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HomeMy WebLinkAboutClinton News-Record, 1979-04-26, Page 3An Austrian born couple, Joe and Christina Fabian celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary on April 13. The couple took time out of their work at Mr. Fabian's company, Fabian Furniture to have their picture taken. (New - Record photo) 50 years Fabians marriage lasts by Shelley McPhee Kitchener. There is a saying that opposites "He wrote me every week," Mrs. attract. This may be the case with Joe Fabian remembered, "but now he and Christina Fabian for this wouldn't." seemingly oddly matched couple have In 1929 Mrs. Fabian decided to come now been together for 50 years. to Canada as well and they were Mr. Fabian is a true businessman. At married two months later, April 13, the age of 73 he is still actively in- 1929. volved, or as •much as his health per- "I had to lay down $350, through mits, as president of his founding immigration laws for security to the company Fabian Furniture. His government," Mr. Fabian said. "If I business has been a lifetime occupation didn't marry her I would lose the and he and son Joe Jr. are determined money." to put out a quality product. Mr. Fabian "She wanted to come to Canada," in earlier days even abandoned his wife Mr. Fabian said. some nights when he was too tired from "He wanted me to," Mrs. Fabian working to go home. He'd sleep at the quickly added. office and be only seconds away to start "He bought me carnations when I again in the morning. came to Canada. Then I bought him In contrast with the robust, Mr. some and he wouldn't wear them," Fabian, his wife Christina is alragile Mrs. Fabian said. little woman, with constant cold hands "I like to look at flowers not wear and feet. them," Mr. Fabian replied, with a Unlike her husband Mrs. Fabian gets disappointing look at his wife's cor- more enjoyment out of the lighter side sage. of life. While Mr. Fabian would sooner "But I have no complaints," he be devoting his time to his work, Mrs. explained about his marriage. Fahian would rather be out in the world The reason for their 50 year meeting people. marriage, "because we're proper "I don't believe in holidays," Mr. Catholics," Mr. Fabian stressed. Fabian stated, but his wife would like It's hard to determine who the boss in to go somewhere. the marriage is. She claims he is and at "My husband's happiness is im- the same time, he claims she is. proving his equipment," Mrs. Fabian The Fabians have two sons, Joe Jr. said knowingly. of Clinton and Roy in New Hamburg "I was lonesome at home so that's along with three grandchildren. The why I worked," she remembered. family helped the couple celebrate Marriage for the Austrian born their special day with a party at their couple has been good. They listen to Clinton home last week. one another when necessary even "We got no worries now," Mrs. though on the surface they squabble Fabian said. about dates and events, and continually "I'm satisfied," Mr. Fabian added. interrupt each other. Mr. Fabian ad- "We're not rich but we get along well. mitted, "The 50 years have gone too What else would we want?" fast." Since their }beginning together the Many hours are spent at their High business has affected their lives with Street home talking about the old days. trying to establish it, losing it, moving The couple met in Austria at a dance to Toronto, Kitchener, Milton and celebrating Holy Maria Day in Sep- Clinton seven years ago. But now the tember, similar to St. Patrick's Day. couple feel more settled with their new Mr. Fabian came to Canada in 1927 to slower paced life. "I don't hustle re-establish his furniture business in anymore," Mr. Fahian noted. Blyth man honored for brave rescue Don Noble, from Blyth, an installer -repairman for Bell Canada was recently presented with a letter of commendation, signed by Bell's president Jim Thackray. The letter was given in recognition of Mr. Nobles actions in saving two children from - a burning house in Vanastra last year. In May, last year, Mr. Noble was on his way to an address in Vanastra when he saw a woman running from a house, screaming for help. Mr. Noble stopped his truck and immediately went to the woman's assistance. He discovered that the house had caught on fire as a result of overheated grease and that two children were still irisidc. Mr. Noble, a member of the volunteer fire department in Blyth, rushed into the burning home and managed to get both children out. One child was badly burred, despite Mr. • Noble's valiant rescue. He than uxlin.gui,iwd1 the lire in the home before the Clinton Fire Department arrived on the scene. His actions in saving the two children and preventing further damage by the fire were recognized in a letter of thanks from the grateful family and through the area media. The presidential commendation was presented to Mr. Noble by T.C. Girardin, Bell plant managrr and R.W. Frier, foreman at the ceremony in Clinton. into CLINTON NEWS -RECORD, THURSDAY, APRIL 26, 1979 --PAGE 3 ••vens marriage by Shelley McPhee When Karel and Hendrika Boven married on May 2, 1929 in Holland there was no turning back. "Marriage is for your whole life," Mrs. Boven carefully explained in her heavily accented English. The couple have stuck by that belief, for 50 years and 12 children later. Those years were not all easy ones, but Mrs. Boven said she'd do it all over again, despite 12 pregnancies, a big move to Canada 20 years ago and a crippling condition which Mrs. Boven has faced during her married life and now leaves her on crutches. "If I told you all our times we could write a book, but we always survived," she smiled. Neither three house fires, two started by lightning and one by a mischevious son, or having to take in German soldiers into their Holland home while trying to raise a family and face the depression years detered the Bovens. Nor did the pleas of six sons, who all wanted to farm and saw the only way they could do it was to move to Canada. It was hard coming to a strange country, with a slew of children in tow and suddenly realizing that the English lessons taken at home seemed to be useless. "We thought we could speak English very well, but we were disappointed," Mrs. Boven remembered. Now the Bovens are comfortable with Canada as their home and living in Clinton they still have some con - 1 Muck in the middle nections with the past through the Christian Reformed Church and the number of other Dutch families who have settled in the area. Yet they state that they would never go back to Holland, only to visit. Married life runs more smoothly now than it did in the past for the Bovens_ They enjoy their Isaac Street home in Clinton where Dutch is still the language spoken between them. Mr. Boven knows some English, "enough to help himself in stores," Mrs. Boven explained. Although Mr. Boven retired from a lifetime of farming six years ago he is still active with his garden and looking after the household, and although Mrs. Boven may not be able to walk she is never without a sweater to crochet or a pair of socks to knit for one of her six daughters or sons, 35 grandchildren or 2 great grandchildren. "I'm always knitting for them" she said as she quickly went through the stitches. "Without being too proud, I say I can knit pretty good," she giggled. "I've always said tt7.at I'm glad that it was my legs that went and not my hands," she said contentedly. With such a large family it's not easy to remember who's to get what knitted article. "We have to look every day at the calendar so we don't forget a bir- thday," Mrs. Boven explained. "Having so many grandchildren is not so many when you think we have 11 I've never been good at making that's another story. First I must go decisions. I was born a fence sitter. through every store I'm interested I blame my indecisive qualities op_ in to see what's available. Then I'll my astrological positioning. I'm sit down with a cold drink for a few what's called a cusp you see, on the minutes and attempt to limit my border between Gemini and Cancer. choices. By this time panic sets in, But I admit, my excuse is a little with only 15 minutes until closing weak and doesn't hold much value time I've got to move fast to buy when my indecisiveness aggravates what I want. Usually I'm not quick others. enough and come away empty - "What shoes should I wear, my handed. I guess it's easier on the spikes or my sandals, and how about wallet that way however. these earrings, do the gold ones or My indecisive nature comes into pearls look better?" I'll ask if my work as well. "Which anyone's around. If not, I'll stand in photograph do you' think is better?" front' of the mirror with one of I'll ask whoever is hand, "This one, everything on, surveying the this one or this one." situation, until my mind sways one After I've heard their reply, "You way or another. really think I should use that one It's not that I'm vain when it don't you think this one looks better comes to my appearance, I just or this one has more action in it?" can't decide. Instead of reassuring me, my A shopping trip for me takes twice advisor will inevitably walk away, as long as it would the normal leaving me still weighing the pros person. If there's only one store to and cons of all. visit I can usually make up my Still undecided, I'll turn to my mind, sooner or later, but if I`m in a favorite problem solving remedy, mall, where choices are unlimited, "Eeny, meeny, miney, moe...." During Kroehler month, we're having special sale prices onany in -stock Kroehler furniture pieces, and special prices on any Kroehler custom orders during the month of April. But hurry - sale ends Monday, April 30. "1 personally invite you to come in for our • special Kroehler month" 1111 °• HOME FURNISHINGS MI FLOOR COVERINGS CARPETING Ball & Mutch Home Furnishings 71 Albert Street, Clinton 482-os0 We offer free deliver' within a fifty mile radius cif Clintiorif married children. The average is not so great. But if I did it again I don't think I'd have 12 children. Things are dif- ferent now, families aren't so big," she admitted, but still happy with her choice. The large family with children coming from Holland to Chicago as well as a number of friends joined the Bovens for a special anniversary celebration at the White Carnation on Friday. "There had to be 90 people there in the afternoon and in the evening," Mrs. Boven said in amazement, but as with the rest of their lives together the 'Bovens seem to go for marriage in a big way. Well over 90 people came out to help Karel and Hendrika Boven of Clinton celebrate their anniversary recently. It seems that the Bovens like to do things in a big way. The large party was held at the White Carnation was given by their 12 children, 35 grandchildren and two great grandchildren along with many friends to celebrate their 50th wedding anniversary. (News -Record photo) Tanker and car collide No one was injured and a Gulf Oil tanker maintained its full load of oil in a Saturday evening accident, that could have been much more serious. The Clinton police reported that a car driven by Hartley Christie of Brucefield and a Gulf Oil tanker driven by Errol Walker of London collided at Clinton's main intersection when they both attempted to turn right into Victoria Street. Damage to the Christie vehicle was set at $G00 and $200 to the tanker. A car driven by Robert Vandenneucker, 39 of RR 4 Seaforth and a car driven by Ronald Marriott, 21 of Dublin were damaged when they collided at the in- tersection bf King Street and the Bayfield Road. An April 22 accident at Park Lane and Albert Street resulted in $1,000 in damages, to two vehicles. A car driven by William Tam, 59 of Mitchell received $800 in damages and a car driven by Gayle Gordon, 17 of RR 2, Clinton received $200 in damages when the two met at the intersection. At attempt to pass a vehicle that turned, resulted in a two car crash on April 20 on Albert Street. 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