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GODERICH SIGNAL STAR, THURSDAY, AUCWST 6, 1970
BY HELEN ALLEN
Totnptocrelegratn Syndicate,
Wanda is a. happy baby, as one look will tell:- She is
almost six months old, a dainty lady of Polish and West
Indian descent. She has browie, almond -shaped eyes, scant
dark hair and a medium complexion.
anda ,a .h,caltlirchild,Agypigping qt ,aa..q.v4aga, rate,-
. She is,2441n!w,4feOcler,:tut'b WY.isimpi6vingz'Slte?..ts M1 na
tured and active. kicking and waving her arms. A 'nei-able
infant, she smileS and chuckles when people talk to her. She
sleeps right thrMigh the night and is not -demanding in the
.daytime.
There is --good achievement-- artistic,. musieal.--and
----aeademie-cin -this baby's background. She needs loving
-e-pnrents who will valueLlrer-beritage.
To inquire about adopting Wanda ' please write to rf
day's Child, Department of Soeial. and Family Services,
Parliament Buildings, Toronto 182. For general adoption
Information ask your Children's Aid Society.
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nn Landers
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Dear Ann Landers: I need
help and I need it soon. My
husband's good friend died
stiddenly, of a coronary three
months agd. He was only 46,
and had been married (Por the
first tithe) less than fourmonths.
His wife was O years his junior.
Harold insists that sex is what
killed his friend. He points to
the fact that the man w.as in
excellent health before his
marriage - an avid tennis player
who jogged every niorning and
went to the gym, five' times a
week. 1 '
.Since his friend's death, I feel
like the Virgin Queen. When
try to talk to Harold about it he.
says, "Please don't make matters
- worse. There's more to marriage
than sex. I can live without it."
Well, maybe HE tan live without
it, but I can't. I feel unloved,
unwanted and old before my
time. What's more, I'm bitterly
resentful, of his lack of
consideration for my needs. I am
37 and not ready to give up sex
forever. Should I take a lover?
Yes or no? -- Hiatus
• Dear H.: No. It might solve
'Oneproblem but it would create
others.
Harold should see a pliygician
and overcome his fear of death. •
He needs a thorough physical
and some straight talk. Sex
doesn't kill people. In fact,
many bachelors who marry in.
their 40's have a less strenuous
... sex _life_as_lusbancisabark, they,
711aAki•bachei(54-:,
that,-- "musi "see -m-
-doctor and try- to reestablish .a
healthy, normal sexual ,
relationship with you or it could
destroy his marriage.
Dear Ann- Landers: -What
--a—person yell? My
husband cannot carry on a
discussion like a normal human
being. .He has to holler. , at
everybody. I've seen friends
walk. °away from 'him because v
they don't enjoy being yelled at.
Our' son tells me he would
give anything if his father would
talk to him, but after two
sentences,' what starts out to be
a conversation turns into a
yelling, screaming fight.
Last night I asked my
husband why he does this, He
replied,"Because I'm made that
way." I don't believe this is a
very' good answer. Do you? -
My Head Hurts
Dear Head: Yellers -are not
born. They are inade. And what
makes them yellers, is a lack of
confidence in their ability to
persuade. The yeller is
substituting lung power for brain
power. Usually the person with
the loudest voice is the one with
' the weakest argument. The next
time someone- starts to yell,
listen - with a third ear.
Dear Ann Landers: Last week
I was so miserable I thought my
world had come to an end, After
a terrific fight with my husband,
I wrote you a letter' and signed it
"Love and Hate."
My letter wasafull of self-pity
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. in it. Cokasked her to check and
What a day towrite a light, make sure. She was about to give
breezy column. The rain is him an argument when I arrived
,c9ming down so hard and and told him no, Seems they'd
steadily, for the third dayigin a seen it- parked, had been keepin
row, that even the birds are • an eye on it, and we had slipped
walking, The cat had made a • off with it when the patrol car
mess on the floor when I came was going around the block.
down. Threw her out into the' Bizarre incident. Coneratalated
rain and saw my garbage can on police on their efficiency. And
• its side, the contents spewed all so to bed. •'
over the lawn. Coons. . . Friday,' fair' and fine. Good"
well. The sun will shine show, as we'd been invited
again..The cat Avill-Make-li niers yachting: --Fair breeze, good Skip
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the garbage can lid again, God is, chowder, cold drinks, and con -
presumably, in His heaven and genial company,
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it's the Qnly one we have. hesoked on sailing. It's virtually
'It hasn't been all bad this voluptuous, spanking along at
week. Tuesday, a good soak in, aboat six knots,sails taut, and
the sun at the beach, and a brisk, none of the stink and noise of a
12 -yard , swim. Wednesday, a motor -boat. It was like gliding
game of golf with' the' only into another world; out among--
from a jovial duffer into a all. as Etienne Brule or Sam average of $45,000,000 yearly in
Forest tires cost Canada an
person I know who can turn me the green, silent islands, seeing it
thin-lipped,,emotional hacker - Champlain might have over 300, control and damage.
,mi, wife Same old pattern. I try years ago. , •, *
to give her a fewtips. She gets The, only nautical terms I'm : Smokey Says:
sore and tells me to shut up and sure .of are: "The sun'over,.the ..
try to hit a decent hall myself. yardarm," and -"time to •splice
;Third time she tells me, I get the mainbrace." But I would
sore and the rest of the game is surely admire to have a boat like
played in grim and stony silence, that, stand tall at the tiller and
with only the odd sneer to 'break snap Captain Bligh-like orders to
the ice, It's the same as the way my wife, as Z>ur- host did. '
we play bridge together. You should have 41seen that
By Thursday, we were speak- poor girl scrambling around,
an exhibition of modem art. The mainsail and struggling with the scA"wierrelhliNGG , , ,;
ing again, and that night went to luffing the jib arid raising the
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mine: Now I know what he was from kneeling on the deck while III•( II,
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-artist, Hugh Niblock. Delightful landlubber, sit in the cabin was careless With FIRE! -
, evening. Punchbowl, coffee and -
lots of talk. The Smileys, as
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except for a draft -dodger and his
very pregnant wife. They make
Quiet, eentle, hone§t.
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We made it to the car abotrt 3- • . . See or Phone
a.m., me lugging a large painting
sculpture; on 'trial. Got home, ,• . MALCOLM, MATHERS: •
.- and the old girl a big chunk of •
and while I was putting the car
away, the police called'. Asked
my wife if our car had' been
stolen. Slightly baffled, she rep-
lied that we'd just driven home
drinking coffee and watch
through the hatch skipper and.
wife, in oilskins. hpistinganchor •
and getting under way. Fine trip
home, 40 milespf sailing behind,
and only three people scared out
of six.
Daughter Kim home Satur-
day, sick of -squalid job in
squalid city, lip curled when, she
saw' the art -work and heard pi •
the boat trip, snapped: "So • -
you've joined the jet set, have
you?". Jealous. '
•Not . exactly, We haven't
enough fuel for jets. It's back to
clipping the hedge. tomorrow.
But it's nice to fly once in a
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