of the, person who set the table, and not,, yours. 11 you are in doubt, wait until your host or hostess has picked up his or her implement, and do likewise. * * * When one is in the presence of anti her person and a telegram or message is delivered to him, which' - he must read at once, what should he say? „ A, "Will you excuse 411e, please?" * * * Q. What would be the best way for a matt to introduce another man to his wife?" A. "Mary, this is Mr. Johnson (or, Bill jOlut.onl." * 5 * Q: Is it necessary that one apol- ogize for writing a letter to a friend on the typewriter? A, No, not at all. Typewritten notes today are acceptable for so- cial correspondence, Excepdons would be—bread-and-butter letters, thanlc'you notes for presents re- ceived, and letters of condolence, when hand -[written messages are in much better taste. Q. Who are correctly asked to serve as pallbearers at a funeral? A, Six or eight men who are close friends of the deceased. Mem- bers of the immediate family are never chosen, as their place is with the women of the family, .tg.-1;11444n$ LITTLE COSTI Plenty of stylet Pattern 4651, the Wonder -Skirt re- quires only ONE YARD -of 54 - inch fabric for any of its sizes— waist 24, 26, 28 30, 32, Your chance for a really good skirt at a bargain pricel Whips up in a jiffy; too - no back of side seanms.-That other row of buttons is trimming, can be left off if yott like it better that way! This pattern easy to use, simple to sew, is tested :for fit, Has com- plete illustrated ,instructions. • Send THIRTY-FIVE CENTS (35c) in coins (stamps cannot be accpted) or this pattern, Print plain y SIZE, NAME, ADDRESS, STYLE NUMBER, Set d order to !lox 1, 123 Eigh- teentt St., •New Toronto, Ont, Not Snowdrifts, But "Mold -Drifts" — This model "town", built on a large culture plate by GE engineers at Nela Park, was left for a few days in a warm, humid atmosphere. Mold began to grow— the some kind Mama sometimes finds on stale bread. But a small germicidal lamp was left shining on the model. No mold grew where the lamp's ultraviolet light shone, but in the shadows cast by the buildings and trees, green and white mold grew -apidly and thickly. The effect was the same as in late winter, when snowdrifts in the shadows remain unaffected by the sun. So the "snowdrifts" in this picture are really "mold -drifts." HRONICLES 1NGERFe j [ • Cwnri rl reli n r1 r1A We haven't raised any clticicens at all since we acquired Honey, our little cocker spaniel. Several times have wondered what would happen had we tried since spaniels are essentially bird dogs. Honey proves it—she simply ignores squir- rels but site chases sparrows: pig - sons• and starlings as if to the manner ,horn. So what would she have done with chicken?- Partner says Honey has recently developed other habits so he has nicknamed her "his great protector." Recently we have had two little heifers in the backyard' and whenever, Part- ner comes up from the barn they cane running towards hint. Honey, apparently, thinks they are out to attack Partner—so Honey puts the calves to rout—or tries to. • Well, we still haven't got chick- ens but we did move twenty., old hens from the barn pen over to the brooder house..Since then I have been taking Honey with me when I feed the hens—right into the pen itself, She sits just inside the door, after being told to "stay there," and she watches those bens with a mournful, curious eye, She is only too glad to conte out when I do 1 suppose she thinks "what's the good of going in there if I'm not allowed to retake the feathers fly?" However. I thin!: it is pretty good training. If, and when, we do have chickens again, honey will have learned by that time that certain kinds of bird life are not meant for her to chase or play around with, We moved the old hens to snake roost for some New Hampshire pullets ivhich we bought from a neighbour. Tltey are nice birds—so tame and quiet' you would think tacit one had been raised as a pet. Funny the difference there is in the different breeds of birds. Speak- ing from out, own experience we find Plymouth Barred Rocks are good, general purpose birds, al- though they feather slowly and go broody very quickly, !White Leghorns are nervous bid- dies and fly all over time perm if they are startled in any way. Even scattering time ' scratch grain will often scare Ibsen, They lay well but are not much good as table birds. Light Sussex feather quickly, get to be a good weight at maturity — and are the most persistent broody hens I ever knew, We had then[ once—and once was enough. N.H.X.B.R. hybrids are quiet, good layers and not too heavy or too broody. New dlantpshires—their peculi- arities we have yet to find out as this is the first time we have tried them, Well, I' suppose the weather for the holiday week -end did not please anyone but the farmer—and we certainly needed rain. Personally I thought anything was better than that spell of unseasonable heat. 85 in October—that surely is one for the record] Incidentally on the hottest day our supply of winter coal arrived. Bob was home for the . weekend but daughter and cousin Betty went to Buffalo, Sunday night a friend and I went to the 60th[ Anniversary service of a village church where this friend of mine was brought up. The church was packed to the doors, morning and night, despite the fact of it being a terrible day—cold; windy and wet. Somehow the- spirit of by -gone days seemed to be there — days when the little village church was the cetifre of community life. Many who had once belonged to the son-, gregation but had since moved away were back for Anniversary Sunday. Friends who had not seen each, other in years met and talked together once again. The special preacher was excellent,- Speaking -of the way in which different people meet adversity he quoted words to this effect—"The greatest loss is wasted sorrow, It is terrible to have paid so great a price and bought nothing," He was referring to those who have lost someone very dear to them and who spend the rest of their lives nursing their grief , "wasted sorrow," We have all cone in contact with just such persons, haven't ave? 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How can I remove spots and stains from silk without injuring the color? ; ' A. Take fire parts of water and six parts of alum, well pounded, Boil a short time, and then pour into a vessel to cool, Previous to using, the mixture must be made warns. Then wash the stained harts and allow to dry. * * • Q. How can I prepare creole potatoes? A. Add minced green pepper, a little corn, and •a ,few' lima' beans, with strips of pimento, to boiled potato cubes, and cream in the-. double boiler, Q. How can, Hasten an umbrella, • handle that has become loose? A. Fill the hole in the -handle with powdered sulphur, Then heat the ferrule and push it into the sul- phur. The handle and the ferrule will be firmly fastened . within ..a few minutes. 11 DAY SCHOOL LESSON sty Rev R. 13 Warren B.A. B.D. The Hebrews in Slavery Exodus• 1:7-14; 2:23-25 • 'Memory Selection:,. Be strong, fear not, behold your God will come —and save you.. Isaiah 35:4. Jacob's family numbered 70 when they settled in Egypt. Four hundred years later there were about 600,000 on foot, that were men, besides children. They had grown to a mighty host, This was in spite of adversity, A new king who had not known Joseph feared this growing nation, He set task- masters over the Israelites to afflict them, "But the more they afflicted then[, the more they multiplied and grew." That is a significant state- ment, They were God's chosen people and they prospered in ad- versity. It is useless to fight agalnst God. The Psalmist was right when he said, "Surely the wrath of man shall praise 'Thee," (76:10). Then came the time when the people of Israel began to., sigh unto God because of their' bond- age. "And God heard their groan- ing, and God remembered His cotenant with Abraham, • with Isaac, and with 'Jacob." The die-. ciplines of adversity had moulded them ,into a station, Some, remem- bered the heritage promised to their. forefathers. There is a limit to the length ' of time that a people can endure 'oppression) The desire for freedont will finally assert itself, When the oppressed -begin to -pray, then 'de- liverance will surely conte. Already there are,ruutbliegs of a beginning of a struggle for such freedont be- hind the iron curtain. If people pray, God will help the oppressed today just as IIe has always done. ACHES AM PAINS OF / Andi the R RELIEF IS LASTING - There's one thing for the headache . the muscular aches and pains that often accompany a cold ; INSTANTINE, INSTANTINE brings really fast relief from pain and the relief is prolonged! So get INSTANTINE and get quick comfort. INsmmtrcinm is compounded like a prescription of three, proven medical ingredients. You can depend on its fast action in getting relief from every day aches and pains, headache, rheumatic pain, for neuritic or neuralgic pain. 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