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March is Epilepsy Awareness
Month, and for Brian and Sandra
Melady, of Seaforth, , the month has
taken on an all new meaning.
The couple's three-year-old son
Connor was diagnosed with epilepsy
in the fall of 2005.
His first seizure, which Brian says
lasted about one minute, happened
at the Melady's house in the living
room back in August.
"It was the most traumatic. We
didn't know what was happening so
we called 911. It was very scary,"
recalls Brian.
It was the first of three tonic-
clonic seizures Connor would have
so far.
Tonic-clonic seizures are very com-
mon among children and adults
with epilepsy.
The seizures happen when there is
unusual electrical activity in the
brain.
When they occur muscles stiffen
up and the person loses conscious-
ness. Their arms and legs will begin
to jerk rapidly, bending and relax-
ing. After a few minutes, the jerking
slows and stops.
Consciousness returns slowly, and
the person may be drowsy, confused,
agitated, or depressed.
Following Connor's first seizure,
he remained unconscious for about
an hour.
A seizure is not totally uncommon
for children, especially if they've
bumped their head, or if they have a
fever.
So, it wasn't until after Connor's
second seizure, which came while
the family was at the beach, that
the Meladys had a CT scan and
MRI performed on their son.
The tests showed Connor had
nothing wrong with him.
In fact, epilepsy is a very difficult
disorder to diagnose.
"They say 60 to 70 per cent goes
unexplained," says Brian.
It wasn't until after doctors per-
formed an electroencephalogram, or
EEG test, which looks for abnormal
brain activity, that Connor diag-
nosed.
Through all the tests, Connorhas
been in excellent spirit, says
Sandra, especially when the EEG
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"They probably put 60 to 80 elec-
trodes on his head. He had to lie
still for about 20 minutes. We just
read a book together and he stayed
still,” she says, adding that he was
just as cooperative with the CT
scan.
One reason Connor has been so
cooperative is that he doesn't know
With three other children, two of
which have witnessed Connor hav-
ing a seizure, they wanted to make
sure they knew what to do if a
seizure occurs.
They've also talked with grand-
parents, aunts and uncles and
babysitters.
It was at Brian's parents' house in
October, when Connor had his third
Sandra, Connor and Brian Melady
he has the disorder.
When he awakens after a seizure,
it's like he's just been asleep, says
Brian.
"We've tried not to act too scared
when he comes to," he adds.
And, the Meladys have done their
best to not limit their son's child-
hood.
"After the first one (seizure) I was
very protective. Gradually you go
back to normal," says Sandra.
But, they do have to be careful
and attentive at certain times, says
Brian, such as when he goes swim-
ming, is at the top of the stairs or
on a playground.
"It's when you can't be there every
minute you worry," says Brian.
The Meladys have also done their
best in educating their family.
seizure.
lb better educate themselves, the
Meladys have used the services
available through Epilepsy Huron -
Perth -Bruce, whose office is located
in Clinton.
They first contacted the organiza-
tion for some reading material, but
since, have used their services for
much more.
ey have been very helpful
sending us to doctors, telling us
things we should know before we go,
and what sorts of things to ask,"
says Sandra.
Epilepsy Huron -Perth -Bruce also
offers in-house support for those
with epilepsy and counselling,
according to the education coordina-
tor for Epilepsy Ontario Judie
Burns.
"Our job is to educate people that
they're (people with epilepsy) are
just like you and me," she says.
One of the ways they do this is by
going into schools, and businesses,
and discussing the disorder, and
teaching first aid training for
seizures.
"If there is a child in a school we'll
often educate the entire school," she
says.
One of these presentations was
done this year at St. James in
Seaforth, where Connor will begin
attending next year.
So far, =Burns says they've educat-
ed over 1,200 students.
September will be a stressful time_
for the Meladys.
"It's a big enough obstacle meeting
kids who aren't critical, but then
this," she says.
Misconceptions that effect those
with epilepsy include the belief
epilepsy` is a disease, it is conta-
gious, or that epilepsy causes vio-
lent behavior and leads to criminal
activity.
"A lot of people generalize and see
people convulsing and people that
have not been educated think
they're making it up," says Burns.
The Meladys are currently waiting
to see a neurologist that specializes
in epilepsy.
They will be discussing the possi-
bility of putting Connor on medica-
tion, which would help control the
seizures.
Sandra says she has not spent
much time thinking about the diffi-
culties Connor could face in the
future.
While there is no cure for epilepsy,
in some cases, it can just go away.
"He could grow out of it, or he
could have it for life," says Brian.
"We're obviously hopeful."
To commemorate March being
Epilepsy Awareness Month, laven-
der bracelets are available at 11
locations in Seaforth.
At a cost of $3, the money will all
stay in the local community to help
support Epilepsy Huron -Perth -
Bruce's services.
If you are interested in purchasing
a bracelet you can contact Brian
Melady at 527-1229.