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HomeMy WebLinkAboutThe Wingham Advance-Times, 1984-04-25, Page 20Pagei •Critads-4pr r 11 Planning a wddding• shower? There are plenty of ways to make this event easy and fun -- for the bride, the guests and for you! One way is to give the shower a theme. This will guide guests in a nice way toward gifts the bride and groom will really appreci- ate. According to Bride's magazine, it's perfectly acceptable to mention on the shower invitation stores where the bride is regis- tered. Bride's also reports many department store bridal registries now list the house- wares department so this allows an even wider choice in gift buying. If the bride is not reg- istered, she'll thank you for listing her favorite bath or decorating colors on the kIir:g ,tiovver?._ a fun time for all! invitation. For u kitchen gadget shower' your might headlQ your invitation, "Cook's Delight," or for a bath theme, "Decorate the Bath!" Carry the theme through ... gift bars of soap could be game prizes at a bath shower. And, for wedding gift ideas, a new line called Rubbermaid II offers pretty bath items in gift boxes. CONSIDER THE COUPLE'S TASTE You could also plan the shower around the decorat- ing tastes of the bride and groom. The invitation could read ... "A Country Shower . .. Janet and Dave are lovers of old-fashioned treasures and homespun natural goods, so think 'country' for this shower ! " Cards with a,. calico print or artwork of CAPTURE THE DAY ON FILM Now we can make those memories everlasting by capturing the beautiful moments on film. Make it a day to remember by calling today. CaII Bill: 291-4306 anytime 00. lottery and ,llaekets would help convey the idea. Don't forget important de- tails . enough seating (arranged for sociable con- versation), fresh flowers or other decorations and soft music in the background. You may need someone to help you welcome guests and introduce people. to each other, plus help in serving refreshments and someone to note gifts and giver as packages are opened (have pen and paper on hand). Prior to,the shower, cover the basics with those helping you so minimum direction will be required while guests are present. Games? More than one person has groaned at the thought, but they can help break the ice for guests just meeting one another. AMUSING ANECDOTES Here's a suggestion. Have two sets of matching num- bers prepared. Each arriv- ing guest receives a number while the duplicate is attach- ed to their gift. As the bride opens each gift she calls out the number and the guest with that number must relate some funny incident, perhaps from marriage, a first date or a situation of their choice. You can tie this idea into a kitchen or bath shower theme by having guests relate their craziest experi- ences in a kitchen or a bath- room. Guests can vote on the winning story, and to collect the prize the winner must sing a stanza from a favorite "in -the -shower" tune for a bath shower, or perhaps make up an "ode to a veget- able" for a kitchen shower. (If the winner was voted the funniest story teller, there, will probably be little trouble with this assignment!) HAVE A GOOD TIME Above all, plan the shower to provide a happy event for your guest of honor, and do simplify gift buying for your guests with a little direction: • THE PINE BOX GIFT BOUTIQUE 17 WILLIAM ST. WELLESLEY Come and see our selection of quality hand-crafted gifts made by area residents. MON.-SAT. 9-6 FRI. TIL 9 , HONEYMOON VACATION Stratford Travel and Paramount Holidays offers you a tempting selection of luxurious Honeymoon Vacations for the Spring, Summer & Fall of '84. 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The American Formal - wear Association, being expert on the rules and mores of weddings and their attendant rules and obliga- rt tions. has n c � compiled l st of r�. u ped the most often asked ques- tions by grooms and the AFA has supplied- the Answers that currently apply to them. Some who can afford it go to wedding counselors to find out what to wear, what to do and how to do it. The follow- ing will answer most, if not all, of the questions that the average groom may pose: Q.: Who or what decides if the wedding is to be formal, semiformal or informal? A.: Those decisions are usually up to the bride, and r No -fuss dinner for two features fabulous main - dish fettuccine A file chock-full of favorite recipes is something that every new bride finds practi- cally indispensible. A definite "must" for any such collection is Pasta D'Amore, a marvelous main dish recipe that's well worth clipping and saving because it's so easy to prepare . . . and so delicious. Thinly sliced ham and tender green peas simmer in a. lemon-parslied wine sauce, perfectly seasoned with instant cream of mushroom soup mix. ELEGANT ENTREE When tossed 'with fet- tuccine noodles, this, is a simply elegant entree for two that's ready in less than 15 minutes. File it under "fantastic." PASTA D' AMORE 1 teaspoon butter or mar- garine 14 pound cooked ham, cut into thin strips 2 envelopes Lipton Cream of Mushroom Cup -a -Soup 4 cup water 14 cup white wine 2 tablespoons finely chopped parsley 1/2 teaspoon grated lemon peel 1 cup cooked peas or quar- tered artichoke hearts !% pound fettuccine or medium egg noodles, cooked and drained In small skillet, melt butter and brown ham. Add instant cream of mushroom soup mix blended with water, wine, parsley, lemon peel and peas. Simmer covered, 5 minutes' or until heated through. Toss with hot cooked noodles. Makes about 2 servings. often in b area determined nn ed the ens e.r t y. choke' of gown haat She wears' ,and thg , site of the ceremony, If she wears a long gown with a train, the' ceremony is definitely formai. If the bride elects to wear only a veil with her gown, the cere- mony can be considered to be semi -formal. Q.: If the wedding is formal, what do I wear? A.: In the daytime, a cut- away coat and striped trousers. However, in some contemporary weddings the groom will wear a white tail- coat, but traditionalists hold out for the gray cutaway. For a contemporary evening formal ceremony, the groom may wear a black or white full dress (tailcoat), while the traditionalist will wear the classic white tie and tails. Q. ,If the wedding is semi- formal, what do I wear? A.: For a traditional daytime wedding, a gray stroller , with ' striped trousers. For a contemporary day- time wedding, a tuxedo of your choice or an updated stroller. For a traditional evening ceremony, a black tuxedo or a white dinner jacket. For a contemporary evening wedding, a tuxedo_ of your choice. Q.: What do my ushers or groomsmen wear? A.: In a traditional cere- mony, the same as the groom, with the exception of the boutonierre which in the groom's case should be a sprig of lily -of -the -valley from the bride's bouquet. In a contemporary wed- ding, the groomsmen may dress "a step down" from the groom, i.e. if the groom wears a tailcoat, the grooms- men may wear a short coat. Q.: What do the fathers of the bride and groom wear? A.: The same rules apply to the fathers as to the ushers and the groomsmen. Q.: Do I give a present to the bride? A.: As a rule, the gift of the' wedding ring is considered to -be snnffi •int. -However, there is no rule against o e?ing her, a furthertoken of your devotion. Q.: Do I owe a gift to any of the wedding members? A. • Yes' Some small gift should be made to your ushers or groomsmen. Dress studs, cuff links,. pocket jewelry, or thea like is ap- propriate. Those gifts serve as mementos of the occasion. Q.: Who decides on the type, place and length of the honeymoon? A.: Those decisions should be made by agreement be- tween the bride and groom. Its type is usually deter- mined by financial capa- bilities and the available time for the trip. Q.: Who provides the • bride's bouquet? A.: The groom: blips his bride's 'bouquet arkd also the usher's bouton Ie es. Q.: Who pays for the - honeymoon;? A.: The groom,! Q.; who gives the honor- arium to the officiating reverend or judge? A. ,• The groom. Q.: Who pays for the rental of the f ormalwear? A.: The groom and the members of the wedding each pay for their own. Q.: Who pays for the wedding?` A.; The > ilge's fondly, Q.r What ure'the chitties of the Best Man? • A,.: Th+a Best`:M.an attends the groom prior to cere- mony, hands him the ring to place on the bride's finger during the ceremony, and offers the first toast to the bride and groom at the reception. He also reads, to all assembled, any and all con- gratulatory messages sent to the bride and groom at the reception. It's your day to shine as you walk down the aisle in an aura of elegance o.. Make that day of days the most successful and memorable with enchanting bridal fashions from LETT _ U'S IN TEESWATER A relaxed atmosphere, cordial service and personal attention make selecting that very special gown that much easier. You will be pleasantly surprised at the selection we offer in bridal gowns, bridesmaids' gowns and gowns for the mothers of the bride and groom. As well, we will gladly provide the formal suits for the groom and his attendants with a wide selection from either Syd Silver Formals or Freeman Formal Rentals. 99 <21-00 64z) n Q c� 444 FREEIr1Rl1 FORMAI REATRLS Your wedding day ... when both of you want to look just perfect. Letteau's of Teeswater Open Tues. - Sat. Please phone for appointments cfor 392-6821 A DEFINITE COLLECTOR'S ITEM for every new bride's recipe file is Pasta D' Amore. This quick and delicious entree combines strips of ham, peas and fettuccine noodles in a lemon-parslied wine sauce perfectly seasoned. with instant cream of mushroom soup mix. Fabulous! Groom traditionally presents attendants with gifts Long ago, when a young man fell in love, he didn't stand on ceremony, he just stole into the girl's house and kidnapped her! But he played it safe by bringing along a strong-armed friend to deal with any pursuers. If his lady love had more than one brother, he brought along several stalwart friends. Hence, the tradition of a "best ' man" and "ushers" was born. Nowadays, the best man and ushers perform equally important — if less dramatic — functions. Aside from getting the groom to the church on time (properly, one quarter hour in advance of the ceremony), his attendants perform such tasks as seating the bride's and bridegroom's family and friends, having the clergy- man's or judge's fee and the marriage license .ready at the appropriate time, and acting as toastmaster at the bridal table—paying special attention to the bride's at- tendants. As an expression of his gratitude for their help, the groom traditionally presents the best man and'ushers with commemorative gifts. Choose from our complete collection of special occasion 'dresses ... just ideal for that wedding you'll be attending. CALL US TODAY Beautiful lingerie and lounge wear at affordable prices. STRATFORD TRAVEL CENTRE 53 MARKET ST., STRATFORD. N5A 6T3. 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