HomeMy WebLinkAboutTimes-Advocate, 1985-05-15, Page 17Some parents are teaching their
Parents wishing to have their
children's education based on Chris-
tian values and principles are seek-
ing alternatives to the public school
system. Some have opted to counter
what they believe to be ungodly in-
fluences by removing their children
from the classroom and teaching
them at home.
Under section 22 of the education
act, a child is excused from attending
a public school if he or she is receiv-
ing satisfactory instruction at home
or elsewhere. In individual situations
involving five or fewer children,
responsibility for supervision rests
with the local board of education. The
ministry of education takes over in
cases where more than five students
4-' are being taught outside the public
system.
Currently nine families in the coun-
ty are under the supervision of the
Huron board of education. One of
these families is the Grahams at KR
S Dashwood.
Dan and Willie Grahain did not en-
roll 'their eight-year-old twin sons.
Ben and Jon, in Zurich Public School
last September. The boys were
registered instead with the Canadian
Christian Academy at Stroud. and
began working in their kitchen
classroom on lesson materials provid-
ed by Accelerated Christian Educa-
tion in Lewisville, Texas. sup-
plemented by English and science
lessons from the Rod and Staff cur-
riculum used in Old Order Mennonite
schools. The Lessons are sent to Stroud
10 be marked.
The Grahams explained that after
three years of public schooling. their
children's reading skills were very
poor, and their attention span short.
The parents also objected to rock and
roll tapes being used to supply the
music for gymnastics. and were con-
cerned about the'bad language and
other undesirable behaviour their
children were exposed to while riding
back and forth in the school bus.
"I became convinced it was my du=
ty to take charge of the' boys' educa-
tion". Graham said forcefully. Ile -
backed his statement by opening his
Bible and beginning to read at verse
six of Deuteronomy. chapter six:
"These word which i command thee
this day shall be in thine heart, and
thou shalt teach them diligently unto
thy children, and shalt talk of them
when thou sittest in thine house, and
when thou walkest by the way. and
when thou hest down. and when thou
risest up"
• By teaching their children at home,
the Grahams can provide the desired
atmosphere for their children's
scholastic and extra -curricular
activities.
Before beginning the Basic Educa-
tion at-home program. the boys were
given the California achievement test
to assess their abilities. The material
allows each child to work at his own
speed and learn at his own pace. The
course is designed to not only give
children mastery of the basic skills in
reading, writing and arithmetic, but
to 'develop strong moral character
based on the Biblical absolutes and
precepts accepted by most Christians
regardless of denomination.
A typical school day begins with
physical education. followed by
prayer. Jon and Ben keep daily jour-
nals. where the first entry each day
is a Bible verse they have chosen.
Lessons in English grammar, which
the boys agree is -their most difficult
subject. come next. while young
minds are fresh and alert. After a
AO -minute break the boys plunge into
their favourite subject. math. That
keeps theth busy until noon.
The morning's work is duscussed
during dinner. The boys are allowed
a short break before tackling spelling,
social studies and science. Part of the
children's practical knowledge, a
hands-on course in animal husbandry.
comes from helping their father with
the Graham's mule. cow. two horses
and some chickens.
Mondays are usually family tun
days, and Fridays are reserved for
field trips - to practice the art of
dickering at a sates barn, or to pick
wild grapes and bring them home to
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be turned into jetty.
The boys' progress is being
monitored by Paul Carroll.
superintendent of student services
with the Huron board of education.
who is required to visit the homes of
each family under his supervision
three times a year.
Carroll's job is three -fold: he must
confirm the presence of curriculum
and support materials in the home.
ensure the child has work and is do-
ing it. and assess growth.
Carroll said he is impressed with
the parents' sincerity, and the dedica-
tion and effort they are putting into
the task of teaching their children.
"W'e work hard not to intrude into
a family's value system", Carroll
said. "Parents have removed their
children for values or religious
reasons, and that is their right. We
live in a complex society. with the
multiplicity of values systems. The
public schools have to be generalist.
and can't take a slanted approach.
Our responsibility is to make sure the
children are getting a satisfactory
education" .
Zurich Public School principal Don
O'Brien was sorry to ldse two
students, but respects the parents'
rights to teachJon and Ben at home.
"Quite often, when parents ask
what they can do to help their
children. 1 suggest togetherness".
)'Brien said. "i tell the parents to sit
down and talk to their children, read
to them. This could be a very positive
experience as far as the Graham
family is concerned".
Jim and Theresa Brand. also of KR
3 Dashwood, withdrew their second -
youngest child, Jennifer, from
Stephen Central kindergarten in
December. Mrs. Brand said she and
her husband had been displeased for
several years with "what was going
on", but didn't realize until recently
that parents could take their children
out of the public system.
"We are to teach our children at all
times. but we can't do it in our own
strength; it's a step of faith", Mrs.
Brand explained.
As Christians, the Brands are op-
posed to the promotion of pagan
celebrations like Hallowe'en, don't
approve of Santa Claus stealing
Christ from Christmas and did not
like some of the plays staged by the
school.
Stephen Central principal Don
F'inkbeiner outlined what he believes
is the school's responsibility: We are
looking after your children. We are in
the care of the curriculum and teaching
methods. If you as parents want
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children at home
something added orchanged,you are
encouraged to conte and see it
together we can work out a suitable
solution.
Finkbeiner said parents are inform-
ed by newsletter ahead of time of :ill
dramatics. theatre arts and other per-
formances at Stephen Central, and he
is pleased when parents are in-
terested enough in what is going on to
ask for more information. Parents
may have their children excused
from active of passive participation
in these special events.
Finkbeiner agrees the parents who
have taken their children out of school
truly want what is best for those
children. "1 -would hope the parents
are making all the right decisions",
Finkbeiner said.
That is also Carroll's concern. The
superintendent said he has cautioned
all the parents that there's is no way
to accumulate credits if a child wishes
to return to the public school system.
Secondary school certification
recognized by accredited universities
would also be difficult to obtain.
This does not worry either the
Brands or the Grahams. Both
families intend to educate their
children privately to the grade 12
level. After that, "Our children will
not be going to a secular university.
That would defeat our purpose", Mrs.
Brand said.
When asked. both Jon and Ben
Graham said they preferred -being
taught at home. According to their
parents. neither child has ever in
dicated at any time- in the past six
months that he wished to return to his
former school.
Teaching their children at home
has been a learning experience for
both generation of Grahams.
When you pull your children out of
school. you learn a lot about your
children", said Dan, who was the boys
main teacher at first.
Willie now has most of the respon-
sibility for guiding her sons through
their daily lessons. "The parents have
to be discipli.led, too". she noted, ad-
mitting "there are days when it
doesn't work."
Despite the difficulties,. Willie can
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Willie Graham supervises the school work of twin sons Ben and Jon.
say. "It is not an easy task. but very
rewarding. Our children have never
been happier".
The home classroom concept is
spreading. Three weeks ago the
Grahams and Brands were among 80
families attending a seminar on hone
education held at the Baptist Bible
College in London. Old Order Men-
nonites, Closed and Open Brethren,
United Church members, Pente-
costals and Baptists all participated.
More recently. families represen-
ting 54 children and addresses from
Iluron Park to Clinton met at a home
prayer meeting. Those who are
already teaching their children at
home shared their experiences with
others who are contemplating similar
action.
"We talked to people who are get-
ting along fabulously", Theresa
Brand reported.
No money for
Vanastra PS
The Huron County board of educa-
tion has received some capital.money
from the ministry ot-education, but
nothing for Vanastra public school.
The director of education, Bob
Allan. told the May 1 meeting of
trustees they had received approval
to purchase four school buses and one
van for handicapped students.
Also in the capital money is a com-
mitment for $326,000 to replace rooft
at four elementary schools and $70,000
for renovations to the heating system
al F.E. Madill secondary school in
Wingham. Allan said this money will
come next year, but the work may be
done towards the end of this year.
"Of course this means he doesn't
know what Vanastra's future will be.
The board approved putting $105,000
in its 1985 budget for Vanastra, but
Allan said that now the ministry has
denied funding for this year, he will
he bringing the matter hack to the
board.
The school board originally had just
over $600,000 -in its 1985 budget ear-
marked for capital renovations.
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