The Exeter Times, 1888-4-12, Page 3NUTTIE'S FATIIER,
BY CEARLOI Id. ee0110E,
CHAPTER XXIV.—(ConnInuann
So Mark rode home, more glad che't the
decision was actually mede than at the
course it had taken. Ilk father was disap-
pointed, but oould not but allow that it was
the more prudent arrangement; and Mn.
Egreniont showed all the annoyance a a inan
whose good offer has been rejected,
• na 'Tis that little gigging Scotch girl 1" he
said. " Well, we are quit of her, anyway,
a pity that Mark entangled hirnselt with
her, and a mother-in-law into the bargain 1
I was a fool to. expeot to get any good out
on him 1"
This was said to his daughter, with
whom siwas left alone; for Miss Heanworth
couldnot bear to accept his hosmitality a
rnouent longer than needful, and besides
had been ins much shaken in nerves as to
suspect that an illness was coming on, and
hurried home to be nursed by Mary Nugent
Canon Egremont was obliged bo go back to
Redcestle to finish his residence, and his
wife, who had been absent nearly a month
from her fairsily, thought it really wieeerto
let the father and daughter be thrown upon
one another at once, so that Ursula might
have the benefit of her father's softened
mood.
There could be no doubt then he was soft-
ened, and that he had derived some im-
provement from the year and a half that his
wife had been with him. It might not have
lifted him up a step, but it had arrested him
in his downward course. Selfish and indolent
he was as ever, but] t here had been a restraint
• on his amusements, and a withdrawal from
bis worst associates, such as the state of his
health might continues above anl if Gregorio
could be dispensed with. The inan himself
-had become aware of the combination
against him, and, though reckoning on his
master's inertness and dependence upon
'him, knew that a fresh offence might Qom -
pieta his overthrow, and. therefbre took care
to be on his good 13ehavior.
Thtun Nuttie s task might be somewhat
smoothed; but the poor girl felt unspeak-
ably desolate as she ate her breakfast all
alone with a dull post -bag, and still more so
when, having seen the housekeeper, who,
happily for her, was a good and oapable
woman, and very sorry for her, the had to
bethink herself what to do in that dreary
sitting -room during the hour when she had
always been most sure of her sister -mother's
dear company. How often she had grumbled
• at being called en to practise duets for her
father's evening lullaloy 1 Sne supposed she
ought to get something up, .and she proceed-.
ed to turn over and arrange the musierith
a isort of sick loathing for Whatever was con-
nected with those days of impatient mur-
murs, which she would so gladly have re-
called. Everything had fallen into disorder,
as Blanche and May had left it the last time
theynhad played there; and the over -looking
it, and putting aside the pieces which she
could never use alone occupied her till
Gregorio, very meek and polite, came with
a message that Mr. Egremont would be
glad if she would come to his room. In
some dread, some distaste, and yet some
pf.tet and some honest reisolution, she made
p way thither.
There he sat, in dressing -gown, smoking -
cap, and blue spectacles with the glittering
February !sunshine carefully excluded. He
looked worse and more haggard than when
she had seen him at dinner in the evening,
• made up for company, and her coinpa,sskn
increased, especially as he not only held out
his hend, but seemed to expect her to kiss
him, a thing she had never done since their
' first recognition. It was not pleasant in
itself, but ib betokened full forgiveness, and
indeed he had never spoken to her in his
sneering, exasperating voice since her
mournful return home.
"Have you seen the boy ?' he asked.
" Yes ; they are walking him up and down
under the south wall," said Nuttie, thank-
ful that she ha n peeped under the many
wraps as he was carried across the hall.
" l3:ere 1 I want you to read this letter to
me. A man ought to be indicted for writing
such a hand 1"
It was really distinct penmanship, though
minute; but, as Nuttie found, her father
did not like to avow how little available
were his eyes. He could write better than
he could read, but he kept her over his cor-
• respondence for the rest of the morning, an-
swering some of the letters of condolence for
him in her own name, writing those of bust -
nine and folding and adressing what he
himself contrived to write. Her native
quickness stood her in good stead, and,. be-
ing rather nervous, she took great pains, and
seldom stiunbled ; indeed, she only once in
curred an exclamation of impatience at her
stupidity and slowness.
She guessed rightly that this forbearance
was owing to tender persuasions of her
mother, anti did not guess that a certain
fear • of herself was mingled with other
motives. Her father had grown used to
• woman's ministrations; he needed them for
• his precious little heir, and he knew his
• daughter moreover for a severe judge, and
did not want to alienate her and lose her
services; so they got on fairly well togeth-
er, and she shared his luncheon, during
wkich a massage came up about the carriage;
and as there had been an application for
some nursery needment, and moreover black -
edged envelopes had nun short, there was
just purpose enough for a drive to the little
town.
Then Nuttie read her father to sleep with
the newspaper ; rushed round the garden in
the twilight to stretch her young limbs;
tried to read a little, dressed, dined with
her father; finished what he had missed in
the paper, then offered him musk, and was
• told "if she plemsed," and as she played
she mused whether this was to be her
life. It looked very dull and desolate,
and what was the good of it all? But there
• were her mother's words, "Love him P'
B.w., fulfil them? She could pity him now,
• bintPoh 1 how could she love One from whom
heir whole nature recoiled, when she thought
Olney, mothern ruined life? Mr. Dutton
too had held her new duties up to her as
capable of being ennobled: Noble 1 To
read aloud a eporting paper she did not
want to iinderetand, to be ready to play at
• cards or billiards, to take that dawdling
drive day by day, to devote herself to the
selfish exactions of burnt-out disaipation.
Was this noble? Her mother had done all
this and never even felt it a °roast because
of her great love. It must be Istattien cross
if it was her ditty ; but could the love and
honour possibly come though she tried to
pray in faith ?
CHAPTER 2iXV.—THE GIGGLING &Mewl
' Gime
"For every Lamp that trembled here,
And faded in the night,
Behold a Star serene And elem.
Smiles on me from the height."--B.M,
Nitttie Was not mistaken iisupposingthat
this fret day Would be a fair sample of her
life, though, of course, after the first weeks
of moureing there were variations ; and the
. return of the Rectory party made a good
deal of brightening, and relieved her from
the neeessity of anding companionship and
eonversetion for her father on more than
half her afternoons and evenings.
Ho required her, however, almost every
foreneon, and depended on her i acreasinglY,
so that all her arrangments had to be made
with reforenee to him. It was a bondage,
but not so galling •in the fact as she would
have expected if it had been predicted to her
so few months previously. In the filet place,
Kr. Egmont never demanded of her what
was actually egeinet her conscience, engept
occasionally giving up a Sunday evensong to
read the paper to him, and that only when be
NYCO more unwell than, usual. He was, after
all, an English gentleman and didnot aek
his young daughter to read him the books
which her mother had loathed. Moreover,
Gregorio was on his good behaviour, per-
fectly aware that there was a family com-
bination against him, and having oven re-
ceived a sort of warning from his master,
but by no means intending to take it, and
therefore abetaining from any kind of offence
that could furnish a fresh handle against
him; and thus for the present, Or. -Ham-
mood's regimen was well observed, and Mr.
Egremont was his better self in consequ-
ence, for, under his wife's guarclianehip, the
perilous habit had sufficiently lest strength
to prevent temper and spirits from manifest-
ly suffering from abstinence.
The first time Nuttio found herself obliged
to make any very real eacrifiee to her father's
will was on the occasion of Mark's marriage
en Easter. Things had arranged themselves
very conveniently for him at Mioklethwayte,
though it seemed to Nubble that she only
heard of affairs there in a sort of distant
dream, while such events were taking place
as once would have been to her the greatest
possible revolutions.
Aunt Ureel reached home safely, but her
expectations of illness were realised. She
took to her bed on arriving, and though she
rose from it, there was reason to think the
had had a slight stroke, for her activity of
mind and body were greatly dectayed, and
she was wholly dependent on Mary Nugent
for care and comfort. Mary, remembering
the consequences of the former alarm, made
the best of the old lady's condition; and
Nuttie, ashamed of having once cried
" wolf," did not realise the true state of the
case, nor indeed could she or would she
have been spared to go to Mioklethwayte.
• The next news told that Gerard Godfrey,
at the end of the year required by Mr.
Dutton, had resigned his situation, and at
the close of his quarter's notice was going
to prepare for Holy Orders under the train-
ing of a clergyman who would employ him
in his parish, and assist him in reading up
to the requirements for admission to a theo-
logical college. Poor dear old Gerard 1 It
gave Nuttie a sort of pang of self-reproach
to own how good and devoted he was, and
yet so narrow and stupid that she could
never have been happy with him. Was he
too good, or wan he too dull for her? Had
she forsaken him for the world's sake, or was
it a sound instinct that had extinguished
her fancy for him! No one could tell,
least of all the parties cencerned. He might
be far above her in spiritual matters, but he
was below her in intellectual ones, and
though they would always feel for one
another that peculiar tenderness left by the
possibilities of a first love, no doubt the
quarrel over the blue ribbon had been no
real misfortune to either.
The next tidings were still more surpris-
ing. Mr. Dutton was leaving the firm.
Though his father had died insolvent, and
he had had to struggle for himself in early
life, he was connected with wealthy people,
and change and death among these had
brought him a fair share of riches. An
uncle who had emigrated to Australia at the
time of the great break up had died without
other heirs, leaving him what was the more
welcome to him that Micklethwayte could
never be to him what it had been in its
golden age. He had realised enough to
enable him to be bountiful, and his part-
ing gift to St. Ambrose's would com-
plete the church; but he himself was
winding up the partnerehip, and with-
drawing his means from Greenleaf and
Co. in order to go °lit to Australia to decide
what to do with his new possessions.
Mark Egremont purchased a number of
the shares, though, to gratify the family,
the shelter of the Greenleaf veiled his
name under the "Co.," and another, al-
ready in the firm, possessed of v. business-
like appellation, gave designation to the
firm as Greenleaf, Goodenough, and Co.
Mr. Dutton's well -kept house, with the
little conservatory and the magnolia, was
judged sufficient for present needs, an the
ease was taken off his hands, so that all
was in order for the marriage of Mark and
Annaple immediately after Easter.
Ledy Delmar hed resigned herself to the
inevitable, and the wedding was to take
place at Lescombe. Nettie, whose thief
relaxation was in hearing all the pros and
cons from May and Blanche, was asked to
be one of the bridesmaids by Annaple, who
had come over to the Rectory in a droll in-
scrutable state of rniechief, declaring that
she had exasperated Janet to the verge of
insanity by declaring that she should have
little umbrellas like those in the Persian in-
scriptions on her cards, and that Mark was
to present all the briclesnudds with neat
parasols. If crinolines had nob been gone out
t'ney could all have been dressed appropriate-
ly. Now they must wear them closely furl-
ed. All this banter was hardlyliked by
May and Blanche, whose little sisters were
laughed at again for needing the assurance
that they were really to wear white and
rowan leaves and berries—the Ronniaglen
badge. Nuttie who had drawn much nearer
to May, refrained from relating this part of
the story at home, but was much disappoint-
ed when, on telling her father of the request,
she was a•ns wered at once:
"Hein 1 The 24th? You'll be in Lon-
don, and a very good thing too."
"Are we to go so soon ?"
" Yes. Didn't I tell you to take that
house in Berkshire Road from the 20th?
"1 did not think we were to start so
soon. Is there any particular reason ?"
"Yea, That Scotch girl ought to have i
known better than to ask you n your deep
mourning, I thought women made a gneat
point of such things."
"Aunt Jane did not seem to think it
wrong," mid Nuttie, for sUe really
wished much for conesent Not only
had she grown fond of Mark and An-
naple, but she had never been a bridesmaid,
and she knew that not only the Kiraldys
bat,"r. Dutton had been ievited ; she had
emni ventured an offering to lodge some of
the overflowing poets of the Rectory.
"Their heads are all turned by that pov-
erteastrithen Scotch peerage," returned Mr,
Egremont; "or the Cationese should have
Some sense of respect."
Nuttits a wishes were ao strong that she
made ono More attempt, "1 need not be a
bridesmakt They would not mind if I wore
my black."
"1 shofild, then 1" mad her father curtly.
"11 they don't understand the proprieties
of life, I do. 1 weal have you hone any-
thing to do with it If you are so set upon
gaiety , you'll have enough of weddinga at
fitter tiznes 1"
/is was the old sneering tone. Nuttie felt
partly confounded, partly indignant, and
terribly dieeppointed. She dicicare for the
eight of vhe wediing—her youthful opiate
rallied enough for that, but far more
now she grieved at missing the sight of Mr.
Dutton, when, he was goivg away, she knew
not where, and might perhaps come on pur-
pose to pee her; and it also made her sore
grieved. at lesing accused of disregard to her
mother. She was "silenoed, howevcr, and
presently her father (Mewed, in the same
unpleasant tone, "Well, if you've digested
your diamPneintment, peahaps you'll conde-
%lend to write to the agent, theft I expect the
house to be ready on the 2ist.”
• Nuttio got through her naornieg's work
she hardly knew how, though her father was
dry and fault-finding all the time. Iler eyes
were so full of tears when she was released
that she hardly saw where she was going,
and nearly ran against her aunt, who
had just walked into the hall. Mrs. Egre-
mont was too prudent a woman to let
her burst mit there, with her grievance,
but made her come into the tent -room before
she exolahned, 'He is going to take me
away to London • he won't let me go to the
wedding."
"I am sorry for you* disappaintment,"
said her aunt quietly, " but I am old.fash-
ioned enough to be glad that such strong
respect and feelingshouldbe shown for your
deer mother, I wish Annaple had spoken
to me before asking you, and I would have
felt the way."
" I'm sure it is not want of feeling,"
said Nuttie as her tears broke forth.
"I did not say ib was," returned her aunt,
"bub different generations have different
notions of the mode of showing it; and the
• present certainly errs on the side of neglect
of suoh tokens of mourning, If I did not
think that Annaple and her mother are
really uncomfortable at Lescombe, I should
•lieve told Mark that it was better taste to
wait till the au -Miner."
"If I might only have stayed at home—
even if I did not go to the wedding," sighed
Nuttie, who had only half listened to the
Canoness's wisdom.
"Since you do not go, it is much better
that you should be out of the way," said Mrs.
Egremont. "Is your father ready to see
me ?"
. So Nubtie had to submit, though she pout.
ed to herself, feeling grievouslymisjudged,
i
first as if she had been wanting n regard to
the memory of her mother, who had been so
fond of Mark, and so rejoiced in his happi-
ness ; and then that her vexation was treat-
ed as mere love of gaiety, whereas it really
was disappointment at not seeing Mr. Dat.
ton, that good, grave, preoise old friend, who i
could not Ie named n the same breath with
vanity. Moreover, she .could not help sus-
pecting that respect to her mother was
after all only it cloak to resentment against
1VIark and his marriage.
However, she bethought herself that leer
mother had often been disappointed and had
borne it cheerfully, and after having done
what Aunt Ursel would have called "griz-
zling" in her room for an hour, she wrote
her note to Miss Ruthven and endeavoured
to be as usual, feeling keenly that there was
no mother now to perceive and gratefully
commend one of her only too rare efforts
for good humour. On other grounds she
was very sorry to leave Bridgefield. May
had, in her trouble, thawed to her, and they
were becoming really affectionate and in-
timate companions, by force of propinquity
and relationship, as well as of the views
that May had imbibed from Hugh Conda-
mine. Moreover Nuttie felt her aunt's
watch over the baby a great assistance to
her own ignorance.
However the Canoness had resign-
ed to the poor little heir the per-
fect and truetworthy nurse, whom Ba-
sil had outgrown, and who consented to
the transfer on condition of having her
nursery establishment entirely apart from
she rest of the household. Her reasons were
known though unspoken, namely, that the
rejection of one or two valets highly recom-
mended had made it plain that there had
been no dislodgment of Gregorio. The strong
silent objection to him of all good female
servants was one of the points that told
much against him. Martin and the house-
keeper just endured him, and stayed on for
the present chiefly because their dear lady
had actually begged them not to desert her
daughter if they could help it, at least not
at first.
Nuttie bound over her cousins to give her
it full account of the wedding, and both of
them wrote to her. Blanche's letter record.
ed sundry scattered particulars,—as to how
well the rowan -trimmed tulle dresses looked
—how every one was packed into the car-
riages for the long drive—how there had
been it triumphal arch erected over the
Bluepost Bridge itself, anO Annaple nearly
ohoked with laughing at the appropriate.
nest—how, to her delight, a shower began,
and the procession out of the church actual-
• ly cried out for umbrellas—how papa, when
performing the ceremony, could not recol.
leet that the bride's proper name was Anna-
belle, and would dictate it as Anna -Maria,
Sir John correcting him each tim e sotto voce
—how Basil and little Hilda Delmar walked
together and "looked like a couple of Owlets,"
whieh, it was to be hoped, was to be taken
metaphorically—how dreadfully hard the
ice en the wedding -cake was, so that when
Annaple tried to cut it the knife slipped
and a little white dove flew away and hit
May, which every one said was it grand
omen that she should be the next bride
bride, while of course Annaple was perfect-
ly helpness with mirth. Every one said it
was the merriest wedding ever seen, for the
bride s only tears were those of laughter.
What Nuttun really oared for most came
just at the end, and not much of that.
"Your Mr. Dutton is just gone. He got on
famously with Hugh Candiunine, and I for-
got to tell you that he has given Mark such
a jolly present, a lovely silver coffeepot,
just the one thing they wanted, and Lady
Delmar said he didn't look near so like a
tradesman as she expeoted. I gee May is
writing too, but I don't know what you will
get out of her, as Hugh Condamine came for
the day."
',Tuttle, however, had more hopes from
May. Her letter certainly was fuller of in.
terest, if shorter.
"My man Nueria—Blanche has no doubt
told you all the extertals. I suppose there
never was a brighter wending, tor as An-
nttple keeps her mother with her, there was
no real rending asunder of ties. indeed I
almost wish her excitement did not always
show itself in laughing, for it prevents peo-
ple from understanding how much there is
in her.
(Plainly Hugh Condamine had been
rather scandalised by the " giggling Scotch
girl.")
"Dear old Lady Reninisglen was delight.,
tut If there were any team they were
here, and Lady Delmar was very cordial and
affectionate, Of course Hugh end Mr. Det
ton missed mizeh that one Would have liked
in a wedding. I drove back with them
alterwarde, and it wart very interesting to
listen to their eonvereation about; chtiroh
matters. Augh is very muoh struck with
your friend ; he had heard it good deal
about Micklethevayte beton), and say e that
ouch a lay worker is perfectly invalu-
able. It id it great' pity that he is not
going on in the firm, it would make
it so much nicer for Mark; but he says
he has duties towards hie new property.
I think he was sorry not to find you at
home, but he pleinly never thought it pos-
able you sneuld be at the wedding, I don't
knew whether I ought to tell you this, but
I think you Ought to know it. There is a
lovely new wreath of el ucheziet lilies and
maiden hair at dear Aunt Atiee's grave,
close againet the rails at the feet ; and Hugh
kin me that he looked out of hie window
very early yesterday morning and saw Mr.
Dutton standing there leaning on the rail,
with his bare head lowed between his
hands. You can't think how it impreeeed
Hugh. Ile said he Nib reverent towards
him all through that day,:and he was quite
angry with Rosalind and Adela for jesting
because, when the shower began as we were
coming out of church, Mr. Dutton rushed
up with an umbrella, being the only person
there who had one, I believe. Hugh says
you may be proud of such a friend. I wish
you could have seen Hugh,—Your affection-
ate cousin, MARGARET Eonmuosm.
(To BE CONTINUED.)
Children would rather eat bread and
honey than bread and butter. One pound
of honey will go as far as two potluck of
butter, and also has the advantage of being
far more healthy and pleasant tasted, and
always remains good, while butter soon be-
comes rancid and often produces creme in
the atomeoh, eructations, sourness and
diarrhcea. Pure honey should alwayrs be
freely used in every ..family. Honey eaten
upon wheat bread. is very beneficial to
health, The use of honey instead of sugar
in almost every kind of cooking is pleasant
for the pelate as it is healthy for the
stomach. In preparing blackberry, rasp-
berry of strawberry (shortcake, it is infinite-
ly superior. •
It xs it commonexpression that honey is a
luxury, having nothing to do with the life-
giving principle. This hi an error; honey is
food in one of its most concentrated forms.
True, it does not add so much to the growth
of muscle as does beefsteak, but it does im-
part other properties no less necessary to
health and vigorous physical and intellec-
tual action. It gives warmth to the system,
arouses nervous energy and gives vigor to
all the vital functions. To the laborer it
gives strength, to the business man mental
force, It effects are not like ordinary stimu-
lants, such as spirits, etc., but produce a
healthy action, the results of which are
pleasing and permanent—a sweet disposi-
tion and a bright intellect.
• Gipsy Shrewdness.
It is impossible not to De struck by the
originality and cleverness of the pe,nish
gipsies even in their vices. A gipsy man
was at confession one day, and wh.lst he was
confessing he spied in the pooket of the
monk's habit a silver snuff box and stole
"Father," he said immediately, al
accuse myself of having stolen a silver snuff
box."
"Then, my son, you must certainly re-
store it."
"Will you have it yourself, my father?"
"1 1 Certainly not," answered the con-
fessor.
"The fact is," proceeded the gipsy, "that
I have offered it to its owner and he has re-
fused it.
" Then. you can keep it with a good con..
science," answered the father.
The Oldest Living Monarch.
By the death of Emperor William of Ger-
many, William III., King of the Nether-
lands, will become the doyen of reigning
monarchs. He was born February, 1817,
Dom Pedro of Brazil has been the longest on
the throne, having succeeded his father, who
abdicated in April, 1831. Alfonso, King of
Spain, is the youngest of the list of rulers -
27. Y. World.
Henceforth, ib it seems? British ships of war
will, instead of returning to Bri lam every
Orel years for repairs, all go to the
western terminus of the Canada Pacific
Railway. In order to this large graving
docks, etc., will be erected larger than at
Hong Kong or Malta. In fact, Esquiinault
will become a great naval station. $o far so
well.
The movement among English agricultur-
ists against special army purchases of Cana-
dian remounts continues. A writer in the
Live Stock Journal asserts that theelife of a
government that in any way assists British
imports of Canadian horses will not be worth
a month's purchase. This is undoubtedly
highly overdrawn. Opposition agricultural
circles may induce the Government to aban-
don the advice of their military advisers, but
the Salisbury Ministry have recently shown
a desire to consider rather the best interests
of the services than the mere jealousness of
any special industry.
•A great many cures for poverty have been
suggested but somehow none of them seem
to work se all or, at least, to any great ex-
tent. Whatever may be the effective cure,
18 18 certain that sweet charity is not. To
think of curing poverty in that way would
be like a man tryingto stop the leaks in
the roof of his house by mopping up the
puddles which gather on the floor. What
are really the causes of poverty ? Who
shall say? Ignorance how to save money
is to blame in a good many oases. Beggars
are to be found in countries where a man
by working three hours a day could make
his board and clothes. They have no idea
of economy ; when they have they have,
and when they want they want, and that is
the whole of their philosophy. If the moat
of rich mon had not at one time of their
lives practised the most careful wonomy
they would never have been rich. Perhaps
it is true that there would be beggars if
$20 gold pieces were sown broadcast every
morning, and there certainly would in that
case be little or no industry, for who would
work when they could get gold for the
lifting? The sale and use of liquor are
evidently chief factors in beggar making
and, perhaps as bad as any, the great lack
of manual training. Men are cursed by not
being taeght to labour skillfully. Many
can do nothing et all and more can eo
nothing Well. Imperfect workmen in these
days of drive very naturally go to the wall
and end in beggary. Let /nen but take a
pride in their work and be bound to clo well
whatever they attempt. Let' them avoid
drinking and dreaming, let them save
all they can and lead honest, sober, self-
denying livee, and Titurei will guatantee
that it is e. thousand chanees to one against
their eve t eating the bread of dimity or
even fillinie a pauper's grave. What is the
use of railing againet those who are better
off and who, it seems, hese had a "better
chance.", Had the tithe rand energies spent
in swill Useless repinings been ehergetically
given to souse honed indt Stry, thoe Would
net have been cinch a difference in the condi-
doh �f the grumbler and those whom he
continually envies and &Wails.
MEN, DON'T 13E SELFISH.
Alone walk With Ullebende.
How often we hear the remark that good
boys grow into good sten and bad boys into
bad men. t do not suppose there is it man
living, who in hie boyhood heti any xnoral
training, that did not have the maxim pre,
seated to him in some form every day of his
lite, and did not have mom other boy point-
ed out as a shining example wlaieh he ought
to imitate in order to be good and happy.
And to it certain extent it is true that the
pattern boy becomes it pattern man, for as
the twig is bent the tree le inclined. Acorns
grow into oaks, if they grow at all, and the
down from the thistle top becomes in time
another thistle. But there are exceptions
to all rules. The acorn may become an oak,
but it very gnarled and unsightly one, and
the man who has grown from the typical
good boy may have in him qualities which
make him anything but a saint at Wine,
where it is sometimes good, pious work for
his wife to live and bear with him. . I know
of such an instance where the boy, who Wass
held up as a rule for other boys to follow,
when grown to manhood, broge the heart of
the woman he had naade his wife. Ruth-
lessly trampling upon all the tutored ties of
paternal and wedded love, he left her and
his child, without a sign that he was going,
and for many a year never lcoked upon their
faces. Intemperance was, in a measure, the
cause of this but not altogether forl under-
lying all the man's good qualities, and he
had many, was one glaring fault, a fault
that ,is otten found even in the pattern boy,
especially if he has come up alone, with no
brothers to squabble with over his knife
arid ball and string—no sisters to " take hint
down," as the saying is, and show him him-
self as others see him, demanding from him
a portion of his time toasi attention,
and teaching him that there is some
one in the world besides himself, Sel-
fishness wrecked, the life of the young
Dean whose boyhood promised so much, and
next to intemperance and Some of the more
glaring vices, it has, I think, made more
uncomfortable said unhappy homes than
any other questionable tram, of character.
The boy who has never been taught to
give up his pleasure or comfort for another's,
who has everything his own way, and who,
while seerning to submit cheerfully to what-
ever his parents think best for him, only does
so because they Arab ascertain what his
wishes are and then adopt them as their
own, seldom makes as good a husband as the
boy who fights his way through with half a
dozen or more children, giving up some•
times, and again getting his own way, but
giving up the oftener, even when justice is
on his side. Selfish men seldom become
good husbands, and when they do 18 18 after
many a hard foughtbattle in which the wife
comes off victor, and he wakes up to find
that the world was not all made for him.
And for this reason, if for no other, [approve
of early marriages, before habits have be.
COnie so fixed that only a domestic cyclone
can uproot them. I have seen a man who
stood high in the world's esteem because he
was so honorable and upright in all his deal-
ings and seemingly so kind and devoted to
his wife—a sensitive, delicate woman, with
more nerve than phyaical strength, and
more unselfishness in her little finger than
her husband had in his whole body. He
always called her wife, with it peculiar ten.
derness in the tone of his voice, for he w.as
very fond of her, but fonder of himself, to
whom she was a slave—coming and going at
his bidding, ministering to his wants, hu-
moring his whims, which were so many,
making all his wiehes paramount to her own.
The easiest cloak and warmest spot and
cosiest nook, were for him, whom sae served
as if he had been her king. If she wished
to go out in the evening, as she often did,
for she was socially inclined, and he wished
to stay at home, she staid at home' and gave
no signed her disappointment, butsmiled as
sweetly and waited upon him as carefully as
if she had no wish except to do his will.
But the brave heart failed at last, and the
husba.ncl lived to see the willing feet and tired
hands which had worn themselves out in his
ervice laid away to rest, leaving him strand-
ed and alone, and, thank heaven, he is alone
still, for no other woman has taken her
place, a•nd I trust she never will.
• A roan to be a thoroughly good husband
must be an unselfish one, exacting no more
from his wife than he is willing to render in
return, reniembering always that if be has
his cares arid worries she also has hers, and
often-times in larger proportion than his
own. At first thought it would seem that
a man bears the greatest burden, inasmuch
as the maintenance of the family usually
devolves upon him, but in many cases,
where the parties are not wealthy, the wife's
lot is the harder, and her oarea.a good deal
more wearing because of their multiplicity
and long continuance. The man leaves his
at his counting house, or cffiee, or work-
shop and goes home to his cigar and his
slippers and his evening paper, while the
woman's never ends until the last restlees
child is in bed and the last little.garment
is mended. And even then her maid is on
the next morning's breakfast, which she
superintends if she does not prepare it her-
self. Her husband knows nothing of it
until it is ready, and he swallows it rapidly
and hurries off, often without a word, or the
good -by kiss, which would keep her happy
all Otty long and lighten every duty. lien
too often omit the little tillage, which, small
as they are, naalee up the sum of a woman'a
MITI/nests. It is the little fox which spoile
the vmes, and the little sliver in the thumb
which makes one forgot all the health of the
body until the sliver is out. And it is the
little attentions and efforts to shield from
care and trouble, the kind words of sympa-
thy or commendation a,nd the tender °areas
which tell that love has not died out,and
which keep the fire upon the altar bright.
I never like to see a man leave or enter his
home without a word' of greeting or fare-
welli
for hie wife. But this s often done, al-
though were a stranger present this courteey
to him would not be omitted. Then why not
treat your wife as politely as you do a strang.
or? You are ready enough to open or shut
the oar window for the pretty girl opposite
you, while your wife beside you 'night break
her back trying to open her window before
you knew that she wanted it open. Thie
she sees and results, for she likes attention'
now as well as elle did before she was mar-
ried, and why not give it to her? And when
you go home at night arid find her jaded arid
worn, think of some way in which to help
her, instead of finding fault with your sur-
roundings and hurling harsh words at her,
if yond� not sometimes break the third coin
mandment, in your zeal to be emphatic. She
is just as tired as you are and hart worked as
many hours'alhome, battling with thelchildren
and servants, or, when there are none of the
latter, battling with the monotonous house.
workt doing the same things to.day which
she did yesterday and knows ehe will have
to do tomorrow, until It is not strange that
she becomes disheartened and titbits her
life is " one eternal grind,' like poor Man-
tihni, who, however, utsed a stronger adjee-
five than I have done. And While she has
been so busy, With scarcely a thought be
yotil. the kitnhen ana the cook stove, you
have been out into the world and heard
what it was doing and felt its pulse beating
agaioseyoUr own., and mingled evith you, 3eincf.,
and in one sense you go home much feeder
than yeur wife, to whom you can at least
give a loving word, which hid more import.
twee than yen thiuk for, You lietle dream
how hungry she gets for some sign that love
is not dead, although it may be eo crusted
oyez' with thoughtlessness and sell that ia
seldom seen. Kind words cost nothing,
and if they Were Mere frequent love and
happiness would lioger longer by the
hearthstone, where now there are bitter
repinings for the past, and hard, reeentini
feelings as the wife bears her burden alone„
uneheered, unhelped, and, as she believes?,
uncared for by her huaband.
Many J. Holmes.
Sympathy from Our Queen to Miss Gordon,
A, curious collection of letters from Gen-
eral Gordon to his sister heat been published
in Lendon. The volume is dedicated by spa
-
0151 permiesion to the Queen and also con-
tains two letters written after the Gel:mains
death to MiS8 Gordon by Her Majesty,
which express the royal views on the sub-
ject with a great deall, of plainness :—
OSBORNE, 17 Feb., 1885.
Deem 1VIess Gonnorr,
How shall I write to you, or how shall I
abtempt to express whet ./ feel I To think of
your dear, noble, heroic Brother, who served.
his Country and his Qaeen so truly, se
heroically, with self-sacrifice so edifying to,
the World, not having been rescued. That,
the proznises of support were not fulfileel—
which 180 frequently 8.nd constantly pressed
on those who asked him to go—is to me
grief inexpressibie ! Indeed, it has made me
ill My heart bleeds ler you, his Sister, who
have gone through so many arxieties on
his account, and who loved the dear Brother
as he deserved to be. You are all so good,
and trustful, and have such strong faith,
that you will be suefained even now, when
real absolute evidence of your dear Brother's
death does not exist—but 1 fear there can-
not be much doubt of it Some day [hope
so see you again, to tell yeu all I cannot ex-
press.. My daughter Beatrice, who has felt •
quite as I do, wishea me to express her
deepest sympathy with you. 1 hear so,
meny expressions of sorrow and syrnpath
from. abroad ; from my eldest daughter, the
Crown Pei case, and from my Cousin, the
King of the Belgians—the very warmest.
Would you express to your other Sisters
and your elder brother any true sympathy,
and what I do so keenly feel, the 8t0i5 left,
upon England for your dear Brother's cruel,.
though heroic, fate! Ever, Dear Mime
Gordon, Yours sincerely and sympathizingly,
• WINDSOR CASTLE, March 16, 1885.
DEAR MISS GORDON': It IS most kind and
good of you to give me this precious Bible, -4 -
and I only hope that you are not depriving
yourself and family of such a treasure, if you,
have no other. May I ask you during how
many years your dear heroic Brother had it,'
with him? I shall have a case made for it
with an inscription, and place it in the Lib-
rary here, with your letter and the touching'
extract from his last to you. I have order-
ed, as you know, a Maxie' e Bust of your dear
Brother to be olaced in the Corridor here,.
where so many Busts and Pictures of our
greatest Generals and Statesmen are, mid,
hope that you 'will see it before it is finished,
to give your opinion as to the likeness. Be.
lieve me always, yours very sincerely,
VICTORIA R. X.
*The Bible here referred to was one used'
by my Brother for many years, and was hiss
constant companion when at Gravesend
Galatz, and during his first sojourn in the
Soudan; it was then so wore out that he
gave it to me. Hearing that the Queen
would like to see it I forwarded it to Wind-
sor Castle and subsequently offered it to,
her Majesty, who was graciously pleased to
-
accept it. The Bible is now placed in the
Seuth Corrider in the private apartments,.
inclosed in an enamel and crystal case, call --
the "Sr. George Casket," where ie
open on a while satin cushion, with a mar-
ble bust of Gen. Gordon on a pedestal beside
it.
Are Good -Natured People Uninteresting?
As a general thing original pecple, people
with wins and opinions—m other words, in-
teresting people,—are not,I am inclined to
'
believe of a very easy-going temper. The
man who has a mind of his own usually
wishes to have his own way, and is therefore.
not likely to be regarded as in any conspicu.
ons degree. pleasant. • When it is said of a,
clergyman, "Oh, he is a very good mark,"'
all church. going persons at once get an ides
of very dry serinons, (For the conveying of
such a conaplioaent as this all the vowels
and consonants together are not equal to one
lefthanded inflection.) The most intereetin
character in Milton's Paradise Lost is un-
questionably the arch -fiend himself; and in
tha modern newspaper—epic poems being
long out of date—no Mass of persons, un-
less it be political candidates, out a greater
figure than the criminals. There is no doubt
et it, good nature and even a good. charm>.
ter—which things, 1 comforb myself with
hoping are not exactly the sa.me—do tend
to grow somewhat monotonous and tire-
some. Human nature is like an apple—al,
the more palatable for being a trifl 3 tart'
No husband and wife ever lived together
in greater mutual affection than did Elia,
and his cousin Bridget, concerning whom
we read nevertheless, "We agree pretty
well in our tads and habits --yet so as
'with a difference.' We are generally in
harmony, with occasional bickerings, as it
should be among near relations. Oar sym-
pathies are rather understood than ex -
premed; and once upon my, dissembling a•
tone in my voice more kind than ordinary
my cousin barab into tears and complained
that I was altered.
A little flavor of iedividualitg and self-
will is excellent fez- preventing insipidity.
Thus I theorize. And why not? If a man
is fond of his owneway, always" notional,l''
often out of sorts and never very amiable,
-
why should he not shape his theory to fib
the facts ?
All this while, however, I am eOnEloiOnS -
that I could find much to say on the other
side. There used to be a funeral hymn (it
may have gone out of vogne ere this) be-
ginning, "Sister, thou west mild and love-
ly," the word lovely " being employed r,
take it in the old-fashioned dictionary sense
of loveable, not in the new-fangled, board-
ing.eohool gene° of beautiful; and I cannot
help feeling that mildness, gentleness of
spirit, is one of the traits which most people .1
like to attribute to their friends at least
after they are dead. It would sound rather'
odd and incongruons—would it not ?—to sing
about the coffin, " Sister, thou wast iraseible
and intereeting." And even in the case of
the living, I Must confess to it preference
for an equable and obliging dispesitiont ere
pecially in a woman. I may be whimsical,
but I have never seen many who affected me
ea uncomfortably sweet -tempered.
ohs—.
The man who makee it great deal of you.
often expeots to make a good deal out of
you.
Matthew Atnold earl that the American,
funny men" are a national taiatnity,