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HomeMy WebLinkAboutThe Wingham Advance-Times, 1989-11-28, Page 3FJ :fi ;�:�:•: = .•stir r v :' : tic FROM GRIT TO GOLD IT ALL TAKES TIME Jan Heinmiller of Wingham helps son David at home with Ms strengthen- ' Mg exercises. David suffered severe head injuries in a car crash this summer and has been recovering slowly, although steadily. Wingham youth is making long climb back from injury By Margaret Stapleton On the night of July 30, Harvey and Jan Heinmiller of Wingham received the telephone call that all parents dread — their son David had been seriously injured in a car crash and was being transferred to a London hospital. Nothing could have prepa them for that fateful call or for months since as David has stru gled back from severe head inju and virtually learned how to fun tion all over again. Those months have been marked with triumphs and setbacks, h and quiet moments of despair. B through it all, the Heinmillers nev have given up on their son and his ability to recover. That constant support has arguably been the key to David's recovery. Jan.11;Ieinmiller says she and her husband * Harvey, magi ager "of-the local Zehrs store, were awakened by the telephone on the night of Sunday, July 30. A nurse was calling from Wing - ham and District Hospital. She told Mrs. Heinmiller that they suspected David had been in a car accident — a serious car accident — and asked them to come to the hospital imme- diately. When the Heinmillers arrived at the hospital, they scarcely recog- nized 19 -year-old Dave: he was in the throws of convulsions as he was being prepared for transport to London. While a doctor rode with David in the ambulance to University Hospital, a friend drove the Hein - millers and son Donnie' to London, the longest trip Mrs. Heinmiller ever remembers. Once they arrived at the hospital, they were not able to speak to any doctors about David's condition for almost an hour as he was being sta- bilized and monitored. Near 7 a.m., he was moved to intensive care. When family members did get a hance to speak to the doctor, they earned that David was comatose. He still was having seizures, his emperature was dangerously high nd he was partially paralyzed. The doctors made no promises -- hat Dave would survive, that he ever would emerge from the coma r that he would not be paralyzed. The Heinmillers just sat and waited nd the minutes dragged into hours nd the hours into days. The only thirf that sustained hem were their 10 -minute visits th David each hour. "There was omebody in there every hour," recalls Mrs. Heinmiller now. "We st seemed to live for those 10- minute periods.'' They were encouraged to' talk to' ave and touch him, even though was in a coma, giving him con- tain reminders of their love Sister hie brought a teddy bear and 17orinie brought Dave's walkman ead-set and favorite tapes. ' The doctors and nurses were ter- fic to answer the Heinmillers' `tions and there to Iend sup - rt, as was.a hospital social Work- i�' who was assigned to their case. • After four. days had elapsed, the doctors cautiously told the Hein millers tint told had . ssed. the, �tita pont. }le would . ttlF that liight rt ea. I( .he did�t be lifting and his comatose state lightning'. After two weeks in London, Mr. Heinmiller returned to work remtic and Donnie to their jobs in town and the family resumed some sem- blance of normalcy. Mrs. Heinmiller remained in London, visiting Dave red at every opportunity She talked to the him, touched him and bombarded g- him with love and attention, never ries knowing at what point she might C- break through. In late August, she was ho ®ere was some er body in there every hour. We just seemed to live for those 10- minute periods." c 1 t a t •o a a t wi s ju he s Jen ij " hue s im r.• ,p ould be ad and tedio g tl Ilk la n fie t [dyles" ,Mrs. Winn -inlet �`i atlenta ` t' s• n tht lir and tecoenI .e t1� mon next to th'em." Mutt t ►'e' er; throe h it all, 'the time. jtr filer ',started tarte to see small' pe. David's temper- torts ted the eelaureg, achoolt` ratysis appeared to itittittri approached with the possibility of moving David back to hospital in Wingham. At first, she admits to being terrified. Many questions raced through her mind: Can they handle Dave? Will he get the atten- tion he needs? She visited William Woodley, director of nursing at the hospital. He assured her that the local hospi- tal could indeed handle David's case and the wheels were put in motion immediately for an inten- sive rehabilitation program. David returned to Wingham on Sept. 6 and any doubts Mrs. Hein - miller might have had about the level of care quickly disappeared. The doctors, nurses, orderlies, ambulance attendants and cleaning staff — virtually every part of the hospital — took a special interest in the young man and his recovery It was, in Mrs. Heinmiller's words, "a real team effort'`. Soon David began to make real progress. He answered simple questions with a "yes" or "no", started to learn how to walk all over again and eat solid food. Mrs. Heinmiller and the family contin- ued their program of constant stim- ulation and reinforcement, spend - "Real life is not like the moves. Patients don't open their eyes and recognize °the per- son next to them." ing as much..of the day as possible with David, even bringing, him home occasionally. David has continued to improve and last Wednesday, almost four months after his accident, he tame home. He has a longway.te go before he is able to fwiction on hiS own, but many agree that David's progress has been nothing abort of a miracle and attribute much Of it to constatat? 1,01,,e and support of his fandly'atl f,l `ends. •., David rientlyiia voitihm. to go hi Parkry abiliitta+ lion dent �i e Ole Itiinn, ,he. attends ph 16it ► ° ® , ; tial - al therapyr to accident that changed his life and doesn't want to, but his mother remains philosophical. If David loses a year out of his life, it really will make no difference. After ali, he's still young. Now the family is readjusting to functioning as a unit. It will be try- ing at times over the next few months, Mrs. Heinmiller knows that, but she looks forward to a happy Christmas this year, know- ing that the family is together'and future is looking brighter. 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