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HomeMy WebLinkAboutTimes-Advocate, 1986-11-05, Page 36Funny Business Sy Kay Marie Porterfield laugh, you can't make it id you hear the one through." about the personnel Goodman, who has served as director and the a consultant to many businesses brokenoco — including the Sacramento machine? Do you Municipal Utility District, IBM know how many and Bell Telephone in Denver . accountants it takes to change a stresses that humor can be a light bulb? Chartres are your potent problem -solver because it answer to both questions is fosters creativity. • no "There's a big relationship There's.a reason for that. For between 'ah -ha' and 'ha-ha,' " years, the world of business has he says. "We've seen that in the been no laughing matter. The creative fields like advertising experts told us there was no and high tech. It's time the room for humor in the business community as a whole workplace except for recognized how much wit and occasionally humoring a creativity have in common. _ valuable but truculent employee. "A good joke hooks together When they wanted us to get two widely different elements; down to serious business they there's a sense of the absurd and meant it — we were supposed to surprise, the same elements be grim and bear it. involved in creative thinking. Lately, however, those stern I'm convinced humor bridges the arbiters of office decorum are gap between the right and left laughing fromThe other side of hemispheres of the brain." their faces. There's a good deal The paradox, irony and of evidence that funny business exaggeration involved in joking is good business. Used stretches our thinking power. In consciously and with grace, wit fact, according to Jacqueline can be one of the most effective Wonder and Priscilla Donovan, management tools at an authors of "Whole Brain executive's disposal. Thinking: Working From Both Mirthless management is Sides of the Brain to Achieve stress -provoking, but laughter Peak Job Performance," in order may be one of the best to fully "get" a joke our entire medicines around for reducing brain needs to be in gear. The tension, according to research left side appreciates the logic conducted by Dr. Jonathan Fry and wordplay involved, while Jr., a clinical psychiatrist and the right catches the whimsy of associate professor, of clinical subtleties and nuances. psychology at Stanford Providing "humor breaks" for University. employees during the course of Fry's research shows that a the work routine and allowing good laugh raises the pulse and — even encouraging — people blood pressure and releases to be a bit silly during adrenaline into the system. The brainstorming sessions isn't a lungs expand, and torso muscles time -waster. expand and contract. After the A good chuckle can boost the chortle is over, blood pressure quality of work. It did for and heart rates return to normal. Thomas Edison, who kept a The experience is as effective as drawer full of clippings and stationary jogging. scraps of paper covered with Fry has also found that jokes. The fact that Albert laughter triggers production of Einstein and Buckminster Fuller endorphins, the brain's natural were known for their wit isn't tranquilizers, so that pain levels sheer coincidence, either. decrease. Tension headaches Executives who incorporate a vanish, and flaring tempers are sense of humor into their soothed along with frazzled management styles find that nerves. laughter fosters good - "The release of endorphins relationships with those they can put you in a different, more direct. "The hierarchy of humor cheerful mind -set," explains goes from the top down," says Barbara Dahl, a Denver nurse Dahl, "Everybody knows who teaches humor workshops. enough to laugh at the boss's ' "After a belly -laugh, you jokes. While they're laughing, experience a natural high." they're being put at ease." Calm and happy employees The manager who doesn't take are more productive than their himself too seriously and can uptight and harried counterparts. laugh about his foibles often "People who work in an appears much more relaxed and environment where fun is allowed want to come to work," she adds. "They don't drag through the door in the morning." your employees are laughing Laughter's impact on office with you than to worry that stress is more than they're laughing at you behind confident than his pompous neighbor in the next office. It is better to encourage some gentle ribbing in the open and know psychological. When management and employees look .for humor in the pressure -filled situations they confront daily, they often find they gain enough perspective to solve problems rather than being overcome by them. "You need to look on the bright side," says Dr. Joel Goodman, founder of the Humor Prrject in Saratoga Springs, N.Y. "Often, if you can't your back. All kidding aside, humor can. be a great communication technique. It provides people with a socially acceptable way to discharge hostility and aggression and to convey criticism. According to Pat Wagner, owner of Pattern Research, a Denver information systems design firm, "Humor allows me to communicate information to clients so they'll really listen. When criticism is couched in gentle teasing, they're more prone to hear what I'm trying to say. I also poke fun at my o'rn flaws when I want to build rapport. People close their ears when they think they're being talked down to." Wagner stresses the importance Of paying attention to the humor of others. "I listen for the truth in the jokes I hear," says Wagner. 'There's often a serious message beneath the joking. People may be saying they are frustrated because they can't take part in the decision-making process or that they're upset about a company dress code. If you can attune yourself to both levels, you get a sense of what's bothering people and can start to address those issues." While laughter can serve many purposes in business, it must be used with a light touch, say the experts. Before you buy a propeller beanie and whoopie cushions for the office, ask yourself if you reall . want to become known as apoardroom buffoon. "Appropriateness is critical," advises Goodman. "Humor is a very powerful tool, and it can be misused as well as underused. "Joking can be constructive or destructive," he adds. "Sarcasm is used as a weapon. Why use lip lash when you have so many truly funny alternatives?" By the same token, humiliating practical jokes that hold the victim up to ridicule by his or her peers are no laughing matter. They can cause permanent rifts in working relationships. Scapegoating is never appropriate or funny. The best jests aren't at somebody else's expense. HOW TO HUMOR YOURSELF We all have a sense of humor although it may be buried deep inside of us. All we need to do is invite it to come out and play. Even if you trip over the punch line every time you tell a joke, you can still develop your sense of wit with the following techniques: • Try pretending you're behind a "Candid Camera" for five minutes a day, suggests Dr. Goodman. "You develop comic vision by looking for life's absurdities. When you seek out humor, you'll discover that•it starts finding you." • Spend some time with a child to rediscover your original playfulness and sense of delight with the world and its foibles. • The next time a cartoon, saying or picture tickles your funny bone, clip it out and take it to work to share with your co-workers. • Feed your sense of humor by treating yourself to a joke book a funny movie, or an evening listening to a stand-up comic. • Try starting a meeting with a funny saying that applies to ' your topic. • Encourage those around you to exercise their sense of humor by laughing and smiling. 1 it r 'r r r Visit our Food Court Located on our Lower Level Open Mon. - Wed. 9:30 a.m. - 6 p.m. Thur. - Fri. 9:30 a.m. - 9:30 p.m. Sat. 9:30 a.m. - 6 p.m. Eaion 6quare FREE PARKING - THURS. & FRI. 6 - .10 p.m. With proof of purchase from any London Eaton Sq. Merchant Downtown, King & Wellington, London