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HomeMy WebLinkAboutThe Exeter Advocate, 1894-7-19, Page 7r ILLL SOLICITUDE. REV.• DR. TALIVIAGE DISCOURSES ON THE RUSTIC IN THE PALACE. 11 4 Lesson for AM children in the manner Which, Joseph meeeeved mis rather, Jaeob—em Not Ashamed of Tour woor Meleaves. Boocinemes, July 8, --Rem Dr. Talmage, Who is now nearing the Antipodes, on his round -the -world eourney, has selected us the subject to his sermon through the Dress today, "The Rustic in the Palean' the text beiug takea frone Gen. 45.28, "I will .go and see him before I die." Jacob had long since passed the hundred year mile stone. In those timee people were distinguished for longevity. In the centuries afterward persons lived to great age. Galen, the most celebrated physician 'in his time, took 80 little of his own medi- eine that he lived to one hundred and ." forty years, A man of undoubted vera- city on the witnesmstand in England swore that he remembered an event one hundred and fifty years before. Lord Bacon speaks of a conutess who heel cut three sets of teeth, Lind died ab one hundred and forty years. Joseph Crete, of Pennsylvania, lived one hundred and forty years. In 1857 a book was printed coutaiuing the names of thirty-sevea persons who lived one hundred and fomy years, and the names of eleven persons who lived one hundred and fifty years. Among the grand old people of whom we have record was Jacob, the shephed of the tea. But he had a bad lot of boys. They were jealous and ambitious, and every way unprincipled. Joseph, however, seemed to be an exception. But he had been gone many years, and the probability was that he was dead. As sometimes now in a •house you will find kept at the table a va- cant chair, a plate, a knife, a fork, for lama deceased member of the family, so Jacob kept in his heart a place for hisbe. loved Joseph. There sits the old man, the flock of one hundred and folly years in their flight having alighted long enough to leave the marks of their claw on forehead, and oheek, and temple. His long beard enows down over his chest. His eyes are somewhat dim, and he can see farther when they are closed. than when they are open, for he men see clear back into the time when beautiful Raohael, his wife, was living, and his children shook the Oriental abode with their merriment. The centenarian i5 sitting dreaming over the past, when be hears a wagon rambling to the front door. He gets up and goes to the door to see who has arrived, and his ee long -absent sons from Egypt come in and mire announce to him that Joseph instead of being dead, is living in an Egyptian pal- ace, with all the investiture of Prime Min- ister, next to the king in the mightiest em- pire of all the world! The news was too sudden and too glad for the old man, and his cheeks whiten, and he has a dazed look, and his staff falls out of his hand, and he would have dropped had not the eons aught him and led him to a lounge and put cold water on his face, and fanned him a little. In that half delirium the old mall mum- bles something about his son Joseph. He .sums: "You don't mean Joseph, do you? myedear son, who has been dead so long. YOU don't mean Joseph, do yon?" But after they had fully resuscitated hire, and the news was confirmed, the tears begin their winding way down the crossroads of the wrinkles, and the sunken lips of the eld man quiver, and he brings his bent fingers together as he says: "Joseph is yet &live, I will go and see him before I die," It did nob take the old man a great while to get ready, I warrant you. He put on the best clothes that the shepherd's ward- robe could afford. He got into the wagon, and though the aged are cautions and like to ride slow, the wagon d1e. not get along fast enough for the old man; and when the wagon with the old man met Joseph's eleariot coming down to meet him, and Joseph gob oat of the chariot and got into the wagon and threw his arras around his father's neck, it was an antithesis of royalty and rusticity, of simplicity and pomp, of filial affection and paternal love, whioh leaves ns so much in doubt about whether we had better laugh or cry that we do both. So Jacob kept the resolution of tbe. text:—"I will go and see him before I die." White a strong and unfailing thing is parental attachment. Was it not almost time for Jacob to forget Joseph? The hot suns of many summers had blazed on the heath; the river Nile had overflowed and receded, overflowed and receded again and again; the seed had been sown and the beervest reaped; stars rose and set; years of plenty and years of famine had passed on, but the love of Jacob or Joseph in my text is overwhelmingly dramatic. Oh. that is a cord that is not snapped, though pulled on by many decades, Though when the little child expired the parents may not have been more than awenty-five years of age, and now they are saventy-five yet the vision of the cradle, and the childish face, and the first utter- ances of the infantile lips are fresh to -day, In spite of the passage of a half century. Joseph was as fresh in Jacob's memory as ever, though at seventeen years of age the boy had disappeared fronx the old home. -stead. I found in our family record the etory of an infanb that had died fifty years before, and I said to my parents: "What is this record, and what does it mean?" Their chief answer was a long, deep sigh. It was yet to them a very tender sorrow. What does that all mean? Why, it means our children departed are oure yet, and that cord of attachment reaching across the years will hold us until it brings us together in the palace, as Jacob and Joseph were brought together. That is one thing that naakes old people die happy. They realize ib is reunion with tholes frona whom they have long been separated. I am often asked as pastor—and every pastor is asked the quabion— Will my children be children in heaven, and for- ever childreet?" Well, there wee no doubt a great change in Joseph from the tinse Jacob lost him and the time when Jacob found him—between the boy 17 years of age and the man in middle life, his fore. lamed developod waltz the great bueepees of Mato; but jaeole Wasjentni to gab envie joseph anyhoweand it sled not make much cliffeteueo te the old men whether the boy looked older or looked younger. And it . will be enough joy for time parent if he ean gee back then son, that daughter, at the gone of hasten, whether the depareed 3.0v0 -a. one shall oome a eherab or in fuil- grown angelhood. There must be a chamge wrought by that celestial elimeto and. by those etipernai yeas, but ib will only be from lovolinese tomore lorelinese, and from health to move reelienb health. 0 panne ao y ou thiult of the darling panting and White in membrateous croup, I want you to know it willbe gloriously behtet ie, that etend whore there has never been. n, (Meth, toed whete all the sithabitaute will liVe on in the gab e attire a loieg as God! Mom= pto e ph was Jeanie metwielastanding the palace, and year child will be .your ohild notwithstanding -all the 7:awing splendor of everlasting noose What o thtillimg visit was that of the old shepherd to bhe Prime Minister Xoe01)111 1 ee° the old. countryman melted in the palace look- ing around at the mirrors and the foun- tains aria the carved pillare, and lo 1 how he wishes thet Rachel, his wife, was alive and she could leave oome there with him to see their son in his great house, "Oh," says the old. man within himself, "I do wish Reehel meld be here to see all this!" I visited at the farmhouse of tho father of Millard Fillmore when the son was Presi- dent of the United States, a.nd the octo- genarian farmer entertained me untill 11 o'clock a night telling me what great things he saw in his son's house at Wash. ington, and what Deuiel Webster said to him, and how grandly Millard treated his father in the White House. The old man's face was illumined with the story until almost midnight. He had just been visit- ing his son at the Capitol. And I suppose it was something oe the same joy that thrilled the hearb of the old shepherd as he stood in the palm() of the prime minis- ter. It is a great day with you when your old parents come to visit .you. Your little children stand around with great wide-open eyes, woucleting how' anybody could be so old'. The parents oan not stay many days, for they are a little restless, and especially at nightfall, be- cause they sleep better in their own bed; but while they tarry you somthow feel there is a benediction in every room in the house. They are a little feeble, and you make it as easy as you cen for them, and you realize they will probably not visit you very often—perhaps never agate. You go to their room after they have retired at night to see if the lights are properly put out, for the old people understand candle and lamp better than the modern appar- atus for illumination. In the moruing, with real interest in their health, you ask them how they rested last night. Joseph, in the historical scene of the text, did not think any more of his father than you do of pour parents. The probability is, be- fore they leave your house they half spoil your children with kindness. Grandfather and grandmother are more lenient and in- dulgent to your children than they ever were with you, And 'what wonders of revelation in the bombazine pocket of the one and the sleeve of the other! Blessed is that home where Christian parents come to visit! Whatever may have been the !style of the architecture when it came, it is a palsies before they leave. If they visit you fifty times, the two most memorable visits will be the first and the last. Those two pictures will hang in the hall of your memory while memory lasts'and you will remember just how they looked, and where they sab, and. what they said, and at what figure of the carpet, and at what door sill they parted with yen, giving you the final good -by. Do not be embarrassed if your father comes to town and he have the manners of the shepherd, and if your mother come to town and there be in her hat no siga of costly millinery. The wife of the Emperor of Theodosius said a wise thing when she said, "Husbands remem- ber what you lately were, and remember what you are, and be thankful." By this time you all notice what kindly provision Joseph made for his father Jacob. Joseph did not say, "I ean't have the old man around this plaoe. How clumsy he would look climbing up these marble stairs, and walking over these mo- saics! Then he would be putting his hands upon some of these frescoes. Peo- ple would wonder where the old greenhorn came from. He would shock all the Egyptian °exert with his manners at table. Besides that, he might get sick on my hands, and he might be querulous, and he might talk to me as though I were only a boy, when I am the second man in all the realm. Of coupe, he must nob suffer, and if there,is famine in his country—and I hear there is—I will send him some pro- visions; but I alit take a man from Pa- dananam and introduce him into this polite Egyptian court. What a nuisances it is to have poor relations!" Joseph did not say that, but he rushed out to meet his father with perfect aban- don of affection, and brought him up to the palace, and introduced him to the emperor, and provided for all the rest of bhe father's da s, and. nothing was too good for the old man while living; and when he was dead, Joseph, with military escort, took his father's remains to the family cemetery. Would God all children were as kind to their parents. If the father have large property, and he be wise enough to keep it in his own name, he will be respected by the heirs; but how often it is when the son finds his father in famine, as Joseph -found Jacob in famine, the young people make it vary hard for the old man. They are so surprised he eats with a knife instead of a fork. They are oliagrined at his antediluvian habits. They are provoked because he cannot hear as web as he used. to, and when he asks it over again, and the son has to repeat it, he bawls in the old man's ear: "I hope you hear that I" How long he must wear the old coat or the old hat before they get him a new one I Ho* ohagrinned they are at his independence of the English grammar! How long he hangs on! Seven- ty years and not gone yet! Eighty years and not gone yet! Will he ever go? They think it of no use to have a doctor in his last sicknese, and go up to the drug store and get a dose of something that makes him worse, and economize on a coffin, and beat the undertaker down to the last point, giving a note for the reduced amount, which they never pay. I have officiated at obsequies of aged people where the family have been so inorditately resigned to Providence that I felt like taking my tax t from the Proverbs :—"The eye that mooketh at its father, and refusali to obey its mother, the ravens of the valley shall pick it out, and the young eagles shall eat it," In other words, such an ingrate onght to have a flock of crows for pall-bearers1 I congratulate you if you have the honor of providing for aged parents. The bias- ing of the Lord God of Joseph and Jacob will be on you. I rejoice to remember that though my father Sieved in a plain house the niost of his days, he died in a mansion provided by the filial piety of a son who had achieved a fortune. There the octogenarian sat, and the servants welted ou him and there were plenky of horses and plenty of carriages to convey him, and a bower in which to sit on long summer afternoons, drenixting over the pad; and there was not a room in the house where he was not weloome, and there were musical inetruments of all sorts to regale him; and when life had passed, the neighbors came out and expressed all honor poesible, and denied him to the village Maohpelah, and put him down beside the Rachel with whous he hed Hired more than half a century, Share your suocesses with the oId people. The probability is that the prinoiples they inculcated ashieved your Marimba. Give than a Christian per- centage of kindly consicittatioo. Let •S�. mph divide with enoole the pietas) fields of the sisterhood wbo reznalo unmarried that they znight administer to aged pare onto The brutal world calls these self- sacrificing ones peculiar or angular; but if you had had as many annoymmes as thee' have lied, Xantippe would have been an angel compared to you. It is easier So take care of fine, fr °nicking romping chin dren, than a one, childish old man. Among the beat'womeri are those who al- lowed the bloom of life to pass away while they were oaring for their parents, While other maidens were sound asleep, they were soaking the old man's feet Or tuoking up the covers around the invalid mother. While other maidens were in the cobillion, they were dancing attendance upon rheu- matism, and spreading plasters for the lame back of the sentenarian, and heating catnip tea for insomnim In almest every oircle of our kindred there has been some (mem of self-saorifice, to whom jewelled hand after jewelled hand was offered in marriage, but who stayed on the old place because of the filial obli- gation, the health was gone and the at- tractiveness of personal presence had van- ished. Brutal society may call such a One by a nickname, God oalls her daughter, and heaven calls her saint, and I call her domestic 'martyr. Lee the ungrateful world sneer at the maiden aunt, but God has a throne burn. ished for her arrival, and one side of that throne in heaven there is a vase coetain- ing two jewels the one brighter than the Koh-i-noor Loncloa Tower, and the other larger than any diamond ever found in the'districts of Golconda—the one jewel by the lapidary of the palace eut with the words, "Inasmuch as ye did ib to mother." "Over the Hills to the Poorhouse" is the exquisite ballad of Will Csirleton who found an old woman who had been turned off by her prosperous sons; but I thank God I may find in my teat "Over the hills to the palace." As if to disgust us with tinfilial conduct, the Bible presents us the story of Micah, who stole the eleven hundred shekels from his mother, and the story of Absalom, who tried to dethrone his father. Bob all his- tory is beautiful with stories of filial fidel- ity. Epaminondas, the warrior, found his chief delight in reciting to his parents his victories. There goes oEneas from burning Troy, on his shoulders Anchises his fath- er. The Athenians punished with death any unfilial conduct. Th.ere goes beauti- ful Ruth escorting venerable Naomi aoroes the desert amid the howling of the wolves and the barking of the jackals. John Lawrence, burned at the stake in Col- earker, was cheered in the flames by his ohildren, who said :—"0, God, strengthen Thy servant and keep Thy promise 1" And Christ in the hour of excruciation provided for His old mother. Jacob kept his reso- lution, "I will go and see him before I die," and a little while after we find them walking the tesselated floor of the Palace, Jacob and Joseph, the prime minister, proud of the shepherd. I may say in regard to the most of you that your parents have probably ensiled you for the last time, or will goon pay you such a visit, and I have wondered if they will ever visit you in the King's palace. "Oh," you say, "I am in the nit of sin I" Joseph was in the pit. "Oh," yo say, "I am in the prison of mine iniquity Joseph was once in prison. "Oh," you say, I didn't have a fair °Imam I was denied maternal kindness!" Joseph was denied maternal attendance. "Oh," you say, am far away from the land of rim nativity I" Joseph was fsr from home. "Oh," you say, "I have been betrayed and exasper- ated!" Did not Joseph's brethren sell him to a pasielleig Ishmaelitish caravan? Yet God brought him to that emblazoned ran dance; and if you will trust iris grace, 10 Jeans Christ, you, too, will be empalaceds Oh, what a day that will be when the old folks come from an adjoining mansion in heaven. and find you amid the alabaster pillars of the throne room and living with the Xing! They are coming up the steps now, and the opauletted guard of the pal- ace rushes in and says, "Your father's coming, your mother's coming 1" And when under the arches of precious stones and on the pavement of porphyry you greet each other, the .ecene will eclipse the meeting on the Goshen highway, when Joseph aid Jacob fell on each other's neck and wept a good. while. But oh,. how changed the old folks will bel Their cheek smoothed into n'the flesh of a little child. Their stooped posture lif ted into immortal symmetry. Their foot now so feeble, then with the sprightli- ness of a bounding roe as they'shall say to you, "A spirit passed this way from earth and told us that you were wayward and dissipated after we left the world; but mete have repented, our prayer has been ao. swered, and you are here; and as we used to visit you on earth before we died, now we visit you in your lieW home after our ascension." And father will say, "Mother, don't you see Joseph is yet alive?" and mother will say, "Yes, father, Joseph is yet alive." And then they will talk over their earthly anxieties in regard to you, and the midnight supplications in your behalf, and they will recite to each. other the . old Scripture paesage with which they used to cheer their dagger. ing fettle :—"I will be a God to thee and thy seed after tlaee." Oh, the palace, the palace, the palace! Thab 15 what Richard Baxter called "The Saints' Everlasting Rest" That is what John Bunyan called the "Celestial City." That is Young's "Night Thoughts" turn- ed into morning exultations. That is Gray's "Elegy in a Churchyard" turned. to resurrection spectacle. That is the "Cot- ter's Saturday Night" exchanged for the Cotter's Sabbath morning. That is the shepherd of Salisbury Plains amid the flocks on the hills oe. heaven. That is the famine-sMuck Padan.aram turned into the rich pasture fields of Goshen. That is Jaoob visiting Joseph at the Emerald Cas- tle. !naming currants, There was a time within the memory of many when the mum was the standard small fraib nearly everywhere. Now they are seldom eon in Mae market. It is cer- tainly not because there is no demend for them. The reasons for this scarcity may be explalued partly because of the depre- dations of iusects the leaf slag being the most destructive. A littie &beaten, how- ever, jug at the right time evhen the worms appear is all that is necessary, by the use of a spraying of white hellebore, to destroy them. By the myna of this insect many of the bushes have died during the pa,st few years. There is no more profitable small fruit crop th the moment. It is al- most certain of an annual crop and beers heavily. The Fay is a good. early variety and for the later ones the Holland and Prince Albert come in after the others are gone. Plant aimed Ave feet apart end mile tivate well. trune by °agog out tho woad and some of the Blender shoots to keep the buehes capon yet maimed hi form, —Western Rag at Goshen and the gloritea of EgyPtian °mitt. And here 1 ',mold like to sing the preises A Pieneesing loath. HereOhell aneith, of teetileseille, Redo id lateen yeatti eld, ogg fest aye 14,41 ?IA; Weeks, tid gtoieing at the tate hil ine 4014 MSC MANEOUS READING, WM. AS WELL AS GAY, meacIlteg leosz Leisure Moments for 01c1 and Young., Interisting and Profita- ble. The Financial. Outlook. Flowers all a bloomme Song birds in the sky, Real estate a boomin', In bete by-andsby, Trade is like er critter, Balkin jes for fun, Bat when onet ye get 'er Goes ma a run, Clouds hey silver linin', Sunset brings the gold; Life'll soon be shinime, Ez it did of old, A Song of Th.ree Singers. 1. Wave and wiud and willow tree Speak a speech that 410 man knoweth, Tree that sigheth, wind that bloweth, Wave that floweth to the sem; Wave and winkand willow tree. Peerless, perfeet poets ye, Singing songs all songs excelling, Fine as crystal music dwelling In a welling fountain free; Peerless, perfect poets three. 11. Wave and wind and willow tree Know not aught 02 1)0815' rhyming, Yet they make Et silver chiming Sunward climbing minstre1sy,1 Soother than all songs that be. Blows the wind it knows not why, Flows the wave it knows not whither, And the willow swayeth hither, Swayeth hither witlessly, Nothing knowing save to sigh. Stub Ends of Thought. Some old people have an idea they are oocupyingspace which younger ones want. The agility of a man's tosague is no sign of the size of his brain. No woman can do as much as she says. When a man says heis perfectly happy he lies, and. when he lies ho is found out, and when he is found. out he is not happy. "Amen" is the only honest word in some men's prayers. War is elle butcher shop of diplomacy. A man may need other things more than money, but he wants money more than anything. else. Matrimony is pie to some, and " pizen" to others. A woman with a brokeo heart receives forty times as much sympathy as a man does in the same fix. A profane oath is a malignant tumor in the body of language. THE DECLINE OE IdCA.RRIAGE. EN do not marry nowadays So everybody tells us And I suppose we may therefore conclude, by a simple set of inference, that women in turn don't marry either. It takes two, of course, to make a quarrel—or a marriage. Why is this ? "Young people nowadays want to begin whore their fathers left off." "Men aro made so comfortable at present in their clubs." "College -bred girls have no taste for housekeeping." "Rents are so high and manners so luxurious." Good. heavens, what silly trash, what puerile nonsense! Are we all little boys and girls, I ask you, that we are to put one anothee oft with such transparent humbug? Here we have to deal with a Primitive instinct—the profoundest and deepest -seated instinct of humanity, save only the instincts of food. and drink and of self-preservation, Man, like all other animals, has two main functions: to feed his own organism, and to reproduce his species. Ancestral habit leads him, when mature, to choose himself a mate—be- cause he loves her. It drives him, it nrges him, it goads him irresistibly. If this profound imp-ulse is really lacking to -day in any large part of our rase, there must be some correspondingly pro- tound and adequate reason for it. Don't let us deceive ourselves with shallow platitudes which may do for drawing - rooms. This is philosophy, even though post-prandial. Lab us try to take a philo- sophic view of the question at issue, from ae point of vantage of a biological out- look. Before you begin to investigate the cause of a phenomenon, " quelconque," 'tis well to decide whether the phenome- non itself is there to investigate. Tak- ing society throughout—not in the sense of those "forty families" to which the term is restricted by Lady Charles Beres- ford—I donbt whether marriage is much out of fashion. Statistics show a certain decrease, it is true, but not an alarming ono. Among the laboring classes, I 3m - :mine men, and also women, still wed pretty frequently. When people say, Young men. -won't naarry nowadays," they mean young men in a particular stratum of society, roughly bounded by a silk hat on Sundays. Now, wheo you and I were young (I take it for granted. that you. and I are approaching the fif- ties), young men slid marry; even within this restricted area, 'twas their whole- some way in life to form an attachment early with some nice girl in their own sot, and to start at leost with the idea of marrying her. Toward that goal they worked; for that end they endured and sacrificed many things, True, eveu then, the long engagement was bhe ; but the long engagement itself meant some persistent impulse, sorao strong impetus marriagewards. The desire of the man to make this woman his own, the longing to make this woman hoppy—normal and healthy endowments of our race—had Mill much driving power. Nowadays, I seriously think I observe in mosb young mon of the middle class around me a dis- tinct and dims Mous weakening of the impulse. They don't ,fall in love as frankly, as honestly, as irretrievably as they used to do. They they plait and choose, they discuss, they maids°. Th ey say themselves these futile foolish things about the club, and the flat, and the cost of living. They believe in Malthus. Fancy a young man who believes in Malthus 1 They Win in 13.0 hurry at all to get marled. But thirty or fetter yeas ago young mese ez sea to rush by blind instinct into the toils of matrimony—because they couldn't help themselves'. Snell La,odicea,n lukewarm - noes betokens in the class which exhibits 15a wakening of impulse. That Weak- ening of impulse is really what we have 15 tteconrit for. Young Men of O certain typo don't marry, eleocouse—they are loss of young mon than formerly'. wild anitnals in confinemenb seldom propagate their kind. Oney a few caged birds will. contintle their species. Whaterm upsote the leen- once of the organism in an individual or • a raee tends first of all to offeet the rat of reprocluetion, Civilize the rcid man and he begins to deorease ab ono i members, Turn the Sandwich. Island into a binding community and the iiatlY HaWailan refuses forthwith to give hos ages to fortune. Tahiti is dwindling From the moment the Tasmanians ever taken to Noreolle Islaud,uot a single Tas enonitin baby was born, The Jesuit made a model communiey of Paraguay but they catered the habits of the Para guoyans so fast that the reverend, fath ors, who were, of course, themselves cell bates, Were oompelled to take strenuous n and even grotesque measures to proven the complete and iramediate extin.OtiO of their converts. Other oozes in absence arise I might quote and I would, but limit myself to these. They suffice t exhibit the general principle involved any grave upset in the conditions of lif affects first and at once the fertility of: - Cspeoies, '1.13ut colonists often increase with ra pidity." Ay, marry, do they, where th conditions of life are easy. At the pros ent day most colonists go to fairly civil ized regions;, th.ey are transported to their new home by steamboat and railway they find for the most part more abund ant provender and more wholesome sum rounclings than in their native country There is no real upset. Better food and easier lif o, Herberb Spencer has shown, result (other things equal) in inereased fertility. His chapters on this subject in the "Principles of Biology" sb.ould be read by everybody who pretends to talk on questsons of population. But in new anddifficult eolonies the inerease is slight. 1Vhatever compels greater wear and tear of the nervous system proves inimical to the reproductive function. The strain and stress of co-ordination with novel circumstances and novel relations affect most injuriously the orgasaic balance. The African negro has long been accus- tomed to agricultural toil and to certain. simpls arts in his own country. Trans- ported to the West Indies and the United States he foundlife no harder than of old, if not, indeed, easier. Ho had sebtuidant food, protection, security, a kind, of labor for which he was well adapted. Instead of dying out, therefore, he was fruitful, and mentipliecl and replenished the earth amazingly. But the Red Indian.ecaught blatant in the hunting stage, refused to be tamed, and could. not swallow civiliza- tion. He pined and dwinecl and de- creased. in his "reservation." The chaoge was too great, too abrupt, too brusque. The papoose before long became an ex- tinct animal. Is not the same thing true of the mid- dle-class of England? Civilization and its marks have come too quickly upon us. The strain and sbress of correlating and co-ordinating the world we live in are getting. too ranoh for us. Railways, tele- graphs, the penny post, the latest edition, have played havoc at last with our nerv- ous systems. We are always on the stretch, rushing and tearing perpetually. We bolt our breakfasts; we catch the train or bus by the skin of our teeth, to rattle us into the city ; we run down. to Scotland or over to Paris on business; we lunch in London and dine in Glas- gow, Belfast or Calcutta. (Excuse iniag- 'nation.) The tape clieks perpetually in our ears the last quotation.in Eries ; th.e telephone rings us up at inconvenient m.oments. Something is always happen- ing somewhere to disturb our equanim- ity; we tear open the Times with fever- ish haste, to learn that Argentines or Jabez Balfour has fallen, that Matabele- land has been painted red, that shares have gone up, or gone down, or evapor- ated. Life is one turmoil of excitement and bustle. Financially, 'bis a series of dissolving views; personally, 'tis a rush; socially, 'tis a mosaic of deftly -fitted en- gagements. Drop out one piece, and you can never replace it. The first generation after Stephenson. and the Rocket pulled through with. it somehow. They inherited the sound constitutions of the men who set on. rus- tic seats in the gardens of the twenties. The second generation—that's you and me—felt the strain more severely; new machines had come in to make life still more complicated ; sixpenny telegrams, Bell and Edison, submarine cables, even - ng papers, perturbations pouring in from all sides incessantly; the suburbs grow - ng, the hubbub increasing, metropolitan always, trams, bicycles unnunerable ; but natheless we still endured, and pre- ented the world all the same with a hird generation. That third generation —ah me! there comes the pity of it ! /ne fancies the impulse to marry and ear a family has wholly died out of it. t seems to have cited out most in the lass where the strain and stress are reatest. I don't think young men of hat class to -day have the same feelings owards women of their sort as formerly. Nobody, I trust, will mistake me for a laudator temporis acti;" in most ways he moderm. young man is a vast improve- ment on you and Me attwenty-five. But believe there is really among yonng men n towns less chivalry, less devotion, less onaance than there used to be. That, I ake it, is the true reason why young men on't maim. With certain classes and n certain places a primitive instinet of ur race has weakened. think the resent crisis the English marriage narket is due, not to clubs or the coin orb of bachelor quarters, but to the mnulative effea of nervous (MOP 0:Veit-G- ent. 0 3. 11 0 311 sm.; SLEEPS WELL. HOW One woman Coven Ilrerseif of !M- emnon la. Insom alio is curable," rem racked the woman in the bite hat emphatically, as she declined lobster a la Newburg, "and tho ours is only to be worked by one's own efforts. I cured myself." , "How did you. do ?' the girl in the green bonnet anxiously inquired, taking two spoonfuls of the rich dish. "By exercise and temperate eating," replied her companion, looking from the large mass of lobster on the plate to the face of her neighbor, a peke nervous creature who had been complaining of sleeplessness, "About a year age, after suffering many things from inchgestion, I fennel X was slowly losing my po•wor to sleep, so I fled to my physician. For a month or ewe I got along more comfortably on the soothing doses he ,enve me, and then I fell into the very bed practice of dosing myself on bromedia, solfonel and allt sorts of queesk pollees. Their use peave me a glimpss down the broad, straight road that loadoth to hysterics mad rem- ote prostraloo, and I throw them away, "Then it was I began to experiment with a view to disoovering a ewe. I overlooked )n3r tliot and struelt out tho use of eon() and wine—anything 3.found that excited my nerves, lett rap without tm wink or sloop. I replaced the coffee With tea, ono cup freshly made tend not Wong for broctlfas b. At that raealel teen:11100d heat as a steady article of diet, ate myineot broiled, my eggs boiled: eleY potatoes baked, and out dowxi my allow. anco of hot bread ono -half. " For leincheon I thole some cola meat; a cold vegetable with French dressing, more fruit, cold bread, a cup of hot bouil- lon if I wished, and some simple sweets For dinner I ate whatever was offered, maly eatiog in moderation. 1 took my allowance of any rich dish, tryiog to eat jellies, puddings, and such digestible des-. seats as far as possible ixi place of pastries and, heavy dessert. " Where X felt any of the usual signs of indigestion I took a spoonful of a simple charcoal preparation any physioion will give to correet acidity, ancl, then I added to these simple *lames the offioacy of exercise. I could not afford to ride either bieycle or horse, so I tried to walk at least four or five miles a day. Then in my bathroom in th.e morning I went through all the SWedish movercumts I auld learn before taking as oorct a bath as I could healthfully stand. By and by I bought a yard of rubber tubiug that had a perforated nozzle at one end. This I would fasten on the cold water faucet of the bath tub and spra,y a gentle cold stream up and down my backbone and over my liver. Than, I found, had all the exhilarating effect of an electric shook, and after a vigorous rub down with a Turkish towel I had little or no languor as the result of a wakeful night. "Following this regimen closely, add- ing to my repertory of Swedish (mei-oleos some of Sonclow's theories, particularly those of strengthening the muscles of my stomach, I found, I could sleep like a top and rarely miss a night. "When by unhappy chance I do find any difficulty in dozing and feel 1 ant growing restless and nervous, I set about trying to make a remedy to euro ab once. I usually begin by dumping the beister off the bed and trying to get my head on a level with my heels. If this does not help me into a corafortable position I turn about and lie with my head at the foot of the bed. Orange flower water or syrup will help to sooth excited nerves, so I always keep a bottle of °newt these de- licious, harmless extracts on my night table, and for an hour try, bytakinglittle doses and shifting my positien, to fall into unconsciousness. When everything fails I resort to the mustard plasters. You buy them already prepared at any apothecary's. Ask for the half strength sort, and after moistening them accord- ing to dixeetions on the box lay two on the pit of the stomach. Let them burn smartly three or five minutes, then MOVE) them down to just inside the knee, and in flve minutes more carry them down. to the soles of the feet. They rarely fail to set me dreaming in half an hour. If on going to bed my feet are cold or my head feels heavy, as though over full of blood, I set my little plasters to work at once, knowing PSI get no sleep until the blood goes circulating warmly and my brain. is clear and cool. Never get up and try to distract your mind by reading, as some people advise, and never give up trying to get to sleep, and, above all things, try to get a wink or two during tho day. Give way to nods and yawns in the after- noon and if directly after dinner yon suffer a sensation of drowsiness, let it have its way, and., bit by bin you can conquer the most obstinate case of fre- sorania." Re Was a Plumber. "The plumber joke is worked to death, but Iwill tell you one anyhow, just be- cause it is true," began a friend ye,ster- day. "The young woman that figures in the story lives on Broadway near Floyd street. She was sprinkling the street this morniug and used a hose that was sadly in need -of repair. An itinerant plumber carae along with a kit of tools slung over his shoulder. He asked the young wo- man if she wanted the hose fmed. "'What will you charge ?" she an- swered. "The man looked at the hose critically and theo said he would repair it for fif- teen. cents. This was contrary to all traditions relating to plumbers' prices so the young woman told. th.e man she au not believe that he was what he repre- sented himself 'him to be. "'Still,' she said, `go ahead and fix the hose.' "The man took ont his tools and soon had the hose nearly as good as new. The miss gave the man. fifteen cents. He shook`his head and saicl he wanted forty- five. " Why, said the young woman in sur- prise, 'you said you would do the workfor fifteen cents.' Yes, I know, he returned, 'lent there was more work than I thought.' "'Well, I was afraid you wasn't a plumber when you first came up, but now I know you are and am willing to give you a certificate to that effect,' was what the young woman said when.she genre the mao his pay." Young CanadalloIds Up the 01c1 Mans " Say, popper, are you a patriotic Can,. tedium, or ain't yer ?" My four-year-old son approaches me in somethingof the threatening spirit of i 1812. As n the case of the younster of eieleby years ago, he carries the day, and with some trepidation I reply: "Why, of course, my son I What makes you ask ?" "Monday's Dominion day. I want $5 to buy fixecrackeas I wasn't sure wheth- er you were going to dispute the natural rights of man." o be sure, and so it is! 'When I wa.s youngster--n.one of your business how long ago—it seemed to nee that First of Riles came around only once ±0 ±00 years, Now how fast do the First, succeed each. other! Some one's been tinkering witb th.o almanac or something. I'll swear it was only half a year ago 'that Jimmie lab off. that rocket in my OThr. The place hurts me still. Pinwheels, firecrackers Why, bless me. a year ago'? Well, I'm $5 poorer in money, but I'm a million dollar patriot in the eyes of my son. Let it ozone. The First is trying on my old nerves en one way, but it makes me younger in others. Ha, ha, ha Kept Mer Word. Two young ladies 'Wen walking itt the woods one day when they wore accosted by an old and. Much shriveled gypsy, who politely offered to show them their hum band's fa,cos in a brook which ran near by for a slight remanoration, So, pay. mg the stun, they followed the hag to the brook, as they vrere very ottrioUS to see how she could do so wonderful a thing, and also anxious to soo their fut. uro husband, Mit instoad oe beholding the faun of the mon they so fondly hoped for they saw their 01'711. "We esn't see nothing but our own Moos," said one. " Very true, mern," replied the saga. 01008 _forbore-tell/or, "hoe these will be yea Intsbantle' faces when yen are mat. med."