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The Goderich Signal-Star, 1985-02-27, Page 49tr Idem A paysi<:nli thl throws u per. " buride's house to celebrate the engagense(i -Before the wed. ding, the bride's fatal)*: sends gifts to the groom's family as a gesture of courtesy. . All formal Japanese weddings requite the rental of a traditional silk crepe bridal kimono, bridal wigs and ceremonial head- dress. It consists of a white silk cloth head- band to symbolize the bride's promise to avoid jealousy. airmen are considered to be innately jealous by the Japanese.) The groom wear a much less ornate kimono and there are no rungs exchanged. e' is,.expectedto give p: en cousiderablevalue) toeechguest *, .for example, a complete handthrown coffee111 or'tOpe m. �. , ..k Traditio a1 foods axe served, whichiAnay include souls twig the clams closed too symbo a closeness sea bream (served whole to symbolize t e union), kelp, red ; rive, aid ornately boxed pastel coloured candy,often in blossom shapes. In an ancient custom, the bride and groom drink cold sake from ceremonial flat cups. Virtually all'brides and grooms have a nakzado (literally a go between), whose role is similar to that of best man, He or• she is usually a friend of the family in arrespecte_d position, such as a professor or business- superior, This person sits close to the bride and groom during the ceremony and is responsible for the introductory statements. Family fri4 initiates the .toasts from yogi 114 toastmaster for his words and welcoming the guests. He should also include thanks to both sets of parents, and to the bridesmaids and maid of honor. He then makes:a toast to the bridesmaids: "To the lovely 'bridesmaids (name them) and maid of honor (name her) who have helped (the bride) with the many preparations, I thank them. ,You have added so much to this day, enhancing it with your charas and beauty. Ladies and gentlemen, R ask you to join me in a toast to the bridesmaids.' The best man responds to this toast, and includes in his speech comments on their at- tractiveness and assistance to the bride. He might also include some stories about pre - nuptial happenings that ; involved the bridesmaids. The best man might also make a°toastto the couple. "I speak for myself, the ushers, maid of honor and bridesmaids when I say that we have considered it a•great honor to have participated in the wedding of our friends. I hope we have, in some small way, helped to make this day one of the most important in your lives. Ladies and gentlemen, I ask you to rise with me and drink a toast to the bride and groom," He may then introduce the bride's father, who also thanks the guests for attending, and makes a small speech about this major occurrence in his and the bride's mother's life. ' •WEDDINGS •PORTRAITS •FAMILY PORTRAITS .i. •AUDIO•VISUAL GRAPHICS AND •COMMERCIAL •PASSPORTS *GENERAL J �LLe L u rnaguir- e PHOA--- "Quality wending Photography with a. Femlhine Touch" 58 Elgin Avenue East poderich, Ontario Business: 524-6868 Residence: 5242334 A NEW LOOK A NOW 8480VICE - We are excited and happy to offer our customers a complete Interior Design and Decorating service. Call us or drop in and let us show you new selections of tine furniture. carpets wallpaper. bed spreads and accessories Ruth Duern. our decorator. Can•;provide you with new ideas. colour co-ordination. detailed floor plans and sketches. to make your home more beautiful 4 BALL & MUTCH FINE FURNITURE 71 ALBERT STREET CLINTON 482-9505 vmsamemmoiammatalt WHISTLE DIXIE'S FOR A WEDDING DAY GRACED WITH FLORAL (ENCHANTMENT lust ask Don & Diane... Weddings are our floral specialty. With several wedding selection books, let us help. you choose bridal and attendants' bouquets, corsages and boutonnieres as well as floral decorations for -the church and reception. Custom designs are our pleasure. You may also choosefresh flowers or permanent arrangements in Silk ' for a lovely keepsake from this most special day. Complimentary Corsages... With your wedding booking you will receive a complimentary corsage for the Bride's Mother and a going away corsage for the Bride. Plus... 10% OFF For any wedding orders over s300. When the occasion calls, Whistle.... FLOWERS FOR TODAY GIFTS FOREVER 166 THE SQUARE, GODERICH ph: 524-8761 Evenings and Sundays phone 529-7253