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I am quickly coming to the conclusion that
children are as difficult to understand as
women.
The key to understanding women, I have
deduced although my experience is limited,
is not to try and understand them at all. The
minute men try to pry into a woman's mind,
is about the time they lose all understanding
of the subject.
The same theory, I maintain, can apply to
children. If the child is of the female variety,
it simply adds to the dilemna.
I have the good fortune to live with both a
woman and child. One being my wife and the,.
other, Bradley, an offspring thereof.
Considering my child is male, I was
presumptuous enough to believe that our
relationshipwas a solid bond between the
men folk of the family. A kind of intangible
understanding between dad and son.
There was nothing in our relationship to
indicate anything to the contrary. I crawl
around on the floor amusing the little fellow,
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we converse with each other making the,
neatest noises with our mouths and noses,
blow bubbles, contort our faces into ugly,
but obviously funny shapes, play jumpy -
jumpy, watch sports on television together,
give the little gaffer horsey rides, throw him
around, let him rip my nose, lips and other
facial parts off during play sessions and...
well, readers can judge that we generally
have a darn good time:
And on occasion, dad would allow the little
guy to guck up mom's clean mirrors with his
slobbery hands and he got the biggest kick
out of reading the newspaper with yours
truly. The paper, naturally, would be torn
into shreds and the wee guy's hands turned
black, which has prompted mom to place a
ban on playing newspaper.
Moms ,somewhere along the line, inherit
a penchant for outlawing all the good things
in life.
But, as all the- above evidence would in-
dicate, young Bradley seemed quite content
with life and relied on his father for much of
his entertainment and amusement.
And, in all modesty, I would wager that
my nasal sounds and facial contortions, are
among the best produced by any dad. At
least the response would substantiate that
bold claim.
Last week, however, mother and the little
guy packed up all their necessary
belongings and spent the week•at grandma's
place. After a gruelling week at work, dad
was to join them on the weekend. °
Following a week on my own there was a
definite eagerness to return to the routine of
frolick with the youngster and in his ab-
sence, I had practiced some nifty new
sounds and expressions. It's the Jeast dads
can do.
Imagine my excitement as•I speculated on
the reception this expanded . repertoire
would receive. Frivolity would abound..
But, to my amazement, as I appraoched
young Bradley and dazzled him with some
opening moves that would have most babies
reeling In fits of laughter, he simply offered
a solemn stare in return.
Despite an unimpeded glimpse of this
pleasing visage, his lower lip dropped to his
chest, he began to wail and a tears appeared
at the corners of his eyes. He didn't
remember dear old dad
As purported earlier; :l:%ti se bits, children
can be as difficult to .derstand as women.
This same alluring litt_e boy, who can turn
his dad to jelly with a cute grin, had
managed to deflate his father's ego. im-
measureably with one negative reaction.
A somewhat despondent dad had to resort
to proven methods, familiar noises and
actions, and the little guy was responding in
anticipated fashion within minutes.
I refuse to attemtp to understand women
and children.
Rafild-Otould.. stay
The decision by Transport Canada to leave hundreds of
miles of lakeshore unprotected during much of October
should not sit well with most lakeshore communities.
For several years, the Canadian Coast' Guard has been
an integral pajrof the boating scene along Lake Huron,.
ensuring that safe boating procedures are .followed, en-
suring that those requiring assistance, get proper help.
Those goals have been ably maintained by the crew of the
Rapid, stationed in. Goderich. -
The Rapid, however, has been decommissioned and will
no longer service the needs of the Canadian Coast Guard
and the boating public. At the end of the season the Rapid
:was to leave for Prescott, homebase, andgo up to crown_
assets and possibly be sold to another federal department.
Transport Canada has arbitrarily pulled the Rapid out
of commission early and the crew has orders to be in
Prescott by the middle of October. The orders mean the
crew will pull out of Snug Harbor around October 7 in
order to meet the Prescott arrival date. .
That decision will leave the area from Sarnia to
Tobermory virtually unprotected, although a boat in
Tobermory can be used for backup.
For the most part, pleasure craft are out of the water by
October, but there are exceptions, some adventurous and
daring `sailors. During the fall, however, fishing ventures
both of a commercial and sport nature, increase
dramatically.
There will still be sufficient traffic on the lake to
warrant the presence of the Coast Guard. If it, is simply a
cost-cutting measure, it isa poor one.
The Rapid's stay in Goderich has been drastically cut
this year. The cutter did not arrive in harbor until June, a
full month behind the schedule of 1980 and now it will leave
a month earlier.
The length of service is dwindling and. it could have
drastic consequences during a time of year when the
weather is uncooperative and as unpredictable as the
lake.. Last year the Rapid was pressed into service
October 18 to rescue a group of fishermen from the chilly
waters at the mouth of Maitland River.
The crew was alerted by personnel aboard the Algoway
and within 15 minutes the fishermen were picked up: One
died a few days later, but without the efforts of the coast
guard, it would be easy to speculate that he would have
died in the water.
There is a great deal of commercial traffic on Lake
Huron and the presence of the Coast Guard would be most
welcome.
The Rapid will be replaced by a -small, faster boat that
is being constructed in preparation for its debut. The new
ship will be 25 feet shorter and lighter while suited to the
demands of rescue work.
The crew will. -be cut in half next, year with ap-
proximately five men required to run the rescue
operation.
If there is a definite and demonstrated need for the
services of the coast guard along Lake Huron, then groups
and citizens have to make their requests known. Con-
servative MP, Murray Cardiff, said he would personally
hate to see the Rapid leave early adding there could never
be enough ships available for rescue operations:
There can be no price tag on safety and the fickle waters
of Lake Huron offer no guarantees on safe passage this
time of year. D.S.
The battle will begin
There will finally be a Supreme Court ruling on the fate
of the constitution, ending months of speculation.
The nine justices will render the verdict, five months
after eight provinces have .presented their arguments.
Only the provinces of Orittirio and New Brunswick did not
oppose the patriation of. the constitution.
The patriation of the British North America Act would
also include an amending formula and a new charter of
rights. But the verdict of the Supreme Court will not be the
end of the fight for a Canadian constitution.
If approval is given to Trudeau's formula, the package
• would be debated in Parliament when the House of
Commons resumes sitting on October 14. But the con-
stitution battle Ls far from over.
Both the provinces and Trudeau, have vowed to fight the
d cis ion if it is not favorable.
All it means is a renewed battle between provincial and
federal governments. D.S. •
Fleeting beauty
By Cath Wooden
41.
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BY SHIRLEY J. KELLER
REA
For those of us who don't understand the ins
and outs of economics, it was encouraging last
week to see the interest rate dropping a bit and
t'he Canadian dollar going up a little..
I'm probably like many other Canadians who
watch those two indexes with rapt attention. But
I admit I don't fully understand all the im-
plications of their changing status. •
I only know I feel better when the Canadian
dollar is worth more in relation to the. American
dollar .... and when the prime borrowing rate,
goes down.
And I do enjoy keeping an eye on stock market
trends. I find you don't have to understand
everything to be entertained and informed.
The stock markets have been in a slump for a
while,now, and investors are getting a bit edgy.
What does all this mean? 1 don't have a clue,
except that I get the distinct impression that it
all indicates something is happening in Canada
that could be the beginnings ofa turnaround.
Some economists were even making some
rather cautious but positive statements late last
week. And we haven't heard many of those in the
last month o r so.
I get the feeling some of it has to do with the
loud complaining of Canadian homeowners who
say they are caught in a financial nightmare as
,they prepare to renegotiate the mortgages on
their°homes. •
The squeaky wheels always get the grease, I
know, but in this casethe squeak was more like
the scream of a jet engine. Ear splitting.
Everyone's talking about it. And everyone's
afraid.
Peter Trueman is one of my favourite jour-
nalistsof late. Peter says it like it is, but in my
opinion, he toooften climbs to the negative side
of the bandwagon. His vision for the positive
seems a little clouded at times.
In fact last week, Peter commented one of his
listeners had actually challenged him on that
very thing. He said one man suggested to him
that instead of railing against the government
because mortgage rates Were high and some
folks were losing their large suburban homes, he
might be pointing . to the truth that many
Canadians who managed their money well
during the • past few years are living in com-
fortable homes with mortgages that are paid,
near paid or entirely within reason.
And Peter; reluctantly and a bit grudgingly,
agreed. But he hastened to add that he himself is
not unlike a good many Canadians who want the
best that life can offer. Right now.
Still, he did ask a pointed question ... the same
one some of the fighting few°have been asking for
a while now. Are the majority of Canadians
expecting too much out of life in the Canada of
today?
A while back, Peter Trueman told his listeners
he'd been abroad to parts of Asia. And whefi he
returned, he admitted that with all its faults,
Canada is still the best place in the world to live.
It's true, too. We have a large country, a great
country, - a wealthy country. We're a young
country with a few identity problems and some
historical squabbles to resolve, but essentially
We're better off than most where it counts -
plentiful resources and lots of space to grow.
Life here cm► ue as good as we want to make it..
It will require more patience than most
Canadians have developed to date. And it will
demand a fewmore hardships and some more
sacrifices than we're used to enduring.
But for those who are willing to pay the price,
limitless opportunity awaits. With some good old
pioneer spirit and . some plain common sense,
success for people of all ages and every walk of
lifeis very possible and highly probable.
Canada never was and still isn't a soft en-
vironment. It's no place for those who need to be
pampered with perennial sunlight and easy
living. It has always taken guts and stamina to
live in Canada ... and things aren't going to
change fora long time yet.
Canada is 'a place for those who like a really
tough challenge ... not just an apprenticeship for
a year or two in some preppy fraternal
organization. .
Canada is for people liwho thrive on contrast.
Whether it's a biting east wind driving tons of
snow ... or a babbling brook over sun -warmed
pebbles ... true Canadians can adjust and accept
what is in store.
For a while now, Canadians have lost sight of
what it means when we sing, "With glowing
hearts we see thee rise, the true north, strong
and free°"
That's no picnic in the park but a passionate
pledge to dig in,stand up and be counted.
Just as soon as we stop whining and revert
back to -the adventurous, vigorous stalwarts we
need to be in this punishing but promising land,
we'll find the keys to unlock all the riches that
are ours for the taking as Canadian citizens.
"Turn on the heat!" suggested a friend at
lunchtime today.
"'No way, Hozay!" I answered. "The heat
doesn't go on until November 1 at the very
soonest." Then I put on my third pair of
socks. I like a lot of socks. They are cheaper
than heating bills.
It is now autumn. Fall. Why is it that this
season is the only one with two names' By
any name, I like this quarter of the annum. I
cling to it like lint to a sweater.
Perhaps it is the innate fear that the
winter coming will be the biggie - the one
that never ends. The one which will cause us
all to grow a thick fur all over our bodies so
that we can adapt to the finality of the
frigidity. I wouldn't like that, I think not.
That's the problem with autumn. We think
of it as a transitory time, not a season unto
itself. Poor autumn. It is left in a struggle to
establish an identity for itself. No wonder it
can't even decide on a name.
And so, autumn forces us to pay attention
to it. It stuffs goldenrod and ragweed up our
noses and turns milkweed into exploding
grenades. Autumn is hell for people with
deviated septums.
Ah, but it knows how to woe us too. The
leaves, hitherto gone unnoticed since spring
suddenly vie for their rightful place ih our
sight lines. "Oooh," we exclaim. "Ahh."
Then, without warning, they drop upon our
grass. Autumn is hell for people with large.
lawns.
And the elements. Don't forget the
elements. Everyday the weatherman
delivers his pack of lies and everyday the
elements jockey for position. The wind
whips up and we put on the storm windows.
The rains bear down and ruin the beans. The
clouds .loom overhead and we cancel the
horseback riding date on the weekend. And
the sun comes nut on Monday afternoon
when we're stuck at work.
Autumn even graces us• with two festive
days for•our very own, Thanksgiving and
Halloween. One is for killing turkeys and
eating them and the other is for eating
candy full of additives and Red Dye No.2.
It even gives us certain sports for the
season. While some of us are still lingering
in the days of summer baseball, or jumping
into the winter game of hockey, football
becomes dominant on every channel.
Football is just like autumn. Rough. Growly.
It makes you want to wear a helmet.
Despite its rather gloomy image, autumn
definitely makes an impact on our lives. No
matter how we look at it, it is the beginning
of the cycle. We never completely throw
away thatfeeling Of 'starting over' that we
had as kids beginning new grades at school
every fall.
It is the natural time of year for making
resolutions. I don't make them on January 1.
Thdt's a stupid time to make resolutions
because itis already winter and nobody ever
does anything productive in the winter.
But the fall, that's another story. You can
do all those things you wanted to do in the
summer but it was too hot so you drank beer
instead. In the fall, I always jog and exer-
cise and stuff. And I always quit all my bad
habits that have served to cloud my
existence for the previous three seasons.
The result of the whole business is that my
mind gets sharp enough by the end of
autumn to recognize how hard to deal with
life really is, so I take up all my nasty vices
again with a renewed vigor. And by
Christmas, my body shape is acceptable
enough to gorge myself on all that groovy
food with gusto instead of guilt.
And thus the cycle continues..,.
T.'s nice to have that insight into the
scheme of things. But it doesn't change
anything. I'm not turning the heat on until
November 1. And I'rn going to the Met
tonight to buy more socks.