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HomeMy WebLinkAboutThe Goderich Signal-Star, 1971-06-24, Page 16I( 4A GOT*RICH SIGNAL -VAR, THURSDAY, iuNE 24, 1971 * 4 • •••••••••• • Babysitter formerly mental patient cToinntocrelegrant Syndicate Ann Landers months-''ago7we mdved-to this • neighbbrhood. „ We felt very fortunate to live next door to a wonderful woman who took a liking to our cbildren.She has kepl them (without charge) while I've gon shopping, to the, dentist, and on occasion just so I could have "a dall off." She bakes cookies and cakes for us and gives us flowers from her garden. A few days ago another neighbor toia me I should not --re ave my children . with this woman because she has ,spent, some time in a mental hospital, I asked another neighbor if it was true. Her reply ' was, "Some people sure , do have big mouths." Should I ask the kind lady if she is an ex -mental patient? If, she admits it do I dare leave, my children with her? If you say no, what would I tell my children? :They are very fond of this woman and enjoy 'being with - her: --Any Name Will Do. Dear Any: The ladywith the big motitlils an ignoramus. So , what if the kindly. neighbor has spent time in a mental hospital? Mean she ts dangerous — or incompetent.' bettery well be in h • , ex -mental patients are... (tut that they give me a pain in tea'. people—because- of--rheir'Abe-1-..neekv.."4-wrariver-}".*DivAVita therapy. To stigmatize a person Meterless Cab because he has been hospitahzed Dear eab: I see no reason for :4* IS flOt throwback -to the Dark Ages. * * * •• 'Dear Ann t„anders: Do I have to stop going places because of a couple of -free loaders? I happen to drive. These twb 1' cruel but a you to haul these women atound since you obviously feel they are a couple of 'leeches — not to mention a pain in the neck. From now on, when they, ask you to pick them up, say you won't. ,know until the last leeches dnnot drive, but they - moment whether you are going have husbands who drive. They • and they had better not count wouldn't' dream of bothering on you for transportation. If them, but they don't mind they ask for a ride home, fell bothering me. It would be a them, "If you see me walking pleasure if I could go where I'm '• out, and come with me O.K., going and not have to make two - ,but I will not wait for yoit." stops. (If they aren't ready, I * * * must wait.) It wduld also be a IConfidential to Dying To pleasure to leave a meeting or a Try: It's understandable that a young, inexperienced person.like yOurself is eager to learn from experience, but this is ' one experience you can live without. Forget k. DEAR ANN LANDERS: Recently you printed a letter froma woman who complained bitterly because herhusband didn't send her a Valentine. Screwballs like her give me 'a pain. You gave the gal a good what -for, Annie Baby, but you didrizt iiit het- harrtenough. My sister was married to a man who remembered every' card party or a church affair when I feel like it. But it isn't possible, becaiw these free loaders are also great talkers. They * must have a personal conversation with everyone in sight,,Invariably they are the last to leave ,-- no matter %%that' ,the occasion. I was told recently by a'n insprance agent ,that if -a Passenger is injured in my car I am responsible. Who needs it? I do--•not--invite—these--magpies to ride 'with me. The'y invite themselves. Please tell me how • ' • 1 anniversary and every birthday. to pat an end to this free taxi , - mentally and emotionally, than service without telling them flat the lady with the•big mouth. t He nev-er failed to send a lily for Eater and , a poinsettia for Woman to :woman -Continued from Page 2A. listed" .and an undisclosed number of the teachers had resigned. • . "The press Of the county has had no access to the meetings. between board and teachers . . . and consequently this newspaper is in no position to comment on, the, situation. We, have seen a "fact sheet" issued by the - federation and have read the advertisement , placed by the • board — neither of which could glassed -as unbiased reporting. • "Because , both our, pbcketboolis and our children will be serionsly affected by the outcome cif these discussions, we believe, that the public sliouLd have thS right to know in detail ,the reaspning which has been put forVvard duripg the negotiationS. ' •* • "It Would' appear that the suggestion of Board Member' Mrs. Wallace at the last meeting is worthy 3f serious • consideratiop., She pipposed.the idea that representatives of the teaching staff be included in the budget meetiiigTiffitile"board so there would be a better understanding of the problenis which fade the taxpayers of the county in the .field of education:. It will be interesting to see whether this „suggestion bears Christmas. One St.' Patrick's day he.prought horrie a piece of sod from Ireland. 'No , occasthn .PasSed without,soine'thbughtful gift — proof that, he had remembered. But for some m`ysterious. reason, he couldn't remember he was married. Every time a new girl came to, work in his Office he got involved with her. He was known -wide lied far, as the town Lochinvar. So why, not tell people that some things areMofe important to remember than otheas?_ Nobody ,can remerpber everything. — TRUMPED ACE IN „TAMPA „ DEAR ACE: Your, letter has Provided every man who forgets his wife's birthday" With a beautiful excuse. I'm sure they are grateful. • Terry is a sturdy boy, 14 months old,' with a lively interest everything he sees. His development has been, slightly' behind the average for kis age—because he was born prematurely, but he has, almost caught up now. Anglo-Saxon in descent, he has big bright blue eyes, fight7brown-Imir and fair skin. • • — . Terry is, a—happv baby who loves people, especiaily children. He's an easy member'of his foster family because he is always good-natured, he eats everything offered to • him, and he's a splendid sleeper. " • This youngster has a very mild nerve deafness and at a year he was fitted with a hearing aid. It has already been discarded because he functions very well without it. His onl? difficulty seems' to'be 'with high frequency Sounds. He hears normal voiees well. He is early learning to talk and has vocabulary larger than many echild his age. Doctors say he Will be able to atiebd, normal classes in school, but they aren't prepared to prophesy whether he will ever need a hearing aid again. This lovable toddler needs loving parents who appieci- •ate a sunny -tempered son without 'worrying over -his medical history. To inquire about adopting Terry-, ..pIease write Today' t Child, Department of Social and Family „Services, Parliament Buildings, Toronto 182. For general adoption information, aik your local Children's Aid Society. LOOKING BACK ON A 1-0,YEAR,TR.M At this time of year,the average school -teacher takes a .deep breath, lets out an . even, deeper Sigh, and won- ' ders where in the ,narne of that.ridiculott5-itteU45t. teaching year-has.gone, Looking forward to it in SeptemberitAeems nd less. But that doesn't bother you. You are refreshed, full 'of beans, full of plans, and full of that once-more-into- the-breach-deat4riendS spir- it. Looking in either direc- tion abotit February_ is a de- pressing experience. Behind lie the ruirfs of yotrr, buoy- ant September self. Ahead lies a trackless desert, with the end of lune far beyond the horizon. • , ut looking „back, it seems to' have flown by it the speed of a mallard. You are exhauited, You query whether you have accom- plished anything, and you, 0 4,• are ready to step out of the' breach and into a lawrichair. lt's a good, time for a quiet, assessment of what the whole educational busi- ness is About, and also of whether • you have contribu- ted anything more than a fairly capable job of baby- sitting: The Young teacher espe- cially, just finishing -the first opener. First of all, he or she has discovered that the "learning process", as the jargoneers call it, is vastly diffe'rent from what he or she had imagined it to be. The brighter ones.realize that they have learned more.. than theyhave been taught. They've' learned that kids • arc people, that problems are never' as large, as they look, and that, memo are for the waste -basket. • For some of, them, it has; ' been the triost exciting year of theirlives', because it has been the first year in ‘which they have been totally in- volved in a realjob, with real people, students. ;------"For 'Many of them, the year past 'has.been a blur, or a dazzle:- 'endless hours, of preparation, ar.c1 "marking papers; and a combination of geat leaps ahead and • agonizing prat -falls. They're looking forward desperately to vacation, be- cause they've really been • through the wringer; They ea-siiarcely believe that life',-Ithre-e-onteNtltrimey,o2r year of .teaching without anything worse than a slight tic or a vojceseveral deci- bels higher than it was in September. Quite a lew are even more "dedicated" than when they joegan. Some of them, l'iutunate- ly not rnany, are soured on the ,whole shambles and have decided they don't like kids, detest their fellow - teachers, and loathe the' ad- ministration. They should clear out` without a back- ward look, if the.y want to avoid unhappy lives ,for themselves and, all those about them; Teaching is a reasonably well-paid jot), ,with a long holiday thrOwn 'in. But I've never mo -t -a wealthy tearher and neyer, will. And one can even get a bellyful] of hob: days. Especially when one • has to get up at six o'clock • to drive his daughter to work: ' But , to those who con- - sider it as' avocation, let me ,IPSi say it's a helliiva tough ob115, rot, tsar ther•NtA4Lafa-,•<nr- * ',kill Or the faint of heart. , There are certain pre- requisites. You must like, if not necessarily understand, young • people. Who does? You must be able to get along with, if not neces- sarily like, your fellow teachers. It is perfectly 0:K. to ,Joathe administrators. 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