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"Dear Anne }first: I am 25,
have been married 10 years —
and all I have is five wonderful
children, aged from one year to
eight My husband provides
food,'" clothing and shelter.' But
he is a person with a "So -what?"
attitude. If something happens,
O.K.; if itreloesn't, feho cares?
"We niet when I was 13. He
never asked me to go steady, but
we did. f don't even know how -
w" came to marc Y, .w didn't, • e
have to, and was snot love, for
that never existed , He always
seemed older, • and I 'never 'could
aay to him what I .really felt
All these years, he has cri-
ticized everything I do.
"I find myself tired of mar-
riage.
ar-
ria e. I longfor a er's kiss
gOv
'Y
and 'tenderness. I _'want 'Ko be
wanted, not just taken for grant- 1
ed, 1 below it is wrong"lo leave
such thoughts, but I cannot help
it. I caa,t eat or sleepyreperly,
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EXTRA -EASY — on 1'a iwo
main pattern parts to cut„ out„
stitch up for our favorite. topper!'
Make it in wool for spring; 'linen
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interest that's f a soh i o n news..
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length,, Seer, it now. •
Pattern 4875: "Misses' sizes -10,
1214, 16, 13, 20. Size 16 takes
23/4 yards 54-inc'h.iabrlc.
This pattern easjeeto . use, sirrn-
ple to 'sew, is tested' for fit. Has ,
complete illustrated instructions.
Send THIRTY-FIVE CENTS
(55e) in coins (stamps cannot be ;
accepted) for this pattern. Print
plainly SIZE, NAME, ADDRESS, 1
STYLE NUMBER.
Send order totlox l 11
Eighteenth St., Neve Tor o n 1 •
Ont;
and the last twe;months 1've boat
15 pounds. • ,
"I feel I have to live with -him
for' the
children's sake,
'but it
things don't change T shall near
' the Breaking point. I need sound
advice, and yours seemse'so •to
&everyone else.
J•eaane
It is a problem, indeed to,.
• bring love and tenderness into
* a 10 -year marriage that start-
*
ed with neither. r
1 e . ExceP t for his
* habit of criticizing you (which
* is probably_ only a habit) your
* husband ,seems satisfied , with
* things as they are. He seems
* to have ma conception ,of a
* woman's emotional needs. and
• you explain them, he may
shrug them off
with a superior
`" smile. Yet what can you do but
* try to make him uncle&„tand.
* how empty of meaning is your
”' present existence? No c-omah
' enjoys being treated like an
* old chair that is set in place
* and expected to stay there. •
* Your marriage may have
* .been a grave mistake. But now-
* you have five children to raise.
* and their enjoyment in life
* depends largely upon how
" their _parents get along to-
'* gether. 'The coming years can.
* be so much happier for you
tweet/ your husband will ack-
* nowledge that his marriage
* faces a crisis which can only
es be; net by his appreciation and
* kindness, and those little at-
* tendons which warm a -Worn-
* en's heart.
* As one reader put it recent-
* ly; "Why edon't these wives
* make their husbands want
, them?" It has its points.
* Can't you see your husband
., as the rightful source , of the
* tenderness and lovemaking
* you crave? Whether the idea
* appeals or not, study hirh' all
* over again, as though you had
* just metliim. Flatter him a bit; -
* adjust yourself to his 'Hoods; .
* praise him in front of the
children, so that he feel's hn-•
portant to you all. •Unless he
* is.. inh}nnanly callous,: he
* begets appreciation more- of-
"'tenthan yeti think, and some.
* l'atent syfrrpathetic . sentiment`
* may Stir -within him- and rise
* to, expression.
* •• It is $-long ehaneer I confit.
.* Butt,you have to I'ive,with him
fort$e children s sake, se. why--
"hot t'iee it?•'Can't•"you confide
* frankly -in your' doctor: He
°t "fnigtit well talk to : your hus-
*:•band„ stressing - your-need'for
* artaeulate" affection, and regi-
" lar-reereatipn, and so bring
* -you both closer than yogi have
* enter'been. „
• It your ,hnsbend's. neglect Is
freebling you, eta/tine yourself
honestly Ind` see 'Where the rea--
son.lies • • '•., Anne Hirst's„Iong.
ekperidnee and..oneervetionare
•' at, your. ,service, ..and often she
can save a marriage. Write' her,
frankly, at Box 1, 123 Eighteenth
tree_, New Toronto, Ont.
Butterrrii
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.Mix and sift twice, then sift into, a bowl, 2 S a c. once
sifted pastry flour for 214 c. drree-sifted all-purpose"
•'°'$out),,2'tsp9r:,Mttgie Baking Powder, ?3 tap. baldngl
soda, 1.% tape. salt / tsp. ground mace. Mix in % a•*
lightly -packed i'irowe, sugar,, y c: r Abed 'oats lied 1 e.`-
broken walnuts. Combine 1 well.beaten egg, Le.,ljutter-'t >'
milk, 2 taps. grated 'orange Find, 1 tsp: ••
vanilla' and '15 tbs•- shortening,' Melted, -
Make a well in dry ingredients and add '
liquids; mix lightly. Turn into a loaf pan—
" (41.0x elf ) tooaieh has been greased and '
lined with greased, paper. Bake in a rather
slow over;, i 5". about 1 hour, •Serve cold, 1,4
thinly sicced and lightly buttered.
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Fitt '` Men for ,r,
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This is the story of 'a Young
man who went to Singapore• as,
a iunior mercantile assistari4b'`
took to 'drhxde as a result ,07;:t1)511.7
• ealousy'' and; babkbiting le,.Iktin a.
small white community, married'"
a native woman lost his job, be-
came a Catholic, gave .up drink,
and is non. a wharf .s tpetinten
dent and 3a-t�l er d a large family.',
Sub -Lieut, Bailton went. to
Singapore, in. •1950 when he. was
twenty five, .. He .had .previpus-
lY Served five years In the Navy,
In Singapore 114 foubd "a barren, •
uncomfortable Mess in an +6state
"Of ugly} houses, In the "village" -
there was deaperate rilealrys yea •
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lously, backbiting and tale {bear-
iAg• -Everyone watched eyerle-.
, oneelse .
Railton, •as a i'tinloi; member, '
was pestered with advice.trand :
reprimands, 'berated •bye day..irr
the • office and -then 'entertained r.
in the evening by the; heratex,
• and .given. work that/was' Ant
rightfully his, . His first few
months- were marked. by 'in-
voiees mislaid, insurance claims
forgotten, cu3tomers - offended,
-finally•a loss -to the Cothpany of
• $4,000 over a rhipmont of tex-
tiles incariectly ordered.
Telling the. story in "Far
Eastern
Agent" Donald
Moore,
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publishers'
in agent
Singapore
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says ifwas about this time that
Railton• began to drink, partly
from- boredom, partly as solace
for his wounded spirit,. .
-To _every single , European, ; r
woman in Singapore there are
perhapsfifty eligible men. Vie
rh'
woman has an immense follow- •
.
I- ing, competing and fawning' for
hp favours , .. Railknn`Pnund-it
1 ,humiliating." .
He began turning , up late ;at
' fine 'office. His appearance and •
1- work deteriorated.' He 'fount/ he 1
couldn't get -through a' morning's'
1. work without going, out wt eleven
for a couple of strong .drinks. •
Then he formed a close friend- .
ship with a Filipino girl'; Marilyn
formerly a singer with a cabgret
band. She was shapely, vivacious;
weli-built, with a tinge'.' of
Spanish blood. Railton thought '
her beautiful. But - once -he
.allowed himself to .be seen with
her in public his business days
were ntunbered.-
The'' axe fell ivhen Railton left
the 14ress to live with Marilyn' in.
a broken -dawn; low -roofed house
in upper Serangoon, Refusing a
free passage home, he tidied his
desk. and walked : out. A week
later he married Marilyn in a
Catholic church and himself, be-.
came a Catholic. '
In Marilyn he found a strong
'character with a calm acceptance
of life. They had .many children,
and be kept them by working '
as wharf superintendent for. a
Chinese lighterage 'company. His
d'r'inking blcatho' norinar
Stran= e Mr -LMfe
in user; la
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• A RePWittg'Hand' fh'e" Ontario Societyy. for'Ceipplod' Children, in'
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associettion'with The' Districti$erVice.Clubs, held,eixtee'n crippled'
children's clinics throughten the -province last year. Oyer thirteen'
hundred and fifty crippled children attended•these plinics.Shown.:
above is a young lad from the Kirkland Lake Diistgjct•.with.Dr:.6
Wiflia to Mus aid of t t Re ,hospital for' Sick Children's s4pff in -
'Toronto. 'Annual 'Easter Seal Cameeign sponsored by the Society;.
will'run. until April' 18 and, has cm objective of hdlf a million-
• ` • dallars fee theproyince. . .
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Maybe 1 had baiter, say-" a•
word or two about our erandaon
br someone will think he has
'bean shipped down to Moe -eel.
But that eouldntt -be .. $3,000-
•wouldn't.pay ..for our. David.'
David, Dee and Arthur were
out for the ,day two weeks Ago,
and what a change, we saw in
him. Strong, sturdy, active, and
good-tempered. I don't t h i n k
babies•come any, better than our
'grandson. Of course, that may
be a slightly biased opinion—but
Would you expect anything else
from me? ' I•iis grandpa thinits
the same way, I am, sure. But
admit it? No, .not ho. »What's
all, the fussabout?" salts Part-
ner, "the little tike is just
another baby!"
`Last week I 'was •in the city
arid' s t a t e d' ovei'nieht with
Daughter. ' It was seven p.m.
when I arrived and I. was greet-.
,ed like this—"Oh, ,I'na so glad
you'ye come in time. Art Can't
get home until late so will you
• ______ . 'baby-sit` while I' go shopping?
David's d11 right—fest asleep in
Seraps-►djto-Apron his cot." 'While she was talkiing
-- Daughter. was alsogetting her
coat on. and was out of the as to the identity o4 the donor,
JCA eAne.10111etagget-
f 1 lni: ny what you've be n ,save
ing those colorful scraps ,..for:
This gay apren—lariga With lary-
1 daily embroidery -•designed to
' 'cheer up - chores. Cinch to' e•ew•,
embroider.
,Make a hall, axon. or a vabole
one. Pattern 838 has tissue pec'.,
terra an;:' embroidery fiansifey..
S e n d`TWENTY•F1VB CENTS
" in coins (stamps refloat b ac-
eepted)•fer;-this pattern t6`Box
- 1, .123 Eiggh�teenth St., ,New To;
rot -do, One Print plainly +PAT-
i'Little" 'N't3MBER, year li n
chid' A1DDRESS.
t• SEND' NOW fox our ntsw 1954
Laura Wheeler.Nexdieereft Oahe.
legue -- the heat ever! 79 'en's
broidery, orochet, color -transfer?,
dressmaking patterns to sebdefa
--clue 4 oomplete patterns, pxlnte
ad lit the boolcl 'Ideas 3oigifts,
bazar sellers, •Fasliione, Send, 09
center
t Share. her''lovd -arid pride in li$r
Hibor t
s
c1 f: her own moht4i,
, r er •0 m
eta ,YJ t 9
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When that .ier,itppgss$.ble _.try stags
with her as an everIIasliiig regret.,
The emu takes precedence over ,
all other Australian birds, Its
image, appeal's with that of the
kangaroo on the Commonwealltti
coat o° anus, It Can't fly; but
can Jam as fast as a gallop ng
horse, It is about five feet all
and its Whole ,bode^ is ..eovei,ed
.With soft, grey brgwn. featherrl)
al
' Hese elre,,of;q kequlialc l.ietgre
tivq, appearing • to spring frorp•1
, a single shaft, . . i • i
• The emu is. among the, .few ;
, birds of which the female .does.
the Courting. The nn'ale" looks
after the young. The femalo'
einii does' heli boubting bar boom- .
ing 03 calling-up"the ntale,.,T11is
is done by., etalarging . pie di><,1
;sacsin, her. tie*.,••.She .seeks "%,,,
fre li mate.. aael}t season and, lays ,
aelutch of eggs ranging fin riumXi.
ber from six'rto • eighteen.' In-
cubation lasts about eight weeks,
and whettr the •chicles -emerge the
male cares forthem, lavishing t1n
there . an . attention no,- n}gther,r
could exceed, • '
'
Perhaps the most intriguing ofa_
all Australian brads is the lyre
bird—laid" of a' thousand' voider:!-,
Unquestiohably the"'p r 1 rod a of
rrlocsmgrb'rds
the l
r e bird d
mimfes all bush noises-. Itwill
'
Interrupt its ownmanelodious song
to.,mimic, tie chopping of; trees)
cowing of logs,, barking of dogs,
'ducking of hens, • the `wliistle of '•
n train' onthe''leuglap'of a'-kooka
bdrra, followed by 'the •delight-
ful clearrota-, h t
t s'• o£ the hr ii or
n a
I • alagpic r7 , ... "
t, 'fr,,The rlyre -,;laird.. days. only. One
13'ltat a time 1; have arranging'
to get away when. it will be -
the least inconvenient
"fuer ': , , and then./ 'don't • it }t
right: I •made Trent for'my twfo-
day •trip to the •city earlier in
the;week but did not go because
inal} was ,coming ..to dehorn'
some heifers. On such an ecea-
sion I like to be arof hd in cage
anyone gets 'hurt or needs help
in anyway. So I welted until
-Friday—and then••what happens?
While Partner had all his oft"
work' to do, plus getting meals
and attending to the fire and
furnace, another cow had a calf;
a new neighbor came to return a
call. while Partner was -still at
the •barn; there. was a telephone
_eall fronm,. a friend living
'.Toronto who was visiting in Mil- '
'ton ; and 'expected to see me
before she iettirned.'Incldentally
I was phoning that same friend
in Toronto, only to learn she
was in Milton! The baker, the
'egg -roan and the Fuller -Brush
man made their. customarycalls,
,ant the 'Mailman left a" whole
pile. of. "fan -mail" --also , a mys-
terious parcel. The, parcel was,
a cardboard box about a foot
square. Inside the •tetany paper
- wrappings were two g l a ss
tumbiars. One was inscribed—
"Partner, Ginger Farm" — afid
the., other, ."Gwendoline,. • Gfngpr
•Farnx"! That's all , , . npt hint •
.egg,, tlleened pent, It, . Ixilds '
,its danetimduntis; serif imes
to: a bei f =thf eg,o r� Yea gi•om
the ground : The"' dual& bias a
•initgnificent- pltffndge'wiih a lyre-;
shaped tail; bigger. than :thg,bi'celg
house before ;I rould agree or and even `the" postmark was
disagree. illegible and gave do clue. Part-
I'Waked at my'steephig krand-- • ner said 'Someone's•ptilling
son- ands. copldn't believe tlyat your leg!" Well, maybe — may.:
two weeks could :make so- mala be•, not Anyway we used the
difference. Four months old tdat glasses today. So to our unknown
very flay and lie 1poked .six •irr benefactor we say It -thanks fa •
seven. Fifteen minutes later •he crit". It wag fun; anyway, corn
-
Wei a$,akb and crying. "Oh" ,ing home-to-a'nioe.litIle surprise.
dear," ' I :thought; "nate -.whist's As to the reit of My
going to happen when' he finds mail". most -of it -•was= in.answer
it .isn't mothertaking care of '.to-•ni .offer. of transfers in return
hint?" .I bent over. his .cot;. David for stamped envelope. .land I
looked up, stopped crying and have came to the conclusion that
began smiling and gurgling quite at great number di my readers
happily. F$nnt then' on it the are very% inte'iesfed in'' fanby-
easy going.' T khew 'the easily world' -Tia a*equests •. were :more"
evening. was- often his wakeful, `1•lumerous than 3, expeeted. How-''
period so .l put him down Kin jlte . aver, ,I .have divided ,the trans-
, 'big,ped and far the next hoer ; tem as fairly, as- I. could SO that ,
w e • `really' enjoyed' ourselves 'las -each person will at least be slit: `
We both had `quite a lot to talk •'ficientla• 'repaid to cover the cost
about.- • ' of postage' involved.'
••,I was amazed ghat' Daviel did i
net "make -strange" with me, as
apparently he, does •witll some
people. , Could it be , s o m- e
instinct made him realize I was
life next hest thing to his
mother; did to ' know that be-, ,
tween us there was a real kin-
ship? I3 so he didn't have Much '
consideration for his gran d -
mother during. the night. At four
"
o'clock in the morning' he was
giving an active' detinonstraffen
of what, a - healthy Pair .of buries
can do. But I stayed put! That
is a grendinpthex e p r t vi l e'g e,
except in times oI tinergenca'.
Lova our grandehildeeni look.
after then;, sew and lehit fdi%
them°.,baby-sit or take them tor
walks, but during the night they
are thea mothers ,responsibility -
•-father a too, for that: matter, i
'However, 1 know of '005' grand- ,
mother -Who fete' Up ad igoas
to'the•parents' room if she hears
the., baby crying during the
night. ,..I might add her soliel-
tide is not appreciated by her
'con and daughter -in -jaw. •
Looking' after Da'Vid 'brought
back to me Me03' my deopeet
"regrets — that/ lily "mother never
. saw liar Canadian grandchildren,
f th1q s a daughter, more eS •thatf
a eon, itK never, oompletely Cabe-
tied until She can more or lees
• I$51JJi 13 — 1954
itself, Ile displays this adorn..
meat in a strutting dance lb Im-
press the female, a small, homely
bird lacking any finery.
A Close look at various birds'
nests in the Australian bush
reveals some interesting featpres,
Wine golden*Tiauded fade!' wafb-
ler,,,aftet` building its' coned neat,
sews on leaves using cobwebs
and gosysamers for thread and its
beak for 'a needle, Because of
itsdeftness. in tbe. use p3 the
itee'cue end thread, it le ire-
quefitly 1'efei,•redIto- as'Austrliliarr
tailor'bird,
VEhe white -eared hoiiC,y-eaters,
fouHd in ''distribts ktiosvii.;' as
heathlands,, inoluding •Ilse , kerub
country, eroundtSydney's idle
Harbour, are calledhatrdress
g> " „ These" odd
verde generallSg use ahfinal hair;
•f.or, tininlff:theft nests,t1Jiut lunch
• ; 7Ryger rhrlrllaa, It@ktCii£; aYgtlable
.Dicey. bayer,n4 oignill?nctt9n.ai29ut
alighting on a pe tlil,' head.,, nd
sn ring a.„ telt , 1
p other place on earth can
boast the' giant earthworm found
nil+ -S o u t h 'Glippsland, )Victoria,
' Sometimes"k n' e w n as' batking
neatens, . they grow • :to •aPi'gaVe ,„
feet fn. lengthand several inches
' thick.. •
Walking near a ' colony' ;of
there creatures, die can 'hear
d lou
the . -
ur lin sounds whi
g g g
eh
aiweys betray the giant worms'
presence—a weird .kind of,gsoan-
,ing under fine's- feet, like the
lament of somestrange apiniaL
- These noises, 'which•.account/3er
the-4Eerin' "tsarking" tvorm,'3.'itre
prdduced by- the worrfs's p9•ogres-
51 •n -•.h u h the he burrow. A
a,�, l:ca g
ecienti cut one of these giant
worms into a dozen pieces and
section 10
dege ped into a
9bihuilete. woii€n • lE • several are
cumrupF toi#etiier r, two liakds 1 will
'tseriletrute.s•inlet-rwitli .a, tai1 e-
tweer) -On the. other band .l.isvo
#,ails might j,5451 .5511E014 a :iiepdt
us ioU 1+NU
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with
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the n'ew ' " • plore.spoiled cakes o yea,st3.No neon: •
yite, trips ; •-this new, form p1
,• Fast DRY Yeast - -- •`ischntann"s Yeast keeps in jour cup.
beach'! Order a inontles suplaly.:
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- .A Scald :¢, mina,;&,(, c. granulated dough.' over astir set m warn;
sugar, 14.:tsps,..,salt and....4 - c. place, free. frdth draughd'Let ri,c
shorteningg; cad te. lukewarm, .,Iptil-,doubled•.in bulb,',puneh'.
MMPe'anwhile, rhea'sat'e rots st'targe own dop!(h and'rol� out hue an.
'bowl 3i3e iulcewarm'lvater,1 tsp, r oblongs' about 9' wide acid .24
granulated .sugar; ,ktj unfii.sug =• lorig;'loo9En dottgli. Combine ?; ' 1'
,ir 33 'dissolved. Sprinkle with 1
c.. lightly -packed brown sugar,;
ehvelo'e,Ffuseliaaann`s Fast Rls . and mh _c. liquid Miley; .spread
p r ogee dough and sprinkle ninth v '
ingDry,!Yeast,?k.et stand 10 mins,,o. broken walnuts. Beginning at
t•THEN stir well... a long side, loosely roll up like a.
• -fldd &holed ,nick mixture and jelly roll. Lift carefully into a
SW' lu I well'=beiten egg and 1 tsp.:. greased 834" tube pan and join
3"grated. demon.' rind: Stir in 2 .c, ends of dough to form it ring.
Wee -sifted bread. flow boat uh Bruslyltop with niched tetter,
dil'smooth, Work' 111.2 c. (about) Cover and let rise until ,doubled
once -sifted bread .flour. Knead in butte/lake in rnoderafel riot
e' ' an sirdhtly;fiaurad boatdWuntil oven, 375°,45-50 minutes. Brush
.sinootll and • telast Lc ..Plage in top witifhoney and • sprinkle with'8reatte,d boi6t' and $rd 'se 'top of chopped waladts,
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