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HomeMy WebLinkAboutHuron Expositor, 2005-12-07, Page 10Page 10 December 10, 2005 • The Huron Expositor News Former drug and alcohol abuser speaks to St. Anne's students Cheryl Heath 4.11111.11. It was Sept. 23, 1999 when Paul Christie took a long, hard look in the mirror. The veteran drug and alcohol abuser saw something cold and evil staring back. "I saw a monster," he says. That vision proved to be his salva- tion. Christie, who is now a single par- ent, motivational speaker and busi- ness owner in the Niagara Region, came out to St. Anne's Catholic Secondary School Thursday after- noon to share how he turned his life upside down and was better for it. But the changes were nearly 30 years in the making. "I'm ashamed of my past," he says. "I have to live with things that many people can't imagine." Christie, the youngest of eight children who acknowledges coming from warm, loving parents, began his first foray into the world of drugs in Grade 7 when he lit up his first joint. His transformation from a straight A student into a youth who was forced to repeat the year was almost immediate as his grades quickly dropped to Fs. By Grade 8, Christie's substance abuse problem had burgeoned to include alcohol. It then grew to the point that in Grade 9 Christie's escalating sub- stance abuse addiction made national news when he and two accomplices accidentally burned down two multi-million dollar . homes while searching for more alcohol. Eventually that crime led to a three -and -a -half year term in a psy- chiatric facility, which was later commuted to the Guelph reformato- ry. It was in jail that Christie's sub- stance abuse problem, which had grown to include cocaine and hero- ine injection, took an even firmer hold. years' time. In the interim, he dined on dumpster food, lived on the streets and hit his parents up for money as much as possible. "I'd just become an animal on the streets," says Christie, adding that eventually, he managed to get him- self arrested for impaired driving eight times in one month. Cheryl Heath photo Former drug and alcohol abuser Paul Christie speaks to students inside the St. Anne's Catholic Secondary School gymnasium Thursday afternoon. "They had just as many drugs in there," he says, noting he was regu- larly shooting cocaine and heroin. When he was released from jail, he began robbing people and busi- nesses to feed his drug habit. "I'm robbing everybody and every- thing," he says. Once a judge told him the Kingston penitentiary would be his next home, Christie fled to the United States and met with his father in Buffalo. His dad gave him $3,000 and a bus ticket to California. The money weighed heavily on his mind because, "I know I got this lit- tle devil on my shoulder called addiction." Christie arrived in San Diego and spent every dime of his largesse on drugs the first day. 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Six months into the relationship, however, she found him shooting up in the basement. She moved out two hours later. Though Christie continued to see his son every other weekend, his drug abuse escalated until he became so despondent that he planned to kill himself. But he first wanted to give his son a topnotch Christmas to remember his old man by. SEAFORTH 527-0120 EXETER 235-2121' www.teamvincsnt.com Christie collected Christmas pre- sents and persuaded his ex-girl- friend to allow him to have his son for a few days at Christmas. Then, on Christmas Day, Christie's dealer came by and left him some cocaine. "I knew Christmas was off," says Christie, who proceeded to get high and ignore his son's pleading phone calls for the next four days. That following January, Christie was broke and `jonesing' for crack. The drug dealer offered up $100 worth in exchange for some time with Christie's girlfriend who he had taken in off the streets six months before. She killed herself three days later and shortly after that, Christie received her suicide note in the mail. Christie's decided he, too, would end his life but the attempt failed when his belt strap broke. "Typical crack head. I can't even kill myself right," jokes Christie. He then decided it was a sign from God — to keep partying. Then, in the fall of 1999, Christie saw his real self. And it terrified him. He entered detox for five days and then a rehabilitation centre for nine months. He has not had a drop of alcohol to drink or a drug since. "Every single school I go to, I save someone's life," he says. Christie urges parents and stu- dents in need of advice or coun- selling to contact him through his web site www.gloryclouds.com He pledges to answer every e-mail that seeks a response. During a question -and -answer session that proved livelier than most, students peppered Christie with questions ranging from enabling to guilt to pains. 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