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Huron Expositor, 2004-08-04, Page 6S. THE HURON EXPOSITOR, Aug. 4 You're never too old for a healthy, vibrant sex life As we age, what does sex make you think about'? About being older, losing interest and leaving sex behind; or, about a vital, vibrant sexuality experienced by millions of older adults. Aging is often about rediscovering ourselves. Age brings changes in outlook and environment, with a new focus at each stage of life. What doesn't change is the need for emotional and FREE DELIVERY Prescriptions, Home Health Care & More! KEATINGS Guardian Pharmacy 67 Main St., Seaforth 527-1990 PHARM ASSIST YOUR HOME HEALTHCARE CENTRE Walkers, Wheelchairs, Seating, Lift Out Chairs, Portable Lifts, Scooters, Bathroom Aids and more... 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Society often equates sexuality with youth, but the fact is that vitality. sensuality, and the urge to love and be loved are timeless and ageless. In fact, once children leave home a couple may rediscover their sexual relationship because they now have the time to make it a priority. Bodies change with age, but anyone can live with passion — and if practice makes perfect, seniors should he the best lovers around. Sexual desire evolves as we age, and we express it differently at different stages of our lives. Even if sexual intercourse is not possible, touching, hugging and hand- holding provide essential human contact and emotional intimacy. In a survey by the United States National Council on Aging. they found that an active sex life appears to be a normal part of aging; as normal as retiring and having grandchildren. It is not surprising that for many, their sexual pattern may change, but the survey found that sex was at least as emotionally satisfying now, as it was in their 40s. Even with a willing and able partner, many people notice that aging brings changes in sexual response. The changes occur gradually and are part of normal aging: it may take longer to become aroused, you may not have as much stamina, and you time to reach the of satisfaction enjoyed. Fortunately, most age- related sexual changes can be addressed through open discussion between partners and creative ideas about fulfilling each other's desires. Many people at any age are embarrassed about discussing sexual issues with either their partner or their doctor, but it's a good idea to talk to someone as soon as you feel that there is a problem. The earlier you take action, the sooner the issue can be identified and resolved. It's OK to feel embarrassed, but remember you are not alone. Sometimes it helps if you are prepared for your visit to the doctor's office. To make your visit go need more same level you once more smoothly try following these six steps: 1. Before the appointment, think about what you would like to discuss. Start with issues that most concern you. Write a list and take it with you. 2. Be clear and specific when describing symptoms. Describe the most bothersome first. 3. If you think the doctor doesn't understand what you are saying, be persistent. 4. If you don't understand something the doctor says, ask the doctor to explain it until you do understand. 5. If the doctor prescribes a medication, ask questions about it. How does it work? What are the side effects? How long do I take it? Does it interact with any other pills I'm taking? 6. Take notes on the information the doctor tells you, so you can review it later. Ask when is a good time to call the doctor if you have any other- questions or concerns. It is helpful.for the doctor to haveall relevant information to provide you with the best care. With your doctor's help and the right treatment, healthy sexuality is a fact of life you are never too old to experience. Finding sexual fulfillment later in life is not only a realistic goal, but also, it's a very healthy and positive one. Young love is a gift from the earth. Late love is a gift from heaven — Turkish Proverb by Shirley Chalmers,. Huron County Public Health Nurse Seaforth Manor residents enjoying barbecued suppers on the patio July brought us a lot of summer weather and a lot of activity in the Seaforth Manor. Seaforth Manor Nursing Home We enjoyed our Canada Day party on our patio, with Gladys Van Egmond and her hand. Due to some rainy weather we changed our picnic in Stratford to a day away at the King's Buffet and it was good. Alice Stiles thinks this is definitely a trip we will make again. Once again we have enjoyed going to our friendly diners program in Blyth. Clinton. Brussels and Seaforth. This is a chance for our residents to see their old friends from their community. Marg Nesbit always enjoys going to Blyth. We are very fortunate to have a lovely patio that everyone can enjoy barbecues, entertainment. visiting with families, going for walks or even just to sit outside in this nice weather. Esther Kelly enjoys sitting out on our patio daily. Our residents have really enjoyed the barbecues on the patio every Thursday as well. Fresh off the grill. hamburgers and hotdogs are always a treat. We introduced our new monthly Diners Club this month. We enjoyed steak, baked potatoes and veggies on the barbecue. The second Tuesday evening of the month, we are holding a dinner, with seniors from the community that wish to come and have dinner and hear entertainment afterwards. The Western Entertainers were here on July 7. Our residents always enjoy their music. Alice Knight enjoys their music every time they come. We look forward to having them come again on Aug. 17. We would like to welcome Jean Lorondeau to our Retirement Home. We are happy to have you as part of our big family. Also, a big happy belated birthday to her as well, on July 29, 1924. We introduced Spa Day on July 20. Residents enjoyed having their feet soaked, massaged and their hands and manicures done as well. Ida Diehl enjoyed this so much she can hardly wait until next time. We took a trip to Bayfield on July 27. We loaded up on the bus and took off to the restaurant for lunch. Hazel McNaughton enjoyed her fish and chips and her ice cream afterwards. • by Charlene Foxton Retirement Home Director Queensway residents do mental aerobics Fun and Fitness started the week off for residents of Queensway Nursing and Retirement Home in Hensall as they were put through their paces in the sunroom. itney-Ribey Funera' omei A Family Owned Business Since 1975 a87 Goderich St. W., Seaforth 527-1390 Ross W. Ribey - Funeral Director www.whitneyribeyfuneralhome.com nt for: STRATFORD MEM( Queensway Nursing Home Mental aerobics followed the physical workout as everyone joined in for quiz and word games. In the afternoon Kippen United Church women provided assistance and prizes at bingo. Eight residents gathered around the family dining room table Tuesday morning for breakfast group. They dined on fried eggs, sausage. toast, fruit and piping hot coffee, tea or juice. The congenial group enjoyed lingering over breakfast while discussing various items in the news. Les Hills of Hensall United Church, as pastor in training led worship Tuesday afternoon with i3elva Fuss as volunteer pianist. Paula Townsend and Popcorn, her St. John's Therapy Dog paid their weekly visit Wednesday morning to all the Queensway dog lovers. Seaforth Diners attract Go. people for summer picnic Sixty Seaforth area residents attended the July Seaforth Diners 15 Diners at the Seaforth Arena for out Summer Fun Picnic/Canada Day Celebration. We enjoyed a wonderful picnic meal without the bugs. Karen Dalgleish, Summer Student with Town and Country Support Services visited and helped Dinars to update their emergency information. We also were honoured to have Master Daniel Steepe and Melissa clog for us. Door prize winners were Nancy Henderson, Hazel McCartney, Hazel McGonigle, Rika Van Bakel, Dorothy Papple and Helen McKenzie. Share the Wealth winners were Laura Eggert, Marion Becker, Joyce Wallace and Dorothy Papple. Our next program at the Seaforth Arena is on Thursday, Aug. 19 at noon with homemade meatloaf meal and a musical program ‘ivith visitors from the Goderich area.