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HomeMy WebLinkAboutThe Brussels Post, 1953-9-16, Page 7Hsi r �eP��o<wr "SALAD " TEA BAGS 1-4 INL,HESIJ "Deajr Anne Hirst: I am a con- trite husband, back with my wife, and wondering how''. crazy a man can get , , , We have been mar- ried 18 years, and have tw'o chil- dren, 'lily wife is a grand per- son—yet two months ago I fell in love with another woman, and. lost my head, : ' "I told my wife I was leaving. She said nothing, just stood there and listened.. , , The woman and I wentoff together for over a month; S felt like a boy again, relieved of responsibilities, and renewing my youth. I even prom- ised to get free somehow and marry her, and I really intended to, "Then, suddenly, my love for her was gone. One day she seem- ed like a stranger, ... I came to my senses, and brought her back fast. She is a nice girl, and I couldn't bring myself to tell her the truth—that I would never be content with any wom- an but my wife. "WHAT'S NOW?" "My wife has forgiven me, and only .God in His mercy knows why. Since then, I've done all I could Kart make up for nay folly. "But what of the girl? I feel responsible. I thought T had to see her now and then, to break off gently. 1 know she cares for me, and I feel how grieved and bewildered she is. No one is to blame but me. What can I do?" R. D. T." • You can be a• loyal husband * again; in eVe,Ty„*'Schee of the * word. Tho iiteens' giving up • the girl comic} ai3C" If you are • brave enougifsste :yell her that * the affair ii""nsi iYt.,that is the • kindest ways; . if - you cannot * bring yourself to that, stop * seeing her. • 'Every meeting renews her • hope—and, if you mean what • you say, there is no hope for • her. She ^:will recover, and • realize that no good ever comes • from sinning. What you did • will leave its scar — on your Iron -on Borders 80 inches of Color 6y Came. Maas No embroidery! Just IRON ON these gay borders — pink, blue and green, Two sizes! 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You are very fortu- * nate that she took you back. * Show your gratitude by a"de- * cent humility, and by undi- * vided devotion to her and your " children; that is all she asks. • Your experience' proves what * I have said so often: An illicit * passion burns itself out, leav- • ing two guilty people (and * some innocent ones) who will * never be the same again, 1 * hope that your story will be * a warning to young women, • and other married men, who * are tempted to defy the moral • code. Knowledge can be an armor against temptation. If you would learn what happens to those who yield, read this column every day. . Anne Hirst has wise counsel for troubled souls, and comfort for those who need it. Write her at Box 1, 123 Eight- eenth St., New Toronto, Qnt. Don't Scrub Floors Sponge ''Em Many women who are accus- tomed to automatic washers and ironers, electric mixers and pres- sure cookers, still get down on their hands and knees with an old-fashioned brush and pail to scrub the floor. A few are able to turn this chore over to a weekly cleaning woman. The rest just don old clothing and perhaps a pair of rubber glove's and double as their own scrgbwoman. Out of chemistry's continuous research program for removing the drudgery from housework has come the cellulose sponge, now a familiar kitchen and bath- room accessory. When equipped by manufac- turers with a long handle and a small hand -operating wringer this same cellulose sponge will keep the, housewife's kneea off hard floors and her hands out of grimy water. Scrubbing a floor this way be- comes about as easy as sweeping it with a broom. Hands never touch the mop end or the water and the whole operation it per- formed from an erect position. The mop is simply dipped into a pail containing a mild cleaning solution and rubbed over the floor. To lap up the loosened dirt and water, the mop end is first rinsed and then wrung out with a flip of the automatic squeezer. Since cellulose sponges soak up 20 times their weight in water, wringing is reduced to a mini- mum. These sponge mops are becom- ing as Versatile as the popular cellulose hand sponge, When moistened with clear water and squeezed until all the water has been expelled, they make excel- lent rug cleaners and floor dust- ers. The sponge has such an at- traction for dust, dirt and lint that the mop should be rinsed clean periodically under the kitchen tap. Their long noodles make them convenient for wash- ing walls, windows, ceiling and other awkward areas. The auto- matic squeezer makes it easy for the housewife to control their moisture content. Sponge mops are also handy tliquid wax appliers. With usage they become saturated with the liquid and result in a saving of wax which is often wasted when Other appliers are tossed out. SOME FESTIVAL Marino, a village in Italy, be- lieves in making the Iuost of its high days and holidays. At its annual wine festival, wine, not water, is pumped through the village fountains, to get the great delight of the inhabitants. If You're TIRED ALL THE TIME Erer7body gets a bit tut -down now and Hien, tded-outi heavy-headod, and maybe bothered by backache,. Perhaps nothing seriously wrong, just a temporary, taste condition eauied by' Onkel{ adds and wastes, That's the time to take Dodd's Kidney Pill*: Dodd', stimulate the kidney,, and to help restore (it6it normal action of remoring excess acids and wastes, Then you feel better, sleep better, work bolter. Get Dodd's Kidney Pills now. Look ter the blue hoe with the red band at *0 dntggists, You can depend en Qadd's. s2 Modern Etiquette Q. ;Ls it proper to thank your hostess for a meal in her home? A. No; the only one who gives thanks for a pieal'le a beg- gar. Do not say, "Thank you for the delicious dinnerir" . but In- stead, "I've had 'a wonderful time," or, "It has. been nice being with you," It is more proper to indicate your enjoyment of the visit, than of the fact that you've been fed, Q. Are relatives and friends obligated to send gifts to an en- gaged girl? A. No. Just before the wed- ding, and upon receipt of an in- vitation is time enough for this. Q. Is it ever permissible to leave the spoon in the coffee cup? A. Never; the spoon should always be placed In the saucer. Q. Will you 'please explain the proper manner of eating soup? .... A. Dip the farther edge of the spoon into the ;soup 'and- di- rect it away from you and to- wards the outer edge of the plate, Do not fill the spoon to the brim. Put the side, not the point, 'of the spoon into the mouth. And remember, no noise while sipping the soup! Q. To whom should wedding announcements be mailed? A. Only to those people who did not receive invitations to the wedding. Q. When a man is walking in the rain witih a woman who is carrying an umbrella, should he offer to hold it? A. Yes, this would be cour- teous. Q. -When one enters a restaur- ant carrying several packages, where should these bundles be placed? A. If there is no check room, place tthem on a vacant chair. If the restaurant is crowded and chairs at a premium, then place the packages under your chair. death of her husband, be ad - Q. Should a woman, after the dressed as "Mrs. Mary Gilbert" or as "Mrs. Thomas Gilbert?" A. The death of her husband in no way affects the name by which the woman is known. She continues to be "Mrs. Thomas Gilbert" Q. Is it considered good form to use a handkerchief at the table? A. If really necelssary, one should not hesitate to use tha *handkerchief, But it should be used as inconspicuously as pos- sible. Q. What is the proper form for a father to use when intro- ducing his daughter to an older woman? A. "Mrs. .Lee, this is my daughter, Joan." • • (1 n • • •' ILI • • • c3 4894 14i'1 -24t4 kid. - ci„es So slimming --this paneled hip- line does as much for your figure as a diet! Designed to fit and flatter shorter, fuller figures! Note maite1 neckline, soft bodice, graceful skirt. Perfect for your .favorite fabric. — rayon print, nylon, shantung, or cotton! Pattern 4894: Half Sizes 1434, 161, 183& 203& 221/2, 241. Size IPA takes 41/2 yards 39 -inch. This pattern easy to use, sim- ple to sett, is tested for fit. Has complete illustrated instructions. Send 'SHIRTS' I'VE CENTS (350) in coins (stamps cannot be accepted) for this pattern, Print plainly SIZE, NAME, ADDRESS, STYLE NUMBER. Send order to Box 1, 123 Eighteenth St., New Toronto, Ont. No Place Like Home—$o the Turners and Kullboms took theirs *with them on a vacation trip to Canada. Here Mrs, C. S. Kull- boa stands in front of the home -on -wheels built by her son in-law, Wendell Turner, —era RONICLES / NG RFARM enoex+doLttile:P Cre>:k.¢ Before resuming my ordinary, everyday "chronicles" I would like to devote just one more column to the A.C.W.W. Confer- ence —.this time in, connection with the visit of'the delegates to the very spot where the Mother Institute was organized. To my mind this was, one pf, the. high- lights of the C'onfer'ence: Judging by.- it; .well -wooded surroundings , the. ,'ferrate ' of Stoney Creek has ohdnged very little since the: 'decisive 'battle' of 1812-14. It is• a beautiful • little village, and, if oneknew nothing at all of its hist9ry, one,wotald be inclined to pause awhile because of the magnificent scenery 'And then, "having"paused; it would be only natural•to inquire about the imposing monument that stands high upon ,a hill, in'Battlefield Park. This monument is fir the form of a massive stone column, risingfrom ' a h1 " de se grdwtk'oE trees and shrubs'and•was erected to commemorate the Battle o Stoney Creek between the Ame- rican and Canadian Forces in June, 1813. But 'it has 'Still an other meaning; of possibly. even greater significance: • It com- memorates the beginning of the peaceful era, that has, existed be- tween Canada and the U.S.A. for 140' year's. F'ilrther evidence of the friendly -relationship 'be- tween two great border countries can be found in the burial ground across the road, where Cana- dian and American soldiers, who once fought against each other, now sleep side by side, having given their lives for what each considered a just cause. On the battlefield where they fell a Soldier's Monument has been erected in their memory. Following the grim aftermath of war the people of Stoney Creek settled down to again wrest a living from the soil. Many of the early settlers were United Empire Loyalists and among them was a widow. Mary Jones Gage, who, with her. two children, James and Elizabeth, came to Canada from Albany in the year 1790 and were granted Crown Lands in Stoney .Creek. The home where the Gage family lived, and endured great danger and hardship during the war, is now known as Battle- field House and is preserved as a Museum, most of the pioneer furnishings having been con- tributed by various members of the Gage family. Mary Gage was a courageous woman. After losing her loya- list husband, John Gage,- she put what possessions she could handle into a canoe, and, with her children and two brothers, made her way along the old- time water route from Albany to Canada. finally to the head - of -the -Lakes and thus to Stoney Creek. Here she set about clearing the land and tilling the soil until her son James was old enough to take over the res- ponsibility, How fitting, con- sidering these and later circum- stances during the war, that the motto of the Gage familywas, and presumably still is, "Cou- rage without Fear," Possibly that motto would ap- ply equally well to many other pioneer Stoney Creek residents, and particularly to Erland Lee. It was Mr. Lee who first recog- nized the need for a women's organization; whose main funs- tion should be to study . and im- prove rural living. In tine fall of 1896, with this conviction still firmly rooted in his mind, Er-. SAFES rrotoet roar BOORS nod CASE Irons MIRE end TIIIIOVES. We have a nice end- Arne of Sate, or Cabinet. for any our Dear. Vtall- a er write for orhte, oto„ to Dent. W. J.6C.J.TAYL®.R uMITED TORONTO SAFE WORKS' 141 Front et, 8,. T0Iw114 ketabll*lrcd torn land Lee attended%a meeting of the Experimental Union, at the O.A.C. in Guelph, where he heard Mrs, Adelaide Hoodless address a meeting on the need of havingDomestic estie Economy taught in schools as one means of rais- ing the rural standard of living. Mr. Lee was so impressed by Mrs. Hoodless' stirring and for- thright address that he arrang- ed for her to address a meeting of the Farmer's Institute in Stoney Creek, to which the wo- men were invited. And from that small beginning emerged the Stoney Creek Women's In- stitute. News of this new ven- ture got around and women in other districts were fired with enthusiasm. One after another new branches were formed. Now, the W.I., affiliated with other rural organizations, constitutes the A.C.W.W., the largest wo- men's organization in the world. How fitting then, that the A.C.W.W. should visit the site of the Mother Institute. Here, in the grounds of Battlefield House, at the foot of the hill upon which stands the Memorial Column, women of all nations met with the present members of Stoney Creek W. I. Here, also, were the five ve remaining charter members of the Mother Institute, the first to carry the torch, led by the inspired Adelaide Hoodless, who, from bitter experience, had re- cognized the need for greater knowledge among women — of nursing, medicine and a better way of living. Here, too, to greet the delegates was Mar- jorie Lee, daughter of Erland Lee; Mrs. Gordon Conant of Oshawa, daughter of Mrs. D. Smith, the first W. I. president; and Miss Muriel Bostwick, grand -daughter of Adelaide Hoodless. Across the sunlit hills, in the vicinity of the &age homestead, and amid the beautiful shade trees, it almost seemed as if the spirit of the pioneers was pre- sent at this A.C.W.W. pilgri- mage. Perhaps Mrs. Raymond Sayre• felt it too as she said in her address — "The Story of Stoney Creek gives us four important points 40 remember. First, the power of an idea; se- cond, the power of a woman; third, the power of an individual; and fourth,' it .proves that every- one must begin where they are, and with what they have." VALUABLE CHIPS Tim Bramer, aged seven, was enjoying his bag of potato crisps until he bit on something altogether unlike the cruelty wa- fers—a diamond ring. An indignant boy took himself off to the potato chip company's offices to protest. His annoyance was soon dispelled by the pre- sentation of a fat monetary re- ward given him by the employee who had lost her engagement ring while working in the plant. Honeymoons That Weren't Too Sweet Perhaps the shortest honey moon on record was that of the Portsmouth soldier who jumped his unit 10 get married. Thirty minutes after the ceremony he was in cells awaiting an escort back to barracks. In the same class were Alex Hinney and his bride, Constance Fleet, of Las Vegas. Alex and his wife went through the mar- riage service 1,0 benefit under the terms of a will. They collected the cash on a 150 -minute honeymoon and then made a bee*line for the divorce court. The most uncomfortable honey- moon was spent by the jester of Empress Anne of Russia. The empress didn't like his sense of humour, and she forced him into marrying an old crone. The couple were compelled to spend their honeymoon in a house made of ice on the frozen surface of the river Neva Just to make it worse, a bed was in- stalled which was carved out of a block of ice, What about the longest honey- moon? Surely the Gosport couple who cruised round the world in a converted lifeboat are candi- dates here. They were away for four years. Possibly the busiest dopey'* moon was spent by Maureen O'ltyan when she tools Ernest Johnson to be her lawful hula - band, He was the manager and. she was the assistant on a DOdgs em track at the Festival Gardens. They chose the height of the sea« On to marry, so after the ser-. vice they both went back to a spell of overtime. - One of the oddest honeymoons was the .choice of London clippie Elsie Hansen, after she married a bus driver. Elsie held four London Transport athletic cham- pionships, and she had to leaved, to Osterley, Middlesex, to defend. them after leaving the church. 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