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HomeMy WebLinkAboutTimes-Advocate, 1983-05-18, Page 8Page 8 Times -Advocate, May 18, 1983 Definition of family It's next week already. Remember last week when you said next week you would spend more time with your family. Because of our busy daily schedules, we may not take enough time to reflect on just how much our family means to us. While the definition of "family" - mother, father and two children - has changed over the years, the impor- tance of its role to the healthy development of individuals and the community as a whole has not altered. Today the term family may refer to the relationship that exists between a man and wife or a married couple and their inlaws, the bond senior family members feel for their grandchildren, or the bond the extends the family through generations or the in- teraction between the step children of second marriages or between parents or a single parent and their children. Whatever the relationship. a family needs constant atten- tion to help grow strong so that it may enrich the lives of all members. One way for family members to strengthen their ties is through the sharing of time. "Invest time in your fami- ly," is the message during Family Urity Month. This celebration of the family is the perfect opportunity to replace good intentions with a good plan of action. A designated Family Time held once a week could well be what you have been seeking Cash In Your Valuable During Exeter's Moonlight Madness Extra Savings up to 90.00 off our already low sale prices on 25 popular items Your G -Notes are enclosed with this week's paper. Prices effective May 19 - June 4 GUARDIAN DRUGS Exeter Pharmacy Ltd • Main Street 235-1570 May is Family Unity Month may change, but not its role to bring greater happiness, fulfillment, security and satisfaction to your family. Family time might be an ac- tivity day or evening planned once a week for the entire family. Consider the following: Family athletic events (swimming. 'ishing, softball, hiking, 'camping, jogging, cycling, etc. ) Family excursions (museums, craft fairs, art ex- hibits, parks, etc. ) Hobby time (work on a Family Tree, a stamp collec- tion, a painting, a model building project, etc.( Family service projects (gardening, building a patio, sundeck, tree house, etc.) These activities are all fun things to do which can bring FORTHCOMING MARRIAGE — Mr. and Mrs. Howard Cunnington, RR 3 Exeter are pleased to announce the forthcoming marriage of their daughter Joyce Diane to Frank Joseph, son of Mr. and Mrs. Harry Maas, Exeter. The wedding will take place Saturday, May 28, 1983 at 4:00 p.m.) at Thames Road United Church, RR 3 Exeter, Ontario. Open reception to follow in Kirkton. Everyone welcome. Photo by Terry Schwartzentruber. Must work together says Institute guest "We must work together if we are to accomplish our ob- jectives" says Mrs. Harvey Noblitt of Ottawa, the Presi- dent of the Federated Women's Institute of Canada, SAVE during Moonlight Madness and our See our flyer for details Directors Chairs $349s Timing Lights Reg. $47.95 $3195 Now Sanyo Rechargeable Shaver $4495 Deluxe Smoker Wagon BBQ Peg. $84.95 $5495 5 Pure Air 99, By Pollenex Air Cleaner 299 $7 ■ Metal Dual Cassette Deck Spe Reg. S219.95 $,15995 Turbo -fire Fender Covers $495 Imperial measure Paint Reduced To make room for metric size Plus many more unadvertised specials Open this Thursday 9 - 9 a [RnpoIRn TIRE (flflflDIRfl TIRE 1155'0t:tri fE 5Y111`RE Exeter 235-0160 444 Main St. Open 9.6 Doily - - 9-9 Friday Exeter, Only when she addressed over 500 women's Institute delegates at the 35th Annual Officers Conference at Waterloo University. In her official visit to On- tario she was stressing the importance of good resolu- tions. They must be current, well researched, facts and concerns for all of society. "Past resolutions have made changes, but itive action must be tak; on pensions, pornography, and human rights" she said. "Invest your time in your family as it is the most impor- tant social Institution" said the Hon. Dennis Timbrell, Minister of Agriculture and Food when speaking at the opening session. Ile reminded the delegates that May is "Family Unity Month." Tim- brell praised the members for their tireless efforts in better- ing family life for everyone. In 1984 Ontario will 'be celebrating their bicentennial and he asked the Women to participate in local celebrations. The delegates having come from all parts of the Province for this three day learning ex- perience attended workshops with resolutions and a better knowledge of the organization being the objective. Mrs. Keith lliepleh presi- dent of the Federated Women's Institute of Ontario chaired the sessions and ,spoke on the theme "Ap- proach each tomorrow with the knowledge you gained to- day" and thus become better informed individuals moving forward and looking to new programs. Ken Knox, Director of floral Organizations and Ser- vices Branch of OMAF, was capably assisted by Joyce Canning and Peter Fleming of the Branch, 'n presenting future projects and programs that will help meet the needs and problems in rural On- tario. Meetings, studies and workshops had been held in co-operation with the Women's Institutes and other rural organizations, in order to further this project. Knox urged the members to chart a new course with fresh ideas. Ile said "As we change We take on new opportunities and have a new outlook." Joyce Canning, as cai- ordinator likened the Women's Institute to a farmer who sows good seed on fertile ground, nurtured „ the seed and reaped the harvest. .Ioyce said "the Women must have new pro- grams and enlarged on the , suggested . topics and resources for their use." t The plenary session led by Mrs. C. Diamond and her leaders enthusiastically pro- vided information not only for effective resolutions but a broader knowledge of the Women's Institute with its 'projects . and ac- complishments. The delegates are now better eduipped to lead in their bran- ches and in their communities. about closer family ties. Another way to strengthen the family unit is through the communication of thoughts and opinions related to fami- ly matters. Setti :g up a Family Coun- cil is a unique way of dealing with family business in a democratic manner. For parents, a Family Council gives them the opportunity to get closer to their children, to listen to their problems and aspirations and to give them the personal direction so vital to their development. The purpose of a Family Council is to work out family problems and meet family needs. To meet that purpose two rules should be observed: I. Each suggestion should be an honest attempt to solve a problem. 2. No one should fear ridicule or criticism for snak- ing suggestions directed at solving a problem. In planning a Family Coun- cil, time should be put aside on a regular basis when it is convenient for all family members to meet for a discussion period. It is helpful to have a different chairper- son at each Council meeting with everyone being allowed to put something on the agen- da. Suggested topics might be: assignment of household responsibilities,. scheduling and . financing of extracur- ricular activities, plans for the family vacation or pro- blems which individual members wish to share with the family. In order for a Family Coun- cil to be truly meaningful it is important to keep the at- mosphere warm, positive, en- couraging and loving. This time together should promote discussion, conversation and participation of all family members. Parents should be mindful that they don't dominate the conversation. Everyone should be allowed a turn to lead the discussion. For a successful Family Council consider these guidelines: Be well prepared. Plan ahead what topics the family would like to have put on the agenda for discussion. Treat each family member with love and respect regardless of his or her age. Children should be allowed to express their feelings without fear of being rebuked. Use the time to review and note individual successes. Give praise where earned. After each )'amity Council, the family should discuss its success and plan how the next one could be improved. The Family Council pro- vides a time for a family to make plans together, a time for goal setting and most of all a time for family members to strengthen their relationships through the communication of ideas and thoughts. The Family Council experience encourages responsibility and is a constant reminder of how very valuable each person is to the family. PROVINCIAL WINNER — Huron Home Economist Jane Muegge presents a Provincial Honours certificate to Dionne Boersma of Hurondale at Mondays 4-H Achieve- ment Night held at Crediton. T -A photo. Moonlight Madness Special 20% Off grapes Brought in For cleaning to our Exeter location only Thursday Only 9 a.m. - 6 p.m. IMAGE A Division 'of Grand Bend Cleaners CALL TOLL FREE 1-800-265-7050 BRANCHES: Exeter 235-0360 Mitchell 348-9422 Strathroy 245-4991 Grand Bend 238-8481 "Itt "eti°1 so,*00 Ott