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HomeMy WebLinkAboutThe Goderich Signal-Star, 1973-05-03, Page 28• • - 7 PAGE 6B--GODERICH SIGNAL -STAR; THURSDAY, MAY 3, 1973 ANN LANDERS 3AY .. . Dear Ann Landers: Our 22 - year -old son returned in December from India where he spent a month as a member of a jet pilgrimage to visit a guru. As a result of this experience he no longer drinks, smokes or uses drugs. The guru told the members of the group they must repay all debts before returning to Ashram to live. We are grateful that the guru was able to achieve something we w -not. Our son now has a factory job and lives at home. Yester- day he finished repaying. a $400 loan to a relative. He still owes his father $20O which he borrowed to, go to India. The boy pays 'no room and board. uses Illy car .for work and pleasure, eats special food which costs more than what,the rest of us eat. He is a sensitive poet and musician but totally unresponsive to any suggestions from his father or me. Are we wrong to expect our son, .at age 22, to pay his own way? And how can we get him to see that he needs professional help? He is like a different person and completely unreachable. ---His Mother. Dear Mother: Your son has freaked out (like many others) over his new-found religion and it's utterly useless to try to change his mind about anything. The fact that he is off cigarets, booze - and drugs is evidence that the religious ex- perience has some redeeming features. A 22 -year-old who is em- ployed, living at home, driving his mother's ear and eating organic food certainly, should pay room and board. Guru or . no guru. I_)ear Ann Landers: Please don't tell a plan who doesn't want children to "get coun- seling." It probably' wouldn't help unless he deeply wanted to change and most of them -don't. Having worked in child welfare for a number of years, I can tell you there is nothing_ more damaging to a child than the feeling that he is unwanted. 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Mercury $'nd t.loyd Bridges star again this year in television's most exciting boating serves -"'Water World II." See your local TV listings for time and station. ARGYLE MARINE AndSMALL ENGINES • L1 88 Britannia Rd. Goderich 524-9201 1 Every day we see children who are in terrible shape, physically, mentally and 'emotionally. Often both parents insist they wanted a family. If it's true, their reasons were pathological or extremely selfish. (The worst reason of all is to have a baby to "save a marriage.") The woman whose husband does not want a family should find other satisfying outlets for her maternal instincts and not try to talk him into it. --Exhibit A in K.C. Lear K.C.: I was astounded at the number of social workers who wrote to express the same point of view, These days when we hear so much discussion both for and against abortion, I thank you for writing. Dear Ann Landers: Helga, the woman who does my laun- dry, is without a doubt the prize-winning dumbbell of the Western world. She has worked for me for five' years and I could write a book about her. What should I do about her latest "Helga -ism?" Last week a guest spilled cranberry sauce on my white -linen tablecloth. Helga asked if I bad any idea of how to get., it out. I told her AS A JOKE "I guess the only sure way is to use scissors." Do you know that dingbat took scissors and cut out the spot. My husband thought it was hilarious ---couldn't stop laughing. Should I make_her pay , for the cloth? I can't believe she didn't know better.- --Still Boiling. Dear S.B.: The answer is no. If Helga has been working for you for five years and you still haven't learned that she takes everything literally then YOU are the prize-winning dumbbell of the Western world. 0 THE RED CROSS IS PEOPLE LIKE YOU HELPING PEOPLE LIKE YOU "MARRY A POOR GIRL IF 4OU WANT TO SETTLE; DOWN. OR A RICH GIRL ,IF YOU WANT TO I JOE'S BP Service Station and Coffee Shop 411 Huron Rd., Goderich 524-6871 :-r' t Good news for students Mljor changes in Ontario's student aid programs were an- nounced this' week by the Honourable Jack McNie, Minister of Colleges and Universities. The . total provided in his Ministry's Estimates for all student aid programs in 1973- 74 has been increased to $38,4 million, compared with an ac- tual expenditure of about $27 million in 1972-73. "We are modifying the present Student Awards Program to bring the needs assessment more in line with today's costs and to accom- modate other considerations" said Mr. McNie, "and we want to do more to encourage academic achievement." The modified student aid program includes: im- provement in the parental con- tribution table, higher allowan- ces for married students, an in- crease in the Student Awards weekly allowance, loans for students seeking financial in- doendence from their parents, more bursaries to help students complete high school, fellowships for Ontario graduate students, pilot 'programs to assist part-time students. Mr. McNie said the new measures will help students already in college and_ univer- sity and will encourage high school students who are con- sidering going on to post- secondary education. 1. To encourage scholarship and academic excellence under the Ontario Student Awards Program, exemptions for academic awards will now be allowed up to the level of tuition and incidental fees. Previously the limit was $150. This will result in higher loans and grants for good scholars. 2. An improved parental con- tribution table has been adop- ted which boosts the basic family allowance from $1,800 'to $4,000. This change will make available an additional $5 million in grants to students from lower and middle income families. 3. Where both of the student's parents are working the allowable deduction has been substantially increased and now includes a baby-sitting allowance. 4. The weekly miscellaneous allowance of $9.00 has been in- creased by about 10% to sup- plement existing provisions for meeting costs of tuition,, books, transportation and living ex- penses. 5. Married' students will benefit to the extent of half a million dollars in grants as a - result of a modified assessment procedure. - 6. Ontario students who have worked for at least two full years and who wish to be finan- cially independent of " their parents can now- apply for in- dependent status under the Canada Student Loans Plan. 7. To assist students through high school, the Ministry of Colleges and Universities will double the number of $100 bur- saries available to Grade 12 or Grade 13 students who need -financial assistance to help them complete their final year before post4secondary education. Mr. McNie noted that con- siderable progress has been made in provincial talks with Ottawa leading to substantial improvements in the Canada Student Loans Plan. However, to date no action has been taken on two matters which hre been .sought by On- tario and the other provinces, (a) conditional repayments of. loans, based on income after graduation, and (b) aid for part -tinge students under the existing federal 3SL program. As a means of aiding part- time students the Ministry has taken the following steps: .1. In 1973-74 all publicly supported post -secondary in- stitutions in Ontario will be en- couraged to allow part-time students to spread their tuition payments over the length of their course when that fee is $50 or more. The Province will make accelerated payments to the institutions to offset any in- ternal cash flow problems. 2. The Ministry is also under- taking a program which will make bank loans more readily accessible " to part-time students; also to full-time student* who for, various reasons chose to be financially independent of their parents and who do not at present qualify for assistance. Continuing .studies of con- ditional repayment of kens and aid to part-time students through the Canada Student Loans program are being carried on by the federal and provincial governments. In 1972-73 62,.000 Ontario students qualified for repayable Canada Student Loans and 37,000 for non -repayable provincial grants. The average loan was $792 and the average student grant was $664. In addition there were 1,300 Ontario Graduate Fellowships. As previously announced,.the amount to be provided for On- tario Graduate Fellowships will be maintained at, $3 million in 1973-74. Meanwhile, the Ministry is formulating plans for a revised program of graduate assistancebased on a high level of academic achievement. Permission has also been given to the universities to use normal operating funds for the awarding of bursaries to graduate students in the third consecutive term through AugGst, 1974. - In co-operation with the Federal Government, $194,000 will be provided for student bursaries for second language study, $392,000 for second language fellowships and a 'fur- ther $341,000 for bursaries for second 'language teachers. Over 1,000 ska�s enjoy roller rink in first weekend When the Goderich Recreation and Community Centre board met in the council chambers at town hall last Thursday they heard a report from Bill Lumby, manager of the Goderich Memorial Arena, on activities under his direc- tion. Mr. Lumby reported that Pit- tsburgh Glass had finally made available the proper posts for installing Herculite Glass on the arena boards and that the arena committee would be meeting "soon''to decide how many; posts will he ordered. "The local firemen were kind enough to wash our floor down after the ice was removed for a small donation," Mr. `Lumby Kine ties told the board in his written report,'. - Roller skating started on April°20 with over 1,000 skaters attending over the weekend. Dominion Skate Co. has of- fered to replace the worn out skates with new skates at $20.00 per pair. The parts alone to repair the present skates would be over $20.00. Huron Railing has the lift gate at the snow pit about half completed. "The quarter inch aspanite on the boards at lire Arena should be replaced this sum- mer," Mr. Lumby reported. "I - will get prices for this in- stallation in the near future." Plan bake sale At the regular Kinette meeting of April 23, it was decided to have a bake sale May 5 to raise money for the Club's operation. Thee-Kinettes-- agreed . to donate $10 to the Canadian Cancer Society, $10 to the Muscular Dystrophy Association, and $25. to the Kinsmen International Relations project (Cerebral Palsy Unit). MIER FL./,n., Get pollution off your chest. Ontario is a fast-growingrovince- more people. more vehicles, more factories, more machines every day. With that growth comes the threat of damage to our environment. Pollution of all kinds. The Ministry of the Environment is Ontario's guardian of our air and land and water. Here's who we are and what we do: Air Pollution.' I. We monitor the air for pollution and order corrections if unacceptable levels . occur.. • 2. We track down strange odours in .the air and many things you can't smell and eliminate them if they are dangerous. 3. We investigate suspected air pollution injury topeople or property. 4. We are responsible for noise pollution and are creating enforceable noise control measures., land Pollution. 1. We deal with all the leftovers of • our affluent society -the industrial waste, pro- cessed organic wastes, and ordinary garbage. - And regulate its transportation and disposal. 2. We study recycling as art aid to reducing quantities of waste and to avoid depletion of our natural resources. 3. We control the use and application of pesticides which are unacceptable for pollution reasons. - Water. Pollution. I. We protect till of Ontarids water sources from pollution'. 2. We develop and control surface and ,;ground water resources. 3. We watch all .potential sources of industrial and agricultural water pollution. 4. We plan, build and finance modern sewage and waterworks facilities for Ontario municipalities. - 5. We supervise all private waste disposal systems. Ontario has some of the.most com prehensive legislation in North America to, - protect ous-environment. But it will take the effort of everyone to solve our pollution problems. Won't you help? ENVIRONMENT ONTARIO OO' Ontario Ministry of the Environment Hon Jcrmes A C Auld, Minister. Everett Biggs, Deputy Minister if you need our help, or you'd like to get a pollution problem off your chest, here's who you call: Water 985 Adelaide Street South, London, Ontario Phone: (519) 673-1230 - Mr 1083 Barton Street East, Hamilton, Ontario Phone: (416) 547.9621 or Zenith 3-3220 Land 1083 Barton Street East, Hamilton, Ontario Phone: (416) 547-9621 For morc-information on the Ministry and its programs write: Information Services Branch. 135 St. ('lair Avenue West, Toronto M4V 1 P5. Discussion ensued -regarding the sponsoring of the girls baseball league, and it was decided to do so again this season. After . t -he xeWu .ar• -:business portion of the meeting, nominations were held. 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