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HomeMy WebLinkAboutThe Brussels Post, 1954-6-9, Page 6//ate,' F,dreciouve SALANA" TEA BAGS _m 14IRST ta1C,�+t ' & 0 s . . "Dear Anne Hirst; I'>Ie heard that only the perfect man is a woman's first husband, but I never dreamed it would happen to me. Six years ago, at 55, I married a widow 10 ye a r s younger. She is forever praising her deceased husband, how won- derful he was and how much more he did for her than 1 do. It is getting me down. "She has reason to complain. I lost my health, and I cannot pro- vide for her as 1 hoped to do; I feel I'm a burden, and had bet- ter get out. I am sure she doesn't love me at all, but though she is -so unkind 1 still care a good deal for her. "Do you think we should divorce? Or what advice can you give? DISTRESSED". . During the years when you * want security and domestic * peace, you are depressed by ill * health and the knowledge that * you are inadequate as a pro- * vider. The victim of a nagging * wgman who descends to a Hot Tamale — Spicy, vivacious Sarito Monteil keeps the boys south of the border from dwell- ing too much on the charms of American movie actresses. * cheap trick to keep you under * her thumb, you live in turmoil. " I do not wonder you feel like * walking out. * ' Divorce is naturally your * first thought; but that is not * easy to obtain, and it is costly. * You could probably prove * mental cruelty but that alone * would not be sufficient. * Would your wife rather you * leave her, or stay? She is dis- * appointed in her mariege; she * thought she was to be taken * care of to the rest of her life. * Instead,' `she finds herself on * the supporting end, more. or. * less, and she resents it. She * may be deliberately driving * you to desperation so you wl11 * leave; on the other hand, she * may be one of those creatures * who finds her one satisfaction * in berating and belittling you, * and would be even more un- * happy living alone, * When you feel up to it, sug- * gests that she might be more * contented without you, and * tell her that her continual s taunting you withfailure is * making you so miserable you * would be glad to go. I think * she will not hesitate to speak * the truth. From all you write, * it does seem that she has lost * what affection she once had; * yet one would think she could * find some tenderness for a sick * man who has done the best he * could. * Wouldn't you be happier liv- * ing with a congenial family? • Since you still have a small * income, that might be arrang- * ed. Put her to the test, settle * the future, and end this wear- * ing uncertainty. * One marries for better or for worse. If you are disappointed in your husband, remember your vows and try to keep them. Then, whatever happens, you need not reproach yourself.. . In time of indecision, write to Anne Hirst, at B o x 1, 123 Eighteenth St., New Toronto, Ont. WHAT A GIFT! "I'm afraid, doctor," said Mrs. Brown, "that my husband has some terrible mental affliction. Sometimes I talk to him for hours and then discover that he hasn't heard a word." "That isn't an affliction madam," was the weary reply "That's a gift." Fectizts COFFEE CAKES ® Thew toothsome Flake Coffee Cakes area sample of the superb results you get with new Fleischmaun's Active Dry Yeast! No more anxiety about yeast cakes that stale and weaken. Fteisrhmaun's Active Dry Yeast kens fail—strength. jasSx,stirea without refrigeration —• get u month's supple: FLAKY COFFEE CAKES /B Smld ?•i e. cream. `.' tin. F ret::.- lated aunr, 1 tsgt salt ar.n a c. situ tenuig: cam se lathe -arm. 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The estate was bought in 1852 by the Prince Consort, who at once set to work to plan a house for Queen Vic- toria. Now it has been practis Cally abandoned by Queen Eliza- beth, who will not spend nearly as much time there as hereto- fore, In fact, of late there have been persistent rumours that the Queen intends to sell it. Some time ago Balmoral saw its biggest spring-clean. The aount of "scrap" removed from, the castle amounted to seven tons. Cellars and storesgave up their useless cooking. and serv- ing paraphernalia, which had been unemployed for years. Teapots and coffee-pots, sauce- pans and frying -pans were loaded on to two huge lorries by Mr. George Stewart, of Huntley, in Aberdeenshire. The price was not revealed by the pur- chaser. But this mighty clear -out was surpassed by Edward VII at Windsor Castle when he came to the throne, He made a thorough job of it. All kinds of curious relics were found in unused rooms where they had slept amid their cobwebs for -un- counted years. In one cornet of the castle was a heap of primi- tive saddlery. Nobody knew anything about it. At last an ancient retainer indentified the quaint horse -furniture as an an- nual tribute from the king of a tribe in some obscure corner of the Empire. Another "find" was a mass of lithographed portraits of Queen Victoria. These were intended as presents for subject princes.' Skins, savage weapons, . and other gifts from outposts of Em- pire lay mouldering in corners. It was a long but interesting job. NICE EASY JOB In New York there's a man who gets a regular wage for lying down on his job. He's the boss of a trouble squad sent out by the Broadway Maintenance Company whenever a New York resident complains because a street lamp is shining in his window, and keeping him awake. Cure is to put a shield on the light to deflect its rays away from the window. The squads boss lies on the complainant's bed and directs the electricians until the shield is placed cor- rectly. Tailored Step -In A,: " ie-eu,, at:r:a r ght wh',n you wart a dress these cerefertelee :;nal flattering You need at i"t-t one of there. smart, sitepie lite;T.-sr as s ::. Crisp rola: fe ar' I ,,e t i,r tkets, t0retra..t repine seep a :mart Pastern 4$1e. M. Sally. lel, 14, le, le.. 20: 3co 32, -34. 3r Sse, 40, 42 Size l< t eke e 4ia yards 33 -osis *airs ex yard ere -Ara -A. Tires pd*tere ewe* to e'te, sem- to Sew, is eeta:.d for f t Has isornplete iileitrate4 trietrure titins, Send THIRTY-FIVE CENTS 1501 to cr,ans (stamps cannot In accepted; for this pattern. Print plainly SIZE, NAME, ADDRESS, STYLE NUMBER. Send order to Box 1, 123 Eighteenth St., New Toronto, Ont. Summer Sweaters with a soft' touch that moths won't touch be- cause they are knitted of "Orlon" acrylic fibre. Twin -set at right consists of cardigan with wide ribbed revere effect worn over a short sleeved pullover with a self -braid collar. Ribbed neckline of pullover at left is carried down to form decorative pockets, All sweaters dry to shape without coaxing. HRONI Les / 1NG .IA1114 1H Gv¢ndnlirr. D Ciacke ' Last week I was telling you about the Officers Conference at Guelph but 1 forgot to tell you that at these W.I. affairs 1 se Often meet readers of this col- umn — different ones from time to time. One reader' I was talk- ing with last week came from near Ottawa and I was so amused at this little story she told me. One . day .last fall a neighbour phoned her and said "Well, its come!" ' `-That's come?" was the obvious , ques- tion. "The baby, of •.course. Haven't you read "Ginger -Farm" yet?" So David's arrival seems to have been quite an event to others besides his immediate family, And then I always get this — "Let's hear more about your grandson — you don't say half enough." Well . . I never expected you folks to be so in- terested. But you asked for it, so here goes — sorry I couldn't work it in last week. It was Mother's Day and Part- ner and I were just going to sit down alone — Bob and Joy, we knew, had gone to Niagara, and we didn't expect the Toronto folks. Then a car drove in. Out of it came Dee, Arthur, David and two friends, Bill and June — plus part of the baby's buggy, bottles, baby f o o d, diapers, nightie, shawls and blankets. Cigars for Partner, chocolates for me and cooked ham for sup- per. After the excitement had died down and David had been fuss- ed over and admired then Daughter told Grandpa with great glee — "Look, Dad — David's got something y o u -. haven't got!" "All right," . said Partner, "so what? He may have a couple of teeth but I've got more hair than he has anyway!" David has also put on a few pounds — twenty pounds at six and a half months .. . and yet he isn't fat. The poor finite was tired and fretful for awhile — much to his mother's . disgust But, rested and fed, he was soon laughing and cooing again chuckling with delight when- ever one of the dogs Came near him. They stayed until about eight o'clock so we saw David in all his; moods — good, bad and indifferent. Daughter also in- fermed me that her troop of Browniee is camping out for a week -end in July. They want her to go with them so would I like to have David for the week- end? Would I? I shall he able to answer that question better latex not It is a long time since I had ,tiler charge of a baby but el h e r grandmothers. come through it all right lin no doubt I .hail ton. Especially as Arthur will be elerig as moral support. Well, this weather pattern for last week was as per usual -- cold and wet — except the last two rlay:; of glorious sunshine, fle,-e, at lad(- we earl hear the r „ know ,•, n we t^, 2r.r of trdt.t 7t'.,, and teat or, high land some fields haw already been sown That er fn rt,nate• as we had really teen wandering icI how many kart fertilizer had been refitting around, and how many hags of treated Spring grain was wait- ing to bre mown. Fertilizer doesin't take kindly to a a long spell of damp weather and treated grain is no use as feed for chickens if it should hap• pen that it can't be used ler seeding. And yet ever since January, by press and radio, farmers have been urged to "or- der fertilizer now ... treat your grain early and be readyfor the spring -Seeding rush. What rush — can you tell me? Now if the word 'rush" were used in connection with sub- division construction work we could understand, 'even though a rush job seems as • inadvisable in building as it does on the land. Basements are scooped out. A heavy downpour of rain in- variably follows, and yet next thing we know cement is being pouried in. Didieet there used to be an idea that the earth had to 'settle" before cement was used? And isn't the term "solid brick house" a little misleading when the walls are only two bricks thick? We just wonder how 'solid" a modern solid brick - house can be. Many of the older houses, some --of them past the century mark, are from four to six bricks thick, Not that I would suggest modern houses should be four bricks thick. At the present level of construction costs that would mean even a five -room bungalow would run to about $40,000! And after all people seem to be quite happy with what they are getting — convenient, compact dwelling units. And I don't think young couples need to worry too much. Times change so rapidly . . people move around, so that a house very rarely becomes a permanent home. Something like the mad -hatter's teaparty — if and when the diners wanted a clean plate, they moved on. So it is with houses and home- owners. Speaking of moving arbund isn't it wonderful our Queen and h e r family has arrived home safe and sound? I am sure we are all very much relieved, especially after the threat at Gibraltar. "Hot Dorgs" Now On Saie In Spain This Mary Reale Started Something There have been thousands of Mary Joneses in the world, , but Perhaps the most falnous was the girl who, many years ago,. braved biting winds to tramp from her cottage home at Lian- fllrangel, clamber over Ceder Idris's gaunt slopes, and on to Bala. There, with a few pennies in "her pocket, saved through months of thrift, she sought out the Rev, Charles Thomas He, she'd heard, had copies el the Bible for sale, To buy one was her drab life's burning hope. He had none left, Her tears, flowing fast and un- dhecked, were his spur. As a result, this unknown Welsh pas- tor • became instrumental in forming on March 7th, 150 years ago, the British and Foreign Bibl('Society, Since .then, the Society has delivered hope and faith to millions in all contin- ents. To -day its agents distribute Bibles in • 1,130 languages, And the 'worldcirculation of Bibles, a .felehundreds a year in 'Many Jones's day, exceeds an annual ' figure now of twenty-three mil- lions. American air power continues to grow. At the moment it occu- pies well over a thousand air bases. In Europe alone, G.T. air- men strung out from _East Anglia to Greece, muster a force 380,- 000 -strong. In Saudi Arabia, bases lie strategically close to Russia's precious oilfields fringing Batum and Baku. - The latest country to admit G.I. bomber crews and mainten- ance staffs in return for valu- able trading conce$sions, is Spain.. Here GI's are moving into four major bases and some subsidi- 557 airfields. Spaniards view excitedly and w i th commercial anticipations their new shirt -dangling, crew- cut guests. Palma's chief news- paper'now runs a daily column in American speech. Shopkeepers are marketing their stocks in dol- lars. And American mineral wa- ter and rye whisky are already highly priced. Flashing -eyed senoritas know that the greeting "Hi-ya Bud" may be the pass- words to romance. O n e Palma cafe proprietor, anxious to cash in on this new "Invasion," has posted a notice which says, "Welkum to our Amerikan Allies. Open till .5 a.m. 25 beautiful girls to choice. Beer and Stakes, Hot Dorgs. too." U.S. air Wises) stretch to the farthest north. About ate man's Inhofzpitable places lie in Alaska and the Aleutian Islands. Maybe G.I. language will be the global tongue much sooner than Queen's English! Chance Of A Lifetime A small island off the coast of Mexico, San Benedicto, last year suffered a volcanic eruption that wiped out almost every -vestige ofllife. But it has given botanists the chance of morethan a M. time. In 1925 the University of Cali- fornia had made a full study of the vegetation on San Benedicto,' Then there were eleven different species of plants covering the whole of the island including five-foot tall ,grasses. After the volcanic eruption, only two hun- dred` plants in all were still liv- ing' on the threesmiles long island, and these represented only five of the eleven previous- ly thriving species. Now the natural process of re- vegetation can be studied. Will the shores be the first part Of the island to grow green? If so, it . will mean that seeds - washed in bythesea are the main tactor in bringing plant life to the island. But if higher land on hills and above the cliffs become green again first it will mean that wind and birds bring seeds more readily than the waves, nUM11EL14 After Billy's brat day at school his mother asked hhn how ha got on. "Fine," said Billy, "byt droll think very much of our teacher." r "Why?" asked his mother. "Well, she asked me what one and one made and 'I had 10 tell het," Beginner -Easy! "7 raw. wtieet[dt Protect a new chair—refresh a "tired" chair with this fan - shaped set! 'If you wish, use this pattern for a striking buffet set. Easy, jiffy to crochet! Chair -back, 12 x 18 inches; arm rest, 7 x 12 inches. Pattern 680: crochet directions. i Send TWENTY-FIVE CENTS in doins (stamps cannot be ac- cepted) for this pattern to Box 1, 123 Eighteenth St„ New Tor onto, Ont. Print plainly PAT- TERN NUMBER, your NAME and ADDRESS. Don't; miss our Laura Wheeler 1954 Needlecraft Catalog! 79 em- broidery, crochet, 'color: transfer and embroidery patterns to send for - plus 4 con?plete patterns printed in book. Send 25 cents for your '„opy today! Ideas for gifts, bazaar sellers, fashions. tr hot ikigthdit; STRAWBERRY PiE 1 quart strawberries s/ cup granulated sugar 4 tablespoons BENSON'S or CANADA Com Starch teaspoon salt s %t cup water 1 baked 9 -inch pie shell Whipped Cream WASH, drain and hull strawberries, cut in half. COMBINE sugar, BENSON'S or CANADA Corn Starch and salt in top of double boiler. • ADD water slowly, mix until smooth, ADD TA the strawberries; - PLACE over boiling water and cook until thick (about $ minutes), stir constantly. COVER, cook 10 minutes; stir occasionally. REMOVE from heat; spot. POLlein remainiag,ttrairberries, POUR into pastry shell. CHILL, gernlnh with sweotonpd,whipped cream, For free folder oo;other delicious recipes, write to, Jane Ashley, Home Service Department, THE CANADA STARCH COMPANY. LIMITED, P.O, box 129, Montreal, P.Q. e3 BMWS ell CORN STARCH wee, OS