HomeMy WebLinkAboutThe Goderich Signal-Star, 1972-03-23, Page 2246 (ODER NAL -STAR, THURS AY, MARCil 23. 1072
Ann
Landers
says's,.
Babies don't belong
at weddings
• DEAR ANN LADERS: My , I'm writing to warn the average
boyfriend and I planned to be 'hous ew ite aga i ust pu s e -
married in May bUtudw I'm not so , snatching •in broad• '• daylight.
sure I w,ani to Marry him. think . within .y e ds' ,abtjy,
he's gone -crazy. Denny tOld ni. interSection,
. ,
last night that nobody 'Was the o1d ' My grandmother who is in her
Style , conventional wedding, . 70:s was hit Over the head at noon
ceremonY anymore,- Everybody is on Friday, approximately 100 feet •
dng his "own thing, Denny's froth the., front door of a large
"thing': is thafhe wants his eight- s,upermarket. Her purse With
foonth-oti. nephew to be .his hest less than $?3 in it ) Was grabbed and
, man. The kid, can't ,even walk. she was knocked _cold for 20
He's going to be pushed down the minutes. She hopes to be released
aisle, in a stroller. The ring will from the hospital in a, day or two
be on the tray. , The store manager posted this
Denny doesn't have a ny warning on the Vhill which I think
brothers This nephew is his is worth printing. ,- DON'T
closest living next,of-kit, I told CARRY A POCKETBOOK. KEEP
him I didn't think the minister OUR MONEY IN A CHANGE
would ;anus it. Denny said these PURSE, CARRY IT IN. YOUR
pdays ministers do, as they are POCKET UNDER A JACKET OW
told. A SWEATER. BE ALERT AT ALL
This" is the first sign of TIMES AND SHOP IN. PAIRS IF
nuttiness I have*ever seen in the POSSIBLE." .
guy. Hellas a goodlob and doesn't, 1 don't now what is happening
drink or gamble. , 1 •haven't • inpiis„great country of ours when -
mentioned his idea to rtiv folksa person isn't safe on the,street at
yet, I'm .afraid they'll hit the , high noon. It didn't Used to be like
this. and I am—HEARTSICK
DEAR, HEARTSICK: That
makes two of us. One of the Major
reasons for purse snatching is the
increase in drug abuse. But _that ' s
another >column. Thanks for
writing.
ceiling.. Denny reads your column
and re tells me you .have
repeatedly , stated • that the
selection of the best man is up to
the groom. I need an answer soon.
PleaSe comment —NERVOUS,IN
TAMPA
DEAR NERVOUS: Denny is
•right•when he says, I have,
repeatedly stated, that the
selection of the best man. is
strictly 'up to the groom. But 1
,have also said babies. do not
belong at weddings—not even as
guests. let alopl members Of, the
Wedding party*. I hope Denny
regains his sanity soon.
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DEAR ANN LANDERS: This
has got. to be one of the weirdest
letters you've ever receivedMy
aunthas some very strange ideas
about hair and she talks about it
DEAR ANN LANDER: I'msone
of those men who used to hide your
colum'n under the sports plge
when I read it on the train. Now 1
amasking for advice:*
Last week my wife and I were in
Honolulu for a convention The
time differ4nce between Honolulu
and Hartford is five hourS. Debbie
(age 12) woke us up at 2 o'clock in,
the morning. My• wife and I Were
scared out of our wits. -Would we
accept the charges?'.'
Of course we would; Hurry:
, Wellnt seems Debbie had a bet,
constantly. She has ,read with her:girlfriend:. ••How do you
.everything she can lay.her handspell .marijuana?" I, asked why
on about hair and is quite alkOi she didn't look in the dictionary.
authority on the subject. She said, "You can't find anything
AtcOrding tQher long: heavy hair in the dictionary unless you know
can sap a person's strength and • how to Spell it.' I had to agree. In
evenmike himilL She has.known the meantime the call 'cost 514.50,
'people eople who wevery sick;-, and I was so relieved that She wasn't
when their Clt- - was—Cut -they calling -to gi'Ve us- some -terrible
recovered. 14er• tneOry is -that hair •news that I thanked her and agreed
robs a person of,liiS recuperative to bring home a fresh` orchid lei
, powers and once the hair is cut„ for her teacher. , • ; •
some sick pedple., get well. Is My wife is burned up and•says
there anything to this?— ' we sbould take the 514.50 out of
LONDON,' ONTARIO • • her allowance, Do you agree? •
DEAR LONDON: Hair has We've deeided t� let you settle
alv.'ays been a favoritesubjeCt for it. -:-FRIEND OF ALEXANDER G.
'mythology and superstition. BELL
(Remember Samsonand Delilah?) DEAR FRIEND: Of course such
Most of the tales, however. are a phone call should only be made
•
purely allegorical. . " • in an emergency and 'your , child
It is true that the conditionof probably needs' to learn
thehair. may reflect good health something about the value of
or thelack of it, but long hair does money. ,But there. maybe more
not sap a person's' strength nor serious questiOns raised here
than the, one you asked. Thirteen
--•is a common age now for children
to begin experimenting with '
marijuana. Was her seemingly
silly-truestion a cry for help? Do
you leave her often? With whom?
()DAYS. CHILD
• .
BY HELEN ALLEN
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. P.,FAR ANN LANDERS: If
anyone Kai told me five years ago
that I'd be conderned, about this
problem I would not have believed
RATTY PERSONALITY
Peter is a lovable 10-year,old with an outgoing; friendly
disposition. He seems younger than his age, perhaps because he
comes from an eNtremely deprived backgrbund. It was the sort of.,
situat ion.% hsre a child is left I Ying in his crib with nobody Paying any
attentiomto hinj
This oung bo N was four before he learned to walk. Not that he had
an sica I disability, but he had no opportunity or encouragement
to to . There ere many other skills he did not learn and things he
did not know, so' h e has never scored well in intelligence tests. Now
in a good fo steel' ome a nd in t he stimulating at mosphe re of *a sped al
school he has shown riailied improvement t physica y an
mentall:s . T he ps cholo gist whuhas tested him is impressed with his
personalit a:nd feels he has not yet reached his potential.
Pet er,is a healthy, good-looking, hoy of Anglo-Saxon descent, with
brown eyes and dark hair. Adults find him good company,with his
.easy;conversation. He visits many • families in the vicinity of his
foster home and he loves to help the.neighbors do Acores around the
house or garden. i* gets on well with children of all ages.
A sensitive boy, Peter needs a warm, relaxed home where there'
are no academic pressures. He can fit into a f orally with cliildren
erther older or younger than himself., To inquire about adopting
Peter, please_ write to Today 's Child, Box 888, Station°K, Toronto.
For general adcipt ion information ask your Children's Aid Society.
•,.,
,Foresier's Boiling league
ends seasao wilIrsociat
. .
The Forester's rural bowling Runner's up were the Country
league ended a competitive Pals with-fiermie- Fisher
s ea son with asaikki-nethet-GAIF3(0,1rMaTt,Aisla Fisher. Ron and
hall benmiarat 7 p.m. Saturdi
ay •Edith t' Iler arld Betty and' Tom
evening, March 11. , . , -
Modre.
-- The evening cOmmenCed at 7 • ,
Bev. Orr and Kevin Rumig had
p . m. with a buffet strpper the hignaverages; Marlene Black
featuring Kentucky Fried Chicken and Frank Baer, the high singles:
and salads. George Robinson and Florence
The presentation of the Robinson, the high triples: Alice
following trophies were Made to POrter and •Keith- Baer had the
the degerving winners. • Most: irripi.oved scores.
The ',Little" trophy was The 'election officers for
presented by 'Harry Little to.. the nat season was conducted_ by
-Koolcats" for the over-all team Past President Tom Moore. The
winners.. . with Janet Willis following will be -the new officers:
(captain) Kevin Rumig, Ron and past -president; Leonard Fisher:
'Edith Fuller and Kedh and Carol. " president, Bob Rising; vice -
Baer. president, Bill Black secretary,
George, Robinson; assistant, Bill,
Bogie; Treasurer, Helen Fisher.
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Bill Bld'ck entertained with the
s.howing of two interesting -films
"Helicopter Canada", and
"Black Creek Pioneer Village".
The evening concluded with
euchre. The prize winners at this
we're high, Hazel McMichail and
Jim Fisher; low, Alfred Etzler
and Jean Pottei-.
,Brush off
snow mold
The lawn is one of the first.
things that can be attended to in .
spring, says D.B. McNeill,
horticultural specialist, Ontario
Department of Agriculture and
Food. • ••
Snow'mold, if it is a problem,
will appear as soon as the snow
goes. If thiswebby mold appears,
use an old,broom to brush it off.
This will not give complete,
control, but it will reduce the
damage.
A good raking as soon as the
turf is dry will, remove much of
the old de"ad grass that builds up
over the summer and winter. Use
a lawn rake rather thait a garden
rake, and rake jut bard enough to
remove some of the debris. to not
disturb the roots of the grass
plants. ."
After raking is completed, the
first fertilizer can be applied.. If
crabgrass is a problem, Use a
fertilizer containing a herbicide -
that controls Seedling grasses. 2,
4-D controls broadleaf weeds but
not seedling grasses and should
not be uted .uritil May.
Healthy', ;vigorous lawns are
one of the prim o features of the
Mine grounds. 4 little extra
effort in the spring wilt help keep
it this way during the heat of
swifter.
Watching our high school
hockey team in action the
other day, I could not re-
frain from brooding abut
how th,e game has changed.
If what • I was „w.atch,ing
was "sport", and "school- .
boysporCat that, I guess
it's timeI was put out to
pasture,
Qh, it was exicting, all
right. That is, if you .1ilse to
watch teenage boys 'trying
to tear each others'arms off
with deliberate hooks, re
move each, others' teeth
with high Sticks, and smash
each othetebrains out ,
against the boards..
Throw in some deliberate
slashing, tripping, kneeing,
butt -ending and a coupleof
fights, and you have the pic-
ture of young Canada play-.
Mg its national game.
Admittedly, the game is
faster and more furious than
ever. But furious is a word
that does not belong in,
sport, unless you think pro-
fessional boxing is a sport,
which it is not, in my ,
opinion.
•In vain di) the coaches of
,high school .tearris tell their
charges to play hard but
clean. The kids have watch-
ed too much pro hockey,
where most of thelans, like
• spectators in a Roman
arena,--idhnt blood,. and the
pros oblige.
The only thing that re-
deems the spectacle — and it
is a spetacle, not a tame,
is the fact thatthere are,
usually one or two players,
cm each team who still be-
lieve in skill rather than
violence and who use their"
heads for something besides
These are the players
who emerge as the team
leaders, even though some
of the, "wild men" may have
more natural ability. These
are the players who almost
,never get a penalty, who
walk away from a stupid
fight rather than Iodic for
one, who put some spark' in-
to the team when it is be-
hind. A pleasure to watch.
And then there are the
others. Kids who are plea-
sant ,and well-rnannefed off
the ice, out go berserk the
minute the first whistle.
blows. •
one ot• thein "expreised
his philosophy to me: "Yoh.
Yer sposeta drop yer stick
when a fight starts, butyuh
don't drop it till the' other
guy 'drops his.". And, . Of
course, if the' other guy is
following the., smile princi-
ple, there Could be stick-
swinging.matCh.
Put four feet of hard -
Wood in the' hands of .two
young huskies, let them
start swinging their clubs,
and you have a situation
more deadly than many of
the duels- of history, f9,!..ight
with lethal weapons.
It's about as quick a way
as any to wind up with a
smashed nose, a permanent
scar, a concussion, .a skull
fracture,, or one eye.
In my opinion, a great
deal of the blame for the
situation lies ,with the refer-
ees."They seem to be brain-
washed into letting anything
go, short of chopping a head'
off with a stick. The game is
faster and more "colourful"
that way. And. the colour is
that of blood.
The • goalie- used to be
protected by a sort of mu-
tual consent. He was slower
and more vulnerable te-
cape of his heavy padding.
You took your shot, and if
him. Now, he comes out to
stop a shot and is quite like-
ly to get a.mouthful of high •
stick. Result?." The goalie
starts playing dirty, to pro-
tect himself. .
Maybe' I'm just old-
fashioned. But when I play-
ed .team sports — football,
'DIRTY' PLAYERS
° GET THE LAURELS
hockey, baseball — there
were one or two 'dirty"
players on each ,team,
Caught in the act, they were
*penalized and ostracised.
Nowadays, you have to ,
look hard ,to find one or
two "clean" players on each
tam. And it's the "dirty"
players who, get the roars
„. from the crowd. This is 'fact,
and ifs fact that is sobering,
saddening and stekeninge
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