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Times Advocate, 1998-07-15, Page 23Crediton native serving overseas Corporal Dwayne Finkbeiner ending six-month tour in 1 By Katherine Harding -A Reporter VELIKA KLADUSA, Bosnia — Eric and Thelma Finkbeiner's son is coming home. After a six-month tour in Bosnia, Canadian Forces Cpl. Dwayne Finkbeiner is returning to his native Crediton.on July 20.' Finkbeiner was one of 1,285 CF personnel deployed on Operation Palladium, the Ca- nadian Forces operation in the former Yu- goslavia. ' ' Operation Palladium is part of a larger NATO ,(North Atlantic Treaty Organization) 35,000 personnel mission called Stabilization Force (S -Force). S -Force has been operating 'since Dec. 1996 after replacing the 300,000 ,personnel implementation Force (1 -Force) that began a year earlier. - S -Force's, mandate like its predecessor's, is to preventand deter resumption of a civil war in the war-torn region plus to provide sup - •pori to international aid organizations who are attempting to help re -build the area. . Before.. Finkbeiner left for Bosnia he went through an intensive four-month training ses- sion at CFR' Petawawa which included lan- guage training•and a thorough debriefing on the historical and present -situation -of the re- gion. . The region's civil strife is not isolated to the outbreak of civil war in 1991 and can be. traced hack to hundreds of years of ethnic ten- sion. To help.the soldiers understand the con- _ flirt - they were issued the • Bosnia Country Handbook which details the history of the vol- - stile region. •- While in Bosnia, Finkbeiner has served as a - mobile support equipment operator with the Bosnia Coming home. Cpl. Finkbeiner is set to return from Bosnia on July 20. Second Service .Battalion National Support Element. - Despite -the length of the NATO operation, Finkbeiner says that the region still requires a military presence. • "It is still a volatile situation because of the refugees moving back into the area," fie said•in a phone interview with the T -A. Finkbeiner however feels that the region is • "slowly improving. -. - • "Since l've been here l've seen a lot of _change," he said. '`Jt is fulfilligg seting people starting to come back and rebuilding their lives." - While his work over in Bosnia •has kept him too busy to get homesick, he admits he has gone through "small periods of missing home.'' - "I miss .things like Taco •Bell and McDo- - nald's and seeing my friends and. girlfriend;' he said. Still no home at end of Oak St. in Lucan LUCAN - Myrna and Dave. Tal - hot are still waiting to see if their home can be built at the end of Oak St. in Lucan. The snag is who.will pay for a road that meets village standards to run past the home's 90' frontage. The quagmire didn't get cleared at last week's land division committee since neither the Talbots or -the home builders, Teresa Ondrejicka and Ron Pronchuk, were at the meeting. Ondrejicka and Pronchuk don't want to pay to build a road along the entire frontage of 'the home since the home's driveway will only be a, few feet along. the frontage and the road will empty into a field. They say there isn't planned de- velopnient past the proposed Talbot home in .the near future and they shouldn't have to pay for a road to nowhere. - The village policy is for develop- ers to pay for the construction -of a road. that meets village standards along the entire frontage or their development. Council instructed Ondrejicka to find out how much it would cost to build the road past the lot with in - A Point to Ponder by Rev. Vernon Dean Exeter Pentecostal Tabernacle it's continue the quiz from last week. Thim s one is a "arital j love" quiz and comes from a well known Christian radio 1 talk show host and author, Dr. James Dobson. 111 share my - thoughts as well. Slo kick back, and fake five minutes and. answer these five questions yourself. TRUE OR FALSE? '1 j I believe that it's better to marry the. wrong pdrson than to -remain single and lonely throughout life. J. 2)-1 believe' that'it'sr not harmful or sinful'to have sexual - intercourse before marriage if the couple has a meaningful , I relationship. - - • - ,. . 3) I Believe that -if a couple is genuinely in love, that condition is •permanent and will last a life time. - - 4) Short courtships - going togetherfor'six months or less is best: 5) .Teenagers are more capable of genuine love than are older- - people. , , ' • , - Here's my thoughts: ' . 1) i hope everyone gets this one right. FALSE. There are. literally millions -who have tried this on for size anddiscovered what a disastet can result. •` I 2) FALSE AGAIN. it rrs.both harmful and sinful to engage in • sexual intercourse before marriage: - God says it, plainly in His Word, the Bible. Of course; mankind likes to reinvent the rules. •• Thai's not new. Several thousand years ago history records, "Everyone did that which was right in their own eyes." They also paid the price. - 3) Some people get tripped up on this question.. True love must continue to be cultivated and nurtured. Just because a couple truly love each other the day they get married doesn't mean they will automatically be in love in twenty or -fifty years. Too many men are guilty of saying "i do" and then forgetting lei continue to "date" the one they have been pursuing for so long. Sorry, FALSE. • . 4) This question goes hand in hand with the first question from last week about love at first sight. Many marriage counsellors recommend at least dating for two years before getting married. That allows the couple to truly become friends. How sad to see some couples getting married only because) they are physically i compatible and have a few interests in common. They never really enjoy being best friends. Ruth Ann and I enjoy this "special friendship'' aspect of our relationship very much. FALSE, 5) Last but not least, FALSE. The sex drive in males is considered to be at its' maximum between ages sixteen and eighteen. Some misinterpret that drive as meaningful love. I like what one . speaker said to warn teenage girls of the different comments that teenage guys make to try to entice them into bed. "When he tells you how beautiful you are; when he tells you how lovely your eyes are; when he tells you that you are going to get married anyway; when he tells you he loves you and wants to make love to you look him straight in the eye and say, "You don't love me - you are in heat!' Couples getting married prior to turning twenty years of age have a higher incidence of divorce than older couples. There's' something to say about maturity in a relationship. Hope you enjoyed these points! • J put from village administrator Ron. Reymer and public works.super- intendent Doug Johnston. She solicited a quote on the work from contractor Steve Carter which.. -- lists --the entire roadwork- cost at $14.190. That number includes •$4.160 in sewer line" work that 'the village maintains the developer must pay alone since it benefits its only that lot. - There - are four options the Tat, bots and Ondrejicka and the village J will consider: • • •That the builder pays the entire cost of ,building the road -past -the frontage; - •That the builder pays half of the `costs with the kind owner on the .other side of the street pick up the other half; - •That. the builder puts' money in an in lieu account for the. roadwork if and when lots further down the street arc developed; That the road doesn't ge: built at all. The.comtnince was forced: to -de- ler the matter -till the homeowners and/or builders are available to at- tend a meeting. . ' - Give the gift of life. on August 4 " EXETER - Someone wants your blood. The Canadian Red Cross -So- ciety's London Centre Blood Ser- vice people will be in Exeter for the first summer blood clinic Aug. • 4 from 5-8:30 p.m. at South Huron District High School. London Centre Blood Service's Suzanne Barron said all blood types are needled and that the need is higher than ever. to boost the "bare minimum supply due - to many' recent accidents, thcreased . blood usage in other patients and lower collections at clinics. - ' "The Exeter clinic is the day after the Aug. I Civic .Holiday and we are hoping people will -hear our plea for blood and come out to do-, nate,", Barron said. Not only ,is blood needed for ac- cident victims and trauma and • transplant ,patients, -it is also re-' quired by cancer patients who use blood products on. a daily basis throughout their treatment. - "Blood is like a parachute;" Bar- - ron -said. ''1f it is not there when- you henyou need it, chances are you'll nev-, er need if again." . - Donors need,to bring I:D. and are, required to wait • three days (72 hours) after. a dental.visit before do- nating. . Call 1-888-669-0008 for snore -in -- formation. ' . - 'Suck & own For Ron Wilson Cathy Jacobs Fri.,July 17• �. Exeter Ag Building pante 9 to 1 p.m. Lunch :. provided. $5. pet person - .: Dance Hall : 9 p m. 1 a.m. 349-2678 one Dancers Welcome Fri., July 17 Country Justice ' Sat., July 18 Country Justice Buck & Doe; Scott (Scooter) Rundle and Karen (K.J.) Johns July 25, 9.-1 a.m. South Huron Roc Ag Building 'Tickets U. each Tines -Advocate, July 15, 1998 Page' 23 Cooke- Keys At the Chapel of Bells - in Las Vegas,. Nevada, on June 26, 1998., Shelly Cooke, the daughter of Ray andleanora Cooke of Goderich and Dave Keys, son of Mary Keys of Varna and the late John Keys. Attending the bride and groom were . Dan and Wendy Becker of Dashwood. The. couple will reside in -Exeter . Tiernan - Hartman Darryl, Carli, Brad, -Brent and Vicki happily announce the. marriage of their parents Diane Hartman and Barry. Tiernan. 'The -wedding took place on Saturday, Junee 6, 1998 with , Rev. ' Les Hohner officially. blessing the ceremo: ny. In addition to "their chil- dren, 'the attendants :were - Randy Tiernan, Janet Irwin; Linda,' Gavin, and : D.onnaz Hoffman. After honeymooning in .the Hawaiian islands of Oahu and Maui, Barry. Diane - and family are; residing in : Exeter. Many: ,thanks. to our parents,- co-workers, family and friends for the love and support which made this occasion such especial one. Forthcoming marriage - Jerry and Rose Vanbruaene of Grand Bend are pleased to • announce theforthcoming.. marriage of their -daughter,. D'anielle: Marie, to Douglas Edwin, son of Larry and Lois . Jones - of Crediton ' on Saturday, July 25 - at Immaculate Heart of Mary Church, Grand' Bend at 3:00 p.m.Open reception at 9Q0 p.m. at the Oakwood Inn Resort, Grand Bend. ' . rw Buck" Doe for Ange Gould & Dave Annen Fri., July, 17, 9 p.m. - 1 a.m. H etisall Arena ice surface Age of npajority required. Tickets provided Buck & Doe for Jodi Erb & Mark Weigand Friday, July 171 9p.m.'1a.m. Zurich Arena Tickets: $5./person Age of majority required Lunch provided BUCK and DOE 4 • Derek Beckett and Paula Wallis Fri. July 24.9 p.m. to 1 a.m. ' EXETER AGRICULTURAL BUILDING Lunch Provided • Age of Majority Required . , - Forthcoming marriage ' - Mr. and Mrs. Clayton Kooy of t;entralia and Mr. and Mrs. Harry Norris of London are pleased to announce the forthcoming marriage of their children, Bonnie Jean Kooy- to Shawn Michael Notris. The wedding is to take place at the Church of the Nazarene, London, on July 25, 1998. • ' Lamport 4 Houston DennisandMarilyn Lamport and Tom and-. Dorothy Houston are pleased to announce the marriage of their children, Teena to 'Shannon.' The' wedding took place on Saturday, June 20, 1998 at the Crediton United Church:. Matron pf Honour was Joelle Lewis.. Brideseinaids' were Karen Helps, Tara Houston, Amanda Houston- and -flower - girl was Jamie VanVliet. Best - man was Larry VanVliet and ushers were Rob Krainz, Doug Clark and Jerry. Lamport. Candlelighters were Mary Lynn Dietrich and Suzanne Bowen and Readers were Jodi Kukula, Carrie Sutherland, and Leila Buchanan. We would like to extend a special thank you for all those who helped make this such a wonderful day. Shannon and Teena Houston • 1111 IIIIIIIIHIJ111IIIi1I1111111.111I;illIJ , 1 Matson Canadian Rocks... Mid Summer Bash! ' ' at the s Dressing Room Bar, �', (Huron Pgrk) . on Sat., July 25. ' Live J3and "Mighty Dry" No cover charge Free buffet, cold beer - hot prizes 1111. 1111111 11111111 111111111111. 11 11 •