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Members of the South Huron rec cen-
tre board wrestled far some time at their
October meeting about rules and regula-
tions for groups renting the local
facilities_
A draft presented by the staff was
amended to point out that groups would
be held responsible for any vandalism
that occurs and that liquor was not to be
used on the premises =less it was an
event for which a liquor licence had been
secured_
While board members are correct in
addressing the responsibilities they ex-
pect groups to accept as part of the
agreement for use of the facilities, both
situations are covered under existing
federal and provincial lawns_
Much of the problem, particularly
related to groups having liquor illegally
at the facilities, stems from the fact peo-
ple have turned a blind eye to the prac-
tice in the past_ Even staff members
have knowingly allowed such conduct
and at one time in the old arena a dress-
ing
reaming room was often set aside for hockey
fans to enjoy some imbibing between
periods,
If board members are serious about
having liquor laws enforced, it is ap-
parent that the staff muni be advised that
any infractions are to be immediately
explicit
relayed to the police for enforcement.
The board must also decide whether
groups failing to comply will in fact have
their privileges withdrawn_ To say "may
lead to loss of privileges" is wishy-washy
at best and based on past experience,
would suggest that -, probably won't
result in such harsh action_
Vandalism, of course, is a rather
polite term for willful damage and is
covered under the Criminal Code and
again should be handled by the police so
appropriate charges can be laid and
court imposed restitution made by
anyone found guilty.
It should certainly not be inferred
that groups renting the facilities have the
option to discipline their own members
and make restitution without any police
involvement.
In the final analysis, rules and
regulations pertaining to situations
covered by the laws of the land are
redundant and often end up implying that
conduct outside those laws is expected or
will be handled in a different mamier
than they would outside the facilities.
If the board's intent is to get tough,
the users and the staff should be advis-
ed and any infractions should be handl-
ed in a manner that makes the board's
intent quite explicit.
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Serve is returned
During his tour of rain plagued
farms in the area a couple of weeks ago,
Ontario agriculture minister Jack Rid-
dell urged gruivers to make their plight
known to federal officials and to not let
the latter off the hook in providing
assistance_
The visit to the area this week by
federal agriculture minister John Wise
shows clearly that Ridden's challenge
was amply met.
In fact, Wise gave farmers more
hope to expect some assistance than did
Riddell, although the former's
statements indicated that it would take
the cooperation of both levels of govern-
ment to alleviate some of the current pro-
blems among farmers.
Obviously, now that both cabinet
ministers have seen the damage and
beard the problems being experienced,
it is imperative that they get their heads
together to formulate whatever plan of
action they feel the situation warrants.
Farmers have made it abundantly
clear that time is of the essence for some
among them and answers are quickly
needed. Wise has deftly returned the
serve to Riddel's court and the next play
is up to the latter.
A long way to go
Much has been said and written
amt the. recent meeting bet -
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some type of aetrotA poen Ilinatti
nhe• mncllear arcs race. thatt was
basically dashed
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utnideleOt:amrdl is tlhat the two) were
dn;11nnImg ronily att 15anitiimg, the tract
'IRMA been going on now for
senerrall decades, and the lack of
arses alireerernenft lie dose las rso way
placers rhe world under army
utter threat of rax rear
chritatstaltictm Mani it was prier triN
the jaunt to Reykjavik
The tardy wag the threats of
murclkasrr wag urs going to bit canna -
ed its no halve baatth aides dispose of
their current supply of such
weuarms. Eacf$ aide mrow has
enough tonn hand troy blast this
plane toudt of the. airaaretse• anal
merely calling a halt tut farther
testing and efeaelopasent toff new
atcapers is rear bv(Hy
Imre romts+err{houenrttial.
Doves it really matter if the
woad is desttmoged by the power
limn the dusting arsenal for errorrm
emit TexWity - dfeartltagred bomb that
can Ihraztrale the tla<slk a1E by ittseflf'''
!tilting rite• proliferation of
weapons its (obviously the first
step umT mitre move to arty
sentbitamtr tat wagtail peace,. bar RI
in a name that weak! Fbaret
s it4lIelhr the' sturEace.
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the bet that the twat sower prow
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are certainly not the only nations
that haws nuclear arsenals,.
alt'ii ugh the development in
some off those ether countries is
apparently even less open that it
as tan Rusana and the United
States,- Jing from recent news
reports that ilsrael has secret
underground plants where
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muacieaz' wen , a are being built.
The brea down inn Iceland
points out that it the two leaders
can't agree. on any redaction of
the acrd race', they are an altnoiest
insurmountable distance'apart in
even discussing the. usually im-
portant ismer of redwing their
respetttira to arsenals, '
Dont expect any move in that
regard audit the aura of distrust
between the east and west is
emaciated: and right now there
is no hope of that happening.
* *
if yin's are arnortg those who
hold Mt Seine' hope that the peace
aetiaista inn the world can bring
some pressure to bear on the
suer powers, then you'll be
among those rather dismayed by
what happened this week at a
wtatlid peace conference in
Copenhagen.
The fine -day congests, which
iutWnolhvts about Z',:100, peace ae-
tiiaists from all countries, started
out on an uncharacteristic note.
A fight broke out!
The skirmish erupted when a
group of demonstrators unfurled
a banner suggesting that the con-
gress was really being organized
by the KGB, the Soviet state
security police.
There are many who charge
that peace activists are actually
playing into the hands of the Rus-
sians, or are working in concert
with them to undermine the
defences of the western powers.
When the peace activists are at
odds with each other; how can we
expect the war mongers to agree
on anything?
* *
The danger of a major world
conflict does not rest with a
_uniting of the arms race and in
fact when J scuusions on that
topic are held by the super
powers it appears to add to the
tensions and mistrust between
the two.
The potential cari only be
reamed by eliminating those ten-
sions and mistrust and that is a
sizeable order evidenced in no
small way by the very fact that
the leaders of the two super
powers find it necessary to meet
on "neutral" ground rather than
taking tarnshosting dialogues in
their respective countries.
• if they could get„ together in
front of the fireplace at the White
Haase or Kern.Iin periodically for
a friendly chat it could pay some
dividends.
As long as summit talks re-
main as cold, calculating sessions
that inevitably end up with both
men berating the other's lack of
cooperation, the cold war
continues.
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GORBACHEV SMILED
WHEN I MADE PTI PROPOSAL..
UNLISS HE WAS JUST
SUPPRESSING A
LAUGH?
Everything is alright
EIizabeth is a gourmet cook.
That's not why I married her, but
it certainly didn't hurt her
chances. So with a terrific, im-
aginative cook in the family, who
needs restaurants?
Well, once in a while we do pig
out, just to be able to compare.
Also to escape the kids. Or we
may take the children with us, to
treat the whole family to "eating
out".
It is a big deal for the children
to eat at a restaurant, I'm not
talking about assembly line
feeding stations like McDowell's
(name slightly changed to pro-
tect the innocent) . I mean
establishments that serve food
made from agricultural pro-
ducts, prepared - hopefully - by a
Iive chef or the equivalent
thereof. In other words - in
Stephanie's words - "a fancy
restaurant".
Last Sunday we decided to go
to a place that isn't only fancy but
also expensive. That, of course,
does not impress Stephanie who
doesn't really understand the dif-
ference between a dime and a
dollar yet.
This fancy, expensive
restaurant was chosen because
we had never dined there before,
and someone whose name counts
around here had recommended
it. I should have followed my in-
stinct and rejected the place on
the grounds that my budget for
restaurant food had already been
exceeded. In other words, I
couldn't afford it. But as in so
many instances, my instinct was
overruled by my pride. What self-
respecting husband and father
likes to admit that he can't afford
to take his family out to dinner
once in a while? It's like being
unable to support them.
As we entered the restaurant -
which shall remain nameless to
protect me and the paper from a
libel suit - we were greeted by a
hostess whose professional smile
wilted when she counted three
young children. "Do you want
booster seats?" she asked. No
boosters necessary, we told her.
Our kids have reasonably good
table manners - especially in
restaurants, and they have learn-
ed to sit on chairs. "Are you sure
you don't want booster seats?"
"Quite sure, thank you."
The decor was early
Renaissance, with the odd Gothic
window and Romanesque pillar
thrown in for effect. Panelled
wainscoting, dark, rustic beams.
Menus that weighed half a pound,
had a table of contents, an in-
troduction, index and
bibliography.
"How strange," I said, "all the
prices are in French francs.
Twenty-four francs for a ham-
burger steak - how much is that
in Canadian dollars?" "It's not
hamburger steak, it's Hachis de
Boeuf en bordure," Elizabeth
corrected me with a degree of in-
dignation, "and it's priced in
dollars, as you very well know."
There was no children's menu,
and the waiter pretended not to
understand when we ordered
"one serving of lasagna with two
plates" for Duncan and
Stephanie. His bow tie bobbed as
he swallowed hard, but he final-
ly got it right.
I won't bore you with the
details of our meal. The food was
fairly ordinary. My potatoes
were undercooked, Elizabeth's
carrots overcooked. The soup
was lukewarm. The wine - like
everything else in the place - was
grossly overpriced. in fact, the
only thing this establishment
seemed to excel in was their pric-
ing policy. Like too many
restaurants today it offered
mediocre meals served by indif-
ferent staff at magnificent prices.
I suppose they use so much
creative energy working out•their
prices that there is nothing left
for cooking tasty meals.
Ten seconds after we had
started the main course, the
waiter came back. "Everything
alright?" I was going to tell him
to come back after we had a
chance to find out, but a sharp
pain in my right foot prevented
me from saying what was on my
mind. Elizabeth is easily embar-
rassed by what she interprets as
my sarcastic remarks. Had the
waiter come back two minutes
later, I could have informed him
about the little annoying details,
but he wasn't seen again for quite.
some time. ti
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Instead a young man dressed
like a hospital orderly came to
ask whether we wanted dessert.
He was the only staff member
who spoke to our children, in fact,
he was a very pleasant chap.
Everything went well, with the
cheesecake and the ice cream
and the coffee.
But then came the Big Wait. It
had never occurred to me before
why people who serve meals in
'restaurants are called waiters
and waitresses. It's because they
let you wait and wait and wait.
Our man with the bobbing bow
tie crossed the room a few times,
but he shielded the eye facing our
table with his hand. He looked
like a horse with one blinker on.
This continued for perhaps fifteen
minutes. I finally got up and
spoke to the so-called hostess. in-
stead of graciously apologizing,
she snapped: "We're really busy
today. It won't be long."
After another long wait - the
children were getting a bit
restless - the hostess with the
leastest must have tripped our
waiter up or something. At last he
found our table again to pre-
sent the bill. "I hope everything
was alright," he had the nerve to
say before he disappeared again.
I paid the bill to the cashier and
told Elizabeth: "i'm going back
to the table to leave a tip." I plac-
ed two dollars in the hand of the
white -clad dessert man. Then i
prominently displayed one shiny
new penny on our table.
Guiding children
In earlier columns I have
spoken out against television.
have remarked about the amount
of violence which is shown each
evening, about the distorted view
of life which the soap operas pre-
sent and the tendency in game
shows to exploit people's desire to
get something for nothing. It
would seem that there is not
much to be gained on the tube for
US.
Actually though there ale
many good programs which can
he viewed throughout the week,
ones which are informative and
useful for children or adults.
Sesame Street, Mr. Dress -up,
the Polka -Dot Door, the Friend-
ly Giant are all examples of pro-
grams which make sense to let
your little ones watch. You have
expert teachers presenting a
wealth of music, imagination and
creativity every day to them. The
Smurf cartoons are excellent
Each one has a specific moral to
it about things such as greed or
laziness.
Shows such as Highway to
Heaven, the Waltons, Little
By the
Way
by
Syd
Fletcher
House on the Prairie, and the
Walt Disney characters have all
become classics which a person
can see again and again and still
enjoy. The char eters become
almost as real trli us as our own
family. The values which their
creators try to get across are the
good ones: honesty, family
togetherness, fairness for the
common person, respect .for
other's rights.
Television has also given me
the chance to see "The Sound of
Music" at least four times and if
it were to be on tomorrow night
I'd he breaking nut the popcorn
again. it's one of those films that
grips me every time I see it.
Comedies like Rill Crosby
Show, Different Strokes, The Ar-
chie Bunker show, have all con-
tributed to a society Which is able
to laugh at its weaknesses such as
bigotry and racism. By laughing
at such things hopefully people
will learn to see it within
themselves.
Networks such as TVO present
many worthwhile nature pro-
grams as well as documentaries
on issues like conservation,
money matters and contem-
porary political news.
There is a wealth of good
material on the rectangular,
screen. it is up to us to find the
good among the bad'and guide
our children toward it.