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Shattered bottles are expensive
We'd like to pass along a reminder to Grimsby
slobs: those beer bottles you're breaking in parks
and other fun spots now are worth 10 cents each.
Brewer's Warehousing Co. Ltd. has announced
that the deposit on beer bottles increased to a dime
on Monday. Of course, the refund value is also 10
cents, and that even includes those bottles purchas-
ed before Monday.
Beer drinkers may find the extra $2.40 for a
case of 24 bottles to be a hefty tab, but it should en-
sure that more empty bottles find their way back to
the distributor.
It could also be worth somebody's while to
collect all those empties they see scattered around;
obviously, our sloppier beer drinkers prefer to
throw money away.
Actually, Brewers' Warehousing reports that
only three percent of the 2 billion bottles used in On-
tario annually are not returned. It probably only
seems that most of them are shattered in our parks
and parking lots.
Grimsby Independent
Romantic love is never enough
Perfect marriage is a figment of the excessive-
ly romantic imagination. Romantic love is good for
getting people married, but it is never in itself
enough to keep them contentedly married. Love
changes in marriage.
In some marriages the love on which they are
founded becomes flabby, and there is little else to
keep the relationship strong. Many marriages creak
and break because they have presumed on the
emotional intensity of the courtship and honeymoon
periods.
With other marriages the foundational love,
although losing some of its intensity and excite-
ment, becomes deeper and stronger. But this
happens only when it is outgoing love, not the selfish
kind. Counterfeit love seeks, primarily, self-
satisfaction at the expense of the other person.
Authentic love in marriage is basically un-
selfish, each partner thinking more of the other
than of self. The genuiness of the love between a
man and a woman is not to be judged by its ap-
parent voltage; much more important is that the
current be an alternating one.
Young men and young women need to have
their wits about them when they find themselves in
love and are looking forward to marriage. The late
Bishop James Pike once put it this way: "The dif-
ficulty with many marriages is not that people do
not get what they want in a mate, but that they get
what they want -- having wanted the wrong
things." The way of wisdom is not in downgrading
romantic love, but in recognizing that it does
change in marriage
In Bernard Kop's play, The Hamlet of Stepney
Green, Sam Levy, a wise middle-aged Jew, says
this to his son, David: "Marry a girl who shares
your interests so that, when the love of passion
cools down, the love of admiration and real
friendship flares up and compensates; and then you
have ties that can never be broken, not by
anything."
Contributed
By
ROB CHESTER
I'm afraid -I'm __going to have to get used to
apartment life.
With interest . rates the way they are, any
thought of a house in the foreseeable future will re-
main just that, a thought.
I've just moved into anapartment in an older
building in Exeter.
The apartment is quite . nice though, and it
would be even nicer if I had some furniture.
The slow and casual process I had worked out
for moving all my junk from home has taken a turn
for the worst. I had planned to selectively transport
small loads of furniture and books, etc. at the rate
of about one carload a week. There really is no
hurry to move everything at once.
At least there wasn't any real hurry. My
parents just sold our house. (Their house?)
Moving day has been advanced to June 10.
I was physically and emotionally exhausted by
moving the few items I have in the apartment
already.
I hope the new owners don't mind the oc-
casional boarder. Just because they and my
parents are in a hurry to move doesn't mean it
should upset my plans, Right? Ha!
I think one of the reasons I feel a little unsettled
right now is that I'm half way through moving I'm
neither at my parents home nor at my own home.
Many people have a den or a sewing room, or
just someplace where they can be alone and com-
fortable in familiar surroundings.
My home workshop is pretty well gutted. All the
shelves and drawers are empty and the furniture is
ready to be moved. Most of my things are either in
boxes or in transit. The front room of my apartment
is filled with unpacked boxes.
I used to like to sit in the furnace room in our
house, which I had converted into a small workshop
area. There, surrounded by my troops (the model
soldiers I collect) I could while away the hours
tinkering with some object or simply mulling over
my thoughts-
It's hard to commune with the troops when they
are all packed up in little boxes.
The obvious question is: Why don't I unpack the
boxes? That would be far too simple.
I have a bit of an opportunity to do some long
needed furniture refinishing here: This is the first
time, in who knows now many years, my
bookshelves and desk haven't been piled with books,
models, homework and dirty laundry.
I was rather surprised to realize there really
was furniture under all that. I was also surprised to
see how run-down the furniture was.
So the books will remain unpacked, in their box-
es, for a little while longer. And I'll have to do
without my niche for a little while longer.
I have a habit of putting things in specific
places, so I won't forget where they are, and
because the appointed place in my overall scheme
of organization is not yet ready. (Don't stack books
on wet paint.)
The result is a random storage area and, at this
point, very little floor space.
Living in an apartment without funiture or
shelves makes one appreciate the task of city
planners. You eventually have to build up --not
outwards.-
And
utwards.And you have to remember Murphy's first law
of apartment life: collections expand to fill the
space allotted.
And you wonder why you. haven't been invited
over yet...
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