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HomeMy WebLinkAboutThe Goderich Signal-Star, 1965-08-12, Page 10Rid !Y Minor. over-: a .entr th a>ace to Paiue fall, the :music ,building 1sat H r• Yard, are engraved the Words, "To charm, to 4t1`on,aen and to teach, ,these are the three great words of might." These Ai a the predominate functions of woman. The noted anthropologist,' AsIrly Nlontau, says that wo- men are "gentlear,° kinder, warmer, more sympathetic, NIAGARA LOANS 0 Mare uriderstandi, more co- oTxerattve than en. They ate' . the "altruists; those who make saeridecs; men are the egetiats, those who nialie pro .ts. Wo - amen are the conservers, the pre; servers; men are the despoil- ers, the destroyers.° • le says that we've had en- ough of egotism and destruc- tion in our•..world. itis time to give altruizn,4consideration for others and co-operation a -change. SASriety should give women a chance to make men more human than they are at the ":present. How- accomplish this? By entering kusiness and politics? A ,,French sociologist predicts that women will rude by the 21st century. Is, •this tale answer? Early Training "The most important job of a young womantoday is rais- ing good human beings." This may be inside or outside the home, or both. The best pre- parers of children are good -mo- thers, and fathers whohave had good mothers. Mothers who aren't resentful of their role. Nor jealous of man be- cause he doesn't get pregnant, nor. sty?'..,,.. home .«and.s..raiser children, do the housework. , , . Man does have a` different and .separate role' According to Mr.Montagu we b should stop educating women in a rnasetrline system. And at the same time hope that some- how they'll remain women. Let's educate women, yes, but for the world of humanity which they are to help create. Let's educate them in subjects related to womanhood. But we'll need to start even before theyenter school. A Latin American friend of ine is appalled at our lack of raining little girls to be girls. he, thinks it's a serious mis- ake for them to play ball with oys when they should be play - ng "house," "doll," or learn - g to knit and cook. NF -65-.2 Always there with ready cash NIAG4RA FINANCE CQMPANy LIMITED 29 KINGSTON ST. PHONE 524-8357 -Education- : a Misfit . . Phyliss McGinley, contempor- ary poetess, author and home- maker. laments the fact that so- ciety fails to recognize us as women. We are simply differ- ent races, not second,rate man. She also lays part of the blame on our present educational sys- tem. A woman's ,training is not tailored ler. needs. leer educa'tiQn isa 'hand.. e~ _ doavr� from xu►an's shelf, as unaltered and' nrlisfitting gaxnx,+ertt, . Tl?:e American . Kiri skips off to achhol and beconi,.es a' part of an enormous nous systUem, designed es- pec'ially for boys. She's treat- ed reated like a boy from kindergar- ten on through college. She studies the same subjects, be- comes a sport enthusiast and expert, 'is skilled in the.. ai lie arts and professions. She goes out' from the coed world totally unprepared for -her -role,--and in the- process,' loses her feminine qualities.' No one has taught her: that a woman chiefly needs "a terrible patience, a vast tolerance, for- giveness, forbearance, and al- most divine willingness to for- get private wants in the needs of the family." Lost Respect She, has won her freedom, but lost the respect of men. No longer do they hold the door open, nor give up their seats for her. Joy Davies, a Toronto fashion commentator who operates a charm school for both men and women, expressed her ii, _}� -a-r`e 'C' i"t"'n,ewVsgaperj article. She says men will continue these traditional etiquette relation- ships ps if women remain femin- ine. According to her, being fem- inine involves both appearance and attitude... "an attitude of gentleness, and kindness, and fan appearance of good health, softness, neatness, poise and radiance." She feels; that since woman is in • business men have lost much respect for her. Too many career women have hard shell :q . are loud ...swear !.. overdrink ... and oversmoke, because they think this belongs to their . new more aggressive role. She ',concludes that women can be aggressive in a feminine way ...a gentle voice and man- ner that persuades rather than ink a t Rte -*rat the pppyerects n mei . and /Sy nature woman is passive and receptive psycholo icallbasic a ' . y ler b fiar�Ifi� are stlarped by her priniagy"liftliPrimary' — t', bear children .and create ahome for thew,- Her ego pri'narily is based on her performance as wife and 'mother, Man 15 basically aggressive 'i. • mastering the world through ntellect or physical braye;y, His sense of a complisbment comes largely front his jobs Men and women are different sexually.. Generally man is the aggressor,, quickly responding, at exetrnal stimuli. Sex is eap- able of giving weanan hexreat radiant -O.' Y`it's' ie fiche within her that makes her gentle with children... it's in the under- standing she can give another huznan being who is lonely. She uses it, properly channeled, to enrich her life." . A woman psychologist, Cleo Dawson, was asked to do some research on the differing psy- chological • factors of men and women. She studied their dif- ferent roles. Women basically feel while men think. Women frequently do surpass men in intelligence, but the weight of their emo- tiontl drag handicaps them. MAIL. their •-praetical-minds-Men ;fudge, organize and direct. "Na- ture's plan, seems to .be the supervisionof woman by man," " concludes Cleo Dawson. This coincides with God's verdict after sin entered the world, according to the Biblical- ac- count. Yes, we think differently, have different goals, enjoy dif- ferent social activities, are Physically different. Complete Man But can ,these differences be resolved by couples, outside of the divorce courts? Indeed! They are intended to be complementary, not an- tagonistic. If man and woman could view their differences in this, light,. respect and co-oper- ation would replace friction, hostility, and competition. Then woman -wouldn't want to "wear the pants," to be equal in the ,..,...,rel: 'woman, az „ mut 'lmember.. that the htba'',ua.ttte. are ttece ary fo?r her soeurikt. for the security of the children. A pian must remember that wo, mar's nature gives hini stila, goals worth struggling for . in life ..., "love, a hox}ne; and through children a psychologic- al and biological immortality: A wife's moral, emotional, soc- ial -and--sexual traits serve the, husband's ,highest aspirations." Woman is needed to give em- otional security to our insecure world as she gs herself — her love ---to boli husband and child. Mother Of Menldni Woman's primary role and greatest--contribtaran 'Ls that -cif being hatofbeing a mother. Th- an old mala azine 1 ran across an article by Agnes E. Meyer. But the prin- ciples' still hold today. She pleads, "God protect us all from the efficient, go-getter business= woman whose feminine instincts have been completely sterilized. Wherever women are function- ing, whether in the home or in. a job, they must remember that their chief function as wo- man is a capacity for warm and charitable human relation- ships." Woman's humility --her aril- ity to -adjust to outward circum- stances, to the 'husband iri tole` -employer and fel- low workers in business - - is her strength. The weak woman tries to control situations ons b Y force, and by her outspoken ag- gressiveness. The mature woman who knows her inner worth does not complain that she is unjustly treated, or denied high execu- tive positions. She expands her area of influence. "What the world needs today is not more eo'rnpetition, but woman's native genius for sym- pathetic co -operation --between public and private endeavor, be- tween management and .labor, between doritending religious sects, between the family and the 'communitiy, between one individual and another. This is woman's great opportunity-- to pportunity—to ,easethe acute and danger- ous tensions of American life." This is largely accomplished ,fact +r St4134, pr' s ui c0404, 2 K't; as 110 a '.G'S a Fuge, for her IIu baztd God's Desi ,n God -did} t 'create woman to ire .lspece d:,r to maw t. o �, After God d bad laUe man, He stepped back, Observed 'him, then con - :0 ne on` e.ne 0 •+CO helper." ' ad wcrnan, vlaag, '.gentle side kind, leunderstan: tp.g. "Side by y*ere to live Anti work ...vomari. not to expect too, much feeling from. man• ,creat ing pressures and Innn; Man not expectiing woman -to the .two -w0'1 ,btu, "o 'a,. a co. opergin. g, ting eat others' strOn4Ast. and allowing for we ' uses. purposely mide woman 4 .;untrue'r( -non to', bo he tier to man... to be motherf o xman- kind. , .. This is ,;her supreme role! cord, 1. 1002, they , e nwtive, taxable Companies Canadian manufactuu g 44 try, ' of which 009$6 operated a loss; the 13,862- {�jjay}} t K ��7.5Y panies had a<, total het �abj income of 41, 776 milli Q which they s d $ o'° eq in'corporation taxes.4 A&P N'EC4ARTEA SAIL DETERGENT PEANUT- BUTTER MAYONNAISE SUNNYFIELD RICE °,,.r" CHEESESLICES-0 = 31 w•: POWDERED SULTANA ANN PAGE 32 -f1 -oz jar FANCY QUALITY LONG GRAIN 69 73c 16 -fl -oz jar 3 9c 2 -Ib pkg 39c . 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