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only in the court room.
a-wedding
must take place in a place of dignity and
solemnity so that is why we decided to
perform them in the court room," she ex-
plains, adding that this is the procedure
for Huron County and that other justices
of the peace might perform marriages
outside the court room.
Of the 200 or so marriages that she has
performed, many of the couples are from
Huron County. She says that she has
married people from other locations in -
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eluding couples from Toronto and London
who drive up to Goderich because they of
delay in getting married -in -the larger
cities. She has also performed marriages
,where interpretors were required.
While many persons entering their first
marriage usually have a church wedding,
Sturdy notes that some couples being
married for the first time do come to her
to be married, whether for religious,
financial or personal reasons. However,
she says the majority of the marriages
she has performed are those between
people who are being married for the se -
rich
cond time.
She also notes that there is a wide
range'of ages among the couples she has
married.
"The youngest person I have married
has been a 16 -year-old while the oldest
was a couple in their 70's," she says.
Sturdy says she has performed mar •
riages for persons dressed in white• wed-
ding finery and for those who are wear-
ing shorts, although most -women wear a
nice suit or dress and carry flowers while
the men wear a suit. •
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license and registration fee, items re-
quired for the civil ceremony include a
ring and•witnesses, which as Sturdy
notes, some people forget.
"They have to have a ring. Of the ones
that didn't, one borrowed a ring from a
witness and one took one out a fellow's
ear.' For those people who don't have
witnesses we have to round some up.
Some couples have asked people off the
street, sometimes the secretaries will act
as witnesses or sometimes we phone a
family relative and wait until they get
here," she. says.
Without the wedding rehearsal, Sturdy
says many of the couples are' nervous
and can't help giggling. She also says
when she asks whether the bride or
groom will take this man or this woman,.
some have actually hesitated and needed
time to think about it. However, of the
couples who make it to the court house,
none have left not married.
Sturdy says that although only two
witnesses are required,.she does allow
more people to attend although she likes
to limit the number. to 20.
Photographs and videos are allowed in
the court room where the wedding takes
place although confetti is not. Sturdy
also recommends that pictures be taken
in the memorial chapel on thebfirst floor
of the court house and outside during the
summer.
Sturdy says the number of. weddings
performed at the court house averages
out to about two or three each Friday
although she does remember performing
six weddings on one December 31. She •
says that January and February are '
generally the slow months for weddings•
at the court house although by summer,
the number is up.
"People are more romantic in the spr-
ing, summer and fall," she contends.
Asidefrom her ability to perform mar-
riages, Sturdy describes her j'ob as more
often doing bail hearings, traffic court,
.putting people in jail, court reporting,
and sitting in family court where she
does such things as make sure support'"
• payments are collected. .
"Marrying' people is definitely one of
the nicer aspects of the. job. It seems, so
much more worthwhile to do something
when you are making someone happy."
EnthusiaSm
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But perhaps the biggest: advantage of
having a dress is the savings. • • •
"It•'s cheaper to have a dress made but it
depends on the dress exactly how much
.you would save," said Mrs. Elliott. "In
most cases it iS'about half price, but the
more expensive it would be in the store,
the more I would save you." •
As• an example, Mrs. Elliott told the
story of a lady who brought in a picture of
a dress. Mrs. Elliott figured it would cost
her approximately $400 to make it.
• Surprised, the girl told Mrs. Elliott that
the store price was $3,500.
Mrs. Elliott is now making hats and
headpieces for the bride and her
bridesmaids and finds it quite interesting.
"I've just started and have found it to be
a real challenge," she explained. However.
they are "selling faster than I can make
them."
As for her future plans, Mrs. .Elliott
plans to continue measuring, cutting, sew- ,
ing and shaping wedding dresses of all
sizes, styles and colors forher clients.
• "When I'm sewing, I sometimes wonder
how I could just sit and do nothing," she •
said.