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HomeMy WebLinkAboutThe Wingham Advance-Times, 1984-01-05, Page 18Page --,--- ft—orgas mss—pan. 5, 984 ot all teens ' are rude By Willard Abraham Ph.D. Q. What's with this smart- alecky, rude business I run into so much among teen- agers these days? Maybe there are exceptions, but I seem to see them less and less. Their so-called wisecracks and attitudes of know-it-all bothers me quite a bit. I re- member my own teen years (not so long ago), and even if I didn't feel any particular respect for adult 'friends of my parents or for other grownups., I would never turn on a fresh mouth. I al- ways felt that my parents wouldn't permit it. Nowadays it's the common things to insult, ridicule, answer back and all the rest, What concerns me is my own young children (we have three of them). I couldn't bear to have them turn out like that. What can I do to keep those obnoxious char- acteristics from developing? y orse collect! le By Jamye,.�s, G.,, Mcl plla>t! illomhorr, • . Aslthipe Appraisers Association of America Q. This habbylliorse be- longed to my grandfather vyben he was a little boo. It hap' a real leather 'saddle and genlpltie horsehair mane and tall. ' What can you -dell me about it? A, This dates back ta. the turn of the centuuY and 4 s u very papular Rein wild I+RY colledtotrs. ft tour . " t000blY sell in the $509 te0,89 I' I . la. I have a pair -of ponce- lain figurines - -two young just in time to begin .worry - 'Ing of the next generation.out the "immaturity" Q. Are boys really better at math than girls are? My daughter's fifth -grade tea- cher believes they are, and that's why he permits no girls in his advanced arith- metic study class. ' 1 think he's being narrow- minded, but he insists that research supports his point of view. Do you agree with him? A. Some, boys have highly cultivated math skills and interests. Some girls,do, too. Whatever the research shows may have no rele- vance for determining. the ability of a particular child. However, , a conflict with her teacher probably won't help you reach the objective of getting for her the educa- tion she apparently de- serves. A calm discussion with him, including factors that demonstrate her ability and interests in the area, may be a better course to pursue. You might even sug- gest that he experiment with one or two girls, including yours, and then carefully fol- low up on what he does in that class, what homework is assigned and how well your daughter progresses. A. The model parts pro- vide and the expetations they have ford their children may help you avoid the pro- blem you described. How- ever, I can't believe you haven't . encountered teen - a who are helpful, re- s ctful and modest. I see them all the time carrying, out or bagging gro- series, in college classes and among friends of my own children. " Sometimes we may be a bit turned off by one who .seems to be, feels he or she is or actually is quite wise for his or her. years. And there are newspaper horror stories of the ones involved in crimes and automobile acci- dents, butadults, too, hit the headlines as part of 'such stories. I guess it has always been that way, this wonderment' about whether they will ever grow up. They do;frequently • NN54.��.'l°NpyyY 4 'Wore, HOBBY HORSE ... Popular Item with toy collectors , in now Duchov, a. t+ Y f�ld.l a worth.fromi for 'the pair. :: W�Y�'11!o ttd som _ i S .$i te8 be worth 11 1O pr $15 and others of e; :ls;>i me vintage be worth ' from $1 N to $200? This is particularly confusing if the lower priced plate:was made by: Haviland and the higher - someone I have never heard sof. -- litre J. Po kyat. blue dress■, ^ A. TI><e Limoges plates that girls wttela>rL1 &ell for prices. in the range of but a f(ch la pltghtl<y di event, 410 to $25 are.ordinary dinner 'v ey .are inches tall and plates from a set of dishes. have fyhe attached mark on. The higher -priced plates are the bottom. I would appre usually hand painted slate knowing who made decorative and portrait them, wharf~, when and their.- _plates. Bothmay be of the present, value. same vintage, and both may A. 'hese were xadeoper by be fine quality porcelain, but Ernst Eichler who operated collectors like plates that are the Duxer Porzellan Mann - suitable for display and have faktur thin Dux, Bohemia, artistic merit.Min MI MN I= UM IIIIIII III _.. - around the turn of the sen MO OM III! INN IMMO lilis ara ow iim mo 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 C PON 1 $500 FF 1 1 All 1 Hour Appointments - 1 Expires January 31st, 1984 1 For Appointment Call • 1 Lucille's Electrolysis i ■ 343-2261 1 ,.....0...................m.....0.......• _—` ---------m..... It --- Q. Our pediatrician has re- commended some myster- ious shots for our children, and they have me worried. I think it's possible for them to get sick from them so I'm re- luctant about his suggestion. How can I get him to change his mind? " A: You're really putting me on, aren't you? There's. obviously 'a need for better communication between you and him, so it's time for some direct questions. What shots? Why? Side effects? • I'm not a..physician and he ' is, so that appears to be the logical direction for your questions. SNOW FUN—To spend an afternoon making shots like this calls for special hand- ling of your camera equipment as well as knowledge about how cold weather 'af- fects light measurement. (Photo courtesy Eastman Kodak Co.) Through the Lens have to explain those funny ' little marks along the edges whenever you show your pic- tures. Just as photographers get cold when they are out in the low temperatures- for ex- tended periods of time, so do lenses. However, there is one major difference, when the photographer goes inside to warm up, he doesn't get water condensing .on the in- side. Now if that lens is taken back outside before it's coin- pletely dry, that condensa- tion could freeze and• damage something. The way to avoid this problem is to make certain,yOu warm your ceive good pay, I feel very sert your common sense. lenses slowly.. ;.. insecure in my job. Some When the boss is having a When it's time to take real days my boss is pleasant, bad day, isit all because of ictures.in snow, with, and other days he's not. you? Isn't he irritable with bright sunlight p gh there will be Then, I wonder what I've others, too? Why should you such a wide tonal range . done and if I'll lose my job. be singled out? between sunlit areas and the What's wrong? — E.F. If you don't like your job, shadows that no film can Dear E.F.: It's your fear you should try to find some record it properly. If you're of insecurity, the most com thing else.' You are an intern - using through -the -lens- mon of all anxieties. It's a By Holt Confer : camera when there's show Now that it's beginning to • on the ground ifyou're get chilly, many of you have dressed for the activity and probably put your camera if .you're precautions with away with the lawn furniture your equipment. and forgotten all about pic- One of thosetdvantages-is. •ture-taking outdoor§.. \ that you keep your picture - I'm certain you'll take a taking techniques sharp so few . gift -opening photo- you don't have to relearn in graphs while you're com- April what you forgot in fortably :ensconced in your November. Another advan- home. But there really is a tage is that there is no. sum- • whole lot going on, outdoors Mieehaze to brock,out.distant during .the winter months. •horizons. And if you enjoy And there arevsome definite photographing wild animals, advantages' to using your the lack of foliage and snow- covered ground make theme .1. National Museums . Musees nationau'i of Canada du Canada �s, anada SIIRGIZI T. crossing, indicates .heavy load of guilt By Dorothy back to left, and this adds St. John Jackson more flame to your,aftxiety. Certified Master • , Don't let your strong emo- Graphoanalyst tions„ seen in the slant and Dear Dorothy: While I re- _ pressure of your writing de - gent man seen in the well -de - metering or if you have an • busy little demon, always veloped wedge-shaped n's . whole lot easier to see. instant camera where the ready to lunge at you when (also w's) and are capable As for keeping yourself available light is read by: a You become disturbed andin many areas. If your work warm, I do haveone sugges- - metering eye,"- unless you apprehensive about losing is unpleasant to you, the fear tion, wear a ,, front -opening take some ' precautions, your.job. of insecurity will hold you. you'll find most • of your Such insecurity comes with clenched teeth. Seldom; photographs have been from all the hurts you've had though,. does it stay around . parka or jacket -large enough to get your .camera inside. Whenever your camera isn't in use, zip it up inside, your jacket, the, batteries that power • the • electronic mechanism work best above 45 degrees"P (7 degrees Cel- sius) . It's• also a good idea to re- place your zinc -carbon bat- teries with alkaline batter- ies. Experienced winter pho- tographers who plan to spend long periods of time outdoors will usually carry extra sets of batteries in an inside ' pocket, where they stay close to body tempera- ture. Then, if the weather is particularly _cold; they will ehange their batteries hourly to keep their cameras operating at peak efficiency. In the winter, you also- need lso-need to work just a bit slower than you did in August. When film gets cold,' it also gets brittle, so `rapid, jerky film advancing just might cause a break. Rewinding your•,film also calls. for reduced speed, if you rewind rapidly, chances. are you'll generatestatic electricity that will show up on your processed film as little lightning bolts... The electricity won't harm you or 'your equipment,' but yOu will Orion. large and distinctive and the most brilliant of constellations. is al- most as familiar as the -Big Dipper" (part of the constellation Ursa Major). Unhke Ursa Major, which is a north- ern constellation. Orion is visible from every inhabited part of the earth. A winter constellation. ft swings across the southern part of the sky and can be seen Irom fall until early spring Ursa Major on the other hand. is near the north celestial pole and. when viewed from Canadian lati- tudes. is always above the horizon. • Face south to locate Orion, the Giant Hurter of Greek mythology who was, described by Homer as the "tallest and most beautiful of men'., It'tQkes but little imagination to "see" his • kneeling figure outlined. in a large near -rectangle of brilliant stars. Ruddy-hued,Betelgeuse and llletrix4efine his shoulders: Saiph 'and brilliant blue -white Rigel his, heel and knee The signature o1 this beau- tiful.copstellation is the jewel -studded 'belt" 01 Orion - defined by three al- most equally spaced bright stars William Tyler Olcott. in Star Lore of All Ages. relates the following myth link- ing Orion to the moon -goddess: "The moon-godde s fell In love with the Olanl Hunterhe sun-g$d did not ap- prove of him, and resolved to bring -,, about his destruction As Orion was' • • JANUARY bathing. the sun-god poured his golden rays upon him, and cat1ed,dn ' the moon -goddess to test her skill in archery by shooting°at the gleaming mark. The moon -goddess winged a shaft. and slew Orion: her lover. hid- den In the brilliant bight. Distracted she appealed 10 Jove. who placed Orion In the sky so that the moon-' goddess might gaze upon him as she sails in her silver chariot-. Orion is central to a group of con- stellations known as the Winter -Six. Each has at least one brilliant star and these sweep a large arc around the Giant Hunter. Sparkling Sirius. pinpointing Canis Major (The Large Dog). Is the brightest stat its"the heavens. . • Sweep the area With binoculars. Orion. boasts not only the famous nebula in the centre of the "sword" (a fuzzy patch central to the group 81 faint stars hanging from the bolt). but also a number of double and multiple stars of exceptional beauty. PLANETS: Mars now rises before midnight: Saturn about midnight. In the cofStelIAtlon Libra, both are high in the south at sunrise. Venus and Jupiter, low in the east at sunrise, are separated by less than one degree . \ (2 moon diameters) late In the mouth, Venus is a little closer to the horizon and more difficult to see from day-to- day while Jupiter is climbing away 1rori( the sun and•will dominate the moming'sky ina few months. d h (Urtivetsal Time) 3 05 New.Moon 3 22 Earth' et perihelion 4 02 Quadranted Meteors 8 03 Venus 7 N of Antares 11 10 First Quarter Moon 18 14 Full Moon 2 05 Last Quarter Moon 25 09 Mars 1 '6S. o1Moon 26 01 Saturn 0:2S. of Moon 27 02 Venus 011N. of Jupiter 29 16 Jupiter 1 'BN. of Moon 29 22 Venus 3-N. of Moon Remernber'fe subtract the approprl- , ate number of hours (0 convert to - your time zone. NATIONAL MUSEUM. . lei c tec ology 1867 St' `aJrent Blvd Ottawa K1 A DM8 •, underexposed. throughout your life, all the very long, if you are happily Here's how to avoid that situation.' If you can adjust the ISO -ASA settings on your camera, us'e one-half .the actual film speed. For exam- ple, if the film in your • camera has an ISO -ASA rat- ing of at-ing'of 100, . set your camera's ISO -ASA dial at 50. On in- stant cameras, set the ex, po• sure control for two marks ' lighter than normal.. Because of, the film lati- tude situation I' mentioned earlier, getting proper expo- sures of skin tones and snow i almost impossible. How- ever, you can help overcome this problem by using your flash whenever you're photo- • graphing people in' the snow disapproval, you've sensed adjusted toyour job. (providing they are within realistic flash distance of 8- 10 feet). I wish I could provide more specific information about exposures for many of these situations, but there are just too many film - camera -weather condition _ situations to make that prac- tical. About the only - "hedge" you° have besides 'the things we discussed, is to bracket your exposures by at - least a full stop on either side of the settings you've made. and the rejections you've ex- pected. 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