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Times -Advocate, November 29, 1989
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Special time of year
hristmas is • a special time of
year. It is a time for sharing,
and reaching out to others.
We celebrate the gift of God's Son by
giving to others.
Christmas can be the occasion not
only to give to those we know and love,
but to some whose names we will never
know. .
Without our help, not everyone will
have a Christmas that is merry and
bright: In Huron County there are single
-mothers who can't afford to make their
children's dreams come true, families
, who have nothing left over after scram-
[ tiling to pay for life's necessities," and
!little ones whose wardrobes are not ade-
quate protection against the cold of win-
ter.
We can spread the spirit of Christmas
by giving to the Huron County Christ-
mas Bureau. The Bureau makes sure
that all the children under 16 on their
list. will have new mitts and other cloth-
ing, and a present - it could be a doll, a
toy, a game, some jewellery, or any of
the other items that delight a child's
eart. In addition, the Bureau will make
The announcement that 300 stu-
dents havedropped out of
classes at Fanshawe College
certainly gives more ammunition to
those who believe teachers should not
have the right to go on strike.
Community colleges across the prov-
ince are still calculating the damage as a
direct result of the latest strike. The cost
will run in the millions as many students
will not get the opportunity to continue
pursuing the goals they brought to col-
lege in September.
Power struggles between teachers and
education officials are not nearly as im-
sure every family will have all the ingre-
dients for a bountiful Christmas dinner.
Besides, each family will take from the
Christmas Bureau in their area their se-
lections from the donated used clothing
and toys in excellent condition, and a
box of groceries to stock their cup-
boards.
All this is made possible by the good
will of the community. Citizens of Ex-
eter and area are noted for thieir gene-
rosity, and their warm response whenev-
er a- need is made known. - They will
soon get their chance to once again il-
lustrate the true spirit of Christmas.
The 1989 Christmas Bureau will be
open at the United Church from Thurs-
day, December, 7 to Monday, December
11 from 10 a.m. until 4 p.m.
You can make a difference by making
up . the difference between a sad and a
glad Christmas for some of your fellow
inhabitants of Planet Earth.
Jesus, the reason for the season, once
said "As much as ye have done it onto
the least of these, ye have done it unto
me."
Costly rights
By Yvonne Reynolds
portant as the right to getting an educa-
tion...a right that thousands of students
were cheated out of this year. The ma-
jority of students who returned to classes
will find it difficult to catch up on all trk
lessons missed during the lengthy dis-
pute. Undoubtedly a way will be found
to water down the courses to allow pass-
ing grades. Many will graduate and con-
tinue on with their lives but they'll be
leaving school with less knowledge than
they could have.
Students lives are too valuable to allow
teachers and administrators to use them
as pawns.
By Jim Beckett
Letters to the editor
Walker clarifies statements
Dear Sir:
With respect to the recent publicity and state-
ments made by myself concerning the Hensall Hotel
Tavern, I wish to make the following points clear:
1. I hold no malice towards thc Hensall Hotel Tav-
ern, its owners or management.
2. My comments recited incidents which occurred
outside of the premises of the Hensall Hotel Tav-
ern.
3. I understand that, except for the incident of Sep-
tember 9, 1989, the other incidents occurred in
the past when the present ownership of the Hen-
sall Hotel Tavern may not have owned the estab-
lishiMt;nt.
4. With respect to the incident of September 9,
1989, I described a participant as the manager of
the Hensall Hotel Tavern. This is based on my
information. If such is incorrect, I stand correct-
ed and apologize to the Hensall Hotel Tavern.
Ron Walker
Grand. Bend library
To Wayne Proctor
Re: Council Briefs
I read your write-up regarding the library.
It would appear that the way in which I explained
the matter to council created a misconception. I
apologize for this and offer a clarification.
Regardless of how the project is spearheaded there
will be shortfalls in the cashflow during the fund
raising effort while construction is underway.
This shortfall will be funded by the village prob-
ably by using certain reserve funds on a temporary
basis<
The reference to this was due to the historical
manner in which the village had dealt with the de-
velopment of the recreation property near the legion
by the Lions a few years ago.
Bear in mind that council will have to formally
accept and adopt this position and regardless what
sponsors come forward to spearhead this worth-
while project.
Thank you for the opportunity to clarify this
point.
Cordially yours,
R.M. (Bob) Sharen
Charges and convictions
To the Editor:
In regards to the news item in the November 22
issue about the 24 -year-old hit and run, the driver's
name was omitted. e
I would like to know why. When most drivers arc
charged with a minor offense their name automati-
cally appears along with the charges. This 24 -year-
old with eight charges against him broke every rule
of the book in his driving rodeo and all you print is
a hit and run suspect caught.
My question is why are some names omitted and
others are printed. As a concerned parent and resi-
dent of Exeter and 1 know I am not alone in this
complaint. I feel print all or none.
Marie Brunzlow
Editor's note: Some confusion apparently exists
between reports of those charged with offences, and
those tricd and convicted.
Unless the crime is very serious, i.e. murder or ar-
son, the name of the person charged is not released
by the police. If we are given the name, we print it.
However, this newspaper employs a court reporter
who attends all sessions of Justice of the Peace
court and Provincial court, held on Tuesdays in the
Exeter Legion. We report the names of every con-
victed person, and give details of the charges.
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wAsER FEATURES
I feel very sorry for Zsa Zsa
Gabor. I can go along with her
being sentenced to spend 72
hours in jail, and made to per-
form 120 hours of community
service after being found guilty
of slapping a policeman when
he stopped her Rolls Royce for
expired plates and found open
liquor in the glove compartment.
However, making her put her-
true'
ertrue birth date on her driver's li-
cence is cruel and unusual pun-
ishment.
My late father, bless his Irish
heart, had a sense of humor
about everything except his age.
Even my mother did not know
how old her husband was. She
was about to put the wrong fig-
ure in his obituary, until a sister-
in-law married to my father's
younger brother set her straight.
I have been accused of inherit-
ing his hang-up. My driver's li-
cence, and all other official doc-
uments are correct, but I reserve
the right to divulge the number
of years I have been on this
earth only on a need -to -know
basis.
I recall being one of 20 wom-
en gathered around a restaurant
Ageless
table one evening. A younger
woman called from the other
end of the table "Yvonne, do
you mind if I ask how old you
are?"
"I don't mind at all. I don't
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Yvonne
Reynolds
plan to answer you, but I don't
mind your asking!" I replied
sweetly.
When someone admits to
pushing 40, I say I am too - al-
beit from the other side.
I thought that I was waging a
successful war against the ravag-
es of time until I casually re-
marked once to thc sharp-witted
former business manager of the
T -A that 1 was older than I
looked.
He had a one -word reply.
"Impossible!"
I appreciated his humour. But
he also cured me of ever making
that statement again.
1' was struck another deadly
blow a few weeks ago. The
teen -aged cashier in one of the
local supermarkets asked if I
was eligible for the seniors' dis-
count. Even her "Have a good
day" didn't help. That segment
of time was ruined. It took a
good 24 hours - and a beauty
sleep - to recover my equanimi-
ty.
To add insult to injury, I came
to work a few days later to find
a cartoon on the bulletin board .
A male cashier, hand on hip is
saying to a pensive matron "It's
up to you, lady: You're either
old enough to get the 10 percent
senior citizen discount, or you're
not old enough."
I am not old enough, and won't
be for quite a few years. But
you will never know. I have
made my•husband promise that
if I shuffle off my mortal coil
before he discards his, my age
will not appear in either my
death notice or on my tomb-
stone.
I hope my epitaph will be
"Age cannot wither her, nor cus-
tom stale her infinite variety".
Homework - blessing or curse
"Alexander, do you have any
homework to do?"
"Not today."
"Duncan and Stephanie, do
you have any homework?"
"Nothing at all. Can we have a
snack?"
"You may have a snack. It's al-
ready laid out for you."
That kind of dialogue is pretty
routine when our kids come
home on the bus.
Just as predictable is what hap-
pens four hours later.
"O.K. kids, let's get ready for
bcd. Now. If you don't dawdle,
there will be time for a story or a
talk."
"Oops, I forgot, I have to an-
swer a few math questions", or
"I just remembered: I have a
French test in the morning, and I
have to study for it," or
"I can't go to bed yet, I haven't
done my spelling words, and I
have a whole lot of colouring to
do:"
Do we send them to bcd with
their homework undone,. or let
them do their homework and
miss some valuable adult -
contact time? Often we compro-
mise and say: "Get to bcd now,
we'll wake you up an hour earli-
er in the morning". After all,
they need a generous'amount of
sleep.
I can sec two Nasi or
here that need soli tlr rc
should learn how to teach thcl,
children self-discipline; and
teachers should not overload
young children (under -12) with
homework.
We're by no means without
blame. We are strict with our
kids sometimes and let them ma-
nipulate us at other times. Be-
cause we're busy or preoccupied
or not feeling up to scratch or
worried or just plain lazy. It's
hard work to fit your children
into a mould of regulated activi-
PETER'S
POINT
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Peter Hessel
ties. It's a lot easier to let them
do what they want.
But I also find fault with
teachers. Many of them are par-
ents themselves. They should re-
alize what goes on.
Our kids get up between 6:30
and 7 in the morning. They're on
the bus at a quarter to eight.
They're back home at a quarter
past four. That's an eight-hour
working day. Too long, I think.
When they come home, they're
hungry, tired, in need of a snack
and some rest. They shouldn't
have to worry about homework.
After supper, they're refreshed
and able to do some more work.
But should they have to? 1 • �
that special projects
done at home, perhaps with a
r,re help. But I don't think
'could routinely assign
'as, its thc primary and in-
liate 'rades, couldn't the
.Hwred knowledge and skills
be taught in school between 9
aIld 3:30 with an hour and a half
ofhk r breaks?
Five hours of cducati ,five
days a week, should be cn gh.
If it isn't maybe the curriculum
or the teaching methods need
changing.
Too much homework, it seems
to mc,iis an admission that class-
room teaching is inadequate. It
is a bit like executives bringing
home pile of work in the eve-
ning instead of teaming how to
economize their time at work.
Home should be for other
things. For resting, playing, re-
covering from the structure ac-
tivities of the day. Children
should .be encouraged to show
their school papers and books at
home, to discuss school topics
with their parents, brothers and
sisters, to talk freely about what
they have learned. I consider
such extra stimulation at home
extremely necessary.
Home should be for reading
and story -telling, for exploring
the outdoors, for helping with
adult chores. And many young
children participate in valuable
extra -curricular activities such
as piano practice, sports, etc.
For all that they need free
timc. Without having to worry
about homework.
Perhaps son
a lot of hc• ,tt. t 'c•at.., thtr
Want the kids to tx: k , ` . at
' car :+nd they believe that
horn( is better than watch-
ing mindless TV shows. They
may have a point, but 1 feel that
- with proper parental guidance -
a lot more can be accomplished
with little or no homework.
Homework might suit parents
who want their children to be-
come workaholics. I want mine
o become happy, well -adjusted,
creative adults with a thorough
general education, an open
mind, and good practical life
kills. I don't think that a stack
:of daily homework helps them
o achieve these goals.
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