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HomeMy WebLinkAboutThe Goderich Signal-Star, 1986-06-11, Page 21u • Entertainment • Features • Religion • Family • More SFCTION 1 Tugboats Many people owe their lives to Donald Bert MacAdam and his fleet of tugboats POSTSCRIPT By Susan Hundertmark BY SUSAN HUNDERTMARK In 1939, a five-year-old Donald Bert MacAdam went aboard the J.T. Wing, the last schooner on the Great Lakes, with his grandfather Bert MacDonald. The three -masted schooner was in Goderich harbor with a load of lumber for Beechler's (now Selinger Wood). Donald Bert went on board after his grandfather had helped to turn the schooner around with one of his work boats which he used as a tug boat. "That's the first time I remember being on a boat or ship. I was a little excited and my grandfather was hanging onto my hand," he says. Since that time, Donald Bert can't remember a time when he wasn't on board one boat or another. The owner of MacDonald Marine since he bought the business from his widowed grand- mother in 1957, Donald Bert practically grew up on the tugboats in Goderich Harbor. "All the time I was growing up, I was helping out my grand- father. He was in business with small work boats and pleasure boats since around 1916 and he used them as tugs," he says. Starting in the 1930s or 40s, he helped his grandfather run peo- ple to the breakwall in the harbor to fish for perch. That practice stopped in the 1970s when the water bevel got too high. And, since he was 10, he's been helping his grandfather rescue disabled boats and drowning people in Lake Huron, "The first rescue he ever did was when he and Sonny Mallough (of Goderich, who also worked on the tugs) and a friend Billy were out on a skiff and Billy fell over the side and was drowning," says Donald Bert's cousin, Bruce MacDonald. "He was maybe 10 when he saved Billy and he's been doing it ever since," says Bruce. Before the Coast Guard arrived in Goderich Harbor in 1973, the MacDonalds, descendents of Captain John MacDonald who settled in Goderich in the last half of the 19th century, were the people to call when disaster happened on the lake. "We went out on the lake" a lot before the Coast Guard came. We were always ready to help—still are," says Donald Bert. But, when asked to give an official count of people he's rescued on the lake, Donald Bert declines. "When you can give a hand, you give it. That's all. I don't like to build up the rescue deal because everyone's willing to help," he says. An article in Weekend Magazine published in 1963 gives a rescue count for the MacDonald family of anywhere from 73 to 200. Donald Bert's grandfather has been credited with anywhere from 38 to 60 rescues. "Donald Bert and'his grandfather were on the lake so many times, you can't count them. There have been countlesspeople saved by theni," says Bruce. "Because there were•nci lifeguards up to 1962, it was left up to Bert to do all that for free. And, everytime there's been a search and. rescue, even now with the Coast Guard, Donald Bert's out there," he says. Donald ,Bert remembers picking up a man, woman and child at the mouth of the Maitland River when their sailboat tipped upside down two or three years ago. "Someone at a cottage saw them out there and phoned us and we went out and picked them up. Lots of times motor boats will conk out and need a tow in. If we happen to be passing by, we'll tow them' in," he says. ' Another time, Donald Bert picked up two fishermen whose boat had filled up with water. They were standing in their snowsuits on a shoal up to their waists in water but they couldn't move because the water was deep all the way around them. Turn to page 2 egotiat the faipily peace talks I feel much the same as I imagine former US President Jimmy Carter felt after winning a Nobel Peace Prize for negotiating a peaetreaty between Israel and Egypt. After acting as chief negotiator recent- ly between two family members who've been warring for at least five years, I feel good. Good and tired. Good and relieved. Good and hopeful. But, good. See my Jimmy Carter smile? You see, the two "countries" have never been on ideal terms. Their history has been sprinkled with minor squir- mishes, recently punctuated with a few major battles and .followed by a lengthy cold war. ,.� try, I've the As the neutral CULi11L8 y, I've heard the complaints and weighed the evidence for both sides. But, as ineffective as the United Nations, I've not been able to ac- complish much other than wait until both parties were ready for peace talks. Now that they've lived through the first round of successful peace talks, I'm hop- ing relations between them will get warmer. But, it all depends on them and whether they choose to continue to work at a lasting peace. As the process evolves, I've been struck by the similarities between the way we deal with our families and the way we deal with our international rela- tionships between countries. Parental "superpowers" take care of and take over the more childish "colonies" until the colonies reach a rebellious adolescence and demand their freedom and autonomy. During the first minor incidents, the superpowers use disciplinary action such as a show of force (a spanking) or economic sanctions (removal of privileges such as allowance). But, autonomy is eventually achieved whether through cooperation with the parent country or all-out war. And so, depending on our cir- . cumstances we become adults -- developing and promising like Canada or over -burdened and helpless like many third world countries. We become power- ful or powerless,negotiators or warriors largely as a result of how we've been treated by others and therefore, how we've learned to interact. Many families communicate with the same ineffectiveness as the United States and the Soviet Union. We know all about each other through spying and con- tinued dialogue with our allies (.a talkative sister) and the rest of the world (family). But our opinions and beliefs (which are often misconceptions) stop. is from coming close to any sort of understanding of each other. Instead, we build our arsenals of slights, real and imagined, in prepara- tion for a war that's inevitable since we can't wait to try out the ammunition we've accumulated. In the meantime, we either engage in a cold war (stop speaking to each other), communicate in brief, diplomatic messages which say nothing ("Please, pass the butter") or increase the likelihood of war by hurling insults like well -aimed bombs over Libya. Like the United States and the Soviet Union, we often hurt ourselves by our stubborn refusal to work towards peace. The rest of the family (world) pays for the disharmony emotionally, psychologically and sometimes even physically. The same way the environment, social programs and the poor in the United States suffer from an ever-increasing defence budget, the rest of the family suf- fers when its merhbers refuse to work at getting along. These tensions may result in increased stress, emotional storms, depression, decreased financial support to dependent family members or even family violence. Of course, if the family war finally comes to pass, its members do not usual- ly risk death as the rest of the world would with nuclear annihilation in the ' event of another world war. But, depen- ding on the damaging effects of the bat- tle, a family could no longer be a fatally once the smoke clears. Rather than going to battle at all in the first place, I think it's much better to work at our negotiating and com- municating skills. When we use a warlike mentality for solving family problems, we go into family discussions with the need to dominate other members, do some damage to their egos with our insults and name-calling, take prisoners with our guilt trips and ultimately come out of the discussion with winners and losers. Such a process does little to solve pro- blems. It leaves some family members triumphant, others bitter and vengeful. Often the losers work harder at building up their personal arsenals for the next time when they hope to emerge triumphant. If instead, in our personal relation- ships, we could solve our problems without drawing the lines between enemies and allies, without' intending to strike before we are attacked ourselves, we might ,find some satisfaction and lasting peace. And, since most cultures will agree that the family is a microcosm of a na- tion, who knows...our new, cooperative and positive ways of problem -solving might catch on in international circles, Rescuing disabled boats and drown- ing people and turning freight ships around in the Goderich harbor are family traditions for Donald Bert MacAdam, owner of MacDonald Marine. He followed in the footsteps of his grandfather Bert MacDonald who founded the company in 1916. (photos by Susan Hundertmark) The Ian Mac and Debbie Lynn push" the lake fireightert igoviood of aunt Ste. Marie into place r