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The Goderich Signal-Star, 1971-09-23, Page 25sm -k w DEAR ANN LANDERS: =H rd and -"I- have- been going-" together for a year. I wouldn't call him cheap but he is, shall we say,"careful" with money. Yesterday while out for a stroll, we passed the drug stere and I remembered_1- was out of cigarettes. We went in, I picked up a pack and Howard just stood there in . front of the cash register. I began' to fumble around -in --my my - embarrassment.. _Finally the clerk - glared at Howard and said, "That will be 49c please..." Howard glared back and replied, "I didn't buy anything." µ ^I' fished' out my wallet and paid for the cigarettes myself. I was so mad .1 couldn't sec straight: When we got to my place -I-.- slamn--'the _door-. in Howard's face. This morning he called but refused to apologize. He insisted that if it had been candy or gum, he would have paid, but he hates cigarettes. (We've argued about • my_ smoking a lot .but I feel it's my business. ). Who's •in •the wrong? - WALUITEN S DEAR HUMIL: Since it's "your business" you should 4" finance it. I see'no reason why. a man who 'hates cigarettes should • ti buy them for his girlfriend. Ann Landers says,.. L uy: your �vaifags DEAR ANN - LAN'DERS: • Please -tell "Dejected Wife" that 1, too, wish her husband would go back to her, but for another reason. I'm a working girl who happens to live across the court from her husband's girlfriend. I haven't had a good night's sleep for three months on account of 'those two nuts. My bedroom window looks �tbtti-.into hiving room .and they never pull down the shades or draw the draperies. Sometimes they dance to radio music' until _300 A.M. It's -like 'a free show. � Every night I promise myself I won't look:rbecause..onceicart .1 can't teannyself-aWay. It's like I'm hooked. One peek and I'm glued_ to_ the. window_ for, three hours. Those kooks have cut into my reading, my laundry - everything.. . 1 hope he gets tired of this. broad soon and finds another girl or goes back to his Wife: 'I don't care -which. Please print this, Ann. I'm sure they'll recognise themselves. --•• • DEAR E tEAR °Y a stay up popping your eyeballs till three o'clock• in the morning and call THEM' kooks? At least THEY'RE dancing. I 1 * * * • Dear Ann Landers: This is for ,. -the mother who wanted to know if .it was' iroper for the groom to sing at lir own wedding. She said her daughter was getting married to a young man Who had a lovely voice and he had expressed a desire to sing a love • song to' his bride as she walked - down the aisle. You;'said it was O.K. so long as he selected. an "appropriate" number. You then went on to say "What Kind ' Of Fool Am -F..' ..would not be a good choice. 1 wish you'd pay more attention to the advice and not try to be so cute. 1 attended a wedding „ recently where the -- groom sang to his bride, or should I say he TRIED to sing, and it was a•.disaster, The poor • fellow was so nervous he couldn't•~even handle the vows, let alone resider a musical selection,. His voice cracked and shook. He forgot, the lyrics. It was awful. I thought the bride's mother would have . a heart attack. So please, Ann Landers, change your advice before, another` lovely wedding ceremony is "spoiled. If people want music, tell them. to ,hire a professional. -- Springfield Reader Dear Spring: Thanks for your on-thegspot report. Here are others: a TODPYSCHILO. ,BY HELEN ALLEN `TorbntocTelegrarrr Syndicate *** DEAR,._,. -ANN, LANDERS: Does a husband belong in the ` delivery room when his wife is having a baby? I wish you would settle this question 'for us. My husband does not want to Oe at my side but I want him there. I believe every man should witness4 'what a woman .goes through to have a baby., My doctor says •-he would --'-- rather not have husbands around b t if both the man and wife husbands sometimes faint or become i11 and the nurses aretoo busy to take care of them. My beloved .,is .a 230 -pound ex -tackle for the Philadelphia Eagtose, He is not the type who , would faint. If I talk long enough I'll win the battle.. Should I insist on having,emy way? -, PUTTING -ON A IVIG FRONT DEAR PUT: No. '1`'4ose 230 -pound ..tackles faint faster than anybody. Ask any doctor. If your husband doesn't want to accompany you . to tthe delivery ' room, don't make a federal case out of it. He'd be ,a. 4 nuisance. He could be_ in the labor room, however -- at least at• the beginning. 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WC7tRL4 d GREY n ".Handsome " Ross is 16 months old, a sturdy, well-developed, healthy hov with big -l�:lue _�,~'v ry blonde'.hair.,-:and clear.,�.fair and lively" Kier ,(luhv.nt.tatts 4 ran The ivy-covered 'Teaching in our school this fall has been a -combination of walking, the : plank. and running•the- uritlet. • When, school opened, about .fifteen hundred kids and eighty -teachers walked into sornething that looked as though the Irish Repuhli can Army had been using it for •a'cr ,ale of years as ''a testing ground for bornbs. A new addition, about the third since' I came here, was in its glorious death throes. That meansit .night, be finished in six months. It was begun a year ago.. I t wasn't so bad during Iasi winter and spring, be- -" se'most of the construc- tion was outside: brick piling and steel work. In tact, it was quite lively, es- peeiallu.....in.-_1he spring, with the Italian workers ogling .the , girls through the win- dows and .being,ogled back,. and drinking beer on the job, and yelling -and laugh- ing. But .during , the summer, the termites, the ipnside workers, got info the m.au- soleuni and th..result, for a while at least, is complete chaos. • The teriii l�:s are the elec- tricians, plumbers, floor and citing men and others of that ilk....1J' you..':aren't .trip - Bradt=l...3.-- A lively youngster, he' likes rough games —~ especially' wrestling with a two-vear�old. Ile enjoys books and televi- ' cion, and though he is a very active child he does like to be cuddled. x, As.,,,a..,younger baby, Ross liad his moments of being irrit- able and difficult, but he is getting over that and is usually sociable and happy.' Ile is developing- nor sally 'now, but there is 4 chance he may have Ieairning p i blems •when he reaches school. , ; , , This dear.little fellow needs loving parents who are easy- going but able -to. • be firm --when . necessary, and whose academic expectations are not too high. To inquire about adopting Ross, please write to Today's. Child, Department of Social and F amil'v Service's, "Parliament Buildings, Tb--- ' For general adoption information,' ask your Children's Aid Society. • • HeIp piants over wi • • Although',summer is__,.over,, some garden jobs remain tobe done,- say hor-tieul-tu-rists with the Ontario Departinent , of Agriculture and Food. A bit of work now will provide a good garden next year. • When red raspberries have finished bearing, cut off old fruiting canes at ground ,level. If disease is evident, burn, the trimmings. Evergreens will' lose some needle's now. They can be used as a Inureh for blueberries and rhododendrons -which prefer an acidic soil. Flowering plants will benefit from the removal - of dead flowers. Divide and transplant peonies no, r .r Haruesi r tuberous begonias and dig up dahiias after the first killing frost- . Bring potted.; houseplants back indoors. Check them for disease or insect pests, first. Repot the plants and use them to decorate the house or else store in a cool basement until spring. Light infrequent watering is their only requirement. Day lilies and tulips, are best planted in September and October. Buy tulipbulbs of uniform size and plant them in a well -drained soil tow to ensure developed and established ,roots before winter. Cover tulip beds. TRUST COMPA•NW SINCE' 1889 '9.00 to 5:00 Monday toThursday 1.1k7,4`.‘, y' v �x. e, , .',•...A.' r htr .�yy �• G. b ^. 't >t � �, ~� ii' 1 � r y �G dna y Leaihnd . Hill, Manager 524-7381 KK Elgin and .Kingston Streets, Goderich n ter with a mulch bf straw, leaves. or peat, to prevent f,eezing and to maintain. uniform soil temperatures. Easy -to -grow day" lilies thrive •:� sun or shade_ and in various soils, although they-,prefek..a., sandy loam: Colors • range • from ' yellow to shades of pink and orange to deep reds and purples. Tall, medium-sized, dwarf and midget varieties aregivailable.' . Houseplants. - ,With the chance of frost at any time during September, Ontario • Department , of Ag r i cu I t -u re and hood horticulturists recommend' bringinghouseplants indoors, .very soon. Potted plants cavi he dug up ..directly, But, those planted directly in the garden soil may need to be divided and cuttings taken. See that all plants are in good condition before bringing them in the house. Remove any insects and gently hose down the foliage:;- For plants that are ,too large; table three 'or four -inch cuttings of the 'youngest and strongest shoots. Root them in sand or in a glass of water. Obtain. these cuttings now• t'or .successful overwintering of y lir garden plants. cit wa ing `t" iro g some fresh -poured 'Concrete, '�°'Y'Sti";re liable to he showered with sparks by a welder working overhead. The library isn't, ready, there -is 00 'cafeteria, and the gy'in is not finished. These are pretty important areas -111 a se -hour -Mat size. . Did you ever try to•teach poetry with"�::r jackhammer blasting• a few feet away? "it's like 'trying to have an elagant garste_party in the middle of ivirionsoo-ri Did you ever try to teach anything in. a resorb that has one naked light "hulk at the b;iek and is so full of some- -.body body else's junk (equip- nien t 1, that, you couldn't see 'yoiff students even if you had lights'? 'Just t().n=k*►npound the ' onfusic"n,,.. the -numbers of all the 'rooms have been charged. 'thus, my old room, 269, is now E.' 202 or •'04, I'm still' 'hell " sure which, u Tinit was, when a little • grade-niner would ask, "Sir, can' you tell me where Mr. """1�klin's room is." i would •' r answer with •suhli:ru.e. eon- fidence, "Sure. Just along the hall to the boiler room,' turn right, and it's about three doors down on your, left." Now, I haven't a clue r where Mr. J'acllin`s rhom is. think he's moved some- where, and the -place is so •big I couldn't tell the kid how to get There if I 'did know. It took me half an hour to find the new staff "lounge", which tci ad-Oht to he .a square, bleak; under- ground "hole with no -win- dows and a couple of light bulbs hanging from the ceil- ing. In the proposed cafe- torii. i (a bastard word if there ever was one), the, windows were sealed off be- cause ,it would he air-condi- tioned. Then it was learned that it wouldn't be air- conditioned, Can you imagine what it will be like in there with the smells of cooking and 'five hundred bodies, on a hot day. It seems to me . that school architects are in a t.J'C�m4Y�: Exterior of 60' x 12' Deluxe Shacnrock..MobileMonie FRONTIER AND SHELBY BUILT BY COMMODORE SHAMROcK LIMITED NUMBER OF LOTS AVAILABLE FINANCING AVAILABLE USED HOMES FOR SALE TO BE REMOVED FROM LOTS MOBILE HOMES • SALEst eidaliadau I 1 i l i•` r 5 . s'is PH 832-2467 PORT ELGIN ONT. GODERICH SiONAIrST"TftiMPA • Root s e plan's , The first board meeting of the Goderich Figure Skating Club, hosted by the president Mrs. Wm.. Crayen •was head halts of learningSeptember 16. The meeting • learned a with class bythentselves, like dar- penters. who would :never tackle anything bigger than • an out -door privy. Perhaps 1 ' wrong them. Perhaps they are hampered by rigid bud- gets. But I can't imagine any firm that specializes in de= signing schools being asked to build s'soinethling, that combined aesthetics and utility. hl However, • there's always . a bright side to things. The' public address system is no:t, working. The bells are ,not working. These are two boons, and I hope they never get them working. 'None of the teachers has gone stir-crazy yet, despite' 'the 'architect's feti4h %for windowless rooms. In fact, there's a certain gaiety and esprit de corps among' the ,staff, the sort of thing that always emerges in a great disaster, like a bombing - blitz or a paralyzing bliz- zard. And the kids love it. Kids .love confusion, especially.in their teens, when they begin' to . resent bitterly regula- tions, rules a'nd rigidity. - They can wander through the ruins, pretend they got lost, chat with the workmen, and he late for class. That's living. iAYfie.' 1!Y.LISi19iL`- Dry towers in sAilici gel regret, that the -treasur'er'" for many- years, • Cy Murray had" eeigned'; due to- ill • health. Past and present .executives are very • grateful to ,Mr. Murray for his Interest in the' club. Mrs. R. Shrier has accepted the position as treasurer-.- " A 'motion- was made that committee chairmen attend board meetings, so all may be better acquainted with their respective jobs and personinel, and that at ach meeting some member give a short talk on a , phase of 'skating, with Joan Dierolf speaking at ,the next meeting regarding tests, from the national level and up. The t etAngs are to be held the first Monday of each month. Mr. • and Mrs. Bruce have '- been September is the last ,chance to gather and dry garden flowers .Eor winter . bouquets. • -Srime flowers . can .be air dried but others such as zinnias, roses, marigolds, and many foliage plants are dried using silica gel. Horticulturists with the,. Ontario Department of Agricu.lture and-: Food .suggest placing a layer 'of. silica gel :on the bottom of a container toa .make it air -tight. On this lay the blooms or foliage -and cover gently. with more Of the gel. Replace, the lid' securely on tlpe cdntairier. If the lid is not air -tight, tape ,the joint. In about a week, the plants-- will be dry- with color and' shape intact. Stored in . air -tight containers, they are ready to' be used at any time. To reuse' the silica gel, bake it for 30 minutes at 250 degrees F:, to dry it out. aft signed as Brady club M professionals ' for the ce.Of season. Mi'si Jrady 1444 .4 fol; Fran, lohtlstan, nose neat to Bruce to ►k Plage Kincardine August Miss....lizabeth... Amok" NI not be ' back. She wJ1 attending. university,, and the club is negotiating 'for • anotI er:' - Several of the club rnMbers attended spring and sunini er schools.- ' Rusty Orniandy passed two. • junior . broea dances,., the Willow and/Ten Fox; Dlebbief ,. Jeffrey passed first 'figure" and, Fiesta /dance at the. Southampton Summer. Sltati -' School. . , Mrs. Craven_..and Mrs..,•Dieralf attended "The Skate -In" held by ,the Athletic Leadership Camp at Lake Oouchiching and spoke - briefly about it, which was racist interesting to all. , ' -• Hopefully, skating will start by mid-October. RELIABLEECONOM ICAL You'll Get a Good ' Deal -from Us... Just' ask your friends. You can .rely on us for fair estimates,reasonable costs, ' —e-xper#--work. After, aeciden-t–damage or just,: daily wear and tegr,,.t us' restore your car's like -new look. FRONT END ALIGNMENT SPECIALISTS Windshield Replacement at Cornpetitve Prices w MILLS MOTOR SALES LTD. 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