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"Dear Anne Hirst:
1 am 23 years old, and I find my-
self in love with a married woman
who is 22. She is not happy with
her husband. They have two child-
ren.
"Her husband goes out a lot. but
doesn't take her with him. He
does not work,
neither does she,
They dont get
along at all.
They come out
to our house
quite a bit. I
have Beard him
tell her she can
get a divorce
any time she
wants to -Le can always get a girl.
he says!
"A husband wito tells his wife
that, can't love her any too well.
She knows I am writing you. so
please try to help us.
MIKE AND BROWN EYES"
* I well understand your unhap-
* piness in seeing an attractive
* young woman so unhappy with a
* husband who publicly insults her.
* You are young yourself. and
* idealistic: Her plight arouses all
* your chivalry. You picture her as
* a forlorn maiden in the clutches
* of a modern villain, a rogue who
* neglects and mistreats her, who
* boasts about his congoests. You
* believe her heart is breaking un-
* der his recklessness, And you see
* yourself as the knight sans re-
* proche who will rescue her from
* this mnisery, and carry her away
* on his charger to an eternal
* dream of happiness.
* How different can be the real-
* ityl If by some miracle these two
* could he divorced and you were
* to marry her, you would find
* yourself chained to a woman who
* could not manage one husband,
and burdened with the tesponsi-
* bility of two children that belong
* to another roan -children whom
* you neither know well nor under-
* stand, yet to whom you would
* have to be a good and understand-
* ing father.
* Remember. too, that this man's
* boasting may be all talk. A bus-
* band does not usually use such
* language to his wife in public 1f
* he is really serious about separat-
* ing. Many a weak male gives
* himself away by his big words.
* Keep yourself out of ,this. It
* is too bad you have, evidently,
* disclosed your feelings to this
* wife: t . i_ it to .o,
* nor had she to listen, Don't see
* her alone; if they come again to
* your home, leave. You must
* have no influence•ot5 her flow. If
* she intends divorcing her hus-
*' band, let it be because she has
* good reason to -not because she
* thinks site is in love with another
* man.
* Keep yourself busy with nice
" girls who are single. There are
* plenty 'of them about to amuse
* you, and, take your mind off as
* married woman. At your age, it
* is wise to realize that you will
* probably be in love with more
* girls than one before you are
* settled enough to marry any-
* body.
4: *
"Dear Anne Hirst:
Two years ago I met a man
through business. He has a wife
and two children. I fell in love the
first time I saw him. I thought he
and his wife were an ideal couple -
but a. year ago she told me they
had been separated for three
months. They both claim no love
exists between them, and no ties,
except financial.
"Finally he fell in love with tae.
I don't think either of us has ever
known what it means to love be-
fore! We are both 40. I was brought
up in a Christian home, and I want
to do what is right and best for all
of us. He told his wife he was madly
in love with me, but she will never
give him a divorce for fear it will
ruin her prestige.
"We both hold responsible posi-
tions. I was offered a good job in
another town, but when I went to
be interviewed I felt the world had
come to an end. If I could get a
job in a certain field I would find
comfort there, and as long as I
knew he was getting along all right
I could stand to stay away.
"I want my life to mean some-
thing. I certainly don't want to
hurt anyone. Please advise Inc.
THE OTHER WOMAN".
DON'T HURT YOURSELF
* In your anxiety not to hurt
* others, don't overlook hurting
* yourself.
* So long as you work with this
* man, or stay where you can see
* each other often, your love will
* flourish. Since it cannot be ful-
* filled, it can only grow more and
* more tragic. You will live in in-
* creasing resentment which might
* readily become a bitterness which
* could consume you.
4 Be realistic.
* Take yourself away from this
* daily association. Find the sort-
* of work you feel yourself fitted
* for (in another city, if you can)
* and bury yourself in it.
* You need new faces, new ideas,
* new surroundings. Nothing else
* will help you so much. Among
* them, you will be able to resign
* yourself to the inevitable, and at
* the same time develop fresh int-
* erests and ambitions that will help
* matte your life the useful life you
* want it to be, "meaning some-
thing" to others as well as your-
* self.
* You have courage, and a will
* which will not be denied. Once
* you make the break, you will
* wonder why you hesitated so
* long.
* You and this man can keep in
* touch frequently enough to be
* assured, of each other's well be-
* ing. Then you will find peace, at
* least -which you can never know
* so long as you are together.
* * _
•-w1'netL_. iptation conies, run
away. We never can know how
strong we will be in the face of it,
so why court tragedy? Anne Hirst
will help you find the courage you
need. Write her at Box 1, 123
Eighteenth St., New Toronto, Ont.
EHE SPIRITUALIST told the
widow that the message from her
husband asked for cigarettes.
"Where shall I send them?"' she
inquired. "Well," remarked the
spiritualist, "you notice he didn't
ask you for any matches," -Guthrie
Center Times.
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'Modirn Etiquette
by Roberta Lee
U. If a fete(' is being w' ritten to.
a friend, or to a social acquaintance,
• should the meths; "lir.", "Mrs.", of
"Miss" be used in the sigeaturet
A. No. Sign it "John Smith" or
"31588 Allen", Only in business
letters written by women is the title
"Miss" ors. "3try "• used, and this
should be enclosed in parentheses.
Q. Is it proper hi fold the napkin
when one has finished eating':
A. No; leave the- napkin 'lying
loosely beside the plate.
Q. Is it obligatory to invite the
clergyman to attend the reception
after the wedding?
A. It is not obligatory, but it is
the courteous thing to do, espe-
cially if ile is a friend of the fam-
ily,.
Q. Is it obligatory that one
answer a wedding invitation?
A. If the wedding invitation in-
cludes an invitation to the reception,
it must he answered promptly. If
just an invitation to the marriage
ceremony, no answer is required.
Q. Should soup be sipped front
the side or the tip of the spoon?
A. Always from the side.
0. Is it always obligatory that
man shake hands with one another
when being introduced?
A. Always, unless ht is very in-
convenient to do so, such as reach-
ing across a table.
Q. \\hat hand should a man use -
to take off his hat when he stops
to speak with a woman?
A. It would be less awkward if
he used his left hand, so that the
right one is free to shake hands if
the woman should offer him her
hand.
Q. May one use a spoon for
eating peas when dining at a frontal
affair?
A. No, newer. Always use a fork
for conveying peas to the mouth.
Q. What is the correct \way to
address a young woman president
of an organization?
A. "Madam President."
Q. Should one tip a Hotel bell-
boy for paging, and what is the
amount that is customarily given?
A. Yes, one should tip for pag-
ing, and ten cents or a quarter is
sufficient.
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Double crochet ruffle worked on a
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the pile of this rug.
Bathroom pretties -rug and seat
cover( Inexpensive Pattern 830;
crochet directions for both!
Laura 'Wheeler's improved pat-
tern makes needlework so simple
with its charts, photos and concise
directions.
Send TWENTY-FIVE CENTS
in coins (stamps cannot be accept-
ed) for this pattern to Box 1, 123
Eighteenth St., New Toronto, Ont.
Print plainly PATTERN NUM-
BER, your NAME and ADDRESS.
Pup With "Those Loving Eyes."-"Skippy" a toy Frenc t
poodle was _named the "dog with the most loving eyes" at a
recent dog show. Ife is being fed by an admirer,. Arleen Sajecki,
while his master. 14 -year-old Tommy Killeen, looks on
approvingly.
tnder-Earth Diving
IoW pokey Hole
\Vuokey Hole- the very name
has an eerie and secret sound -is
a famous cave beneath the Mendip
Hills in the west of England, a cave
with vaulted chambers, through
which runs the subterranean Ake.
Edmund T. Mason, a very keen
amateur archaeologist who is
archaeological adviser to the heal
Care Diving Group, gave a BBC
radio talk abgut this wonderful cave
and described the work done there
recently by divers. With other spe-
cialists they carried out the first
archaeological work to be done on
the bed of a subterranean river.
They worked at night when all
visitor's had gone and took their
equipment into the cave and down
the long flight of concrete steps
known as Hell's Ladder; at the foot
of another fan -shaped flight led
them to the first great chamber.
They switched on the lights, which
'showed the great stalagmite shaped
like a face which is called the Old
Witch of Wookey. A path at the
side of the cd\'e leads from chamber
to chamber and underwater lights
showed the entrance to the sub-
. merged arches through which the
river flows from one 'chanlyer - to
another. Assistaiiis` dragged the
-skintrbltt- rubber suits over the
divers, their glass face pieces were
screwed in place, their oxygen
turned on and down they went.
They descended in the first chamber
and carne out in the third, and while
they were working the lights in the
cave were turned off so that the e
men on ,the path could see the blue
light the divers carried• showing
through the water as they surfaced.
The divers brought up various
muddy objects which were placed in
a sandbox and packed around with
a mixture of sand and sawdust to
be handled with infinite care. Spots
where the objects were found were
marked on the chart of the river.
Diving operations sometimes went
on till fou' in the morning, and then,
after a few hours sleep, the investi-
gators met to discuss the results of
the operations. For the archaeologi-
cal team the work was by no means
complete for the material found has
to be preserved, labelled, recorded
and then submitted to experts, who
report on the approximate age at
death, racial characteristics, and
many other things, From the animal
bones the zoologist can tell what
food the people ate and which ani- '
males they domesticate. The pottery
indicates the period to which they
belonged.
But when all this is settled, the
Name's "Tiger" But 'Belies The Name -And proves that lie's*'t
really civilized cat by giving' a \vh1'118, friendly svelcome''to
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thewhite rat door -
Step
lc 1 thlte a on a
"Whitey" i rai.Acil child 'W t the y
step with a dote, asking the (Odder tp care for it, 'rile rat Was
turned over to the police hut Mrs. I',It. 11t'owlcz offered to take
it into her home. Strangely enough Tiger did'( object.
question is All, how did these re-
mains get into the river- Was it
a convenient place for the disposal
of dead bodies or was some reli-
gious significance attached to burial
or even to human sacrifice in the
underground river? "Is there any
connection?" said 3fr. Mason, "be-
tween these skeletons and the witch
stalagmite or in the steps of un-
known origin carved in the floor
leading to the river. Again thcre'is
the possibility that the burials were
made in some dry part of the cave
and were subsequently washed into
the river by flood waters or even
placed in the river bed at some time
when it was dry. On the other hand,
did some later people throw the
bones into the river while tidying
up the cave for their own occupa-
tion?"
Alt this has yet to be discovered.
The divers think they have cleared
the river bed, but much more ma-
terial may Ile hidden in its muddy
banks. They are also anxious to
push on upstream to discover yet
more hidden chambers. A small
bated of enthusiasts is itt training to
Carry out underivater excavation on
the banks by• means of pressure
hoses, Wookey Hole may still hold
More secrets which Iran can wrest
from beneath the subterranean river,
Rohit Evil With Good
Many children turn to "funny
books" simply because there is no
other kind of reading for them in
their homes. It is .shocking to dis-
cover how many parents omit books
in the family budget.
Children will read good literature,
if it is put withiti reach. As a matter
of fact, most normal children will
get a reasonably balanced literary
diet if it is made available to them.
Maybe a few more libraries more
easily accessible to more children,
could be an answer, Certainly, if
parents buy a few good books and
leave them where children can
stumble on them, there will be some-
thing to take the place' of the
trash Rids have been -finding,
It must not be forgotten, either,
that a large part of "funny book"
sales are to adults, not to children.
If, good books are provided, and
youngsters still get an overdose of
crime, sex, and violence, that will be
the time to talk about swinging the
ex of censorship.
How long since you bought a good
book for your own boys and girls? -
Commercial Appeal (Memphis).,
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A U'OMAN spends the first
half of her life looking for a hus-
band and the last part wondering
where he is. -Washington Journal
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HELPFUL HINTS FOR
BUSY IIOU§EWIYES
eitatc io:n•ex ntay be utadc quite
palatable by Wrapping in a wet
cloth for half a minute. Take the
cloth off, then bake in a slow oven
for half an hour.
The yolks of eggs. left over when
baking requite the white only, if
dropped into a part of boiling and
salted water will cook and be resdy
for your noon salad. ,
• * * *
\When cooking pancakes dip the
spoon in milk of water and the
batter will drop off the spoon easily.
* * *
'When peeling tomatoes scrape
the skin gently with the back of the
knife, then peel in the usual way.
It will be found that the skins will
slip off easily,
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1f an egg has a very thin shell,
or is chipped, and likely. to crack
when being boiled, add a few drops
of vinegar to the water.
* * *
To bake potatoes quickly, boil
them in salted water for ten min-
utes, then put them into the oven:
The boiling water will heat them
through more rapidly than if they
were placed cold into the oven.
Alarm Wrist Watch
A discovery that will be of great
benefit to a large uunher of people
has been Houle because 'a watch-
maker heard a cricket chirruping as
he wathed in the mountains of
5wialoerhtnd. 11 sut•h a tiny insect
could make a sound clearly audible
Irons 1 distatter of a dozen yards,
wiry, he thought, could he not
make an alarm bell that ryas small
enough to go in a wrist watch but
yet noisy enough to wake a sleeper,'
The upshot of his• mountain walk
was au alarm mechanism that works
on the principle of the cricket's chir-
rup. The cricket makes his distinct
and penetrating noise by rubbing
the file -like edge of one wing against
the other. The watch maker pro-
duced the same effect by setting a
light hammer to vigrate against a
thin metal diaphragm, The result
is that now, in a case no bigger than
that containing an ordinary wrist
watch, Iles both the mechanism and
the alarm bell, "This new alarm
wrist watch," says R. E. Hum-
phries, describing the discovery,
"should in time make us more punc-
tual in our habits, because for the
first time you can carry the equiva-
lent of an alarm clock around with
you. You can set it to remind you
of your appointments."
ISSUE 12 - 1949
Look pretty for your Steady
Freddie! This gay little dater ltaa
a sweetheart neckline gaily ruffled
and bowed; flirty little ruffle at
waist. Swin skirt(
Pattern 4796 comes in Teenage
sizes 10, 12, 14, 16, Size 12 takes
3v yds. 35 -in.; 144 yd. contrast.
This pattern, easy to use, simple
to sew, is tested for fit. Has com-
plete illustrated instructions.
Send TWENTY-FIVE CENTS
(25e) in coins (stamps cannot be
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plainly SIZE, NAME, ADDRESS,
STYLE NUMBER.
Send your order to Box 1, 123
Eighteenth' Street, New Toronto,
Ontario.
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