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The Goderich Signal-Star, 1971-07-01, Page 14A ',000 RICH S1GNAL-STAR, THURSDAY, JULY 1, 1971 an Landers says... It can happen by accident DEAR ANN LANDERS: -We were having a discussion last night about 'ac,cid.ental ' p gii ` re — .-, ver,. I'n%CTigAit , woman 'saidd she did not believe in accidental pregnancies - that in this day and age; with contraceptives so easily available any, female who .gets pregnant wants it that way. My fourth child was born when I was 40. ,Although I "laughingly referred to the baby as "the surprise of my life," I knew in my heart I had been a ,,:iittle'eareless. During last night's conversation ;.i pcurred to me that perhaps 1 had become pregnant on purpose 7 to prove I, was still young enough to have a baby. What are your views on this subject? - STILL , LEARNING DEAR 'STILL: After reading thousands of letters from pregnant women these past ' sixteen years, I have come- to' believe that pregnancy' can be a weapon, a hook,-an•,ggo builder, a husband -holder, a gimmick to obligate a Irian, an attention getting, device; a filler ' for an' empty life, b.nd a public statementthat the old hormones are still buzzing. It also can be ai code. DEAR .A:NN'NDERS:My father is so sad and depresseel•..i+,, breaks my heart. A very good friend of his, 'same i,ge, 43, committed suicide,. Dad knew Frank was` moody and that he worried a lot'about unimportant Wo ...Continued from -Page 2A. axe to grind ,with the teachers in Huron. I suppose qb Elliott.• could pay the increase in his taxes 'as well as the - average ratepayer could. - But 'Bob Elliott has .a job to do as chairman of the Huron County" Board of Education and it has become a nasty job lately. If the majority of the board • members representing ,,the,. majority of the, ratepayers in Huron feel that there is a" need to stand, pat on the wage issuait, Ejliott is man enough to fight for that ,belief:. Can -hebe-faulted for that? ' —The' "cost- of education in' Ontario is a sore spot with a great many people. True, the teachers should not be penalized because of it, but. the people of this province have to start somewhere. It would appear that the first skirmish has been slated for Huron County with the .teachers ' and the board -of 'education in the middle of it all. As far as I can figure there are more people in, sympathy with the board than with the teachers - not .because the teachers do not deserve parity ,with teachers from other parts of. the province, but because some, kind of a stand has finally been taken'.to oppose the rising cost of education in Ontario and folks who pay the taxes are'delighted.* *, By the time this column is read, there „ may well be a settlement with the secondary School teachers of the county. It may even be that the elementary school teachers will have agreed to their contract as well. There is a meeting with the elementary teachers tonight (Thursday) and with the secondary school • teachers Monday and possibly Tuesday:. - In a brief chat with Dr. Deathe last week, he told me of his feelings that the press should be present atr. all board deliberations, particularly on ----salary: -I--tapper -•-to _ kno v -that_. _-- this has been Dr. Deathe's opinion for along; longtime. There is no way to know now whether or, not-'mtit;h -of the misunderstanding, between the board, the teachers and the administration could have been alleviated .by thdrough=` press coverage from start to finish, ' I can only say that in previous years since the Huron County Boatd, of Educatipn came into` being,.thete have beer complaints' fromteachers.to me personally, that they were not informed„'of the details of a wage settlement until the newspapers carte 'out. It seeml that teachers; like the average taxpayer, must wait until the press tells the story before they, know Where they stand, #!l -mot :sure • whether,, ;the board oir "the....,.teachers' • own negotiating staff is to—blame—..110. somewhere there is a, real lade of TODAY'S CHILD BY HELEN ALLEN Toa ntoTelcg -am Syndicate things,. But no one thought Frank would kill hirrigelf, He. 4ad been .seeing ' a ,p� Cittfst~" a"nd•' fie"i N� a series of ' shock . treatments. We. all thought Frank , was getting along much better when this terrible thing happened. • My clad blames himself ' for neglecting his friend. He keeps sayirf, "If I had spent more time" with Frank I could have prevented this." What can I do or say to make dad feel better? I hate tosee him kids over here for something. I kept' track. Last week it was three _eggs a half, ,loaf f o f rye. rua�(X'�YSiI`. Bread, an onton;cp iii l'b4i `;�sfi: pair of bridge chair's, a clear} table cloth, a deck of cards, and ' a 100 -watt light bulb u"' i. I am not complaining that she is a borrower. Sis has a good memory and she pays back everything. What does bug me is that the has a habit of bringing her ,drop-in guests over here because she never has .any.thing to serve them. She is always so so, sad., - GLOOM WITHOUT grateful, but I really do consider END ' this a pain in -the neck. So does ' DEAR G: A person who 'is my' 'husband. Most of ' their determined to destroy himself- friends are pretty dull. Any will find a way. Every day, suggestions'? - FE,D hospitalized mental patients, • DEAR FED: Tell your sister under close surveillance, manage you'd rather lend her the fixings to outsmart .the attendants and than entertain her guests. do away with efiemselves. •• Obviously she is not` bashful Itis useless to rehaslrthe past with' /out Return the and speculate on what -might coippliment. have been done to prevent the tragedy. The only thing that can ' DEAR ANN LA:NDERS:.1f-a be done for a suicidal person is girl slaps a boy in the face for no to urgehim to seek psychiatric reason, is the boy justified in help. Frank was ge ;tting help, but • slapping her back? My best apparently he was tots sick - buddy did, this and we think he unreachable' - and nothing was within -his rights? Do you? - could sayi' him_ - •OM WS SIRE ._;,..L____.:....._1_ • ' DEAR ANN LANDERS: My ' D.E-AR SIDE: No reason? The sister and het husband live three fact `that - .know. the -doors down ,the street. Sis is a" reason does .not' mean _,there swell girl and we get along fine wasn't one. Reason, .or• no reason but she .is the world's worst - a . boy is never justified: in housekeeper land makes no slapping a girl - and I'm not too bones about it. Sis is always out keep on girls slapping boys, of everything. Not a day goes by either. There are more civilized that she doesn't send one of her `" ways to convey a message, ' man to woman communication .... and it should e next regular mee,ting of be improved immediately. • the Huron County Board of Education 'will be .July 19 A The real'concern now will be to appoint, school board representatives from . Goderich .... and that could be a bit' of a problem There are definite rules for this aslaid out in Section 35 of the Public School Act in Subsection 2 as follows: ,.where' a vacancy occurs • from any cause in an urban, school board or a' township school -'area board ' and the remaining trustees constitutea majority of the ,membership of the, board, a majority of the remaining ,.trustees .shall at the first regular meeting after the, vacancy occurs. elect some qualified person to fill the vacancy and the person so , elected shall hold office for the remainder of the teem for which his predecessor was elected, and in the case of an equality of votes the chairman of .the meeting `ha's a Second 'Or casting ." vote." successor will, be appointed for Mrs. J. W. Wallace. Since Dr. Deathe's resignation ` has not officially been received and accepted at time of 'writing, •I cannot say that more than one Goderich representatise Wil ;.be .appointed at that meeting. • The problem; of course, will be to send someone to the, board who is interested in school affairs, sufficiently informed to take ;hold mid-term and ready, willing and able to learn:- - It will also , be necessary, I feel, to involve someone who will be able to forget 'the unfortunate resignation of the Goderich meinber(s) and work for. ,the benefit .of Goderich and the school system in the County, of Huron without any animosity towards, any , member or members of the board, the ad -Min istration , the teachers' a5sociatipns, etc. That may be a tall order • • Brent is An.handsome seven-year-old with big dark eyes, brown hair,and fair skin. A bright lad, he does well in school aided by an excellent memory and quick understanding. -- Brent is ' a happy, outgoing, uninhibited youngster who —likes -Iv be--the—cetrtre-of--attention.. > e--is—healthy; a-s-t-ttrdily--.--- tud n ,,,,;t5 s it's' probably built, and keen on all ' kinds' of outdoor activities. He likes ;;swimming and spends -a lot-of'time on his bike. Brent likes games and puzzles and can usually solve -quite difficult ones. Ile is fond of music and loves books. Bozo -the CIown is his favorite television character and Brent likes -to -imitate him. • This lad should be the 'younge8t. in a fapilywhere he .will •get a"great deal of attention. He will be a rewarding son ' for parents who can combine warmth, loveand understand- •' ing with firm, consistent treatment. • ' To inquire about adopting Brent„please write to Today's Child, Department of Social and Family Seryiees,.: Parlia- ment Buildings, Toronto 182. For general adoption informs- ' tion,. ask your Children's Aid Society. - ,r+ TIME TO C.ALL., RACK THE OLD JUNK MAN There's a lot of talk about recycling these days. That does not mean that great numbers of middle-aged 'people are going back to the bicycle in despair, over traf- ' fic and their. 'own wretched ., p.h,ysic."44 ondit3L nv;alt}rotrg '--7 this is, also happening, and.a good thing too. Recycling is basically the smashing up of'such things as paper and tin and turning them back into more paper ting of our countryside wit-lj;.--- #� and tin, instead_ of the pollu- tingbeing picked up. Seems such garbage. silly, It is common practice in What ever became of the many of the countries of old junk -man? There was the world' which are out- the ideal catalyst between Stripping, Canada and... -the the consumer and the 1 -e - U.S. internationally. It also cycler. The perfect middle - makes a great deal of comms mon sense.. It boggles one's mind to think of 'the millions of tons of paper; • cans, bottles and. other reclaimable materials which head each week for the garbage dump. There are several reasons for this vast wastage. One of them. is that we have tre- mendous natural resources and 'we throw them away with a lavish hand. It's like living on one's capital. A second reason, obviously, is that industry is not geared for reclaiming waste. In price of the product than to canal (this was before peo- find methods of using dis- ple ,worried about sewage and such) it was a• bonanza, worth a dime or fifteen cents. But a meal for his imily• He prospered. And many of the big fortunes' in Canada today started out in ting -r I:spaleF : ,l3ut they the, junk -yard. The junk u•s#-: tae- bundled and -tied., sa as~ ��atwrs&naze lust so. And they don't benefactor to society. want any.other kinds of ' During the war, there paper. in the meantime, i were tremendous drive's 'for throw out five hundred scrap metal and newsprint. ,pounds of books., which it must have been used for have a higher rag'''content something. Pig farmers than the newsprint which is, - .epica.ked-gip the food garbage posable items over and over again,, Like everything else, the recycling seems complicate: A local organi- zation is raising money for a `worthy cause. It is collec- Arthur Circle ,enjoyscottage event The,,Arthur Circle of Knox Church enjoyed an evening of fellowship and fun at -the cottage .of Georgia Schaefer. Following the pot -luck supper, 'contests .and. -- 'organized by Helen McManus.:A special ,offering was received in aid- of the Girl Guide Camp "Klahane." A ,,rummage sale will be held in' eptember, so members are asked' to remember this project for the early fall. The .hostess was thanked for s� graciously inviting the Society to her cottage, and all members . were wished' a healthy and happy summer. r HURON MEN'S CHAPEL AUBURN SUNDAY, JULY 4 8:00 P.M. Special. Speaker — Rev. T. J. McKINNEY OF THE PRESBYTERIAN CHURCH IN TEESWATER Featuring — The WATcHMEN QUARtET or 1 .ALS, ,W, LCOME.., Evil Tiivtphs When Good Men Do IVathin • cheaper to produce new tins than to recycle tin.. Neither' ofthese reasons-- •--� is a valid one. In the first place, those "inexhaustible `esourc.cs," of raw •material could be exhausted in a few decades. In the second -in- dustry should, and must, find cheap means of re- cycling manufactured mate-, ' rials into raw materials. But of course it's. much simpler to look at the im mediate buck. It's nii ch simpler just to ,raise the man. Most small towns had a junk -man. He usually had a big yard with a fence aroused it, and inside the fence was an exotic jungle of junk. When 1 was a kid the junk:man was my chief source of income. A vast, , genial Jew ,with a benign twinkle, he4tr,',eated us ar'one businessman to •another. There was little haggling on our part, because it was the only game in town, but on the other hand, he didn't --tcy-to-be, u& wn . Prices were •established. Pint beer bottles were worth a lent,,' quarts two cents. Ile'd double his money on them. Old car tires were a nickel. apiece.. Paper and scrap iron were- carefully weighed; and after a judi- cious pause, beard cocked to one side, he'd:say, °"1 gjf.. -you twelf cents:r An enterprising kid could pick himself up forty or fifty cents a 'week, big money .in those days. A'nd if :we caught a nice pike in the from big military kitchens.• ,,, Why couldn't we do the same today? It would pro- vide employment, stop wasting resources, and do a lot to clean up our environ- ment. - I'd be perfectly wiling to sort my garbage into waste . food, bottles and cans, and newspapers. How about you? We could all be our own •j,u-nk-men, and do a lot for our country. - The Argyle.Syndicate UTVO0R-ETHICS "BE SURE TWAT CAMPFIRE. 15 REALLY OUT! USE �• YOUR WASHv./ATErZ TO ' T1-4OROUGNLY DOUSE / ITHEAARvEm11013.,E; LE . �t bi ds JUNIOR SPORTSWEAR SIZES 9 to 13 Denim—Jeans—Shorts.—Vests Shorts—Pants=Coats• _ Shirts ,and Tops Original $6.00 to $20.00 3.00; 14100 JACKETS INCLUDES LEATHERS GROUP ORIG S22 to S70 16.00 .„50.00 i GODER1CH PANT DRESSES PANT SUITS 1/2 PRICE GROUP -ORIGINAL PRICES S40 to S119 2000 TO 58.00 COATS INCLUDES SOME .ALL WEATHERS GROUP ORIGINALLY 450 to '$1,09 25.001085.00 85.00 SPORTSWEAR GROUP INCLUDES PAN rs, ' II0RTS, TOPS, SKIRTS SWEATERS, E Tt: ORIGINAL PRICES S1/1 to S18 9.00 To 12.00 -OPEN ALL. DAY WEDNESDAY OPEN FRIDAY TILL 9 0 r •